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How to Optimize Your Relationship with Your Boss
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   Email to Friend Make your relationship with your manager a winning one! Your relationship with your boss can be a wellspring of growth possibilities if nurtured properly or a career minefield if left to go sour. Maintaining a good professional relationship with your manager can make all the difference in the type and quality of projects that get sent your way, in your career advancement, in your relationship with others in the firm and in your overall reputation in the industry even after you leave the firm. Take the time to work on this relationship and follow this simple checklist provided by the career experts to keep you on the right track. 1. Perfect Your Role Your relationship with your manager will to a very large extent be determined by your overall professional skills, attributes and success at the job you are doing. A manager will take far more pride in the employee who constantly produces quality work, meets deadlines and is pleasant to work with. Perfect your job by knowing exactly what your manager's objectives for the position are and then exceeding his expectations. Always aim to go the extra mile to show that you are truly dedicated to the position and that you take your career very seriously. This can include volunteering to help others when you have time, taking on additional projects when you can afford to, cultivating unique skills and coming up with new ideas to improve performance, win clients or cut costs. Building a reputation for yourself as someone who does the job extremely well, is professional, pleasant and always goes the extra mile will reflect just as positively on your boss. 2. Communication The importance of building an open dialogue with your manager cannot be overemphasized. Maintaining an open channel of communication with your boss is one of the key ingredients of a successful long-term relationship. The goal of these communications is to build a professional rapport, gain visibility and ensure an unhampered flow of information about the firm, the unit, your own performance and any problems, concerns, issues, accomplishments on either side.
Invest in building an open channel of communication early on.Get your boss accustomed to your wandering into his office for a chat or scheduling a meeting for yourself in his diary on a periodic basis. Do not wait for him to schedule these meetings! Do them often and as casually as you can so that your meetings with him become a routine part of his day, week or month. This will ensure you do not end up piling up grievances, complaints and unanswered questions simply because you don't have the guts to face your boss or have never taken the time to build an open dialogue. Always go to these meetings prepared. Try to include the casual and comical occasionally in these meetings to break the ice. Your boss will appreciate it if, in addition to your professional issues, you keep him casually informed of what is going on in the firm at your level, eg. the marketing unit is going away on a brainstorming weekend, the new temp. appears to be running a business of her own from her desk, the traders downstairs smashed a phone at the coffee machine the day before etc. AVOID gossip; the goal of these meetings is not trivialties, it is to build a comfort level and flow of career-related information that promotes your 'Professional' growth.
Learn to listen to your boss.Listening to your boss means understanding the tone as well as the content. Make sure you really understand both your manager's directions and where he is coming from. Ask questions if you don't. Your boss will generally set the objectives and vision for the unit and you will only understand his philosophy and general business style if you really listen.
Learn to cope with constructive criticism.Some bosses are psychological bullies and criticism from such manager types is far more difficult to take. However, most managers dole out criticism with the territory and you should be prepared to handle the criticism in a professional manner and learn from it. Constructive criticism should be used as a means to steer your professional development and should help you avoid career pitfalls.
3. Manage His Expectations Once you have a good grip on the job requirements and have a solid relationship with your boss in place that is built on trust and mutual respect, you can begin to manage your boss's expectations regarding the quality and quantity of your work. This is an essential damage-control tactic if you are to avoid many of the pitfalls that are essentially the result of poor assertiveness skills. Learn to tell your manager that you are overburdened (only when you are of course). Use words like 'we need an additional resource', 'I have to prioritize', 'I have a more urgent deadline', 'I don't want to compromise the quality of the project' to communicate your own time schedule and your existing workload. Always have a list ready of projects you are engaged in and their priority so your manager can more easily plan the projects he sends your way. You should focus on being 'productive' rather than merely 'busy' so your manager learns to respect your prioritization skills and general work aptitude. 4. Reverse Feedback Your boss has a boss and deadlines too, so learn to make his life a bit easier by sending some reverse positive feedback his way when you can. Avoid the false superficial kind of schmoozing but DO compliment or thank your boss whenever you can - on something he taught you, a course he sent you to, a project he sent your way, a project he didn't send your way, a tip he gave you or some other form of constructive criticism he made, a resource he assigned you, a deal he landed, a client he made happy, a new idea, a presentation he made etc. He will appreciate the flattery if it is genuine and delivered professionally. He will also be more inclined to help you in the future if you are appreciative of the steps he takes to guide and promote you.
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Annabellel
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好文……还有一点是,如果老板是 bully,你必须有理有节地fight back。 这是个欺软怕硬的世界

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乐不思蜀 发表于 8/26/2016 4:22:28 AM
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很高兴这篇文章能帮到大家。 其实好多mm 在职场版都提到过的建议。 这篇文章从英语的思维角度展开了一下。 文章简单易懂。
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好文……还有一点是,如果老板是 bully,你必须有理有节地fight back。 这是个欺软怕硬的世界

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Annabellel 发表于 8/26/2016 1:35:39 AM
是哒,别怕当碧池。但是得有根有据
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好文,谢谢楼主。
manage your boss's expectation蛮有启发性。有时候很tricky,因为老板并不知道具体technique 细节,不清楚到底需要多少effort overcome 多少barrier,甚至觉得你花了很多精力做出来的事情很容易 ,这个时候的expectation manage很重要。大家一起学习,有好文一起分享
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经常去老板办公室了聊一聊真的很重要. 不然你做牛做马人家都不知道呢...
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谢谢版主能不能给加个好评什么的, 好让更多mm 看到。 有mm一看英文以为很难懂, 其实这篇文章真是简洁,精炼。
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How to Optimize Your Relationship with Your Boss
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冬日暖阳1 发表于 8/26/2016 1:03:59 AM
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好文,谢谢楼主。
manage your boss's expectation蛮有启发性。有时候很tricky,因为老板并不知道具体technique 细节,不清楚到底需要多少effort overcome 多少barrier,甚至觉得你花了很多精力做出来的事情很容易 ,这个时候的expectation manage很重要。大家一起学习,有好文一起分享
johnlucy 发表于 8/26/2016 11:13:08 AM

说得太好了,埋头苦干的人这方面很吃亏,干着三个人的活老板没sense, 继续给加活
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好文章!一篇回复也讲的好
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好文……还有一点是,如果老板是 bully,你必须有理有节地fight back。 这是个欺软怕硬的世界

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Annabellel 发表于 8/26/2016 1:35:39 AM
有理!
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对面试也有一定帮助
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Bully boss 基本上没有办法。骑驴找马。
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iwd 发表于 8/26/2016 10:53:30 AM
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冬日暖阳1 发表于 8/26/2016 1:03:59 AM



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大公鸡与漏嘴巴
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写的不错。谢谢分享。
其实第一点是硬件要求,其它的都是soft skills 了。soft skills 非常重要,也是最难学起来的。
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homejunkie
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好多人mark了,多少人会看呢?
其实文章说的很简单,看完了解了就好了:
1. 把工作干好,给老板贴金
2. 多和老板交流沟通,让他了解你的工作
3. 真诚的拍老板马屁,让他舒服
tinytoy
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好多人mark了,多少人会看呢?
其实文章说的很简单,看完了解了就好了:
1. 把工作干好,给老板贴金
2. 多和老板交流沟通,让他了解你的工作
3. 真诚的拍老板马屁,让他舒服
homejunkie 发表于 8/27/2016 9:13:56 AM

对的,这种讲概念的文章,其实用处不大。
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