I use slow cooker and rice cooker a lot when my parents are not around helping. You can make beef roast, porks, ribs, soups and porridge in the slow cooker. And my rice cooker comes with a steam tray. I steam fish, tofu, egg etc. when making rice.
I just made reservations for my parents around this spring festival. Leaving Shanghai in mid Jan, and back in late Feb, the total fare is about 1100/person. I booked the tickets on expedia, and my dad contacted several local agents at Shanghai, either nothing available or the price was skyrocketing high. I don't know they're saying is true or they want to hold the ticket for higher price.
Air fare is abnormally high during spring festival, and drops a lot once turn in March. The quote we got from Qingdao to SF was $1300 ea. Your price is already good
I just made reservations for my parents around this spring festival. Leaving Shanghai in mid Jan, and back in late Feb, the total fare is about 1100/person. I booked the tickets on expedia, and my dad contacted several local agents at Shanghai, either nothing available or the price was skyrocketing high. I don't know they're saying is true or they want to hold the ticket for higher price. Is there a connection in the price? The price quote I received includes one connection either in Seol or Tokyo. If I want non-stop, UA's price is over $2000 per person.
Air fare is abnormally high during spring festival, and drops a lot once turn in March. The quote we got from Qingdao to SF was $1300 ea. Your price is already good
It's not bad, especially since I just booked the tickets last week, very close to their departure date.
Is there a connection in the price? The price quote I received includes one connection either in Seol or Tokyo. If I want non-stop, UA's price is over $2000 per person.
Well, there's no non-stop flight from Shanghai to DC so there's a connection anyway. The one I booked is connected at Tokyo on the way here and at Newark on the way back.
I just made reservations for my parents around this spring festival. Leaving Shanghai in mid Jan, and back in late Feb, the total fare is about 1100/person. I booked the tickets on expedia, and my dad contacted several local agents at Shanghai, either nothing available or the price was skyrocketing high. I don't know they're saying is true or they want to hold the ticket for higher price. BTW, how do you search international flights on expedia?
Haohao loves steamed fish, cannot wait for us to feed him. There are not many choices in fish here. I love deep sea fish, but they are so contaminated.
My inlaws will be here by 2/18 and return on 3/25, Air China, $880 each, we booked in Nov. Just give you some idea.
BTW, who will take care of Mantou during these 4 month?
Thanks! I was told in general prices are cheaper if return within 3 months.
ZT's parents said that they would take care of Mantou. But I am not positive. They asked my parents how long would they be gone yesterday. My parents said 4-6 months. They said that they thought my parents would be gone only for a month or so. :(
I may need to look for a daycare or homecare. [此贴子已经被作者于2012/1/3 15:11:02编辑过]
How much is it in your place? It's 4.99/lbs regularly in my place, but right now it's running a special at 2.99, but only those slim ones. 2.99 is a good price!
How about sea bass? That's the one we gave to haohao at the restaurant. Sea bass is high in mercury. We've only given Mantou tilapia and sole (when in restaurant). If haohao likes Sea bass, maybe switch to cod?
Thanks! I was told in general prices are cheaper if return within 3 months.
ZT's parents said that they would take care of Mantou. But I am not positive. They asked my parents how long would they be gone yesterday. My parents said 4-6 months. They said that they thought my parents would be gone only for a month or so. :(
I may need to look for a daycare or homecare. [此贴子已经被作者于2012/1/3 15:11:02编辑过] I think you'd better look for a daycare/family care and a nanny both at the same time, coz good daycares usually have long waiting list. Finding a good nanny may not be that challenging in CA, but it's only temporary job for a few months in your case, someone may not like the option. Good luck!
Just put in the departure and arrival airport, their search engine will do the job. Thanks! I checked flexible dates and it didn't allow me to type in airport codes. Now it works. It's about the same $1100 on expedia.
I think you'd better look for a daycare/family care and a nanny both at the same time, coz good daycares usually have long waiting list. Finding a good nanny may not be that challenging in CA, but it's only temporary job for a few months in your case, someone may not like the option. Good luck! I know! My parents offered to bring Mantou back to Shanghai. I just can't.
Is sea bass called "Xue Yu"? I only like live "Mang Cao" from Chinese grocery store. Is it called black bass? I plan to feed my daughter steamed mang cao soon. I have let her try grilled salmon in a restaurant and she doesn't have much interest.
Is sea bass called "Xue Yu"? I only like live "Mang Cao" from Chinese grocery store. Is it called black bass? I plan to feed my daughter steamed mang cao soon. I have let her try grilled salmon in a restaurant and she doesn't have much interest.
Is sea bass called "Xue Yu"? I only like live "Mang Cao" from Chinese grocery store. Is it called black bass? I plan to feed my daughter steamed mang cao soon. I have let her try grilled salmon in a restaurant and she doesn't have much interest.
以下是引用Haoxiaohao在1/4/2012 10:15:00 AM的发言： Gymboree red baloon sale starts today, anyone will go and check the store? Too bad I'm trapped in the office. that's why i missed my days when i didn't work full time. i could do whatever i wanted at that time. :(((
[此贴子已经被作者于2012/1/4 7:53:50编辑过] it seems that i am the only one now with bad "ren pin"... i haven't received it yet. :((( anyone can scan the one you received, just want to see xiao man's beautiful handwriting...
这个鱼类的，问了ped,说让一岁以后才吃。现在可以吗？ i think it should be fine as long as baby is over 9 months old. my son had his seafood around 9 months, same as my daughter...
萌妈，有啥经验帮助娃过渡的吗？ pat pat... i said a while ago it would be really hard for kids around 9 -12 months old to start daycare because that's their seperation anxiety peak time. if you don't think you will have in-home help, like your parents or nanny or maybe your mother-in-law, you have to hold on. she will adjust to it sooner or later.
when i sent my daughter/son to daycare the first time, i cried so much but they didn't have any feeling b/c they were too young.
pat pat... i said a while ago it would be really hard for kids around 9 -12 months old to start daycare because that's their seperation anxiety peak time. if you don't think you will have in-home help, like your parents or nanny or maybe your mother-in-law, you have to hold on. she will adjust to it sooner or later.
when i sent my daughter/son to daycare the first time, i cried so much but they didn't have any feeling b/c they were too young.
it seems that i am the only one now with bad "ren pin"... i haven't received it yet. :((( anyone can scan the one you received, just want to see xiao man's beautiful handwriting...
我也想给娃做山药泥
Yucca root is so expensive here!!!
你们喜欢喝汤吗？熬一大锅汤可以顶好几顿，另外随便炒点青菜或肉片又是一顿了。
I use slow cooker and rice cooker a lot when my parents are not around helping. You can make beef roast, porks, ribs, soups and porridge in the slow cooker. And my rice cooker comes with a steam tray. I steam fish, tofu, egg etc. when making rice.
Yucca root is so expensive here!!!
How much is it in your place? It's 4.99/lbs regularly in my place, but right now it's running a special at 2.99, but only those slim ones.
I just made reservations for my parents around this spring festival. Leaving Shanghai in mid Jan, and back in late Feb, the total fare is about 1100/person. I booked the tickets on expedia, and my dad contacted several local agents at Shanghai, either nothing available or the price was skyrocketing high. I don't know they're saying is true or they want to hold the ticket for higher price.
Air fare is abnormally high during spring festival, and drops a lot once turn in March. The quote we got from Qingdao to SF was $1300 ea. Your price is already good
I just made reservations for my parents around this spring festival. Leaving Shanghai in mid Jan, and back in late Feb, the total fare is about 1100/person. I booked the tickets on expedia, and my dad contacted several local agents at Shanghai, either nothing available or the price was skyrocketing high. I don't know they're saying is true or they want to hold the ticket for higher price.
Is there a connection in the price? The price quote I received includes one connection either in Seol or Tokyo. If I want non-stop, UA's price is over $2000 per person.
Air fare is abnormally high during spring festival, and drops a lot once turn in March. The quote we got from Qingdao to SF was $1300 ea. Your price is already good
It's not bad, especially since I just booked the tickets last week, very close to their departure date.
Is there a connection in the price? The price quote I received includes one connection either in Seol or Tokyo. If I want non-stop, UA's price is over $2000 per person.
Well, there's no non-stop flight from Shanghai to DC so there's a connection anyway. The one I booked is connected at Tokyo on the way here and at Newark on the way back.
I just made reservations for my parents around this spring festival. Leaving Shanghai in mid Jan, and back in late Feb, the total fare is about 1100/person. I booked the tickets on expedia, and my dad contacted several local agents at Shanghai, either nothing available or the price was skyrocketing high. I don't know they're saying is true or they want to hold the ticket for higher price.
BTW, how do you search international flights on expedia?
Haohao loves steamed fish, cannot wait for us to feed him.
There are not many choices in fish here. I love deep sea fish, but they are so contaminated.
BTW, how do you search international flights on expedia?
Just put in the departure and arrival airport, their search engine will do the job.
There are not many choices in fish here. I love deep sea fish, but they are so contaminated.
How about sea bass? That's the one we gave to haohao at the restaurant.
My inlaws will be here by 2/18 and return on 3/25, Air China, $880 each, we booked in Nov. Just give you some idea.
BTW, who will take care of Mantou during these 4 month?
Thanks! I was told in general prices are cheaper if return within 3 months.
ZT's parents said that they would take care of Mantou. But I am not positive. They asked my parents how long would they be gone yesterday. My parents said 4-6 months. They said that they thought my parents would be gone only for a month or so. :(
I may need to look for a daycare or homecare.
[此贴子已经被作者于2012/1/3 15:11:02编辑过]
How much is it in your place? It's 4.99/lbs regularly in my place, but right now it's running a special at 2.99, but only those slim ones.
2.99 is a good price!
How about sea bass? That's the one we gave to haohao at the restaurant.
Sea bass is high in mercury. We've only given Mantou tilapia and sole (when in restaurant). If haohao likes Sea bass, maybe switch to cod?
http://www.americanpregnancy.org/pregnancyhealth/fishmercury.htm
Thanks! I was told in general prices are cheaper if return within 3 months.
ZT's parents said that they would take care of Mantou. But I am not positive. They asked my parents how long would they be gone yesterday. My parents said 4-6 months. They said that they thought my parents would be gone only for a month or so. :(
I may need to look for a daycare or homecare.
[此贴子已经被作者于2012/1/3 15:11:02编辑过]
I think you'd better look for a daycare/family care and a nanny both at the same time, coz good daycares usually have long waiting list. Finding a good nanny may not be that challenging in CA, but it's only temporary job for a few months in your case, someone may not like the option. Good luck!
Just put in the departure and arrival airport, their search engine will do the job.
Thanks! I checked flexible dates and it didn't allow me to type in airport codes. Now it works. It's about the same $1100 on expedia.
Sea bass is high in mercury. We've only given Mantou tilapia and sole (when in restaurant). If haohao likes Sea bass, maybe switch to cod?
http://www.americanpregnancy.org/pregnancyhealth/fishmercury.htm
Thanks. I'll print this out and put on refrig door.
I think you'd better look for a daycare/family care and a nanny both at the same time, coz good daycares usually have long waiting list. Finding a good nanny may not be that challenging in CA, but it's only temporary job for a few months in your case, someone may not like the option. Good luck!
I know! My parents offered to bring Mantou back to Shanghai. I just can't.
long time long time no see...
everybody Happy New Year!!!
汗。。。估计大家最多也只吃三顿吧。我们这两天开始早上一顿燕麦水果泥，中午酸奶，傍晚豆腐肉汤+肉丝，另加4顿奶。
这个打碎吗？我也想做
偶娃现在就想要爸爸抱，估计是偶太后妈啦。。。
哈哈。我一点都不亲妈，但是我妈的理论是我白天都不在家，晚上又被老大占据，然后晚上就要粘我了。。。
aiyaya....
long time long time no see...
everybody Happy New Year!!!
笑笑怎么样？姨婆带着开心吗
以下是引用amethyst22在1/3/2012 3:56:00 PM的发言：
笑笑怎么样？姨婆带着开心吗
Sea bass is high in mercury. We've only given Mantou tilapia and sole (when in restaurant). If haohao likes Sea bass, maybe switch to cod?
http://www.americanpregnancy.org/pregnancyhealth/fishmercury.htm
Is sea bass called "Xue Yu"? I only like live "Mang Cao" from Chinese grocery store. Is it called black bass? I plan to feed my daughter steamed mang cao soon. I have let her try grilled salmon in a restaurant and she doesn't have much interest.
偶娃现在就想要爸爸抱，估计是偶太后妈啦。。。
唉，有个要爸爸抱的娃多么幸运啊。。。。。。。。。。。。xmjd。。。。。。
我也想给娃做山药泥
汗。。。估计大家最多也只吃三顿吧。我们这两天开始早上一顿燕麦水果泥，中午酸奶，傍晚豆腐肉汤+肉丝，另加4顿奶。
我们是两顿辅食三顿奶。回国时间调了之后莫名其妙少了一顿辅食，我也不是很在意，反正别的几顿都吃得很好，而且早上如果加上辅食那顿，我早上的大好时光就全在给他们喂饭了。对了，我们现在一个22斤，一个20斤了。回国一个月长了不少肉，可能和我给他们吃太好有关。
爷爷奶奶之前太宠了，尤其是回国前的最后一个月，总是想多抱抱，结果现在郁闷了，这家伙重新开始就要一门心思的抱啊，我根本放不开手做其他的事情，让娃爸去抱，人家哭的歇斯底里的，几分钟就大哭的整个人抽的喘不上来气，一度呕吐了都，我吓到了，不敢让她那么哭。。。
要是她不这么要我抱，能自己玩，我倒是更轻松点，可以在她玩的时候放开手做点其他的事。否则我吃饭都跟打仗的一样。。。
aiyaya....
long time long time no see...
everybody Happy New Year!!!
Tilapia 是安全的
以下是引用blahblah在1/3/2012 4:51:00 PM的发言：
Is sea bass called "Xue Yu"? I only like live "Mang Cao" from Chinese grocery store. Is it called black bass? I plan to feed my daughter steamed mang cao soon. I have let her try grilled salmon in a restaurant and she doesn't have much interest.
鳕鱼是Cod.
Tilapia 是安全的
Tilapia不好吃啊。盲槽的英文是什么啊？
这个打碎吗？我也想做
不打碎。她只爱吃糊糊，不肯嚼，连香蕉也不肯嚼，我怕她以后有吞咽问题，这一周不停的让她试，现在终于肯学着嚼了。所以豆腐我也买的extra firm让她嚼，鸡肉撕成丝丝给她直接吃。。
以下是引用卡小农在1/3/2012 7:13:00 PM的发言：
懒妈的一招是晚上把山药和米放电饭锅里定时，第2天大人吃山药粥，挖几勺山药出来给娃留着就行了
以下是引用卡小农在1/3/2012 7:14:00 PM的发言：
嗯。。。我家一天2顿而已，水果蔬菜肉饭都在一起吃，吃3顿饭+水果岂不是一天4顿？一天光喂饭了，我可受不了。。。亲家知道我家那头喂饭多烦人，一天我最多喂2顿。。。。多了受不了
我们的play area在二楼，有时我需要在楼下厨房干点活儿，娃又不肯坐jumperoo，只能放她到high chair上，光坐high chair她肯定不干的，只好椅子上挂点什么玩具让她玩玩，或是teether啃啃。这样她有事情做，我也好干活。
这个玩具是朋友送的，我也不知道英文怎么说，原来是配graco stroller的，没想到也能装到gracco high chair上。
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这两个看着漂亮啊，不知道哪里有卖的
吃的少但吃的好哇，看他的肉肉结结实实的，就知道他吃的很不错！
贡献一个馊主意给自己带娃的妈妈。。。
我们的play area在二楼，有时我需要在楼下厨房干点活儿，娃又不肯坐jumperoo，只能放她到high chair上，光坐high chair她肯定不干的，只好椅子上挂点什么玩具让她玩玩，或是teether啃啃。这样她有事情做，我也好干活。
这个玩具是朋友送的，我也不知道英文怎么说，原来是配graco stroller的，没想到也能装到gracco high chair上。
以下是引用blahblah在1/3/2012 4:51:00 PM的发言：
Is sea bass called "Xue Yu"? I only like live "Mang Cao" from Chinese grocery store. Is it called black bass? I plan to feed my daughter steamed mang cao soon. I have let her try grilled salmon in a restaurant and she doesn't have much interest.
[此贴子已经被作者于2012/1/4 0:12:14编辑过]
google的解释：盲槽鱼是大口黑鲈，加州的特产淡水鱼
以下是引用blahblah在1/3/2012 9:03:00 PM的发言：
Tilapia不好吃啊。盲槽的英文是什么啊？
[此贴子已经被作者于2012/1/4 0:15:50编辑过]
小曼真有心啊，那么多卡张张手写，这点多少心血啊！！！
另外，号外号外，我终于收到小曼的卡片啦！！！！
小曼真有心啊，那么多卡张张手写，这点多少心血啊！！！
小曼的字好娟秀耶，萌爸也凑过来看，然后问偶，为啥叮当妈要写“和萌爸一起，把握机会，认定对方。。。”
以下是引用叮小当在1/4/2012 12:39:00 AM的发言：
[此贴子已经被作者于2012/1/4 7:53:50编辑过]
我也收到了，昨晚。。。
小曼的字好娟秀耶，萌爸也凑过来看，然后问偶，为啥叮当妈要写“和萌爸一起，把握机会，认定对方。。。”
[此贴子已经被作者于2012/1/4 7:53:50编辑过]
我现在自己带娃放松些了。时间虽然紧，但心情好些。关键的转折是一个别人告诉我百遍，现在才用上的道理：多看娃好的地方， 少想不满意的地方。
好地方：豆豆吃table food了。虽然不多，但是吃。会扶着东西走一两步了。会爬上下楼（下只能一两阶）。会用吸管杯了。宝宝长第一颗牙了，在下面中间。：）
不满意的地方：睡觉还是mess. 所以每当我睡不好觉烦躁的时候就想以上的好处， 心情就平静些了。
我以前在楼里抱怨宝宝比较多，今天就bso一下宝宝。以后也会多夸夸宝宝， 这样大人宝宝都高兴。
给娃做饭去了。回来有空再爬楼。
懒妈的一招是晚上把山药和米放电饭锅里定时，第2天大人吃山药粥，挖几勺山药出来给娃留着就行了
山药放糖吗?山药很白味，娃不爱吧
自己带娃基本中午没可能做饭的（天使娃除外），我中午都是速冻饺子，pizza，或者前天的剩菜剩饭。。。。。大多数时候都是剩菜剩饭，所以我晚上都会做多点，没可能顿顿做饭吃新鲜的，很多时候直接装2个饭盒，lg一个我一个。。
和我一样。只不过我只装我一个人的。老公外面吃。
Tilapia不好吃啊。盲槽的英文是什么啊？
这个鱼类的，问了ped,说让一岁以后才吃。现在可以吗？
不打碎。她只爱吃糊糊，不肯嚼，连香蕉也不肯嚼，我怕她以后有吞咽问题，这一周不停的让她试，现在终于肯学着嚼了。所以豆腐我也买的extra firm让她嚼，鸡肉撕成丝丝给她直接吃。。
对，豆豆就不爱吃任何糊糊，只吃自己抓着直接吃的。
说得好，要多看娃好的地方，多看娃的进步，心情就会好很多。。。
比如偶娃吧，每天早上送她，都是痛苦的过程，一进daycare，她就开嚎，紧紧抱着偶，这都三个多月了，还是这样，其他宝宝都很淡定，偶觉得很郁闷，也很尴尬。。。不过想想每次下午接她的时候，她还挺高兴的，不似以前见到偶就瘪嘴哭，这也算进步，偶感觉就好多了。。。
以下是引用lucylucy_hr在1/4/2012 9:34:00 AM的发言：
大家新年好！没时间爬楼，先post.
我现在自己带娃放松些了。时间虽然紧，但心情好些。关键的转折是一个别人告诉我百遍，现在才用上的道理：多看娃好的地方， 少想不满意的地方。
好地方：豆豆吃table food了。虽然不多，但是吃。会扶着东西走一两步了。会爬上下楼（下只能一两阶）。会用吸管杯了。宝宝长第一颗牙了，在下面中间。：）
不满意的地方：睡觉还是mess. 所以每当我睡不好觉烦躁的时候就想以上的好处， 心情就平静些了。
我以前在楼里抱怨宝宝比较多，今天就bso一下宝宝。以后也会多夸夸宝宝， 这样大人宝宝都高兴。
给娃做饭去了。回来有空再爬楼。
贡献一个馊主意给自己带娃的妈妈。。。
我们的play area在二楼，有时我需要在楼下厨房干点活儿，娃又不肯坐jumperoo，只能放她到high chair上，光坐high chair她肯定不干的，只好椅子上挂点什么玩具让她玩玩，或是teether啃啃。这样她有事情做，我也好干活。
这个玩具是朋友送的，我也不知道英文怎么说，原来是配graco stroller的，没想到也能装到gracco high chair上。
小漫天使啊，自己乖乖的。我们估计不行。会要人赔，不要teether. 那个小鹿teether，我都不敢用，掉色啊。从amazon买的。
大家新年好！没时间爬楼，先post.
我现在自己带娃放松些了。时间虽然紧，但心情好些。关键的转折是一个别人告诉我百遍，现在才用上的道理：多看娃好的地方， 少想不满意的地方。
好地方：豆豆吃table food了。虽然不多，但是吃。会扶着东西走一两步了。会爬上下楼（下只能一两阶）。会用吸管杯了。宝宝长第一颗牙了，在下面中间。：）
不满意的地方：睡觉还是mess. 所以每当我睡不好觉烦躁的时候就想以上的好处， 心情就平静些了。
我以前在楼里抱怨宝宝比较多，今天就bso一下宝宝。以后也会多夸夸宝宝， 这样大人宝宝都高兴。
给娃做饭去了。回来有空再爬楼。
Congrats!!
我婆婆走后，豆豆也一样，特别粘人，烦躁。小孩喜欢人多，就我和她，她就烦。老公在家工作的时候，她就高兴得不行。我的办法就是带到外面溜溜， 见见人，然后回家再放下，就能自己玩一回了。你就干自己的事。
还有吃饭的事，豆豆吃table food 了。你可以试试。就是麻烦，要炒啊煮啊蒸啊。
家里的家务我就等晚上娃睡了才做。现在很多家务让老公做，我做娃有关的。每天要忙到九十点。辛苦，但第二天不会抓狂。
Gymboree red baloon sale starts today, anyone will go and check the store? Too bad I'm trapped in the office.
go during Lunch break
go during Lunch break
Can't. Have a meeting at 1 pm, besides I didn't drive today.
说得好，要多看娃好的地方，多看娃的进步，心情就会好很多。。。
比如偶娃吧，每天早上送她，都是痛苦的过程，一进daycare，她就开嚎，紧紧抱着偶，这都三个多月了，还是这样，其他宝宝都很淡定，偶觉得很郁闷，也很尴尬。。。不过想想每次下午接她的时候，她还挺高兴的，不似以前见到偶就瘪嘴哭，这也算进步，偶感觉就好多了。。。
我觉得壮娃就是那种感情比较细腻的娃， 适应期会长。我打算明年送豆豆去partime daycare， 估计比这个还惨。 你有没有考虑family care? 小范围的。我觉得像壮娃这样的需要bonding，如果family care， attention 多一些。 就是那种一个阿姨或大妈带两三个的那种。这种地方容易让宝宝觉得像family or playdate， 就会盼着去。只是我个人想法，仅供参考。
一看你就是不常来楼里。。。。嘿嘿，常爬楼多爬楼，书中自有黄金屋，楼里自有小惊喜！！咔咔咔
我不是少爬楼，是慢爬楼，爬楼慢~
我不是少爬楼，是慢爬楼，爬楼慢~
我每次都是倒着爬楼就不会错过最新消息了。
Gymboree red baloon sale starts today, anyone will go and check the store? Too bad I'm trapped in the office.
that's why i missed my days when i didn't work full time. i could do whatever i wanted at that time. :(((
我也收到了，昨晚。。。
小曼的字好娟秀耶，萌爸也凑过来看，然后问偶，为啥叮当妈要写“和萌爸一起，把握机会，认定对方。。。”
[此贴子已经被作者于2012/1/4 7:53:50编辑过]
it seems that i am the only one now with bad "ren pin"... i haven't received it yet. :((( anyone can scan the one you received, just want to see xiao man's beautiful handwriting...
这个鱼类的，问了ped,说让一岁以后才吃。现在可以吗？
i think it should be fine as long as baby is over 9 months old. my son had his seafood around 9 months, same as my daughter...
说得好，要多看娃好的地方，多看娃的进步，心情就会好很多。。。
比如偶娃吧，每天早上送她，都是痛苦的过程，一进daycare，她就开嚎，紧紧抱着偶，这都三个多月了，还是这样，其他宝宝都很淡定，偶觉得很郁闷，也很尴尬。。。不过想想每次下午接她的时候，她还挺高兴的，不似以前见到偶就瘪嘴哭，这也算进步，偶感觉就好多了。。。
不知道你怎么过来的。。。我这两天快被折磨死了。。。 小K同学进了DAYCARE，一眼看不见我就开嚎，嚎得那个撕心裂肺啊，弄得我跟着她一起哭。。。没出息的妈。：（ 昨天第一天，我早上陪她了一个半小时，我只要在，她就玩得挺好，只要我站起来，离开她两步远，就大方嘴一咧，哭得凄惨的呀。这位小同学我们常带她出门，见陌生人都是笑脸相应的，不晓得对DAYCARE怎么这么不适应。中间９点多我偷偷回去隔着玻璃门看她，她自己坐地上，东看看，西看看，突然想起伤心事一样哭两嗓，再东看西看哭，也不怎么玩，脸色也呆呆的。LUNCH TIME我去看她，她在老师腿上坐着，一看到我就脸红勃子粗地大嚎。。。哎。。。今天还是一样，我呀，也没出息，哭得不比她少。晚上回家，姥姥也抱着她哭，只有家里俩男的是铁石心肠，说过两天就好了。要是过几天还这样，我真是要抓狂了。。。
不过唯一好的一点是，小K在幼儿园也许哭得多了，饭量还大了，比在家吃得还多。NAP比在家短些，但基本也休息得OK。不知道我是该高兴还是伤心。
萌妈，有啥经验帮助娃过渡的吗？
不知道你怎么过来的。。。我这两天快被折磨死了。。。 小K同学进了DAYCARE，一眼看不见我就开嚎，嚎得那个撕心裂肺啊，弄得我跟着她一起哭。。。没出息的妈。：（ 昨天第一天，我早上陪她了一个半小时，我只要在，她就玩得挺好，只要我站起来，离开她两步远，就大方嘴一咧，哭得凄惨的呀。这位小同学我们常带她出门，见陌生人都是笑脸相应的，不晓得对DAYCARE怎么这么不适应。中间９点多我偷偷回去隔着玻璃门看她，她自己坐地上，东看看，西看看，突然想起伤心事一样哭两嗓，再东看西看哭，也不怎么玩，脸色也呆呆的。LUNCH TIME我去看她，她在老师腿上坐着，一看到我就脸红勃子粗地大嚎。。。哎。。。今天还是一样，我呀，也没出息，哭得不比她少。晚上回家，姥姥也抱着她哭，只有家里俩男的是铁石心肠，说过两天就好了。要是过几天还这样，我真是要抓狂了。。。
不过唯一好的一点是，小K在幼儿园也许哭得多了，饭量还大了，比在家吃得还多。NAP比在家短些，但基本也休息得OK。不知道我是该高兴还是伤心。
萌妈，有啥经验帮助娃过渡的吗？
Poor little K, don't know what to do, maybe stay with her for a while everyday? pat pat, she'll be good eventually.
桐桐每天三顿，分别是早上9点1个蛋黄+oatmeal，下午两点一根香蕉，晚上5：30蔬菜（胡萝卜/山药/红薯）+oatmeal
我还是胸喂，反正他也不要奶瓶……
我们不能吃香蕉之类的，稍微吃点就拉死了~所以蛋黄对我们一点都不BM。小丫丫现在一天最少拉两次，小毛头最少一天拉三次。
不知道你怎么过来的。。。我这两天快被折磨死了。。。 小K同学进了DAYCARE，一眼看不见我就开嚎，嚎得那个撕心裂肺啊，弄得我跟着她一起哭。。。没出息的妈。：（ 昨天第一天，我早上陪她了一个半小时，我只要在，她就玩得挺好，只要我站起来，离开她两步远，就大方嘴一咧，哭得凄惨的呀。这位小同学我们常带她出门，见陌生人都是笑脸相应的，不晓得对DAYCARE怎么这么不适应。中间９点多我偷偷回去隔着玻璃门看她，她自己坐地上，东看看，西看看，突然想起伤心事一样哭两嗓，再东看西看哭，也不怎么玩，脸色也呆呆的。LUNCH TIME我去看她，她在老师腿上坐着，一看到我就脸红勃子粗地大嚎。。。哎。。。今天还是一样，我呀，也没出息，哭得不比她少。晚上回家，姥姥也抱着她哭，只有家里俩男的是铁石心肠，说过两天就好了。要是过几天还这样，我真是要抓狂了。。。
不过唯一好的一点是，小K在幼儿园也许哭得多了，饭量还大了，比在家吃得还多。NAP比在家短些，但基本也休息得OK。不知道我是该高兴还是伤心。
萌妈，有啥经验帮助娃过渡的吗？
pat pat... i said a while ago it would be really hard for kids around 9 -12 months old to start daycare because that's their seperation anxiety peak time. if you don't think you will have in-home help, like your parents or nanny or maybe your mother-in-law, you have to hold on. she will adjust to it sooner or later.
when i sent my daughter/son to daycare the first time, i cried so much but they didn't have any feeling b/c they were too young.
Poor little K, don't know what to do, maybe stay with her for a while everyday? pat pat, she'll be good eventually.
我中午一定会在一个半小时的，上午和下午也可以抽空去看看。可我担心我越去，她越依赖我，所以很踌躇。。。不知道该多去还是少去。。。
现在看来，去幼儿园要有两点，一，早早去，娃不认人的时候去；二， 男娃适应得比女娃好，比如我女婿，昊昊，和KATE同天去的还有一个小男孩，人家也哭，但是哭哭就算了，就开玩了。。。
不知道你怎么过来的。。。我这两天快被折磨死了。。。 小K同学进了DAYCARE，一眼看不见我就开嚎，嚎得那个撕心裂肺啊，弄得我跟着她一起哭。。。没出息的妈。：（ 昨天第一天，我早上陪她了一个半小时，我只要在，她就玩得挺好，只要我站起来，离开她两步远，就大方嘴一咧，哭得凄惨的呀。这位小同学我们常带她出门，见陌生人都是笑脸相应的，不晓得对DAYCARE怎么这么不适应。中间９点多我偷偷回去隔着玻璃门看她，她自己坐地上，东看看，西看看，突然想起伤心事一样哭两嗓，再东看西看哭，也不怎么玩，脸色也呆呆的。LUNCH TIME我去看她，她在老师腿上坐着，一看到我就脸红勃子粗地大嚎。。。哎。。。今天还是一样，我呀，也没出息，哭得不比她少。晚上回家，姥姥也抱着她哭，只有家里俩男的是铁石心肠，说过两天就好了。要是过几天还这样，我真是要抓狂了。。。
不过唯一好的一点是，小K在幼儿园也许哭得多了，饭量还大了，比在家吃得还多。NAP比在家短些，但基本也休息得OK。不知道我是该高兴还是伤心。
萌妈，有啥经验帮助娃过渡的吗？
Kate加油。。。。。。过两天会不会好点啊？
pat pat... i said a while ago it would be really hard for kids around 9 -12 months old to start daycare because that's their seperation anxiety peak time. if you don't think you will have in-home help, like your parents or nanny or maybe your mother-in-law, you have to hold on. she will adjust to it sooner or later.
when i sent my daughter/son to daycare the first time, i cried so much but they didn't have any feeling b/c they were too young.
我知道的，可是不是姥姥姥爷一直在吗，所以就懒下来了。现在他们要回中国了，不得不送了。。。
哎，被娃闹的也没心情爬楼了。
新的一年， 祝福咱楼所有的妈妈宝宝都健康快乐啊！
Kate加油。。。。。。过两天会不会好点啊？
谢谢小艾妈。EMILY真聪明贴心，都知道喂妈妈了，好幸福！
她想知道容易堵奶的该怎么断奶。我quote一些她说的。。你帮忙看看？谢谢了～～～～
"我想断奶，结果从吸奶4次到吸奶3次，就赌奶成乳腺炎了，吃了6天的消炎药了，还没有好"
“ 我喂奶的时候，根本没有什么奶了，可是我断奶的时候，奶就突然变的很多了，这是什么道理啊”
“我要痛苦死了，
昨天大哭了几次，痛死了
晚上痛的不能睡觉”
可以带一些她熟悉的玩具、毯子或故事书帮助过渡吗？
以下是引用gospring在1/4/2012 11:13:00 AM的发言：
我中午一定会在一个半小时的，上午和下午也可以抽空去看看。可我担心我越去，她越依赖我，所以很踌躇。。。不知道该多去还是少去。。。
现在看来，去幼儿园要有两点，一，早早去，娃不认人的时候去；二， 男娃适应得比女娃好，比如我女婿，昊昊，和KATE同天去的还有一个小男孩，人家也哭，但是哭哭就算了，就开玩了。。。
[此贴子已经被作者于2012/1/4 11:57:54编辑过]
布拉，我想帮朋友问问断奶的事呢。。她非常容易堵奶，经常得乳腺炎，只能吃消炎药消的炎。
她想知道容易堵奶的该怎么断奶。我quote一些她说的。。你帮忙看看？谢谢了～～～～
"我想断奶，结果从吸奶4次到吸奶3次，就赌奶成乳腺炎了，吃了6天的消炎药了，还没有好"
“ 我喂奶的时候，根本没有什么奶了，可是我断奶的时候，奶就突然变的很多了，这是什么道理啊”
“我要痛苦死了，
昨天大哭了几次，痛死了
晚上痛的不能睡觉”
刚发现我有google pinyin，可以打中文了。我这两次断奶都是每次减一顿，然后持续至少一个月吧再减下一顿，然后再至少一个月后再减。我最后剩的两顿都是胸喂了，不知道pump是不是也是这个道理。她pump从四次到三次都发展成乳腺炎，那她是不是奶太多了？我个人觉得pump是造成我堵奶乳腺炎的主要原因，我的pump挺basic的那种，自然不比孩子吸的好。你让她试试都是胸喂行不行啊？她喂奶觉得没什么奶了，是不是她胸喂觉不得孩子吃进去好多呢？我前一阵也以为我没什么了，结果家妞一罢吃，我又觉得涨了，她孩子几个月大了，像咱们这么大不应该再堵了啊，都没什奶了。
现在不得不说喂奶真是一份艰巨的任务啊，我发现我产奶多的那边比另一边小很多，呜呜呜，毁容了。还有，我上周六终于让家妞又胸喂上了，现在只晚上这一顿，我准备如果能坚持下去二月份就彻底断了。
我中午一定会在一个半小时的，上午和下午也可以抽空去看看。可我担心我越去，她越依赖我，所以很踌躇。。。不知道该多去还是少去。。。
现在看来，去幼儿园要有两点，一，早早去，娃不认人的时候去；二， 男娃适应得比女娃好，比如我女婿，昊昊，和KATE同天去的还有一个小男孩，人家也哭，但是哭哭就算了，就开玩了。。。
我觉得你有这便利条件，这一两个星期中午都去去吧，帮她适应。good luck。
以下是引用lucylucy_hr在1/4/2012 10:08:00 AM的发言：
小漫天使啊，自己乖乖的。我们估计不行。会要人赔，不要teether. 那个小鹿teether，我都不敢用，掉色啊。从amazon买的。
我知道的，可是不是姥姥姥爷一直在吗，所以就懒下来了。现在他们要回中国了，不得不送了。。。
要我肯定也像你一样坚持到姥姥姥爷走的前两天再送，唉，熬吧，慢慢就好了。对妈妈肯定是个折磨。
以下是引用lucylucy_hr在1/4/2012 9:34:00 AM的发言：
大家新年好！没时间爬楼，先post.
我现在自己带娃放松些了。
以下是引用blahblah在1/4/2012 12:02:00 PM的发言：
刚发现我有google pinyin，可以打中文了。我这两次断奶都是每次减一顿，然后持续至少一个月吧再减下一顿，然后再至少一个月后再减。我最后剩的两顿都是胸喂了，不知道pump是不是也是这个道理。她pump从四次到三次都发展成乳腺炎，那她是不是奶太多了？我个人觉得pump是造成我堵奶乳腺炎的主要原因，我的pump挺basic的那种，自然不比孩子吸的好。你让她试试都是胸喂行不行啊？她喂奶觉得没什么奶了，是不是她胸喂觉不得孩子吃进去好多呢？我前一阵也以为我没什么了，结果家妞一罢吃，我又觉得涨了，她孩子几个月大了，像咱们这么大不应该再堵了啊，都没什奶了。
现在不得不说喂奶真是一份艰巨的任务啊，我发现我产奶多的那边比另一边小很多，呜呜呜，毁容了。还有，我上周六终于让家妞又胸喂上了，现在只晚上这一顿，我准备如果能坚持下去二月份就彻底断了。
楼里有木有不爱玩具的宝宝，不懂为么，偶娃对各式各样的玩具，几乎都没啥兴趣，玩一会就放手了，然后一个人呆呆得坐着，也不知道在干吗。。。如果能到大人在边上干活，大部分时候，她就看着大人忙来忙去，压根都怎么理睬玩具。。。爹妈都是engineer，怎么生出的娃就那么不喜欢摆弄东西呢。。。
以下是引用fayfay在1/3/2012 9:33:00 PM的发言：
贡献一个馊主意给自己带娃的妈妈。。。
我们的play area在二楼，有时我需要在楼下厨房干点活儿，娃又不肯坐jumperoo，只能放她到high chair上，光坐high chair她肯定不干的，只好椅子上挂点什么玩具让她玩玩，或是teether啃啃。这样她有事情做，我也好干活。
这个玩具是朋友送的，我也不知道英文怎么说，原来是配graco stroller的，没想到也能装到gracco high chair上。
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以下是引用Haoxiaohao在1/4/2012 10:15:00 AM的发言：
Gymboree red baloon sale starts today, anyone will go and check the store? Too bad I'm trapped in the office.
sleep training 精华帖，我没有逐个看，直接看的书，美妈可以看看。。。
http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?boardid=333&topicid=599999
http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?boardid=333&topicid=336842&page=3
http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?boardid=333&topicid=302843&page=3
谢谢美妈～～我刚刚看了，看完也忘了。现在再回去作笔记
这些soothing comfort一个一个戒掉吧。。半岁的娃应该不需要听流水声睡觉了。。抱着摇，这个不能批评了，我也这样
嫩家娃娃和我们以前一样，4-6点频繁的醒，哭，fussy，想吸奶嘴。我家的现在还是吃着奶嘴睡觉，睡熟后奶嘴掉了中间醒了我一般不理会，她已经学会睡回去了。你说你家的4-6点不停的醒来找奶喝，我觉得她不是真的想喝奶，只是想找个soothing comfort，找不到就醒，就哭，自己没办法睡回去。这个没有别的办法，只有train，她一定要学会自己睡回去。等她睡醒睡饱了，和萌妈说的一样，是不哭的，还会笑脸嘻嘻的等你出现。
谢谢美妈！我已经停了sleep train，准备看看书，再观察一下宝宝，再做一个plan.
你做sleep training前有考古精华帖么，首先，9点以后的入睡时间就太晚了，7~8点之间是合适的入睡时间，娃是早睡晚醒，晚睡早醒的，理论上。。。
我当时做training的时候，只做了晚上，白天去daycare，第一二三晚分别是88分钟，28分钟，和10（？）分钟，之后会有反复，但是比training之前好太多了。。。
你们晚上有木有每天相同的时间，进行相同的程序，慢慢给娃养成习惯，培养睡意。。。
我隐隐觉得，你娃可能没有真正睡好，还是很tired，通常cry it out过后，娃会睡得比较踏实，第二天，应该是非常happy，不会醒来就哭，至少书上的很多案例都是如此，我娃早上醒来也不哭。。。
我觉得你需要缓一缓，多考古一下，做个plan，想清楚了，再吹！像你这样犹犹豫豫，其实挺折腾娃得。。。
我们是两人full time 上班，当时娃刚去幼儿园，又生病，搞得大人筋疲力尽，小娃可怜兮兮，不得已只能吹，现在，我觉得，受益匪浅。。。
那个早上4，5点醒来的，如果不是大哭，只是哼唧，不要理，一般六点以前，娃如果醒了，也不要管她，否则是帮她养成习惯，让她早醒。。。
[此贴子已经被作者于2012/1/1 23:26:22编辑过]
8点入睡可以吗？还是要再往前调调，昨天晚上是8－8：30
壮娃现在和她自己的俩个老师bonding还行，但是每天早上，我们6：45 就送去了，她的老师八点上班，是其他的临时老师替岗，她就适应不了。。。
我们现在的daycare，师生比也是1：3，这个6~12 month的班，2个老师，6个孩子，我觉得带班老师都还行，但是那种floating的临时的老师就so so 了。。。
以下是引用lucylucy_hr在1/4/2012 10:29:00 AM的发言：
我觉得壮娃就是那种感情比较细腻的娃， 适应期会长。我打算明年送豆豆去partime daycare， 估计比这个还惨。 你有没有考虑family care? 小范围的。我觉得像壮娃这样的需要bonding，如果family care， attention 多一些。 就是那种一个阿姨或大妈带两三个的那种。这种地方容易让宝宝觉得像family or playdate， 就会盼着去。只是我个人想法，仅供参考。
以下是引用lucylucy_hr在1/4/2012 10:17:00 AM的发言：
给无悔：
我婆婆走后，豆豆也一样，特别粘人，烦躁。小孩喜欢人多，就我和她，她就烦。老公在家工作的时候，她就高兴得不行。我的办法就是带到外面溜溜， 见见人，然后回家再放下，就能自己玩一回了。你就干自己的事。
还有吃饭的事，豆豆吃table food 了。你可以试试。就是麻烦，要炒啊煮啊蒸啊。
家里的家务我就等晚上娃睡了才做。现在很多家务让老公做，我做娃有关的。每天要忙到九十点。辛苦，但第二天不会抓狂。
这两天俩孩子有点感冒，我自己也有一点。再忙着给他们买东西收拾东西。他们也忙着做点吃的把冰箱塞满。
zt还在国内不能回来，想着下周的日子就头疼
最近一年，我父母和公婆轮流过来，家里人一直都很多。突然一下子冷清下来，我自己不适应，俩孩子肯定更不适应
大矿吃一点零食凑合
二矿基本不吃任何辅食
哭ing。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
你放心，所有小孩，只要健康，都知道怎么跌倒了爬起来，没吃过猪肉，也看过猪跑，看几次，就会了。。。
以下是引用em在1/4/2012 10:46:00 AM的发言：
上来表扬一下emily, 她现在会喂东西给妈妈吃了。每次给她小块cheese，puff之类的东西，她自己吃一口，再拿一块喂我，自己再吃一口，再喂我。。感动啊。。。。如果我找她要，她也会给我吃。
就是快11个月了，还不会爬。。。。。囧。。。可以扶着家具走路了。我怕她以后会自己走路，跌倒了爬不起来怎么办啊？
以下是引用blahblah在1/4/2012 10:58:00 AM的发言：
it seems that i am the only one now with bad "ren pin"... i haven't received it yet. :((( anyone can scan the one you received, just want to see xiao man's beautiful handwriting...
小爱会不会自己从趴着到坐起来，如果会，就不用担心。。。
你放心，所有小孩，只要健康，都知道怎么跌倒了爬起来，没吃过猪肉，也看过猪跑，看几次，就会了。。。
以下是引用blahblah在1/4/2012 10:59:00 AM的发言：
i think it should be fine as long as baby is over 9 months old. my son had his seafood around 9 months, same as my daughter...
以下是引用xbwjl在1/4/2012 12:48:00 PM的发言：
family care我是不打算考虑的，个人觉得，没有保证。。。而且，如果知道娃太细腻了，不是要给她创造机会，让娃变得粗犷点么？
壮娃现在和她自己的俩个老师bonding还行，但是每天早上，我们6：45 就送去了，她的老师八点上班，是其他的临时老师替岗，她就适应不了。。。
我们现在的daycare，师生比也是1：3，这个6~12 month的班，2个老师，6个孩子，我觉得带班老师都还行，但是那种floating的临时的老师就so so 了。。。
大矿还要去preschool和中文学校啥的
以下是引用xbwjl在1/4/2012 12:50:00 PM的发言：
加油加油，合理安排，分工协作，两个人一定能带好娃。。。
我琢磨着反正二矿不吃任何糊糊，那就直接上成块的东西让他抓吧，抓嘴里几块算几块吧