Give up on idea that you can change me or anyone else beside yourself. Jump out from that loop. Give up that hope, You will feel much better. My friend’s dad is orphan. With just little food stranger provide to him, He study and moved fwd with his life. He turn out to be positive and great dad and husband and wonderful person.
Give up on idea that you can change me or anyone else beside yourself. Jump out from that loop. Give up that hope, You will feel much better. My friend’s dad is orphan. With just little food stranger provide to him, He study and moved fwd with his life. He turn out to be positive and great dad and husband and wonderful person.
她说我不真诚 而且我说了尽量就是不会改
然后我和她说我实在很受不了她和我communicate 的语气
我真的没法保证因为如果我保证了 而我不小心没做到了 她会不停的要我道歉 我只能尽量
而且她这样三天两头的改造我 我真的会累死
然后她就大哭 发信息告诉我 每次和我吵架她都想hurt 她自己
她很tired.
过了10分钟 又说never mind, I am terrible person
我女儿是不是有点歇斯底里
我准备发这个信息和她说
Give up on idea that you can change me or anyone else beside yourself. Jump out from that loop. Give up that hope, You will feel much better. My friend’s dad is orphan. With just little food stranger provide to him, He study and moved fwd with his life. He turn out to be positive and great dad and husband and wonderful person.
不过我从来不会和她计较，她总要有发泄情绪的方式，第二天她自己会写下来，be a good kids, 虽然她不会正面向我道歉，但我知道她其实还是好孩子
两个人对决，只会两败俱伤
应该会好很多
Give up on idea that you can change me or anyone else beside yourself. Jump out from that loop. Give up that hope, You will feel much better. My friend’s dad is orphan. With just little food stranger provide to him, He study and moved fwd with his life. He turn out to be positive and great dad and husband and wonderful person.
道理她这个年龄都懂的，如果你还是搞不明白你两之间的问题，只能说你修行不够。尤其是孩子在外面是好孩子，在家里就鸡飞狗跳的那种，绝对是家长心态不对
家长能做的就是晾着她，等她情绪稳定了再说，不要说教
孩子还是要有个人怕的
有时候会催她，后来发现其实是反作用，所有的事情应该是自驱动，她自己想做才会做，我的家庭医生讲自己的女儿，高中毕业的时候不想去上大学，家长支持，告诉她只要自己养活自己，后来孩子在外面打工一年，决定回学校继续读书，拿了奖学金去州大，其实不是孩子智力有问题，青春期抑郁了，提不起兴趣，给孩子空间
我心比较狠，有病治病，没病非要作天作地的直接扔出去。
有时候她真不知道自己在做什么，说什么，有时候万分幼稚，有时候又十分成熟，你只有忍着，不要和她计较
不要生气。不engage 唇枪舌战的吵架。 control freek 有abuser 倾向。你越受其影响她越来劲。