我觉的中俄学生本科更focused，department and major all set from start
美本大一二识试试 say CS, economics..., 美本 EC too time consuming (我孩子 20hr/wk 歌唱团，part of social）上过的专业课肯定比中俄学生本科少
中俄学生本科: 专业课多，probably most are o level winners. More goal oriented. They can not get industry jobs as easily as ABCs so they have stronger drive in academics.
Hopefully 美本 can gain upper hand in research with their reading strength and communication skills.
Most O level abc go to wall street. Percentage of O level abc difinitely less than foreign students.
Most start research right away. some 9 to 5 from day 1, going to classes is just break. My kid goes to quite a few research group meetings a week just to get a feel of group culture and research subject. Some schools like Harvard don't even have PhD qualifying exams. Some schools only require a couple of classes in total.
Daily conversation with almost no accent is still lower than native speaker. Image one needs to read say 10-15 papers and try to get main idea behind those papers and which could be a good one to dive into.
该刻苦的时候就该刻苦，年轻时就该奋斗，铁不炼不成钢，这是放之四海而皆准的。我们虽然上公立K-12，加上夫妇双职工，miss 了很多竞赛活动，但小孩子也够努力了，也吃不少苦。大学里都住dorm, 吃食堂，除了女儿第四年Covid, dorm不够，自己租了个apt。与学生相处同住宿舍也可以学到很多待人处事方式，儿子读愽时和另三个同学合租一个条件很一般的house, 有小白也有小黑，觉得也挺不错的。我们能帮帮他就帮帮他，但儿子很识相，他不开豪车不用贵的东西，买个手机也是low end的iphone, 问他要不要iphone15, 人家不要，说够用了。
记得我爸说在他在清华读书时那时老断电，一断也没个准什么时候回来，那时吃的馒头很多是用出了虫的面做的，我爸每次都要将虫挑岀来再吃。有次挑一半停电了，室友劝我爸别挑了，电不知什么时候回来。我爸可能饿了就听从了劝，没想到，吃一半电来了，我爸继续挑，挑出好多半截的虫子，头皮发麻。我爸室友是后来中国最大的翻译，哈佛念了一半回国的，基辛格的同学。一个人该吃苦时还是要学会吃点苦，小小年纪就享受生活没什么好处。个人看法，不同意的可以砸
太吓人了
娃不喜欢合租就自己住，没必要特意吃苦。
你娃物质要求不高，自己不觉得苦。很多娃都这样啊，我娃也是很简单生活，除了外面吃饭和网购非常多，有点成瘾
吃苦时，要告诉孩子why and what is the gain, 享受的时候也要告诉娃why and how we can do this again and again. 这样，吃苦时有盼头，不觉得真苦，享受时自豪坦荡, 懂得珍惜感恩。
还有就是，从小享受生活，没钱肯定会动脑子吃软饭，后代也会是一个模子代代炮制出来，家教与遗传基因，一个后天一个先天，完美结合。
健康快乐第一，其余第二。自己快乐了才能让周围的人快乐。
娃自己能养活自己, 自己日子过的开心就很好了呀...
不拿钱，高中时去打工都支持，读大学新手机 iPad武装好。intern哪怕没钱也去做。在我看来都行。反正以后钱也是要给小孩，早点用掉没啥不好 LOL 。
好比以前有人说小孩要从小做家务，我不觉得这样。我家人好几代都是婚后才开始做家务 ，都做得很好。
所以我觉得能enjoy life不奢华都支持
美国人自己也知道要SAVE FOR THE RAINING DAY...
很多人不存钱，是花钱习惯或没钱可存，哈哈，小中天天看父母怎么在过日子， 有自己的办法。。
年纪越大牵挂越多，enjoy life多数时候只是一句口号了。
时间长了， LD不放心娃一人在家。
上努力和这个不矛盾。 努力工作，尽情享受生活。
作业题，中俄学生觉得容易而美国本科生觉得难，是不是因为他们上过的课比美国本科生多？
美本大一二识试试 say CS, economics..., 美本 EC too time consuming (我孩子 20hr/wk 歌唱团，part of social）上过的专业课肯定比中俄学生本科少
中俄学生本科: 专业课多，probably most are o level winners. More goal oriented. They can not get industry jobs as easily as ABCs so they have stronger drive in academics.
Hopefully 美本 can gain upper hand in research with their reading strength and communication skills.
抱谦，打中文太慢
我说美国学生比中国本科来读博的那些人英语说写都更好，写论文占优势，他说现在的中国学生跟你们那一代不一样，他们英语都好着呢。估计他是看周围的小留们英语都好。但我估计本科小留跟博士小留是两类人。
上午跟bele讨论同一问题，他的看法是外国学生申博比美国难很多，所以素质更高，你女儿有同样感觉吗？
咋判断Bele没讲啊
美国博士是要先上两年课
Most O level abc go to wall street. Percentage of O level abc difinitely less than foreign students.
Most start research right away. some 9 to 5 from day 1, going to classes is just break. My kid goes to quite a few research group meetings a week just to get a feel of group culture and research subject. Some schools like Harvard don't even have PhD qualifying exams. Some schools only require a couple of classes in total.
Daily conversation with almost no accent is still lower than native speaker. Image one needs to read say 10-15 papers and try to get main idea behind those papers and which could be a good one to dive into.