这个小中怎么样?

其乐无穷
楼主 (文学城)
人名去掉了,以免涉及隐私。   How do people who spend a fortune going to a elite private college feel when they graduate and end up doing the same thing as those who didn’t spend a fortune in tuition and went to a lower tier school? Originally Answered: How do people who spend a fortune going to a private college like Harvard, Stanford, Yale, etc. feel when they graduate and end up doing the same thing as those who didn’t spend a fortune in tuition and went to a lower tier school?

I went to MIT. My parents are middle class, so MIT paid for more than 60 percent of my tuition each semester. (at Harvard and Princeton, the college financial aid would probably pay for more than 80 percent of tuition for me due to higher endowments). So while I wouldn’t say my parents spent a fortune, it definitely did cost more than if I went to a state school.

I want to open a math academy in my hometown of Birmingham, AL. Even if I get enough (a healthy 100 to 150) students, I won’t be earning a fortune by any means. I could have done this if I had gone to UAB, my state school, instead of MIT. I am not going to use anything I learned at MIT in my teachings. Instead, I am using things I learned from extracurricular sources and my own studying in high school.

Even though I’m not going to use anything I studied at MIT, this is something I WANT to do. I feel that I am making a difference in other people’s lives directly. I felt that I didn’t get a quality math education in school here in Birmingham, Alabama, growing up. So I want to give interested students in the local area a chance to get that sort of quality education from me (At least, I think I teach well!)

(I am not interested in maximizing my income. I want to maximize my impact on this world. While working at a company might make my impact more widespread in some sense, teaching locally seems to be filling a gap in a teaching deficit that I consider to be quite a real world “problem”. I think that many people from Alabama who end up going to a high tier college will struggle in with math or STEM things due to a lack of good math foundation.)

Also, I didn’t like being the only person interested in academics and research at my high school. I also didn’t like being the smartest or second smartest person in the room. It never felt like I was being pushed or constantly expanding my horizons intellectually in that sort of environment. I knew that if I went to a lower tier school, I might end up in the same situation. I wanted to be surrounded with people who were as interested in academics and research as I was. And while not everyone at MIT was like that, it was definitely possible for me to find groups of people like that at MIT. (note: I’m not saying that a lower tier school wouldn’t have people with similar interests as mine, but MIT was definitely a great place to be for someone interested in math research)

Also, I’ve made great friends at MIT. I wouldn’t trade them for the world.

In summary, I have no regrets. I am doing something I love (or at least hoping to be able to do this while supporting myself). I think I am helping to fill in a need in the local community. I was in a good intellectual atmosphere at MIT. I met lots of great people with high ambitions and kind hearts. And I have a good degree to fall back on in case I want to get a normal job.

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borisg
Good kid who has found a goal by himself, not dictated by ot

others.

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BeLe
我孩子前后几年数学好的小中,我好像都认识。
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dujyy262
要在国内进不了北清+华5

写作水平一般,高考语文不会高分

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avw
根本没回答问题啊。这题目出得好,很难捣浆糊
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Numero
很好的小伙子!人一辈子都是一个经历和过程,而不是结果,上什么学校其实也是一个道理

不管怎么样,最后大家不都是一个归宿?LOL

又要废话一下了:每个偶然和选择,都会对一生有或多或少的影响

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avw
这个真未必。数学竞赛只在小部分地区popular,很多人不参加的。我们地区根本没有mathcounts
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avw
真假不知道,写得干巴巴的。至少文章不行
两女宝妈
知道这个人,也在aops上课
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Midwestrural
挺好一个娃。。
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BeLe
刘翔原来是练跳高的, 后来经人指点, 就去练跨栏了.
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gossipgirl8
挺不错的孩子。就是不知道爸妈的感受,以及孩子和父母直接能否达到共识。见过了高山的人,回到平原,

和一直居住平原的人,是不一样的。。。。

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avw
这孩子也需要老bele指点一下
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mom2023
好孩子。突然觉得像大悲寺的苦行僧,指有理想有信念。
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wlwt123
看来世界上的雷锋都移民了美国。
拼命乱弹琴
挺好的。这个就跟openai ceo鼓励移民一样,对整个环境正向多元的推动
两女宝妈
大部分父母都会希望孩子开心幸福的,所以我想这孩子的爸妈也没啥不开心的感觉
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STEMkid
是的,很多教授以前都没参加过竞赛
两女宝妈
所以去的M,不是H?哈哈
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randomness
我也觉得。写得有点乱。
糖果果
好孩子。最后一句话是关键,他很幸运地得到了自信和不怕失败的本钱。干大事唯有不怕失败。
拼命乱弹琴
有多少人想要影响力?都是大学文书里写写的。他不作假也觉得自己担得起,理性,自信
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tibuko
现实会很骨感,改变一个学校不是良好愿望就够了的
拼命乱弹琴
他就是去跨栏了呀,只是你暂时没看到钱哈哈
拼命乱弹琴
挺多文书我都看不下去,这篇挺好,是人话,真实
河塘月色45
我英文不好,到底是想表达什么,硬是没看懂!

哎呀

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STEMkid
这是口头回答吧,咋看出来文章不行的
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avw
用文章的句型口头回答?那更糟糕了
拼命乱弹琴
不需要改变学校,好学孩子跟Chatgpt就可以学,好老师可以让讨厌数学的孩子发现数学其实有用也有趣
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randomness
这篇根本不算文书。更像是在rant
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avw
答非所问,而且思维错乱
拼命乱弹琴
rant啥?
其乐无穷
爹妈花了不少钱送去M, 今后要干的事他中学知识就够了。
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hmay
英文太差了。表达非常混乱。逻辑思维等等也是一团乱麻。感觉他连我grade 6孩子的

10%,也许更低的叙述和表达能力都达不到。我真的是这么认为的。

 

别的不说,他的英文水平真的差到离谱的程度。

 

都是短句。每一句都是“I", "I"。。。启文。他可能真的是连一天的英文训练都没做过。

 

拼命乱弹琴
很多mit去大厂螺丝钉也是同样感受,厂工太简单,学校里的东西用不上。用别的东西才对了才不是厂工
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4657238
就是很空。不知道为什么开了Math Academy 就 make impact of the world.

难道做正常工作的人就不make impact of world 了。

而且说MIT 学的东西都没用。那就是不用上MIT了?

可是也不后悔。

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tibuko
你以为他能做到吗?
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4657238
去大厂好歹MIT学历能当个敲门砖。他自己干这个也用不上了。
拼命乱弹琴
学校里大部分东西出学校完全用不上,他有这个觉悟是他接地气没读书读傻了。他写的就是说他受了教育现在带着自己的脑子想看自己脑子能整出
拼命乱弹琴
个啥响声来,而不是担心他脑子换不到做工钱
拼命乱弹琴
做了才知道,怕啥
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DogandGod
父母逼着学数学,自己也以为爱数学,结果估计没别的兴趣或不知道要干啥,最后开数学班。估计从小到大都做数学题了
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weed123
赞。 其实MIT的文凭也不是必须的。只要人聪明,随时可转码。
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tibuko
怕他这种以救世主自居的心态
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weed123
现在裸考的很难进清华北大。参加竞赛得奖才有比较大机率进
两女宝妈
你家两个孩子都是罕见的天才,所以你才觉得别人很差。其实你不用自家娃作为标准比较好
糯米粥
如果这是是我家娃的选择,我一定为他自豪。这听着是回答Reddit上面问题的,跟college essay没啥关系
糯米粥
我猜想另一个可能性是,这孩子想用自己的微薄力量,给社会带来正面影响。开班是他觉得最符合自己长处的
风景线2
楼上好多没看第一句话吧。这娃已经上了MIT,这就是个reddit回答,又不是essay
拼命乱弹琴
对啥都没有兴趣的人就去赚钱去了。他有自己的偏好和选择。很多藤校毕业只能做藤校报考counselor 这还未必是选择
拼命乱弹琴
你主要怕人不赚钱 :)
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AchengPiano
哈哈哈
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wearing1
English writing is poor