If your parent real got sick, can you give up your job and your
Do you have kids? If so, that's your family.
Your parent(s) that need someone who can take care of. If I were you, I send money as much as they need.
My wife visit her parents and both parents very bad sick. One in hospital. 3 adults cannot take care of her mom (not sleep and made everyone cannot sleep). How long can you suffer this?
I told my wife, send money to hire someone for send them to nursing home. That's only you can do.
If you have children, you need to take care of them too. That's your family. Your parents are NOT part of your family.
她那个年纪那时候在工作上有啥选择的?还事业呢…自私的人老是觉得人家欠她的,别理她就是了。
很有可能每天骂你不孝
而且年龄大多病的老人不一定有保险公司卖绐医疗保险,80岁后就没保险公司愿意承保了。
老人也许应该更体贴子女一些,但也没人规定必须要。抱怨是每个人的权利,你无权让人闭嘴。
最理想,是父母子女双方互相体贴,如果做不到,就退而求其次,尽力而为就行了。
你这种说法让人不齿。
要不然,想象一下你自己老了,你的子女无论基于什么原因对你不满,然后对你说出一模一样的话,不知你是不是很受用?
于是回国后就不想再来了,绿卡也放弃,她知道在这边生病有多麻烦,不想给我增添麻烦,同时也是更喜欢国内的人文。在国内也是一个人过,坚决不要保姆,不愿意有外人在家。哥嫂对她很好,特别是嫂子常常送东西过去,也有邀请她过去跟他们住,但我妈很清醒,认为住在一起久了会有不便,她也是个很有个性的有主意的人。哥哥人很好,但就是老跟妈妈争执。我妈最想的是跟我住,我也知道她心里还是有点埋怨我出国离家那么远,提过一次就再也没说过。她想以后走不动了住养老院,也自己去看过几家,但我还是觉得不妥,所以我是这样想的。这几年趁她还能走动,我就邀请她来住上一年,回去休息以下,如还想来,就再来,每次住上一年。我呢,如果妈妈在国内,就每年回去两次。等到妈妈哪一天走不动,做不动饭了,需要人伺候了,我就回去伺候她,跟她作伴,为她养老送终。所以我告诉我妈妈一定要挺过这两年,女儿上大学了,我就没有后顾之忧了。不好意思,写了这么多。
毕竟在国内很多人想象不到这边的情况。再加上人越老越没有安全感,想和自己的子女一起也是正常的。先邀请来旅游,看看情况再说。
海外不容易,国内的人体会不到啊。
在美国的移民的艰难他们体会不到。当然,如果你出国是你父母的支助,那另当别论。
Do you have kids? If so, that's your family.
Your parent(s) that need someone who can take care of. If I were you, I send money as much as they need.
My wife visit her parents and both parents very bad sick. One in hospital. 3 adults cannot take care of her mom (not sleep and made everyone cannot sleep). How long can you suffer this?
I told my wife, send money to hire someone for send them to nursing home. That's only you can do.
If you have children, you need to take care of them too. That's your family. Your parents are NOT part of your family.
尤其是出了国的,所以,不要事事依从老人,尤其是提出不合理要求的。
这样的老人多数会做的要死,你给他找护工找保姆试试,保证不敢做。
要我马上回去,我也很头疼。我妈也是那种有病不要胡工不要保姆的人,一定要亲生儿女亲自照顾。我哥的孩子已经结婚了,这个月生了孩子,我哥说忙不过来不管了,我妈一定要我回去照顾3个月,辞职是小,我很担心孩子在这没人管了。
你的父母肯定过不了移民的体检,你该做的你也做了之后,也许最后他们死心,必须面对现实了,只能在国内请人照顾,享受精致生活。
我从来没见过“无不是”的国人父母。我见过的这个年纪的大部分都挺招麻烦的,包括我自己的。
一般70岁以上一个价位。上网搜索一下就行,最好等年底open enrollment 申请比较容易。
父母爱子女是令人尊敬的,子女孝敬父母更让人尊敬。