Recent years, I do not get this feeling at all. Our problem is that my son does not even want to date ABC girls, despite of our continuous persuading words.
That actually explains my feeling described below.
5-6 years ago my son left the small town (actually it is a mid-size city) to go to college in a big city in the east coast. We, as parents, together learned the life/people of big cities from interacting with/visiting him.
from both sides are all very reasonable, and I do not think he has the feeling of bad parents in law. Somehow he just do not want to date with ABC girls; we have no idea why. We encouraged him not necessary limited to ABC, but any east asian girls would be good. He has his won decision and we respect his feeling
这会儿来问over sensitive 又有啥用!
还真怨不得鬼子， 棒子， 三哥。。。
鬼子， 棒子和三哥家的女孩都愿意嫁小中男!
差距怎么这么大呢
话说回来，嫁小白确实大比例。
纽约各种人见得太多了
Recent years, I do not get this feeling at all. Our problem is that my son does not even want to date ABC girls, despite of our continuous persuading words.
5-6 years ago my son left the small town (actually it is a mid-size city) to go to college in a big city in the east coast. We, as parents, together learned the life/people of big cities from interacting with/visiting him.
相亲群都是要找小中的啊
from both sides are all very reasonable, and I do not think he has the feeling of bad parents in law. Somehow he just do not want to date with ABC girls; we have no idea why. We encouraged him not necessary limited to ABC, but any east asian girls would be good. He has his won decision and we respect his feeling
不觉得所有小中女故意去找小白，很多就是缘分。他们和老留们想法不一样。我家两个目前为止都是非小中的亚裔。对眼第一重要啊，那么理智就好了。
我周围年轻些的认同小中小亚多，无论男娃女娃，16～21
尤其是初中，高中移民过来的1.5代比较容易接受小留。
我家娃的目前男女朋友父母偶尔见过，都是一见面鞠躬的。搞得我觉得我自己不鞠躬是不是没礼貌啊。哈哈。有时候想如果老留亲家，肯定不鞠躬，是不是更多话题，当然也可能更多是非。
这是我从娃大学同学里观察到的现象。中学在亚裔多的地方出来的华裔娃到大学里多数还是喜欢跟亚裔玩，中西部华裔少的区出来的华裔娃和各个族裔都玩
现在他们都用中文对小孩说话。说是研究表明尽管小孩会晚说话。但对大脑有益处。
每个人真是想法差太多。。。
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