which means he would like the young kid to choose. In this case, that 长者 should be happy with any choice that kid chooses. I always educate my son, when somebody let you decide what to do, just go ahead do it. If he has second thoughts, he should imply/tell you early. If he does not express anything, it means he will be happy with either your choice.
that kid asked his daughter, and the father intentionally
walked slower; the father gave up his choice and hope that ABC boy can politely figure out what the real thought in that father. It may happen to a boy grown up in China. For ABC boys, like my son, I will not teach him to do those kind of guessing games. If the father gave up his choice, it is the ABC boy's turn to make a decision, especially that boy already consulted the opinion of the daughter.
post such kind of tests to my son's girl friend, and will not be happy if his girl friend's parents gave him such questions. Just behave as an respected elder gentleman.
都到了跟父母提出要同居的程度了，那两人坐车都坐前排一定是早就习惯了的。这情况下老爸属于外人。坐后面正常吧.
或者我妈坐副驾，奇怪的是我爸从来不坐副驾。
怎么融洽同子女的关系?
·不要监控孩子的电话，尊重其隐私权。
·对孩子的朋友要和蔼可亲，但不要同他们过于亲近。不要侵入他（她）的天地。
·不要在他人面前夸奖孩子，这样会使其尴尬。
·不要在他人面前批评或斥责孩子。如果必须要这样做的话，应该在无人的时候。
·母亲在他人面前要注意服饰。母亲的形象不整洁，孩子会感到羞耻。
·如果你的孩子参加学校的演出，他（她）在舞台上时你不要打手势，这样会令他（她）紧张，甚至出错。
·孩子和你一起坐自己家的车出门时，不要把汽车收音机调到你所喜爱的频道。让孩子挑选电台，但可要求他调低音量。
·在子女需要帮助时要给予帮助，但要注意方法。
·子女在一定的阶段就像需要食品一样需要爱抚，但是爱抚要适可而止，不要在公开场合这样做，更不要在朋友面前这样做。
·不要让你的孩子在外人面前表现他的“本事”，如朗诵、唱歌、跳舞或弹钢琴。如果你为他的本领自豪并希望让人家看到，那就对他提出请求。如果父母坚持让他们在外人面前表现本领，有的孩子会感觉自己像马戏团的猴子。
·不要向他的朋友和亲属讲他的怪癖，尤其不要当他的面前。任何孩子都不愿意别人知道自己的隐私。
·不要让他失去对你的信赖。他向你透露的秘密，你不要告诉别人。你一定要完全尊重他的意愿。
·在他面前不要说谎。他看到自己的父母说谎或弄虚作假，就会感觉不好。例如，父母在某人背后说坏话，而当面又装出热情的样子，孩子就会反感。
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你看大老闆的司機開車 大老闆怎麽會去坐副駕?
等於自己是他們的司機
不要坐在后座，这样不尊重，成了人家是你的司机了
which means he would like the young kid to choose. In this case, that 长者 should be happy with any choice that kid chooses. I always educate my son, when somebody let you decide what to do, just go ahead do it. If he has second thoughts, he should imply/tell you early. If he does not express anything, it means he will be happy with either your choice.
右后座位
兩個男的搶副駕了
的确右后车座是上位，我不计较副驾或右后座，但有点在乎是不是眼里有长者
主坐前面。客坐第二排。胡杨肯定是为了争这个才生气的。女儿到底归谁？lol
walked slower; the father gave up his choice and hope that ABC boy can politely figure out what the real thought in that father. It may happen to a boy grown up in China. For ABC boys, like my son, I will not teach him to do those kind of guessing games. If the father gave up his choice, it is the ABC boy's turn to make a decision, especially that boy already consulted the opinion of the daughter.
讓他坐後座反而還不高興了
你们台湾人也是这样看的吧？
这男生现在已经是集团董事长了。
当年我爸嫌弃别人替他拿主意
不是副驾座的问题，这男娃不懂事。长幼有序，至少要问一下。对任何尊贵的客人，都应该问一下
人因为别的女人坐副驾驶，自己老公开车，一路说笑之后，气得又哭又闹。
post such kind of tests to my son's girl friend, and will not be happy if his girl friend's parents gave him such questions. Just behave as an respected elder gentleman.
热情礼貌自信，笑脸相迎，多嘘寒问暖，主动开车门，凡事多做多承担。车应该男人来开，车门应该男人开，吃饭应该男人付钱。绅士怎么做，男娃就该怎么学着做。因为见女方家长也没几次，这点表面功夫都不愿意做，哪里来的诚意。
maybe different families have different 家教. Just do not get married between different families.
ate too much. OMG, i do not think parents in China still think in this way.
原因是，司机在有危险的时候，会本能的保护自己这边。。。
如果对方有大的性格上的缺陷，或者有会影响今后生活的问题，父母还是要讲的。