Make sure her present needs are met. But she will be on her own someday. You are helping her now but not forever.
Give her some simple task that will require effort on her part. When she completes it (no need to be perfect), praise her and celebrate with a reward (can be an icecream, or just your cheerfulness.)
What she needs is the connection between effort and happiness. Your standard has to match her level of effort; lower it so that her effort (not matter how meeger) can produce positive results.
Danica Mckellar has some books on girls and math. Hope she is still willing to read them.
家有个六年纪女娃 从小就有个性 爱看书 大约从三年级开始不愿意学数学 发展到现在每次数学课不听课 不写作业 每次考试 20多分 和老师也谈了 老师说她从来都不听课 斗争了三年了 我也特别累 之前英文还是可以的 现在连英文也不好好学了 小提琴钢琴 中文 打球 去年都停光了 说白了就是什么也不像干 现在每天回家 没事 一说她 一家都生气 她爸爸说 先不管等她自己醒悟 她就知道学习了 我知道孩子个性强 很难改变 这几年用了很多办法 最后都是不好 现在就是我一说她 就对着和我干 我也被气的 头疼 问问各位家长 我该怎么做 才能让女儿醒悟
难怪面筋现在都不喜欢看书
第二才是引导他们。
当然也不知道他们听不听。人间就是这样的规则，下一代要走他们自己的路。做父母的，想开些。
我家的三年级数学差极了， 大点自然就会了
我看周围的老美，虽然平时放学后就是瞎玩，不过孩子成绩下降了，家长还是会严肃对待的
还是没变化
我觉得她不喜欢读书可能跟老师有关，我女儿小时候也是这样，喜欢阅读，不喜欢数学，然后也是属于不听话的孩子，有的老师就对她不好，小学阶段，我为她换了4个学校，公立，私立，公立，私立，终于碰到一个对她很好的老师。她有两个转折点，一个是五年级小学毕业，她的成绩只能进烂学校的普通班，她的老师对她好，说她应该去考好学校快班。然后，她就来劲了，一个暑假自己上网刷题，把六，七两个年级的IXL都做完。每天几百题喔，自己刷。然后，快开学的时候考上了。
第二个是高中碰到一个对她好的数学老师，教课教得非常好，她产生了兴趣。
总之，孩子需要鼓励，不管是从父母来的，还是老师来的。
如果有爱心，就带她参加社区活动，有了正能量, 就会自己慢慢想变更好。女孩子需要注意她对自我的评价，父母要保护她的自尊心
告诉她，这是你能帮她的最后一次了。
not the parents.
Make sure her present needs are met. But she will be on her own someday. You are helping her now but not forever.
Give her some simple task that will require effort on her part. When she completes it (no need to be perfect), praise her and celebrate with a reward (can be an icecream, or just your cheerfulness.)
What she needs is the connection between effort and happiness. Your standard has to match her level of effort; lower it so that her effort (not matter how meeger) can produce positive results.
Danica Mckellar has some books on girls and math. Hope she is still willing to read them.