On my honor, I will do my best To do my duty to God(includes all religions) and my country and to obey the Scout Law; To help other people at all times; To keep myself physically strong, mentally awake and morally straight.
Duty:
Duty to God and country,Duty to other people, andDuty to self
countless community services. His troop had a very strong adult leadership.
Some of his large projects include building a garden on an abandoned street corner and rehabing a building for homeless from scratch. He had organized a team of people to do the jobs and coordinated with local city's administrations.
对孩子的教育，最重要的是什么？
不是念书，不是练体育，更不是弹钢琴。。。。
最重要的，是理解什么是一个真正的立于世上的人，一个有勇气面对和克服困难，有责任感去养活自己，家人，并贡献于社会，有荣誉感把自己的这些传统传给后代的人。
所谓让孩子喜欢干什么就干什么，从一开始就是个错误的概念。喜欢干什么就干什么，必然意味着不喜欢干什么就不干什么。猪也许有这个自由，人没有。至少有自尊心的人没有。
自尊和羞耻的概念，需要从小时时培养。长大以后，有些事，你不去做，是因为非法，另有些事，你不去做，是因为出于你的自尊。同样，有些事，没人要求你一定要去做，也有很多别人不去做，但是你出于自尊，这件事到了你这里，就不得不做，否则就是对自己一生所坚持的做人原则的放弃。
又不能 lecture......
比如在网上发贴前先想想，是否好意思给娃看。。。
On my honor, I will do my best
To do my duty to God(includes all religions) and my country and to obey the Scout Law;
To help other people at all times;
To keep myself physically strong, mentally awake and morally straight.
Duty:
Duty to God and country, Duty to other people, and Duty to selfScout Law:
Trustworthy, Loyal, Helpful, Friendly, Courteous, Kind, Obedient, Cheerful, Thrifty, Brave, Clean, and Reverent.very well.
Agree with you, above all, the sense of honor and integrity is the most important.
My boy started at 3rd gr. -12thgr, earned the rank of Eagle Scout (the highest). I'm very proud of him.
责任感、回馈社会等等，我对孩子倒是有信心的。我们老留父母都是自己打天下的，在这方面言传身教都不差。
我看到走歪的孩子都没什么大出格的，主要是我说的两点。一个是被小小的挫折打垮了，比如失恋啊，没上成好的学校啊，这都是什么大不了的事情呢？还有就是避世、清高，包括在感情上回避、不敢追心仪的人；怕失败怕丢面子，宁可窝在家里啃老或者低就做个小工作，还觉得自己很green，对生活无欲无求......
我觉得年轻人应该是奋发向上的，荷尔蒙满满的，自信心满满的......现代社会养成了很多无欲望的年轻人，在家打打游戏、吃碗面条就行，家长也不好说人家啃老，但其实也挺愁人的估计。
countless community services. His troop had a very strong adult leadership.
Some of his large projects include building a garden on an abandoned street corner and rehabing a building for homeless from scratch. He had organized a team of people to do the jobs and coordinated with local city's administrations.
https://www.hoac-bsa.org/popcorn
每年我买好多女孩卖的饼干，价格合理，饼干味道还可以。
偶尔在Kroger门前买男孩的玉米花，普通的15元，贼贵。
跟出身，富裕，有关系，但没有绝对的关系。
做人，已所不欲勿施于人，己所欲也勿强施于人。
脾气忌暴躁
My boy's troop had a former marine officer and a top notch naturist as adult leaders. Strong leadership is crucial for good scouting experiences.
He's also got a lots of shooting experiences, now he owns all kinds of guns as soon as he turned to the legal age. :))
难道上网灌水空想就能成为立于世上之人？
veries a lot!
Those are lazy and cheaper ways to run scouting.
I think physical hardship is good for preteen and teen boys.
living in suburban midclass families? Move to a bad neighborhood in large city?
many age restrictions won't be there anymore.
They can sign up for study abroad, or volunteering in poor countries.
Mine was in Ukriane, worked for an UN youth organization when Russia and Ukraine had military conflictions.
communications for days.
for a young man with strong interests in international affair, it's an exciting place and a valuable life experience.
爬T3？
我以前对孩子比较严，与孩子关系就比较僵，有次我自己父母打电话过来问长问短，我可能回答的口气有点不耐烦了， 我儿子就在旁边说，“你看看，你也是这样啊”。
后来反思了自己， 对孩子说话就委婉得多了， 尽量从"朋友“的平等角度， 而且最后还加一句，仅仅是建议，仅供参考，一切由你来判断和做决定。
现在我和孩子之间就融洽多了，孩子还主动提出一起出去看个电影，走走trail, 骑骑bike, 这在以前是不可想象的，以前都是尽量避开和我一起活动。
所以小孩能这个那个的，胆大小孩的家长也夸耀自己如何重视小孩语言社交和辩论，所以小孩在千人面前都能侃侃而谈，毫不怯场。这些都是瞎子摸象，每个小孩各有不同，这不同决定了他的性格身体心理的强弱和潜力，家长最需要的是知道自己的小孩是什么情况，因材施教，扬长避短才是正途。
把一个自己喜欢的事做好，钢琴也好体育也好，不是比别人好，而是达到自己最大的潜力，是培养责任感，勇气，克服困难的最好途径。