for the child to grow up. If not learning the lesson when he/she is young, he/she will learn the lesson in a bad way in the future. When in the US, learn to use the US way to defense/offense.
have 暴力倾向. I believe it also true for girls in China; only because our culture is more tolerant. i suggest u start to teach ur sons how to defense if facing a girl with 暴力倾向. I will do the same thing to my son tomorrow; he already slept.
being able to carpool with the girl. It is the right way to teach the child how to behave and what is the bottom line. The boy already learned the lesson. carpool or not is not that of a big deal, knowing the bottom line is critical. I bet the girl's parents have not taught the daughter that do not start physical fight, unless maybe in a really dangerouns situation.
Bitch, literally meaning a female dog, is a pejorativeslang word for a person, commonly a woman, who is belligerent, unreasonable, malicious, a control freak, rudely intrusive or aggressive. When applied to a man, bitch is a derogatory term for a subordinate. Its original use as a vulgarism, documented from the fifteenth century, suggested high sexual desire in a woman, comparable to a dog in heat. The range of meanings has expanded in modern usage. In a feminist context, it can indicate a strong or assertivewoman.
The word bitch is one of the most common curse words in the English language. According to Dr. Timothy Jay, there are "over 70 different taboo words," but 80 percent of the time only ten words are used, and bitch is included in this set
求大家能给个好的建议
我的女儿和邻居的一个男孩子carpool 上同一所高中。
上个星期我的女儿,还有那个男孩,还有其他五六个同学放学后在学校,
她们这些人在一起说话,我女儿说了什么热了这个男孩子不高兴,这个
男孩子骂了我女儿 bossy b**ch. 我女儿说她很生气,就踢了这个男孩子。
这个男孩子立刻一拳头打在我女儿头上。我女儿就立刻走开了。其他同学就去安慰我女儿。
后来这个男孩子text 给我女儿道歉。男孩子的父母知道了后这星期接放学的时候跟我女儿道歉,
男孩也再一次道歉。
今天我女儿才告诉我,她说不在和那个男孩说话。我责备她应该上星期就应该告诉我这件事。
知道女儿被骂被打心里非常痛。可是我也不知道这件事该怎么处理。我想到的是1.告诉学校,看学校怎么处理?
2 .跟男孩子父母谈,让男孩子写书面道歉信。这二个方法我其实都不满意。
我老公说停止和他们carpool.一般我老公早上送,男孩爸爸下午接。如果不carpool,我女儿放学自己坐公交车要经过一个治安很不好的区,我担心安全问题。所以现在我很纠结。
第一次面对这样的问题,很难受又不知道怎么办,求好的解决方案。谢谢。是想怎么能让男孩子知道这是错的,也担心这事还会发生。
你要能忍就忍下来。不能忍就不再car pool好了
不过你女儿也是厉害啊,不是她先踢的人家吗?你居然还要告到学校去?lol!
你说想让男孩知道这是错的,好像他已经知道并道歉了呀!
先自家先管好自家孩子。
他们道歉了, 你们道歉了没?
我没好意思提
Take bus is not bad, even run through a bad area. Bad people in bad area took bus to good areas for what, got caught by cops?
虽然此事对你女儿造成的伤害更大一些,但也未必不是学习的机会。
男孩马上text道歉而且告诉家长,说明他能够意识到自己的不对并且马上纠正。 而你女儿隔了一周才讲,而且仍有情绪,说明她既觉得自己也有错误,又不甘心被欺负丢了面子。
如果你确信男孩品行和性格皆无大碍,双方能相互道歉,重新carpool。让孩子不要把它当成一件了不起的大事件。
不过这在成长过程中也不算什么事。carpool就要另外找人了。我如果遇到这事,会教女儿反省,会教女儿如何保护自己。对方的问题我也会去谈,但对方已经道歉了,也算发省过了。现在是你家要反省,还有教会孩子遇到这种讲粗话的应对原则是什么。
大人就不要再掺合了,说不定过几天他们就没事了。大人越掺合事情越滥,况且可能你女儿首先做了不好的事。
跟女儿谈了,告诉她不可以动手,告诉她要注意语言不可以激怒别人。希望她真的听进去我的话。
很担心她以后还会说话不注意。
这个男孩子我没想到会这样。我text 男孩子家长告诉他们我今天知道了这件事情,希望他儿子道歉。
问问他们怎么做可以防止这种事情再发生。
是一个方面。
have sons, and should know this, if they r at teen stages now. If not yet, u will know soon.
for the child to grow up. If not learning the lesson when he/she is young, he/she will learn the lesson in a bad way in the future. When in the US, learn to use the US way to defense/offense.
might get bigger punishment, as she started the physical fight. Or in the "official way", her daughter made a bigger mistake.
我儿子们都是健壮的野小子。所以我着重教育他们不能对别人暴力。
男孩当众打女孩可以报警的。这里从小到大这方面纪律也算教育地多了,咋高中生还会则么鲁莽?
have 暴力倾向. I believe it also true for girls in China; only because our culture is more tolerant. i suggest u start to teach ur sons how to defense if facing a girl with 暴力倾向. I will do the same thing to my son tomorrow; he already slept.
但纪录留下了,只能去个二流州校,后来研究生再考去大藤的。
自己错了就应该认错。 女孩儿也不能有暴力倾向。
你的目的的是什么呢?
至于你问对方家长以后怎么防止这种事发生。。。。难道不是如果你女儿不先出手(踢人),人家那男孩也不会打人呀。
一来一去,不明白你觉得你家小孩吃了什么亏,这么不依不饶的。
你女儿上周的事今天才告诉你,说明她可能也觉得自己理亏。你家若有办法不需要人家接就明确说明不希望2个孩子再在一起,否则劝你别再提了,或者假惺惺的要你女儿也道个歉。
所以。。。你的goal是什么呢? 让男孩反省,从而可以继续carpool?
如果不carpool了,男孩怎么样,和你家也没啥关系了吧。
being able to carpool with the girl. It is the right way to teach the child how to behave and what is the bottom line. The boy already learned the lesson. carpool or not is not that of a big deal, knowing the bottom line is critical. I bet the girl's parents have not taught the daughter that do not start physical fight, unless maybe in a really dangerouns situation.
她说没被骂过,但如果被骂了肯定会骂回去, 先动手如果被学校知道会被处理所以绝不能先动手。
她还说了,Bword Teenagers中挺常见的,算是骂人的话,但是no big deal...
我还挺吃惊的。。。真是想不到, 对美国teenager 文化太不了解了。
你今天才知道是你女儿没及时告诉你, 这个怪你女儿。 对方没法知道你不知道呀。
本来小孩的问题小孩自己解决了就行了。。。
我觉得对方父母在你女儿先动手的情况下道歉,已经很厚道了。
您从小教育她不可以说那些语言,有没有教育她不能动手(脚)?
理解您对您女儿的保护和心疼的心态, 如果您希望这样的事不在发生,您应该教育您女儿如何避免这类情况的发生,如果无意的或不可避免的发生了, 如何控制自己不去加剧矛盾和保护自己。
老实说,如果我是男孩的妈妈, 我会选择远离你们家。 您希望这个世界都将您的女儿当成自己女儿来对待和疼爱, 可是这个世界做不到,这个世界还有更可怕暴力的一面,您不可能要求道歉,您只可能教您女儿如何保护自己。
Bitch, literally meaning a female dog, is a pejorativeslang word for a person, commonly a woman, who is belligerent, unreasonable, malicious, a control freak, rudely intrusive or aggressive. When applied to a man, bitch is a derogatory term for a subordinate. Its original use as a vulgarism, documented from the fifteenth century, suggested high sexual desire in a woman, comparable to a dog in heat. The range of meanings has expanded in modern usage. In a feminist context, it can indicate a strong or assertivewoman.
The word bitch is one of the most common curse words in the English language. According to Dr. Timothy Jay, there are "over 70 different taboo words," but 80 percent of the time only ten words are used, and bitch is included in this set
我认为已经可以了,你女儿也应该就踢人进行道歉。事情过去了,继续carpool。
你可能还愤愤不平,我觉得这是“难得糊涂”的时候,冰释前嫌吧