APAD: Put your nose out of joint

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7grizzly
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Meaning:

   Hurt your feelings or upset your plans.

 

Background:

 

   This phrase is quite old and was used by Barnaby Rich in His Farewell to

   Militarie Profession, 1581:

 

     "It could bee no other then his owne manne, that has thrust his nose so

     farre out of ioynte."

 

- www.phrases.org.uk [edited]

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Google AI's example

 

   "When Sarah got the promotion instead of John, it put John's nose out of

   joint." This means John was upset and annoyed because he wanted the

   promotion, and Sarah getting it made him feel disregarded.

 

matched exactly my experience. I was working for a chip shop around 2010, and

one day they promoted a junior colleague with IMO more hustle than competence to

lead the new team, carved out of the larger group, and thereby be my manager. It

took me by surprise and put my nose out of joint as at the time I myself felt

deserving to be promoted in some way. I protested and they agreed to keep me as

an independent contributor. In three months, I jumped ship. Looking back, I was

no leadership material and should've done nothing.

最西边的岛上
Had similar experience 1s in now disappeared Nortel, no fun
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7grizzly
Bad experiences make one grow.
最西边的岛上
Getting late here。突然记起1 true story in北电:组里一个新员工把没有compiled
最西边的岛上
code给别人做integration, 别人告诉小老板去和她讲,她不高兴&told 小老板get lost。是把小老板
最西边的岛上
的鼻子气歪了;-)但也无法。最后还是做integration的人自己去教那人(不知她以前怎么给政府做合同的?)怎样编译
最西边的岛上
It did 4 sure. & my promotion came very shortly ;-))
硅谷居士
Thanks for sharing!
永远老李
这坛子里的成语水平相当高,似乎在一般的鬼子新闻网站上极少见到
移花接木
can't figure out where is the joint of nose
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7grizzly
I forgot "鼻子气歪了," perfect match!
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7grizzly
We care about different things, I guess.
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7grizzly
Doctor 110, tell us please :-)
暖冬cool夏
I had a similar experience. Now nearing retirement age,
暖冬cool夏
nothing is important. The career playground is never level.
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7grizzly
Yes. It felt a big deal back then.
最西边的岛上
Here

By Google AI doc: