APAD: Revenge is better served cold.

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7grizzly
楼主 (文学城)

Meaning:

  Vengeance is more satisfying when exacted some time after the harm that

  instigated it.

 

Background:

   The proverb "revenge is a dish best served cold" is not especially old but

   first appeared in English in the translation of Eug e Sue's novel Memoirs of

   Matilda in 1846.

 

   It has since been used in many works of popular culture, including Kind

   Hearts and Coronets, The Godfather, and Star Trek II, The Wrath of Kahn.  The

   proverb suggests that revenge is best taken when it is carefully planned and

   executed, rather than in the heat of the moment.

 

     - Kind Hearts and Coronets, 1949: "Revenge is a dish which people of taste

       prefer to eat cold."

     - The Godfather, 1972: Don Corleone nodded. "Revenge is a dish that tastes

       best when it is cold," he said.

     - Star Trek II, The Wrath of Kahn, 1982: Kirk, old friend, do you know the

       Klingon proverb, "Revenge is a dish best served cold"?

 

- www.phrases.org.uk [edited]

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The world is such a confusing place that the promise of revenge, served hot or

cold, sounds overrated. The Godfather, for whom vendettas are business, modus

viviendi, understands that hating the enemy clouds one's judgment. Sans hatred,

however, vengence would deliver a shoddy dish, like mapo tofu without sichuan

pepper.

 

There was no lack of loathing between Christians and Jews back in the days in

Venice, but would the curse on his nation be lifted and Shylock enter an eternal

bliss had he exacted his pound of flesh? All things considered, he might be

punished more by his burning quest than for it.

最西边的岛上
“He who laughs last, laughs best” - unknow origin :-))
硅谷居士
君子报仇,十年不晚?
硅谷居士
The best vengeance is to live well.
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7grizzly
The wait might not be worth it :-)
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7grizzly
That sounds close.
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7grizzly
totally.
最西边的岛上
Hmm, MapoTofu w/ Spepper, Yummy! But Shylock was perhaps
最西边的岛上
swallowed by his own greed :-))
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7grizzly
迟来的报仇更让人满意。
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7grizzly
Heard Adam Smith said greed is a good thing :-)
最西边的岛上
oh, good thing he is Scottish (Auld Lang Syne :-)
最西边的岛上
can't agree more !!!!
妖妖灵
Life is too short to hold grudges. Let it go.
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7grizzly
Conquering self is never easy.
暖冬cool夏
Love your relay! The vivid mapotofu metaphor made me smile:)
最西边的岛上
Me 2, good write up & very funny
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7grizzly
Thank you both Different strokes for different folks--妖妖灵:-)
妖妖灵
Grudges hurt the immune system.不高兴的事我很快就忘记了:)你是啥星座?Virgo?
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7grizzly
So that's your secret: astrology! :-))
妖妖灵
I bet you are one of Earth signs:)
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7grizzly
Cheers! The betting is what life's all about. :-))
移花接木
Mexican president ClaudiaSheinbaum wins plaudits 4 cool head

Mexico’s Sheinbaum wins plaudits for cool head in dealings with Trump

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7grizzly
Hurray for Sheinbaum!
移花接木
Remarkable woman, from environment scientist 2 politician,
移花接木
also landslide winning election, so far unscathed
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7grizzly
Sounds like a natural career path:-))
移花接木
当墨国总统得通黑白两道吧?川普称墨西哥essentially run by cartels
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7grizzly
Russia by thugs, Italy by mafiosi, etc.
移花接木
Which country by convicted felon?
妖妖灵
The USA:)