Pursuit of Happiness

蒋闻铭
楼主 (文学城)

Human desires, a default drive to seek mental and physical pleasure, are limitless, and are embedded in a rather ironic form.  The essence of human desire is to have more, but your desire for more is worse when you have more.

The game of fulfilling one's desire is a game of endless pursuit.  Human desire always points to things one does not possess, but after the specific object of a desire is acquired, the mind can only hold the sense of fulfillment briefly. Meanwhile,  fulfillment induces new and stronger desire. If we call the mental state at the fulfillment of a specific desire as Happiness and the mental state with a not- yet-fulfilled desire as Greed, then greediness easily beats happiness. Individual's pursuit of happiness is an endless cycle that, at the best, can only be very briefly fulfilled.

最西边的岛上
a bit 2 pessimistic perhaps? ;-) know what U r trying 2 say
最西边的岛上
there is need & there is want. If one canTell the difference
最西边的岛上
and stay with need as must, then he/she is a winner !!!
最西边的岛上
觉得贪婪无厌不是人的本性,是后天来的。也不是所有人后天都会变得贪婪无厌。
最西边的岛上
there r people born stoic & there r people learn to be stoic
最西边的岛上
Stoic people are never greedy!! :-))
蒋闻铭
Stoics 好是好,只有圣人能做到。:)
蒋闻铭
想钱想疯了的,都是有钱人,想权想疯了的,都是有权的人。:)
最西边的岛上
圣人是已经到达了的人;还有很多在*stoic* 路上的人。我觉得世上还是好人多,不要太悲观哈 :-)
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7grizzly
What a trap!
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7grizzly
'What a mind job!' -Cypher in The Matrix
蒋闻铭
是人都不是好东西。这是我在几坛的文章的链接:

是人都不是好东西

最西边的岛上
Don't agree! 蒋老师,您是人,我是人,我们都是人。世上没有完美的人,但确实是有好人,我自己就认识几位。
蒋闻铭
民主制度最根本的假设,就是是人都不是好东西。:)
最西边的岛上
我对好人的简单定义:做事儿能从别人的角度看,能为别人着想,可以为大局/正义牺牲自己利益的人。
蒋闻铭
钱有多少,人就有多坏,权有多大,人就有多混蛋。:)
蒋闻铭
标榜自己是这样的好人的,都是骗子。真正为大局/正义牺牲自己利益的人,都是上当受骗的傻子。:)
最西边的岛上
无言 。。but I respect your opinion. 君子和而不同!
移花接木
Siddhārtha Gautama percept this human nature, and become
移花接木
Shakyamuni Buddha
蒋闻铭
我不是说普通人,是说有钱有权的人。:)
最西边的岛上
哦,那我就理解了。因为我认识的“好人”都是普通人 :-)谢谢蒋老师!!
蒋闻铭
Buda 的出发点,是众生皆苦。苦的源头,是人的欲念,要不苦,必须无欲无念。不过一个无欲无求的人,和死人也就不差什么了。