APAD: Counsel is no command.

移花接木
楼主 (文学城)
Counsel is no command. This proverb suggests that just because someone gives advice, it does not mean that they have the authority to dictate one’s actions. It implies that people should use their own judgment and make their own decisions, rather than blindly following the advice of others.

The same wording may be used in both command and counsel. Like "Do this," or "Do not this,"

Command is where a man says without expecting other reason than the will of him that says it. From this it follows manifestly that he that commands pretends thereby his own benefit: for the reason of his command is his own will only, and the proper object of every man's will is some good to himself.

Counsel is where a man says, deduces his reasons from the benefit that arrives by it to him to whom he says it. And from this it is evident that he that gives counsel pretends only (whatsoever he intends) the good of him to whom he gives it.

Therefore between counsel and command, one great difference is that command is directed to a man's own benefit, and counsel to the benefit of another man.

最西边的岛上
将在外君命(都可以)有所不受,best 2 say nothing, counsel or command ;-)
妖妖灵
“Instruction does much, but encouragement, everything.”
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7grizzly
Always be aware of motivation.
最西边的岛上
+1! "every corpse onMt.Everest wasOnce a motivatedPerson";-)
天边一片白云
Sometimes too much counsel annoying, like parents to childre
最西边的岛上
+1! know firsthand, as a child & as a parent ;-))
移花接木
君命是command
移花接木
虚心接受,坚决不改
移花接木
Yes, when counsellor wants to be dominant
移花接木
Childhood has no power to refuse
最西边的岛上
True. butMight not b when君'sUncle inPower (秦昭襄王 ;-) 玩笑哈
暖冬cool夏
Being parents doesn't mean they can give command to kids:)
最西边的岛上
we knew when we were kids but forgot when we r parents;-))