APAD: More fitting to laugh at life than to lament over it

最西边的岛上
楼主 (文学城)

The full line from Seneca the Younger, stoic philosopher of ancient Rome, is “It is more fitting for a man to laugh at life than to lament over it.”

To those who claimed stoics are emotionless and have no sense of humor: You, Are, so Wrong!!!

I stumbled upon an interesting article "The Stoics on Humor" (https://dailystoic.com/stoic-humor/ ) this morning, and it said:

"The Stoic pursuit of happiness and perfection does not preclude a sense of humor. On the contrary, it could be argued that a deep-seated ability to laugh at the absurdity of the world is an integral part of it.  The Stoics were in fact, of the mind that a humorous view of life was necessary in a world often marked by pain and suffering and overwhelming emotions.

Stoic writings are sprinkled with a dry sense of wit, here represented by Epictetus (a stoic who was born as a slave) “I have to die. If it is now, well then I die now; if later, then now I will take my lunch, since the hour for lunch has arrived – and dying I will tend to later.

And nothing should make this clearer than the fact that one of the most influential and famous Stoics, Chrysippus, died laughing. Literally. He died from belly laughing at the sight of a donkey eating figs in his garden."

So my friends, wherever you are and whatever you do on this rainy or cloudy or sunny Sunday, don't forget to have some fun. 

Cheers to all!

移花接木
stoic escaping police pursuing? only one life
移花接木
laugh or lament your decision
移花接木
We discussed QiongYao this morning in family weekly meeting
最西边的岛上
hahaha, U r always so funny ;-)) NoSir, but oneCan B stoic
最西边的岛上
after escaped from or captured by police ;-)
最西边的岛上
good 2 know. she did touch multiple generations in her ways.
最西边的岛上
& her leaving also touched people in her way. RIP.
移花接木
all my mother, sister&I chose to b2 QiongYao when time comes
最西边的岛上
same here! guess it's stoic: Live Happy & leave Happy
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7grizzly
If I cannot laugh, I'll try to lament my best.
最西边的岛上
alright 7G, if U need, "sorrow shared is sorrow halved" ;-)
移花接木
if I cannot laugh I giggle, I chuckle or even grinning
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7grizzly
Why sorrow is such a bad thing? I don't want to share mine.
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7grizzly
Well. After all that, I'll try to keep my sanity.
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7grizzly
It's part of me and gives me strength. all grist to the mill
最西边的岛上
so nothing can beat U;-) tried 2imagine how u do it, 笑S了 。。
最西边的岛上
sure, understood Brother!
天边一片白云
seems like Stoicism similar to the Buddhism.
最西边的岛上
Yes U r quite right 白云。The diff: S 4 tranquillity; B 4
最西边的岛上
liberation from suffering。
天边一片白云
I see. Thank you for the wisdom and the fun stories.
暖冬cool夏
回来一个星期了,满脑子还是中文mode. 谢谢西岛分享,说得好!
最西边的岛上
+jet lag:-)). understand totally. take Ur time. Thx 暖冬!