APAD:Repentance is good, but innocence is better

移花接木
楼主 (文学城)
Repentance is good, but innocence is better

It is better to avoid doing wrong in the first place than to have to ask for forgiveness later. Prevention is better than cure.

We all make mistakes; do things we regret later. When the consequences of our actions or words hit home we feel remorse and wish our ways had been different. We can repent, say we are sorry, and try to make amends.

How genuinely sorry are we? Sorry for what we did or feeling sorry for ourselves because we have to suffer the fall out? The purpose of emotional pain is to teach us a lesson: we act wrongly and suffer the result. Sometimes we suffer when it is not our fault, or it does not seem to be, but we often have no choice in these circumstances other than to adopt a philosophical attitude and struggle on.

Trying to understand the complexities of cause and effect is very difficult. Is it possible for any of us to lead a totally innocent life in a competitive world?

Innocence is not always enough to prevent harm coming your way but in many cases it does help to put the odds in your favor.

 

最西边的岛上
yes,innocence is golden &better to have remorse than regrets
最西边的岛上
oh, it's "treat or trick" tonight ;-))
移花接木
eh,better let the sorry go to others than to oneself
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JoyAnna.
莫名想起《流星花园》里道明寺霸道总裁般地对杉菜说“如果道歉有用,还要警察干嘛?” LOL
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JoyAnna.
顺便怀念一下那时的偶像F4—《流星雨》和庾澄庆《情非得已》。歌声里是满满的青春的回忆。

 

 

 

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JoyAnna.
Sometimes we suffer because of other people's fault,
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JoyAnna.
sometimes even due to our own fault.
J
JoyAnna.
Man is a sinner by nature.
J
JoyAnna.
Sometimes we are hurt. Sometimes we hurt others.
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JoyAnna.
It’s wise to forgive others and also protect ourselves.
移花接木
Let's congregate under this thread & confess our sins
移花接木
Amen
最西边的岛上
not right, merry-go-round, sorry-go-round ... Amen
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7grizzly
A 3rd option: neither innocence nor repentance.
最西边的岛上
eww, that’s scary;-))
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7grizzly
Epictetus seemed to have taken that option :-)

Here lies Epictetus, a slave maimed in body, the ultimate in poverty, and favored by the gods.

最西边的岛上
NotSure. I see 2 types NI&&NR: one never do anything wrong
移花接木
Like Putin, Zelenskyy, Netanyahu, Trump, Biden, etc, etc...
最西边的岛上
One purposely did wrong but refused to repent
最西边的岛上
Yes, most politicians, they need to lie/twist truth 2 stay…
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7grizzly
There seems to be a whole sweep of sinners in between :-)
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7grizzly
Hard to judge as I know none personally :-)
最西边的岛上
Yes, that’s humanity spectrum, with us included ;-))
移花接木
dumping on celebrities is safe
最西边的岛上
"the best & true apology is changed behavior" !
天边一片白云
Some mistakes are very costly, by time , money , maybe fate.