APAD:Never say mean words out of anger. Happy Easter!

妖妖灵
楼主 (文学城)

Just saw this proverb. Very nice. It is really helpful for emotional control.

“Never say mean words out of anger. Your anger will pass. But your mean words can scar a person for life. So use kind words or be silent.”

 

Happy Easter!

 

最西边的岛上
Agreed! meanWords&name-calling are big no-nos, angry or not
妖妖灵
Same thing: If some1 says mean words 2u, just ignore it.:)
妖妖灵
我一直觉得读书多的人表达能力强,修养好。修养不够的人,不会表达,就容易说mean words~
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7grizzly
What begins in anger ends in shame -- Ben Franklin
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7grizzly
读书多的人 can make it really hurt :-)
妖妖灵
Oh, the pen is mightier than the sword. 那谁不说mean words呢?:)
妖妖灵
Learned.:)
最西边的岛上
I think It depends on 教养,well read or not. ;-)
移花接木
playing APAD, gaining zen each day
最西边的岛上
So true, also a place of refuge ...
暖冬cool夏
冲动是魔鬼:))
妖妖灵
教养:well- educated. 对吗?
妖妖灵
U r good-tempered:)
妖妖灵
zen?禅?哈哈,没那么玄乎:)
妖妖灵
Yeah,a harbor:)
最西边的岛上
更准确一点是 good upbringing,指在家庭里从小养成的道德水准。详细定义:

“教养,表现在行为方式中的道德修养状况。是社会影响、家庭教育、学校教育、个人修养的结果,尤指在家庭中从小养成的行为的道德水准。 礼貌是指言语动作谦虚恭敬的表现;教养一般是指文化和品德的修养。”

https://www.zdic.net/hans/%E6%95%99%E5%85%BB

 

妖妖灵
好,学习了:)
盈盈一笑间
Happy belated Easter!Use kind words or be silent. +100086
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CBA7
So true. 谢谢灵灵分享。
妖妖灵
开心看到盈盈回来!生活工作第一,网上就是休闲放松的~
妖妖灵
A pen is mightier than a sword,四两拨千斤的智慧~
盈盈一笑间
hug hug :))
妖妖灵
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