我听了觉得很勉强,美国国内的机票,统共几百块,不同机场能省多少钱?为了省这点钱,要我来回5个小时送机场,这还是没有塞车的情况下,weekday那条路是必塞车的,我根本就是一天都搭进去了,而且我也很不喜欢开车,年纪渐渐大了开长途车不堪重负了。我就对他说,那我联系一下shuttle送你女儿去吧,他就很不高兴,说friends and family都是要互相送的。
She bought ticke without asking you. Every help has some kind limitations.
I have simular case that my cusion who fly from LA to Washington DC. When she arrived at airport asked me to pick up and send to DC hotel. That's day in winter and snowing. I said "No".
If you got car accident that you will have no peace for months. Someone who only care of herself. Who cares?
Rent a car or call taxi. You have no abligation to provide free service.
他女儿在本地上大学,但要去外州会朋友,女儿图便宜买的机票是从离我家2个半小时的机场起飞,是weekday. 他说他那天刚好有事走不开,希望我能去送他女儿去机场。
我听了觉得很勉强,美国国内的机票,统共几百块,不同机场能省多少钱?为了省这点钱,要我来回5个小时送机场,这还是没有塞车的情况下,weekday那条路是必塞车的,我根本就是一天都搭进去了,而且我也很不喜欢开车,年纪渐渐大了开长途车不堪重负了。我就对他说,那我联系一下shuttle送你女儿去吧,他就很不高兴,说friends and family都是要互相送的。
我很难想象在有其他选择的情况下,有人会要求别人做出这种劳动。可能他是觉得把我当成家庭的一员了吧,所以把我当他女儿的后妈了。那么后妈真的也有这种责任吗?
北美有名的bad driver. LOL,跟华女有一拼的是印度妇女。印女也是好多bad driver。
机票是他女儿在我不知情的情况下买好的,我事先都不知道这个trip
跟他家方向相反,我都尽量坐über的。
还没婚就把你当servant了啥人
hiring someone else to it or call a cab. You represent her family, at least he intended to be that way.
college student's father.
是我, 我会做的。虽然时间上是长了点。
假如这女儿已经很大了, 让她开到机场, 你开回来
还行, 2.5小时太过分了。
不过婚后就骂我,秋后算账哈哈
She bought ticke without asking you. Every help has some kind limitations.
I have simular case that my cusion who fly from LA to Washington DC. When she arrived at airport asked me to pick up and send to DC hotel. That's day in winter and snowing. I said "No".
If you got car accident that you will have no peace for months. Someone who only care of herself. Who cares?
Rent a car or call taxi. You have no abligation to provide free service.
家领导负责孩子的一切活动的接送。还有开车带全家去西雅图接孩子。
and his feelings, i will do things as much as he wanted to be, especially since it's his special request.
你驾长途不行
You care about him and his feelings, so you do it for him in his way. simple as that.
Vise versa, If he wans to do things for you, he should do it your way, at least try his best to do so.
还是互相不够了解吧。。。
我以前从不自己开车去波士顿机场。。也叫出租去结国内来访的亲戚。。不过现在练出来了,机场接送完再回家,一天开6,7个小时也是每年都有的事。
except a few exceptionally mature ones...
女的,不都是找男的,他那方面可能觉得你送的话安全也有面子吧,你就说我开车技术不好,怕对她女儿来说不安全。
To me, it's not really a big deal if i'm not busy that day, besides it's a good chance to chat with a college kid.
在知道这样的情况下,还这样要求我。
还搂主给安排车子接送?那个到底是他的亲生女儿不?
很不理解。
找了个能干体贴的女朋友,结果算盘落空就生气了。。。情商堪忧啊~~
后来开车接送开车6,7个小时,也是为了省钱。。
还是你们彼此了解不够。。他不知道开车去机场对你是个大负担。。你不知道他以为这就是举手之劳。。
以前叫车接送的是国内来的亲戚,现在自己接送的不是家人和亲戚。。。
我觉得接谁不是主要的,问题是彼此不了解对方。
你们都以为对方是想占便宜,我以为有可能是他不知道开车去机场往返是那么大的事。。
我的判断是:我不愿意。
如果十几年前,我一定告诉别人,开车去机场对我挑战太大。不是我不愿意去,实在勉为其难。
如果是现在,我大概会去送。。18岁的女儿,他希望他信得过的人送,我觉得也能理解。
如果是我女儿,我大概也会买便宜机票,然后开车送她去机场。
不过,会不会请男朋友送?这个,这个,要看和男友的关系了。。
0.56~0.59美刀是公司里开自己车的报销。当然公司是会同时付你工资的。你出去超过15分钟按半天计算,超过4小时按一天计算。成本详情可参考公司细则。
我并不是说你去挣钱,而是,他在买便宜机票的时候,要把你这些成本加进去。
假设你一天工资300,加停车费,过路费,加每英里$0.59,再加上她的机票300。如果还有得赚,那她就赚了。当然她要把成本还给你才行。