2014.9.1 Hey mom. Just wanted to update you on everything. My schedule has just been finalized. Took some really hard classes, but got pretty great teachers. My roommate and I get along really well. We go to church together and really enjoy spending time together. I found two Christian groups that I have been participating in. ACF and JCA. Both are great organizations and I really enjoy being in both. I also got a job! The people at Hillel absolutely loved me and hired me on the spot! The food here is getting boring really quickly. I don't know how I'll be able to eat this for another year... Hope everything is well at home. Update me!
Hi S , > I am one of the counselors on the SACAC Sweet Tea Tour. I just wanted to write to tell you how thoroughly impressed I have been with Peter . On the first day my roommate and I had to move rooms due to a faulty toilet. He made that happen immediately. Last night when we returned to Emory he was there to greet us, assisted me with some computer issues and helped tremendously by dropping some important documents for me in the mail today when I could not find a mailbox. He followed through with me to assure me everything had been sent. He is extremely poised, articulate and by far the most responsible young man I have ever met in 18 years as a college counselor. Emory is so lucky to have him as a student! > > Thank you for hosting us! > Sincerely,
2015.5.11
http://video.sinovision.net/?id=28512
第6分钟
孩子不是牛娃，连藤的边都没沾上。 但跟他自己比，强太多。 9年级 时，相当懒散，还得过F。我那时就想，他能上个社区大学，到新东方当个ESL 老师，能养活自己，就知足。可他 还不爱当老师。他那时脾气 躁得很，真当不了老师。
活动够多吧？
可人家高中4年的重心是早恋. 合合分分的, 可热闹了 .
后来他自己说，他用在学习的精力只有10%。
我可羡慕 nerd 的孩子了，大人都跟着省心。甚至，玩游戏都比早恋强。
就是想想，到老二 还是不让碰游戏。吸取教训，给老二安排了好多活动，让他忙不过来。
但, 没玩过游戏 他是绝对没影响 社交
北边的学校 是跟同学拼车 去参观的。有2个家长 当司机。
南边的，全程是他自己安排。订票，蹭住，咨询。。。
2014.9.1 Hey mom. Just wanted to update you on everything. My schedule has just been finalized. Took some really hard classes, but got pretty great teachers. My roommate and I get along really well. We go to church together and really enjoy spending time together. I found two Christian groups that I have been participating in. ACF and JCA. Both are great organizations and I really enjoy being in both. I also got a job! The people at Hillel absolutely loved me and hired me on the spot! The food here is getting boring really quickly. I don't know how I'll be able to eat this for another year... Hope everything is well at home. Update me!
2015.6.11
新出炉的 , 儿子收到的表扬信 :
只母亲节回来一周. 他申请到一份学校的暑期工。
Hi S ,
> I am one of the counselors on the SACAC Sweet Tea Tour. I just wanted to write to tell you how thoroughly impressed I have been with Peter . On the first day my roommate and I had to move rooms due to a faulty toilet. He made that happen immediately. Last night when we returned to Emory he was there to greet us, assisted me with some computer issues and helped tremendously by dropping some important documents for me in the mail today when I could not find a mailbox. He followed through with me to assure me everything had been sent. He is extremely poised, articulate and by far the most responsible young man I have ever met in 18 years as a college counselor. Emory is so lucky to have him as a student!
>
> Thank you for hosting us!
> Sincerely,
孩子小时侯都挺可爱的，好象教会是耽误时间。 - 热点讨论主题
http://bbs.wenxuecity.com/znjy/2531341.html
需要加强演讲能力
怎么融洽同子女的关系?
·不要监控孩子的电话，尊重其隐私权。
·对孩子的朋友要和蔼可亲，但不要同他们过于亲近。不要侵入他（她）的天地。
·不要在他人面前夸奖孩子，这样会使其尴尬。
·不要在他人面前批评或斥责孩子。如果必须要这样做的话，应该在无人的时候。
·母亲在他人面前要注意服饰。母亲的形象不整洁，孩子会感到羞耻。
·如果你的孩子参加学校的演出，他（她）在舞台上时你不要打手势，这样会令他（她）紧张，甚至出错。
·孩子和你一起坐自己家的车出门时，不要把汽车收音机调到你所喜爱的频道。让孩子挑选电台，但可要求他调低音量。
·在子女需要帮助时要给予帮助，但要注意方法。
·子女在一定的阶段就像需要食品一样需要爱抚，但是爱抚要适可而止，不要在公开场合这样做，更不要在朋友面前这样做。
·不要让你的孩子在外人面前表现他的“本事”，如朗诵、唱歌、跳舞或弹钢琴。如果你为他的本领自豪并希望让人家看到，那就对他提出请求。如果父母坚持让他们在外人面前表现本领，有的孩子会感觉自己像马戏团的猴子。
·不要向他的朋友和亲属讲他的怪癖，尤其不要当他的面前。任何孩子都不愿意别人知道自己的隐私。
·不要让他失去对你的信赖。他向你透露的秘密，你不要告诉别人。你一定要完全尊重他的意愿。
·在他面前不要说谎。他看到自己的父母说谎或弄虚作假，就会感觉不好。例如，父母在某人背后说坏话，而当面又装出热情的样子，孩子就会反感。
下页：父母教育是家庭教育成败的关键
玩游戏就没这么笃定了。
他是绝对没影响 社交
北边的学校 是跟同学拼车 去参观的。有2个家长 当司机。
南边的，全程是他自己安排。订票，蹭住，咨询。。。
说个好玩的:
我儿子高中时，IPAD 是用一张女孩合影 做屏保。我就不滿。你怎么不用跟弟弟的合影？
儿子 狡辩：她是我的 best friend.
我质问：“你怎么跟个女的是 best friend，怎么不是和男的是 best friend？”
说完，我就回过味了，就乐了。
这世道，得要求降低了-----儿子带回个女朋友，她是女的。
还是这么好的大学
公子帅，还上那么好的大学，恭喜
跟他自己比，强。
9年级 时，相当懒散，还得过F。我那时就想，他能上个社区大学，到新东方当个ESL 老师，能养活自己，就知足。
可他 还不爱当老师。他那时脾气 躁得很，真当不了老师。