you took two kids to his house and should respect his arrangements. So you expect him to give up his daughter's room to your daughter? Why? That is such a selfish thing to ask consider it is his house. He is ok with your daughter stays in that room when his daughter is at school. Of course she can have that room back when she is back.
现在安定了。六个人都和谐了。架没有白炒。道理越辩越清楚。以后不清楚的,也学会了好好商量,不发飚了。
现在觉得,要不就真的大度。要不就当时把事情说开。装大度恶心别人也恶心自己
其实他可能没那个意思。
但那样做,通常是解决不了问题,只会伤害感情,加深误会。
太多的一地鸡毛了。不住在一起要好的多.
能坦诚相待,能表达出自己的真实想法,也能听懂对方的想法。
越争越明。
怕的是,对自己缺乏真正的了解,不愿意或者不能清楚地表达自己,不能抛开自己想当然的逻辑去听对方,
那就麻烦了。
太多的夫妻最后走不下去,不少是缺了这些。。当然,有的是三观不一致,那根本是鸡同鸭讲。。
you took two kids to his house and should respect his arrangements. So you expect him to give up his daughter's room to your daughter? Why? That is such a selfish thing to ask consider it is his house. He is ok with your daughter stays in that room when his daughter is at school. Of course she can have that room back when she is back.
这事是楼主使小性子了,那房间就是木木的房间。 楼主可以说我们以后要改个说法了,不然亚亚听来不舒服, 就叫老二的房间好了。希望楼主今后为了孩子们和自己的幸福,提高交流技巧,不要主动制造矛盾。觉得你老公还不错。
他儿子工作离家了他就会自然而然改掉房间的称呼了。没有谁辛辛苦苦养儿子十八年,儿子刚一离家他就为你儿子而抹掉他儿子的痕迹,这不可能。他让出儿子房间已经很大度了。要是我我不一定会让出房间,因为我儿子回家会感觉家里没有他的位置了。