英文工作,中文娛樂,夾縫邊緣, 寂寞新苑,鬱悶徬徨?

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英文工作,中文娛樂,夾縫邊緣,寂寞新苑, 鬱悶徬徨 by TJKCB

Done my tasks, taking a break, coffee hot, Scrolling down, surfing around, I got hit by • 明明在美国,我为啥还要追国剧,追完后悔,我浪费时间 - 我到底追到啥了? 卷心菜牙 - ♀   (0 bytes) (1766 reads) 09/18/2023  15:14:29

• 很奇怪的问题,那为啥还要吃中餐,上中文网站,用中文敲键?以前在国内,看的小说基本都是翻译小说,为什么? 朦胧的心 - ♀   (0 bytes) (7 reads) 09/19/2023  14:17:53

which gotta a line in my head: "魯迅,兩間餘一卒,何戟獨徬徨"

"寂寞新文苑,平安舊戰場。兩間餘一卒,荷戟獨彷徨。"

[寂寞新文苑] = [英文工作]

[平安舊戰場] = [中文娛樂]

[兩間餘一卒,何戟獨徬徨] = ? ? ? 

• 倒是想追美剧,也没什么好看的。追了个marvelous mrs maisel,一二季还成,后来就越来越烂了 非常时期2021 - ♀  (0 bytes) (5 reads) 09/18/2023  20:29:13

• 美剧现在没有好看的。老的美剧还可以。语言,剧情,演员都是现在的美剧(初中生水准)没法比的。美国下坡路走的飞快 Cathy_Bay - ♀   (0 bytes) (12 reads) 09/18/2023  21:30:57

 

• 镀金时代非常好看,节奏也快,第一季只有8集。等待第二季播出 qingxian - ♀   (0 bytes) (14 reads) 09/19/2023  11:54:59

• gilded age? 一直在我的to- watch list上。还没看 Cathy_Bay - ♀   (0 bytes) (3 reads) 09/19/2023  14:49:07

• 谢谢告知这部剧!看完“来自星星的你”,打算看这部剧。 marta - ♀  (0 bytes) (0 reads) 09/19/2023  17:42:20

• 悄悄告诉你:日剧、韩剧这些也都不行了,编的越来越不走心不靠谱;-) obama_北美101 - ♂  (0 bytes) (1 reads) 09/19/2023  13:30:41

• 同意。现在韩剧也没有精品。日剧看的不多。目前英剧水准尚好,就是演员普遍不好看 Cathy_Bay - ♀   (0 bytes) (0 reads) 09/19/2023  14:45:14

• 我看了“Emily in Paris”,“Sex Education”还有“Locky"。 chufang -   (0 bytes) (6 reads) 09/19/2023  18:00:02

• Emily in paris 我也看了,还不错。 非常时期2021 - ♀  (0 bytes) (2 reads) 09/19/2023  19:14:42

• 我看了一季,还不错,激情少一点。第二季没看, 朦胧的心 - ♀   (0 bytes) (0 reads) 09/19/2023  22:52:44

Culture marginalization? 華裔多理工商醫,why not to occupy such a grand huge entertainment market? 

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• 佩服自己一把:被好奇心驱动,终于看完蜂巢,就是想知道这一大圈怎样绕回来,出场人物多,不容易。 当我们小的时候 - ♂  (132 bytes) (1505 reads) 09/18/2023  22:31:21

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• 明明在美国,我为啥还要追国剧,追完后悔,我浪费时间 - 我到底追到啥了? 卷心菜牙 - ♀   (0 bytes) (1766 reads) 09/18/2023  15:14:29

• 哈哈哈哈哈哈哈,工作的背景音而已,如果难看就果断放弃 CPA -   (0 bytes) (2 reads) 09/18/2023  18:23:46

• 就像在美国有时也会想吃豆浆油条,换换口味呗 数与形 - ♀  (0 bytes) (0 reads) 09/18/2023  18:35:47

• 不费脑子,打发时间,我弃掉的剧远远超过追完的剧。 ShirleyKay -  (0 bytes) (7 reads) 09/18/2023  18:36:21 (2)

• 倒是想追美剧,也没什么好看的。追了个marvelous mrs maisel,一二季还成,后来就越来越烂了 非常时期2021 - ♀  (0 bytes) (5 reads) 09/18/2023  20:29:13

• 美剧现在没有好看的。老的美剧还可以。语言,剧情,演员都是现在的美剧(初中生水准)没法比的。美国下坡路走的飞快 Cathy_Bay - ♀   (0 bytes) (12 reads) 09/18/2023  21:30:57

• 镀金时代非常好看,节奏也快,第一季只有8集。等待第二季播出 qingxian - ♀   (0 bytes) (14 reads) 09/19/2023  11:54:59

• gilded age? 一直在我的to- watch list上。还没看 Cathy_Bay - ♀   (0 bytes) (3 reads) 09/19/2023  14:49:07

• 谢谢告知这部剧!看完“来自星星的你”,打算看这部剧。 marta - ♀  (0 bytes) (0 reads) 09/19/2023  17:42:20

• 悄悄告诉你:日剧、韩剧这些也都不行了,编的越来越不走心不靠谱;-) obama_北美101 - ♂  (0 bytes) (1 reads) 09/19/2023  13:30:41

• 同意。现在韩剧也没有精品。日剧看的不多。目前英剧水准尚好,就是演员普遍不好看 Cathy_Bay - ♀   (0 bytes) (0 reads) 09/19/2023  14:45:14

• 我看了“Emily in Paris”,“Sex Education”还有“Locky"。 chufang -   (0 bytes) (6 reads) 09/19/2023  18:00:02

• Emily in paris 我也看了,还不错。 非常时期2021 - ♀  (0 bytes) (2 reads) 09/19/2023  19:14:42

• 我看了一季,还不错,激情少一点。第二季没看, 朦胧的心 - ♀   (0 bytes) (0 reads) 09/19/2023  22:52:44

• 那你在美国为何上中文网? north168 - ♂  (0 bytes) (5 reads) 09/19/2023  06:54:59

• 很奇怪的问题,那为啥还要吃中餐,上中文网站,用中文敲键?以前在国内,看的小说基本都是翻译小说,为什么? 朦胧的心 - ♀   (0 bytes) (7 reads) 09/19/2023  14:17:53

• +100!!! Tiger666 - ♂  (0 bytes) (0 reads) 09/19/2023  19:57:32

• 最近看了英剧 切尔西侦探 还看得下去, 有2 季 jayLang - ♀  (0 bytes) (3 reads) 09/19/2023  16:27:20

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美文欣赏 《影的告别》写于1924年9月24日,时值五四落潮时期,五四文化阵营破裂,鲁迅写诗聊以自慰:“寂寞新文苑,平安旧战场,两间余一卒,荷戟独彷徨。”遥远

呐喊之后,鲁迅为什么彷徨了? 网易 https://www.163.com › article   ·Translate this page   Feb 27, 2020 — 两间余一卒,荷戟独彷徨。” 本诗可见鲁迅的彷徨并不是完全消极的,它不是颓唐,而是有进取,有奋斗。反映了作者的一种心境。 新文苑:指“五四”以后的 ...

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盈盈一笑间
哈哈,这也纠结?追国剧不行,那就追美剧!回头我来继续贴老土的老友记。敬请美才女关注!:))
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Just breathe.
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TJKCB
[Friends] (1994-2004)? witty I'll Be There for You.Crush?

[Friends] (1994-2004) witty one-liners and hilarious jokes Opening theme: "I'll Be There for You"; 

Six young men and women live in the same apartment complex and face life and love together in Manhattan, New York City. As they're constantly sticking their noses into each another's businesses, as well as sometimes swapping romantic partners, the group always get into the kind of comic situations that most other people never experience, especially during breakups. First episode date: September 22, 1994 (USA) Writers: Marta KauffmanDavid CraneRobert CarlockDana KleinMORE Awards: Primetime Emmy Award for Outstanding Comedy SeriesMORE Final episode date: May 6, 2004    
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Somewhat but how related to our life here in West?
盈盈一笑间
英文工作,中文娛樂?纠结吗?把纠结的人都请到美坛来!用英文娱乐呗。ZT 妖妖: 一起玩,一起学。不用再纠结!:))
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TJKCB
Sharp! You got my point: When in Rome, Do as the Romans Do

Sharp! You got my point: When in Rome, Do as the Romans Do

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Especially in the west.
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TJKCB
How so? Could you elaborate more? Examples?
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Drugs, depression, suicide, homelessness, ..., across board.

It's a sick society. No?

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TJKCB
Yes or No. Yes: Negatives got sick. No: All positives w/o Ne

 

Better to stay informed than misled. Right?

Across the board, news lines concerning critical issues like Drugs, Depression, Suicide, Homelessness, and more were disseminated in the West. These reports encompassed both positive and negative aspects of these challenges. As a result, they had a varied impact:

In the West, where the news lines covered both positive and negative aspects, they had a noticeable effect. Those already grappling with these issues were made more aware, and action was prompted among them.

In contrast, the East countries received only positive news, with no mention of the negative aspects. This approach aimed to maintain a focus on optimism and well-being. However, it also created a heightened sense of concern, fear, or unease about the pressing societal problems, as these issues were largely absent from the news reports in the East.

盈盈一笑间
When in Rome, Do as the Romans Do!
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"Better informed than misled." There are assumptions.

Maybe I've been spoiled but I don't think the west got it all right.

方外居士
The issue is I don’t know what Romans do.
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Feeling like you've lost your spark?Well, you are not alone.
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act like Roman, eat like Roman, dress like Roman How?

act like Roman, eat like Roman, dress like Roman How?

Here are some rules and tips for effectively mingling and integrating into a foreign culture:

Be Open-Minded: Approach the new culture with an open mind and a willingness to learn. Avoid making quick judgments or stereotypes about the people and their customs.

Learn the Language: Even if you can't become fluent, making an effort to learn the local language can go a long way in building connections and understanding the culture better. Locals often appreciate it when you try to speak their language.

Respect Local Etiquette: Study and understand the etiquette and social norms of the culture. This includes rules for greetings, dining, gift-giving, and personal space. Be especially mindful of gestures and behaviors that may be considered rude or offensive.

Listen and Observe: Actively listen to what locals say, and observe how they interact with each other. This can provide valuable insights into their values, priorities, and social dynamics.

Engage in Cultural Activities: Participate in local cultural events, festivals, and activities. This can be an excellent way to meet people, learn about traditions, and immerse yourself in the culture.

Make Local Friends: Seek opportunities to make friends with locals. Join clubs, classes, or community groups to connect with people who share your interests. Building personal relationships can deepen your understanding of the culture.

Ask Questions: Don't hesitate to ask questions about the culture, history, and customs. Most people are happy to share their knowledge and help you understand their way of life.

Adapt to Local Food: Be open to trying local cuisine, even if it's different from what you're used to. Food is a significant part of any culture, and sharing meals with locals can be a bonding experience.

Respect Local Beliefs: Be respectful of local religious beliefs and practices, even if they differ from your own. Attend religious ceremonies or events if you're invited and follow any dress codes or customs associated with them.

Stay Informed: Stay informed about current events and issues in the country. Being aware of local news and politics can help you engage in meaningful conversations with locals.

Travel Slowly: If possible, spend extended periods in the foreign culture rather than rushing through tourist destinations. This allows for a deeper and more meaningful experience.

Accept Cultural Differences: Understand that not everything will be the same as in your home country, and that's okay. Embrace the differences, as they are what make each culture unique.

Be Patient: Integration takes time, and there will likely be moments of frustration or discomfort. Be patient with yourself and with the process of adjusting to a new culture.

Remember that cultural integration is a gradual process, and it's okay to make mistakes along the way. What's important is your genuine effort to respect and adapt to the local culture while sharing your own perspective and experiences as well. This mutual exchange can lead to meaningful connections and a deeper appreciation of the world's diversity.

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The expression "When in Rome, do as the Romans do" means that when you are in a foreign place or culture, you should adapt to the customs, traditions, and behaviors of the local people. It's a way of saying that you should respect and follow the local norms rather than imposing your own customs or habits.

To give you a better idea of what Romans typically do or what this phrase implies, here are some general guidelines:

Dress Code: Dress modestly and appropriately according to the local fashion and customs. In Rome, people often dress stylishly but conservatively.

Greeting: Italians, including Romans, often greet with a kiss on both cheeks among friends and acquaintances. A handshake is also common in formal situations.

Mealtime: Italians take their meals seriously. Lunch is usually the main meal of the day, and dinner is eaten later in the evening. It's customary to enjoy long, leisurely meals with family and friends.

Punctuality: Italians can be somewhat flexible when it comes to punctuality, but it's generally a good idea to be on time for appointments and meetings.

Language: While many Romans and Italians speak English, it's appreciated if you make an effort to learn a few basic Italian phrases. It shows respect for the local culture.

Tipping: Tipping is common in restaurants and cafes, but it's not as generous as in some other countries. Usually, rounding up the bill or leaving a small tip is sufficient.

Respect for Historic Sites: When visiting historic sites and churches, dress modestly and follow any specific rules or guidelines posted at the location. Silence is often expected in churches.

Cultural Awareness: Be aware of local customs, holidays, and traditions. Italians have a rich cultural heritage, and participating or showing an interest in local events can be appreciated.

Driving and Traffic: Rome is known for its chaotic traffic. If you're driving, be prepared for aggressive driving styles and pay attention to traffic rules.

Manners: Politeness and good manners are highly valued in Italian culture. Saying "please" (per favore) and "thank you" (grazie) goes a long way.

Remember that while these are general guidelines for adapting to Roman culture, there can be variations within the city and among individuals. It's always a good idea to observe the behavior of locals and ask for guidance if you're unsure about what's appropriate in a specific situation. Showing respect and an interest in the local way of life is usually well-received in any foreign culture.

方外居士
Thanks a lot for such a well-quantized culture details!