孩子有anxiety，depression大学不能打工，可以要求抚养费直到上完大学么？可以要求帮助抚养超过18岁读研究生的孩子么？如果法律规定不给 但双方有协议有关抚养费和房子贷款分担，可以有法律效力么？多谢
首先，婚姻财产（community property）对半分是起点。具体调整需要看情况。
除此以外，你们也可能有separate property，see https://hannlawfirm.com/blog/understanding-division-of-property-in-a-california-divorce/
第二，你工资高，对方工资低，对方可以要求赡养费。要得到与否，要看具体情况。
see https://www.renkinlaw.com/spousal-support-payments-ca
第三，小孩满十八岁就没有抚养费。
If they’re still in high school full-time and cannot support themselves, the duty ends when they graduate or turn 19, whichever happens first.
https://selfhelp.courts.ca.gov/child-support
https://selfhelp.courts.ca.gov/spousal-support
Long-term support is more common when:
The marriage was long
One person earns significantly more than the other
https://selfhelp.courts.ca.gov/child-support#calculate
另外，不要不搞明白就自己发明法律，财产分配和家暴没关系，和孩子跟谁住没有关系。
孩子有anxiety，depression大学不能打工，可以要求抚养费直到上完大学么？可以要求帮助抚养超过18岁读研究生的孩子么？如果法律规定不给 但双方有协议有关抚养费和房子贷款分担，可以有法律效力么？多谢
首先，婚姻财产（community property）对半分是起点。具体调整需要看情况。
除此以外，你们也可能有separate property，see https://hannlawfirm.com/blog/understanding-division-of-property-in-a-california-divorce/
第二，你工资高，对方工资低，对方可以要求赡养费。要得到与否，要看具体情况。
see https://www.renkinlaw.com/spousal-support-payments-ca
第三，小孩满十八岁就没有抚养费。
The duty to pay support typically ends when a child turns 18 and graduates high school
If they’re still in high school full-time and cannot support themselves, the duty ends when they graduate or turn 19, whichever happens first.
https://selfhelp.courts.ca.gov/child-support
https://selfhelp.courts.ca.gov/spousal-support
Long-term support is more common when:
The marriage was long
One person earns significantly more than the other
https://selfhelp.courts.ca.gov/child-support#calculate
另外，不要不搞明白就自己发明法律，财产分配和家暴没关系，和孩子跟谁住没有关系。