挖坑:How to improve EQ?

妖妖灵
楼主 (文学城)

Emotional quotient or EQ is the ability to understand, use, and manage your own emotions in positive ways to relieve stress, communicate effectively, empathize with others, overcome challenges and defuse conflict. 

 

How to improve EQ?

1. Sincere

2. Think out of the box(换位思考)

3. Show your empathy(同情心)

4. Insight does not crack wise (看破不说破)?

5. 傻人有傻福:)(英文怎么说?)

What are your opinions? 

 

 

 

 

心存善念
be a good listener, don't always try to win,fortune favors fools
心存善念
no.1 could be a double bladed sword - people often say

"I yell at you is for your own benefits!", they could really mean it sincerely :D

妖妖灵
What u say is so true. I believe fortune favors fools. :)
妖妖灵
So,don't be always straightforward.:)
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Lily2005
Observe other people and oneself is a important way to improve
心存善念
the golden rule

己之不欲,勿施于人;己之所欲,慎施于人。

妖妖灵
That‘s so true. I leart with others on how to deal with tough si
妖妖灵
tough situation.
心存善念
takes a lot of skills to say in the right way

I'm far from be able to do that

妖妖灵
Right on.
青松站
Open yourself& reach out-especially to the young ones-;))..
心存善念
work out and keep energy high

when you're tired, your mood is down, and your patience is short, which will lead to a down spiral...

心存善念
应该有个"每日一坑"的节目 :-)
枫林晓
5. 傻人有傻福:)(英文怎么说?)

true color 是我应对一切的情商之本。

妖妖灵
是的,我最近和一些学生交流很多,真是太喜欢他们了,感受到互通有无、助人为乐:)
妖妖灵
所以,心情愉快,情商也会增高:)
妖妖灵
一年前花董就有这个想法,希望能自觉成功。我现在在抛砖:)
妖妖灵
魔羯是什么特点来着?:)查了一下true color,是真心情,爽真!:)可以写首歌:)

One's true or honest beliefs, thoughts, convictions, biases, desires, etc.; one's real personality, character, or disposition.

 

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xiaoruo
看破不说破:)
妖妖灵
这点太难了,我的修行还不够,还做不到:)
唐古
ignorance is bliss
妖妖灵
不值得的忽略,是这个意思吧:)
甜虫虫
Being caring and having empathy

Try to understand and care about people's feelings.  Here people include yourself as well. :)

妖妖灵
虫虫has always been considerate. Shouldn't someone be selfless?:)
唐古
不知即为福, 难得糊涂
妖妖灵
Lily来参加活动吧,还有四天(11月3日)结束:)

https://bbs.wenxuecity.com/mysj/251796.html

 

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ahniu
常常祷告

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妖妖灵
欢迎ahniu来美坛玩!一定是有信仰的人,有信仰的人很幸福。来美坛参加活动吧,11月3日周三结束。会有颁奖典礼:

https://bbs.wenxuecity.com/mysj/251796.html

 

甜虫虫
若有好的边界感,有同理心,和能考虑别人的感受,就会注意言行措辞,让人感觉温暖,不会让别人和自己难堪。情商不会低的 :)
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移花接木
EQ 负数的,在此仰望楼上各位
妖妖灵
这个回答,你的EQ也太高啦:)
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LYJiang
傻人有傻福:

Happiness embraces a fool when least expected.

妖妖灵
LOL. Like your translation.:)