挖坑:How to avoid being discriminated by others?

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beautifulwind
楼主 (文学城)

I would say,

neglecting your own race,

speaking fluent English, 

donot always keep silence,

neither arrogant nor cheap

What do you guys think?

雪晶
Be yourself, always be yourself~~~
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beautifulwind
That‘s true. On top of it, also try to improve yourself. :)
盈盈一笑间
Come to 美坛, and speak fluent English. LOL
盈盈一笑间
Then get involved with people. Communication and collaboration.
盈盈一笑间
If discrimination happens, SPEAK UP, and fight for your rights!
b
beautifulwind
Right on!:)
b
beautifulwind
Second this:)
b
beautifulwind
That’s right!Do not keep silence!:)
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WXCTEATIME
Beat or sue anyone who dare to discriminate you.
移花接木
Not that simple, discrimination exists as long as man lives;

admit, accept its existence, and face it.

start from self exam:

谁敢保证自己绝对没有歧视他人的言行思想? 

在国内大城市打工的农民工, 是得不到城市居民或白领的平等目光. 同时打工白领也不会被资本家同等看待.

不仅仅是因为贫穷, 富人也有被歧视的时候, 比如土豪这个字, 就有嘲讽人家没受过教育的意思.

胖子, 体型的歧视; 还有各种生理缺陷专属的歧视用词, 只不过人们都司空见惯,习以为常.

多年前有个笑话, 广州人看到外地人总觉得比他们穷, 上海人觉得外地人比他们土, 北京人觉得自己是外地人的上级.

说北京人对上海人的最高评价是:你看起来不像个上海人, 是因为北京人觉得上海人小气.

以上所说还只是说着同一种语言的同族之间. 

到了国外我们的角色就是外来打工,再有钱受教育再高, 也会被先来者当作外来者. 英语说的再流利也不如本地街边乞丐.

有个印度人说, 印度英语才是标准英语, 因为印度说英语的人比英国人多好几倍. 多自信!

加拿大在用词上对歧视也比较苛刻, 比如问话时,直接点名对方,口音,肤色,等很容易被人以歧视抓住把柄.

有个华人老太太在面试房客时因提问, 你是黑人, 你是单身母亲被人投诉歧视.

我意思是说, 歧视就是人的一种本性, 天然存在, 用不着怕,也无法从人性中抹去,泰然处之罢了. 自信最重要.

我的老板就是个典型的 arrogant and cheap, 他有家族传承的金融生意, 自己有几个企业, 我觉得他成功的诀窍就是cheap.


Who can guarantee that he has absolutely no words, deeds and thoughts that discriminate against others? Workers from country who work in large cities do not receive equal attention from urban residents or white-collar workers. At the same time, white-collar workers are not treated equally by capitalists. It's not just because of poverty, but also when the rich are discriminated against. For example, the word 'local tyrant' has the meaning of mocking people who are not educated. Fat people, body type discrimination; there are various kinds of specific discrimination terms for physical defects, but people are accustomed to it.

There was a joke many years ago.People in Guangzhou always felt people from other regions poorer than them. People in Shanghai thought that people from other places were old fashion, and people in Beijing felt that they were superiors to the rest of the country.

It is said that Beijingers' best comment of Shanghainese is: you don't look like a Shanghainese, because Beijingers think Shanghainese are stingy.

What I said above is only among people of the same race who speak the same language.

When we go abroad, our role is to work as a migrant. No matter how rich and educated we are, we will be regarded as outsiders by the first comers. No matter how fluent our English is, it can not be more fluent than local street beggars.

An Indian friend of mine said that Indian English should be the standard English, because there are many times more English speakers in India than the British. How confident!

Canada is also harsher in terms of discrimination. An old Chinese lady asked such questions when interviewing a potential tenant, are you black, and are you a single mother, who was then prompted by a complaint.

I mean, discrimination is a kind of human nature, it exists naturally, there is no need to be afraid, nor can it be erased from human nature, just take it calmly. Confidence is the most important thing. My boss is a typical arrogant and cheap. He has a family-owned financial business and himself owns several enterprises. I think his key to success is cheap.

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beautifulwind
自己要强大,提升形象,我觉得很管用。
b
beautifulwind
花董英文这么好,又幽默敢说,到哪都是提升我们形象的:)

你这是用了google translate?:)

唐古
平和 自信 斗争
b
beautifulwind
Right on!Plus,speak fluent English!:)
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AP33912
be like my uncle BL(dressing, talking, moving and no yelling):
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AP33912
https://youtu.be/TmqQpMm3iTc
盈盈一笑间
字字珠玑!
b
beautifulwind
英文真是不用说,就在美国生的。赞!:)
b
beautifulwind
谢谢名校FAN点赞!欢迎来美坛玩!让我们一起在美坛不知不觉边玩边提升英语!:)
陶陶三
AP, watch this~~~

 

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WXCTEATIME
长得像泰森就没问题了;)
雪晶
Well well well, I already accepted myself~~~haha~~~
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AP33912
谢谢,从李耳到B Lee, 2500年的传承。
雪晶
Why you feel being discriminated?

Not quite understanding. If you are strong enough, you will not feel been discreiminated. Only when you feel been discriminated, then you are discriminated~~~

陶陶三
Uncle BL说这段话时的表情~~~哈哈。
b
beautifulwind
LOL。Here,“yourself”means “general speaking”,泛指:)
b
beautifulwind
明天等着花董挖坑儿:)
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LinMu
外国人在中国吃香喝辣,但中国人在骨子里也有歧视
一荷
这文章很有哲理,每个人有歧视别人的权利也可以说没有。其实每个人活在自己的精神世界里