I don't think Japanese people have anything special
I had a classmate when I was at Georgia Tech. He's nice and smart, but I was already an American citizen and spoke perfect English, he wouldn't ever relate me as someone came from China. I don't really care about the past anymore. One thing strange is this seemingly open minded person didn't want to date anyone in the U.S, even though we were both single and open for relationships.
I don't think he understood that dating someone didn't mean they must have a long term relationship, it just means they like each other at that moment. I would say Japanese are still a lot more conservative than Americans are. I've adopted the American attitude towards dating and sex. I think if the couple might feel happy and are single, there's no restrictions in having relationships, and it could be just one day, one month or forever, depending on the circumstances. I had no long term plans either but I was willing to give it a try. So I was pretty disappointed at his demured hmm and ah... and I was like, why did you feel ok to have meals and drink together then? Most people would be happy to gear towards the next step. Why not?
I bet this guy had no plan to stay longer so I've never met or heard from him again after graduation.
That's the only Japanese guy I've ever met in real life. Sometime I would be poundering about him. He looked like a child, short sized and joyous, but inside of him is a very old man! He's so calculated and shrewd. Maybe that's how they are as a group?
打过几次交道是比较轻松愉快的，即便是在南京这么敏感的地方，大家也没有什么芥蒂，吃饭喝酒虽然语言半通不通的，还是很愉快。我给他们提供了几次咨询服务，后来有一次我看出来他犹豫了一下，不过没有开口讲价，还是照付了。我后来心里有点抱歉，感觉收得是偏高了。
读研究生的时候，有的日本同学不错，有的从一开始就能看出对中国人有敌意。我也无所谓，大家不来往就是。
最近air bnb，接待了一家日本人，整体是不错的，男的是来做医生的。老婆很漂亮，两个娃也很可爱。有意思的是，一开始他们以为我是台湾人，就很开心，后来一聊说是中国人，能看出他们表情一愣，然后就比较客气有距离感了。可见如今中国人确实不那么受欢迎。不过日本人真的是很不错，走的时候把房间打扫得干干净净，卫生间里真的是像传说中一根毛都没有。
老说抗日战争的事情有什么意义。毕竟那是快一百年以前的事，我家也有死在抗日战场上的祖辈，还是团长，要是没死估计国民政府里混上个将军没问题。那个年代的日本和今天的日本已经有根本性的不同，从半封建的黑暗社会转变成了有宪法选举议会的的现代发达国家，继续纠缠的意义是什么呢？如果要纠缠，那满清扬州屠城要不要继续纠缠？五胡乱华要不要继续纠缠？苏军在东北烧杀奸淫要不要纠缠？
有些人，中共害死千万人闭口不提，8964大屠杀不提，老盯着日本。今天的日本已经变了，中共可还是那个中共。
两件事。一个是记住历史，记住贫弱的国家会招强邻欺负。一个是放眼未来，
我们都生活在现在，不背历史包袱，凡以平等善意相待的，不要整天纠缠你祖先欺负了我。不然这账算没完了。越南人，朝鲜人是不是也得记中国人的仇啊。
在美国的中国人（特别是来留学的）几乎个个凤毛麟角；他们日本人（虽然出国工作拿双份工资）倒看不出几个智力很高的，。。。
抱俄国腿的不是中共？可以把整个国家封三年，六四文革都不准讨论的组织还不够邪恶么？只能说你还太年轻不知道中共里面的黑暗，只看到表面上的光鲜。
I had a classmate when I was at Georgia Tech. He's nice and smart, but I was already an American citizen and spoke perfect English, he wouldn't ever relate me as someone came from China. I don't really care about the past anymore. One thing strange is this seemingly open minded person didn't want to date anyone in the U.S, even though we were both single and open for relationships.
I don't think he understood that dating someone didn't mean they must have a long term relationship, it just means they like each other at that moment. I would say Japanese are still a lot more conservative than Americans are. I've adopted the American attitude towards dating and sex. I think if the couple might feel happy and are single, there's no restrictions in having relationships, and it could be just one day, one month or forever, depending on the circumstances. I had no long term plans either but I was willing to give it a try. So I was pretty disappointed at his demured hmm and ah... and I was like, why did you feel ok to have meals and drink together then? Most people would be happy to gear towards the next step. Why not?
I bet this guy had no plan to stay longer so I've never met or heard from him again after graduation.
That's the only Japanese guy I've ever met in real life. Sometime I would be poundering about him. He looked like a child, short sized and joyous, but inside of him is a very old man! He's so calculated and shrewd. Maybe that's how they are as a group?
你是没国内经历现在的失业潮，站着说话腰不疼。
那么请问习和胡温有没有区别？胡温和江朱有没有区别？江朱和邓有没有区别？邓和毛有没有区别？照你这个“中共可还是那个中共”的结论，合着统一了中国然后搞文革的毛，和改革开放但是弄出个六四的邓，取消军队经商的江，九龙治水的胡，以及现在大权独揽的习，都是一样的？毛时代资本家能入党吗？荣毅仁是什么时候入党的你知道吗？毛时代是“大力发展经济吗”？邓说“军队要忍耐”，而现在要“科技强军”，这一样吗？江胡时代开始废除干部终身制，隔代指定接班人，这些东西毛时代有吗？习刚开始时有点开倒车的意思，讲政治轻经济，但是现在明显看出来被现实打脸，要开始搞经济了，而习在军事现代化上的投入是中共建政以来最有成效的。看看上面这些例子，你怎么会说中共从来没有变化呢？
毛时代是维阶级论，之后的四十年经济飞速发展，政治上发展缓慢，但是还是有发展的，民主自由人权和毛时代比进步还是很大的，只不过比不上经济发展的速度而已。至于现在，你可以说习确实有些走倒车的意思，但是和毛时代比起来，中共的统治思路还是有天壤之别的！五六十年代政治红线非常多，一不小心就被打入十八层地狱了，而现在中国的政治红线基本上就是“统一，稳定，主权”这三个（不要喊XX独立，不要煽动暴力事件，不要勾结外来势力牺牲本国权益），只要不碰这三个红线，基本上没人会限制你的自由。中共的这些变化，你看不到吗？
如果这些你都看不到，就盯着文革和六四，但是却要有意识地忘却日本侵华，你自己想想，你是不是双标？是不是偏狭？是不是“逢中必反”？
还是在中国人圈里混，活跃在中文网上，又及其鄙视中国人。骂中国捧日本显示自己有素质。还有一大堆捧场的。
有人给日本人做供应商。日本人不但不会压价，还特别在意他是否能赚钱。
给比亚迪，小米理想啥的你懂的。各种压价。能把钱要回来都要庆祝。