I was in a university in a city not Beijing then. My parents experienced the whole event. They saw a nine year old boy been shot dead. Our home is far away from TianAn Square, It is in XueYuan Lu. So it must be a stray bullet. My mom is 69 years old now. She cannot forgive. She told me that it was good luck that I was not in Beijing then. She told me "if you see the boy with your own eyes, you will never forget, and never forgive."
“The stupid neither forgive nor forget; the naïve forgive and forget; the wise forgive but do not forget.”
― Thomas Stephen Szasz
六四的时候我们班上都去游行，惟独一个男生不参加，因为没有课上，他天天和女友去看电影逛街。我们恨他恨得不行，甚至讨论是否应该把他打一顿。当然最后没有打。
后来回想起来，为什么会因为政治而把一个人妖魔化而忘记了他９９％的人性？六四运动前，大家都是好朋友，共同谈理想恋爱，结果差点因为政治翻脸。大陆共产党的教育一向是把一个人的政治立场放在第一位，反革命（无论革命的定义是什么）就要赶尽杀绝，我们受到这种灌输，在六四中也有这种想法。
现在我也有自己的政治立场，但是我不再认为，政治观点和我对立的人是坏人。我假设他们主观上在做自己认为正确的事情，他们也爱自己的家庭，也有自己的道德信仰。我憎恨的人也会因为生老病死落泪。我不会因为一个人和我政见不合而拒绝和他交谈，拒绝做朋友。
推广到生活纠纷上上，和你有纠纷的人，绝大多数不是坏人，你要设法想象对方也爱自己的家庭，也有自己的道德信仰，也是在极力寻找宇宙中的公正点。你要看到对方９９％的人性，理解他的合理的利益，不要什么事情都想到证明你需要赢。如果双方都有寻找公正的诚意和技巧，不难达成妥协。
But I say to you, Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you。 Matthew 5:44
I was in a university in a city not Beijing then. My parents experienced the whole event. They saw a nine year old boy been shot dead. Our home is far away from TianAn Square, It is in XueYuan Lu. So it must be a stray bullet. My mom is 69 years old now. She cannot forgive. She told me that it was good luck that I was not in Beijing then. She told me "if you see the boy with your own eyes, you will never forget, and never forgive."
天亮后经过学院路，看到有被烧的军车，没有在那里听说有人被打死，当然后来大家都不说了，所以可能性是有，不知道多大。
If you were there, you won't miss him. Many people was surround the van crying.
这个让我挺不明白的，9岁的孩子半夜12点还跑出去？家长呢？
属于the stupid。除非按天安门母亲们的要求：真相，赔偿，问责。
广场被打死以数千计。那时候我们在一起住的有十几个，来自美国各地的大学。大家都被美国媒体煽动到发疯的地步。大家几乎都辞了餐馆工搞活动，我们夜间开车到中国驻华盛顿大使馆示威。今天想起来，那时真是年轻，单纯！