My point is Americans also take care of their parents. But their parents raise them up to be independent individual. They don't expect their kids to pay back. Their relationship is more like friends instead of slaver owner and slave. They love their kids not less than Chinese parents love theirs. Their kids will still take care of them. If for any reason, their kids cannot, they won't complain and whine. But some Chinese parents are begging and threatening, these things only make the situation worse. Your way of thinking are too old fashioned and I am sure this is a burden for your kids and yourself. Form your posts, money consumes your way of thinking and life. You don't really enjoy other aspects of life. When you look at things around you, you interpret them the way that you are thinking instead of looking deeper.
孩子也能经常来看看。可是如果你随孩子移民美国，你在国内的财产都会因为住养老院消耗尽的。他们不信，我就把我们亚城的养老院的价格给他们看，他们说这么高呀？那美国穷人怎么办？我就告诉他们，美国穷人没有财产，收入低于一千美金，你们不够格，以前中国人没有多少财产，收入低到可以忽略，现在不行了，除非你们把自己的房子过户给孩子，他们不说话了。
就算是孩子出国的，如果说孩子在国外有更好的发展机会，父母应该未来让他们将来能更方便地照顾自己而让他们放弃更好的发展机会吗？
何况儿子不一定有老子混的那么滋润，到时有没有能力送孙子出去，还不一定呢。
有钱，自然老人日子舒心。没钱，就算在同一个城市，否则还是没用，因为他的大多数时间用在养家糊口上了。
以前地主坛还是某个坛讨论过这个问题，一个回复我觉得很有道理，就是说，拿美帝的收入去赡养老人，总比国内的收入去赡养，来的宽裕吧。这还没包括，老人的钱花光了，过来拿福利的事。
就算再自私一点，也是把子女看作是自己生命的延续，总是愿意让他们走得更高更远，能经历自己所不曾经历，完成自己所不曾完成的事，享有自己所不曾享有的幸福。
这还没算为孩子买房的6个钱包
而且久病床前无孝子。指望孩子的，想想你自己是怎么对父母的？你当时是选择在父母身边照顾还是选择为了孩子漂洋过海去国外？比如发贴那位，他自己都没在床前照顾父母。奇怪怎么会觉得他孩子会为了他回国照顾他？
My point is Americans also take care of their parents. But their parents raise them up to be independent individual. They don't expect their kids to pay back. Their relationship is more like friends instead of slaver owner and slave. They love their kids not less than Chinese parents love theirs. Their kids will still take care of them. If for any reason, their kids cannot, they won't complain and whine. But some Chinese parents are begging and threatening, these things only make the situation worse. Your way of thinking are too old fashioned and I am sure this is a burden for your kids and yourself. Form your posts, money consumes your way of thinking and life. You don't really enjoy other aspects of life. When you look at things around you, you interpret them the way that you are thinking instead of looking deeper.
Live in USA, hate it and don't go back. Demand his kids to take care of him, but don't take care of his own ...