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pennycomp
楼主 (文学城)

我是开小餐馆的比不上各位大老板, 去年受到启发买了俩三投资房,因为经验不足开始的时候,有时和租客闹的不愉快。 有一个黑人单妈态度特别不好,想租约到了就让她走人, 结果疫情来了,她也没找借口不交房租, 赶人的事情就 不了了之。现在想想人人立场不同, 只有不要触犯底线,睁一只眼闭一只眼, 水至清则无鱼。

 

老朽
你是对的,只有实践才有体会,尽量不要把关系搞僵。房客是我们的衣食父母,不要感觉有几个破房子就

有什么了不起。有些房客容易相处,有些不容易,只要不是太过分,让一步算了,房租收到就好。

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pangpangxiongxiong
老朽睿智有卓识
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hz82000
刚出国穷,租个房子再租出个卧室是平平常常的事,房东

根本不管

东施爱美
是的。
闲来无事事
赞成!最不喜欢当个地主就事儿事的主儿

我一共租过两次房,一次上学时租学校的,一次是搬家买的房子因为某种原因close 晚了,这次租房三个月的我只住了1个半月,因为知道只住一个月所以啥都没放就一个床,基本外边吃饭,就这临走房经理还百般挑剔说这个墙有划痕,地板不干净,窗子有雨痕。逼的我直接拿出照片告诉她我们住进来的时候冰箱等都是藏的,落地窗是满满的雨痕,我们这只是洗干净后早上的雨,这里每天早上下雨,地板和墙壁和我们完全没有关系,本来如此。她虽然勉强道歉说是忘记了,还是扣住我们的钱到三个月满了人都住进去了才给退。

所以我最讨厌那种管理个房子就觉得自己高人一等,不是顾客是自己的上帝吗?怎么到地主这里就反了?我和我的租客我一直抱持租户给我饭吃是我上帝的态度。有事好商量。这不昨天一个租客电话过来说出车祸了,车是leasing to own的车,还有一年,但是给报销了,赔款没有他们的事,所以必须换一个新车需要自己出一部分钱。马上到期的房租想等今天给一部分,10号给剩余会给late fee,我立马想到的是人没事吧,说一家四口都没事,这一家是黑人。但就是要上班用车,所以钱先拿去买车,我告诉她不用付 late fee, 也不用分两次给,到10号前一起给就好。人家很感谢。

以前一个也是黑人一个人租我四房四窝三厅的豪宅,我们想去看看几次都说不在这,出差了不让我们去,我们也没有疑心,后来她网络有问题约的修理时间她不在,就问我们能不能那个时候去给她开门接待修理师,我们进去一看,房子和没有用过一样。我们甚至还觉得她应该找给伙伴一起住,不然一个人住这个大房子为啥啊? 但人家只鞋子就有500双放一间屋子摆。你管得着吗?相互尊重,相互协商,如果不是无恶不赦就没有必要剑拔弓张,给人留条活路,也是给自己留条活路。

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redkiwi
房租收不到就没办法了退一步了
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mickeylili
都要付出一些才学到经验。第一个房,把1200$的租告打发走,接手房子后,翻新。然后空置三个月,租出了1050$。现在,我再也不会
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DoubleDelight
赞同!我觉得当房东情商也很重要。
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不至于吧,你没看到这里的房东2,3个月都没收到房租才想起来要不要赶人?
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chris08540
血淋淋的教训:又一房东被房客斩首。别光为了赚钱、赌气,拿着自己起草的几页Lease太当回事,最后把自己的人头搞丢了

https://www.zerohedge.com/political/connecticut-man-charged-decapitating-his-landlord-samurai-sword

Jerry David Thompson was arraigned on Tuesday in Superior Court in Hartford, charged with "using a samurai sword to decapitate his landlord" this weekend. He was ordered to be held in lieu of $2 million in bail.

Thompson is refusing to speak with police and is claiming he is a sovereign citizen, according to the Hartford Courant. He has also reportedly refused to speak with a public defender and is not being represented by an attorney. His case was continued to August 18 by presiding Judge Ann Lynch. 

Thompson was identified as a suspect by friends of victim Victor King, who had rented him a room. The two were said to have had a dispute about Thompson not paying his rent when Thompson threatened King with the sword.

 

King went to Hartford Police on Saturday about the threats, one day before he was killed. He told police Thompson had been "waving the sword" at him.

On Sunday, King's friends called the police when they couldn't reach him. Sunday afternoon, police forced their way into King's home, only to find "a lot of blood and King’s badly slashed body covered in bedding."

Thompson was quickly tracked by police to the city's North End, where he was apprehended and brought to the police station. Once in custody, he refused to say anything. He wrote on a sheet of paper “paper in glove compart in Jeep is all you need.”

The paperwork suggested that Thompson viewed himself as a sovereign citizen and not subject to the law.

King was a retiree who previously worked for Travelers and was "an accomplished bridge player". “He was very good at it. Very good at teaching others to play it. Just a kind and gentle person whose first love was bridge,” the victim’s cousin said.

Paul Linxwiler, executive editor of the Bridge Bulletin, called King a Grand Life Master, “which is our highest rank,” according to the NY Post. To get to that rank, "you have to play a lot…and you have to be good, too," he said. “He was known as a top player from New England.” 

Thompson has had previous convictions for assault and robbery. 

 
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傻白甜在liberal states还是很多的,diversity可以解决liberal states人口问题
众里寻它
引狼入室。罪犯看来精神不正常。
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chris08540
有严重刑事犯罪记录的最好不要碰、不要惹
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thankful
可不是吗?出租房不是为了斗气的,是用来赚钱的。不过如果房客踩线违法,存心找茬,一定也别怕!
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傻白甜就是有精神疾病的,别说年纪一大把的傻白,少一个好一个
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Ginger123
这都谈不上是啥事,我还

有房客欠租,一年多后才按月慢慢还,一分钱later fee 都没要. 任何房客,我都没收过一分钱late fee. 就看房客平时是怎样的人了,难搞不难搞。

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Ginger123
又没欠租,又没故意损坏房子,只要不是

歧视你威胁你,完全没必要折腾让人走路。

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pangpangxiongxiong
“Thompson has had previous convictions for assault and robbery.
家教
警察拿着warranty抓人都要结伙拎枪,只有一纸合同的地主要拎得清自己手上有几把刷子
山高路远
大妹子说的这些话是啥意思啊?
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haomahaoma
不赶疯狗入穷巷。不管租房子还是工作中生活中,都是同理。就是在论坛上混也是这样啊,哈哈。
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Ginger123
意思是,只要这房客没歧视威胁我,就根本

不是个事,有些人心眼不坏,只是脾气急。相反,有些人,表面似乎和善,其实心眼大大地坏,笑里藏刀。

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julie116
老年人最好不要搞低端出租房。太vulnerable