life's journey is not to arrive at the grave safely, in a well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, totally worn out, shouting "holy shit, what a ride!"
更喜欢他写的这个：
The most unfair thing about life is the way it ends, I mean, life is tough. it takes up a lot of your time. what do you get at the end of it? A Death! What is that, a bonus?
I think the life cycle is all backwards. you should die first, get it out of the way. Then you live in an old age home. you get kicked out when you are too young, you get a gold watch, you go to work. you work forty years until you are young enough to enjoy your retirement. you do drugs, alcohol, you party, you get ready for high school. you go to grage school, you become a kid, you play, you have no responsibilities, you become a little baby, you go back into the womb, you spend your last nine months floating......and you finish off as an orgasm!
我本人要的是生命质量，不能享受生活就没有生命质量。
比如老年痴呆晚期长期用呼吸机癌症晚期剧烈痛疼等等，我不会苟且人世。
我和老公儿子同事都说过这个观点，假如哪天突然病倒脑子不行做不了主，我的医疗决定就是DNR。
我公婆生前的遗嘱是：comfort care only，我父母生前也这么说还立过遗嘱（怕糊涂了改口），我哥嫂也这么说，我嫂子更绝，说哪天我哥走了，她也淹死，因为她不想成为子女的负担。
我妈生前则说，假如哪天老爸死了，她会好好的活着：）假如她先走，她会小跑，绝不回头，把老父亲丢的远远的，她真的跑了3年才让老父亲走：）看得出来夫妻感情不怎么样哈。我妈一辈子不麻烦人，大面积心梗过世也没受苦，我爸过世前2个月摔了才不能自理。
很多西人老人都是DNR，医院里不少癌症晚期的病人也是，这个和很多国内人的想法不一样。
遗嘱要趁清醒的时候写，因为老了糊涂了就不记得以前怎么想的，好死不如赖活着是动物的本能，我爸开始糊涂的2年天天吵着要住院，有时自己走到医院去，医生打电话要我哥去接回家.
能享受生活的时候好好享受生活，不枉来人世一趟，记得30多岁的时候，我爸就跟我这么说过。
假如我被诊断晚期癌症转移还不影响出行的话，我会像“bucket list”电影里2位男主角做的那样，出去浪。
喜欢 george carlin 写的：
life's journey is not to arrive at the grave safely, in a well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, totally worn out, shouting "holy shit, what a ride!"
更喜欢他写的这个：
The most unfair thing about life is the way it ends, I mean, life is tough. it takes up a lot of your time. what do you get at the end of it? A Death! What is that, a bonus?
I think the life cycle is all backwards. you should die first, get it out of the way. Then you live in an old age home. you get kicked out when you are too young, you get a gold watch, you go to work. you work forty years until you are young enough to enjoy your retirement. you do drugs, alcohol, you party, you get ready for high school. you go to grage school, you become a kid, you play, you have no responsibilities, you become a little baby, you go back into the womb, you spend your last nine months floating......and you finish off as an orgasm!
最后肺炎没送医院去世，我婆婆也是肺炎没送医院去世，96岁。
我婆婆只在老人院住了2个月，当时如果送医院，一定会痊愈，活100岁没问题，除了老年痴呆她没有任何基础病。
他们是二战军人，退休金都非常高，各种补贴也特好。
但他们选择DNR。
那阵知道就是等死了,没几天了,花钱让当事人遭罪，但国内医院文化就得救。
活多久都是个人和家庭自我选择.
我87岁的婶婶去年重病，儿女要送医院，她不肯，她说如果他们坚持，她就自杀。
关键是好好享受生活，看淡看开多看正面阳光的东西，烦心事会少很多。
昨晚和好朋友聊天，她说这3年疫情让她对生活失去热情，她没退休还照顾身体越来越差的93岁老妈，她妈经常住院，但医术能留住日益衰退的老人吗？
担心她妈百年之后她会很抑郁（因为我经历过），到时会请她来我家住几个月，如果能签到证的话。
让爷爷多遭了3天罪。总共住院6天，去时是感冒，当天医院停电，他能走上4楼，哪知3天后病情急转而下。
那种下了呼吸机就会S的病，但病人自己要活着。
我不会这样。