You attended to his every need even before he needed it. You never gave him a chance to long for your attention. He never spent moments to feel what you felt. It has always been you help him, never he helped you. It never crossed him mind that mom or dad needs me.
Much of our everyday thoughts are reflexes conditioned in childhood by circumstances that are long gone but the reflexes stayed, controlling our behavior without us realizing.
Have your children help you with chores when they are young so that they develop the reflex of feeling good after helping out mom and dad.
自己吭哧吭哧养大的娃，上了大学，找个女朋友，工作了，离自己家远远的。但是每隔一两个周末还去人女朋友家天伦之乐去了，凭什么呀？
我现在觉得养闺女好。
讲真，刚毕业的时候我巴不得他找不到工作，这样女朋友肯定就把他给踢了
说实话我真的不是那种粘孩子的妈，但是太过份了
无论如何，你肯定还是你儿子心中的最爱。
You attended to his every need even before he needed it. You never gave him a chance to long for your attention. He never spent moments to feel what you felt. It has always been you help him, never he helped you. It never crossed him mind that mom or dad needs me.
Much of our everyday thoughts are reflexes conditioned in childhood by circumstances that are long gone but the reflexes stayed, controlling our behavior without us realizing.
Have your children help you with chores when they are young so that they develop the reflex of feeling good after helping out mom and dad.
过自己的日子，由他去吧。