她说：Yes. U know we Indians. We do engineering, medicine or law. Not cut out for much else.
我笑死了，人家说这么实在的话。我回答她：Lol. There is a lot of talk about you guys being models for the Chinese Americans. We could use some of those qualities.
她也蛮谦虚的。Lol! We think u guys are the best. We tell our kids, follow your work ethic. Much to learn.
然后说到social savvy和communication skills, 她说：We speak English from the start. We are also very lucky to be able to open up. Our social aspect is a big part of our culture. We feel like we are living in a gilded golden age in the US.
我们又扯了些其它话题，她说：你们很会save $$. We are yet to learn that skill.
这个老印女马上要去动手术，所以她就说起：我的这个cousin在这个医院做这个科医生，那个uncle在那个医院做那个科医生，其它亲戚又在某某城run某某hospital.
我说：你还真没开玩笑，你家真不缺医生。
她说：Yes. U know we Indians. We do engineering, medicine or law. Not cut out for much else.
我笑死了，人家说这么实在的话。我回答她：Lol. There is a lot of talk about you guys being models for the Chinese Americans. We could use some of those qualities.
她也蛮谦虚的。Lol! We think u guys are the best. We tell our kids, follow your work ethic. Much to learn.
然后说到social savvy和communication skills, 她说：We speak English from the start. We are also very lucky to be able to open up. Our social aspect is a big part of our culture. We feel like we are living in a gilded golden age in the US.
我们又扯了些其它话题，她说：你们很会save $$. We are yet to learn that skill.
她是很真诚的一个人，我很感谢她真诚的话，不管是否正确。在一般社交的圈子里，我是不太会和别人说关于种族的话的，更不会做种族间的比较。不过不承认同一种族之间的相关性是一种不诚实，另外，不同种族之间的差别再否认也没用。
个人确信这种相关性存在，然后不承认，才是不诚实。。。否则最多是不正确。。。我为嘛抬杠呢。。。
一路逼迫孩子进最好的工程大学，孩子必须压抑自己的其它passion，而且精神压力巨大
闯到美国来的，还真不比老中简单。
我同学的女儿，在美国上学，她说从八月搬进公寓楼到现在，没出过门，我觉得不可思议。
和印度外包有关。
创造性思维基没有。
我无条件地赞了啊。。。
具备您这种素质的人，难能可贵。
我法学院同学，自己是藤校本科，当时说笑话，说他妈给他打电话，第一个问题肯定是：How are your grades? 还说：你听了肯定不会吃惊的，You are Chinese!