从Los Gatos的谋杀案说起, 我们必须要保护好自己的

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gzlady
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https://www.mercurynews.com/2024/01/16/los-gatos-man-charged-with-strangling-wife-dumping-body-in-santa-cruz-mountains/

"In footage from about 9:35 p.m. that night, the victim could be seen running out of her home and yelling for help, with Yeager chasing and catching up to her, according to police. The two went out of view of the neighbor’s security camera, and reappeared with the victim walking away from Yeager, who then grabbed her by her shoulders.

The affidavit states that the video showed Yeager physically guiding her back to their home, with the victim repeatedly asking Yeager if he was “taking me back so you can beat me to death?” Yeager is later seen physically blocking the victim's  path to a parked car, followed by both people going back inside.  "

那个被杀的妻子真是不会保护自己。  她都跑出来了, 还被他抓回去, 还这么卑微地问 “taking me back so you can beat me to death?”   就是说在女方逃出家门前他已经打过她了, 而且还打得不轻。   她应该立刻报警, 如果没有手机, 就去求助邻居。 无论怎样, 就是不能让他再抓回去。

大约十一, 二年前, 我们这个县也发生过一起白男杀害华人妻子的案件.  女方是北京人, 有个CS的硕士学位的, 因为要照顾年幼的儿子, 她一直当家庭主妇。 她的丈夫也是长期有暴力倾向, 妻子常向一个美国女友诉说, 女友劝她离开, 她为了孩子有一个完整的家不舍得离开。 这些我都是从华盛顿邮报报道看来的。

遇到有暴力倾向的配偶, 男友, 我们都必须保护好自己的

Note: 我这个帖子是前晚写的, 当时很多中文报道还没有登出, 所以我就转了英文报道

有网友说看不到我贴的link 的内容, 我就copy and paste 贴在这里:

LOS GATOS — A man has been jailed and charged with murder after he apparently confessed to strangling his wife with a rope and dumping her body in the Santa Cruz Mountains, according to authorities and court documents.

John Maxey Yeager, 56, has been charged with one count of murder and a count of felony false imprisonment in connection with the death of 40-year-old YingYing “Dawn” Yu, according to police and a criminal complaint filed Tuesday, one day shy of Yeager’s 57th birthday.

Yeager was being held without bail in the Santa Clara County Main Jail, and was arraigned Tuesday afternoon.

During the brief arraignment in a San Jose courtroom, Yeager was appointed legal counsel from the county public defender’s office. Judge Audra Ibarra ordered that Yeager remain in jail without bail at least until his next court hearing, scheduled for March 15.

Ibarra also approved no-contact protective orders for four minors; based on the court discussion, they are presumably the children of Yeager and the victim. A fifth unnamed person was also granted a protective order from Yeager.

Yeager’s only words in court were in response to Ibarra asking if he understood the conditions of the protective orders: “Yes I do.”

According to a probable cause affidavit from Los Gatos-Monte Sereno Police, the victim was reported missing Jan. 8 by a co-worker who had not heard from her or seen her come to work in the new year. The co-worker told police that her husband, Yeager, “had provided an unusual explanation for her absence,” but that reason was not included in court documents filed this week.

A missing-persons investigation was launched, and officers obtained home-security video from a neighbor of the couple’s Hershner Court home, the affidavit states. Police added in a news release Tuesday that the investigation turned up evidence of a domestic-violence altercation on Dec. 31.

In footage from about 9:35 p.m. that night, the victim could be seen running out of her home and yelling for help, with Yeager chasing and catching up to her, according to police. The two went out of view of the neighbor’s security camera, and reappeared with the victim walking away from Yeager, who then grabbed her by her shoulders.

The affidavit states that the video showed Yeager physically guiding her back to their home, with the victim repeatedly asking Yeager if he was “taking me back so you can beat me to death?” Yeager is later seen physically blocking the victim's path to a parked car, followed by both people going back inside.

Jail records show that Yeager was arrested and booked into jail on Jan. 11 in connection with the suspected domestic-violence encounter shown in the video footage. Two days later, the affidavit states that during a police interview Yeager “admitted to strangling his wife” to death with a rope the night of Dec. 31, “and then disposing of her body in the Santa Cruz Mountains.”

On Saturday, authorities went to a remote area off Summit Road, which is where investigators determined Yeager had gone to earlier this year. There they found human remains “believed to be that of Dawn Yu.” Those remains were placed in the custody of the Santa Clara County Medical Examiner-Coroner's Office the next day.

The county Department of Family and Children's Services has been summoned to ensure the safety of the couple’s children, police said.

Anyone with information about the case can contact Detective Mike Birley at 408-827-3219 or email [email protected].


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Sequoia_CA
我都不敢看这些惨案。
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gzlady
我其实也是不敢看CSI 之类的节目的, 但我说的第二个案件, 因为发生在我们县, 我的同事还讨论过了, 当时印象特别深刻
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Sequoia_CA
原来是家暴啊,太恐怖了。
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gzlady
是的, 很恐怖
军大衣
我高中女同学被一道出来的中国老公家暴pua

挣扎了20年才拿到禁止令,但是不久她自己就查出癌症。孩子尚未成年,禁止令等于一纸空文

军大衣
她说问题可能是出在男人的心理失衡

原先在国内的时候并没有家暴,对她也没有那么冷酷,精神施压。可能是来美国之后,事业不顺利,还嫉妒老婆,慢慢就变态了

军大衣
在国内的时候可是尖子生,一路平步青云

到了美国之后再没有过当牛人的感觉,而且未来恐怕也不会有了,那种失落有些男人特别不能忍

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lookatme..
做父母的不要催女孩结婚,我现在一直在给女儿灌输这个路线

我越来越觉得现在的法律对本身受过高等教育,财务独立的女性一点都没有保护。

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island09
女孩不要太乖巧,要泼辣一点。做到没别人包括男人也活的精神
废话多多
很多忍受家暴的女人没有原生家庭的支持。我认识一个女孩,夫妻两个一块出来读学位。男的读书不顺,打老婆找存在感,

还理直气壮地到处炫耀。当时中国同学没有家暴意识,想帮不知如何帮,倒是女孩的导师帮了不少忙。后来女孩妈妈知道了,马上说,回家!离婚!

不费篇幅说女孩如何优秀了,反正后来再婚,有一个孩子。丈夫宠她宠的不得了。工作也做的风生水起。

废话多多
一定不能做全职妈妈。钱是一个重要因素,但工作会给人空间,不断进取,自我完善。
我可能不靠谱
我太

感同身受了,每次看到这种事,所以都避免去看这种事,想起那些年心里难受,幸运的是我还活着

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island09
是的。做全职妈妈也会有很多弱处。融入社会职场对身心思想自身状态有很大帮助
螺丝螺帽
见过
螺丝螺帽
你会越过越好的
我可能不靠谱
谢谢姐姐

浪费了太多时间在不值得的人身上了,要不现在孩子都上大学了,唉,人这辈子一步赶不上步步赶不上

螺丝螺帽
在美国, 只要自己想干, 身体还健康, 还真是啥都有可能。你只要保持自己财务的独立性, 你就会好
今年苹果树
你贴的英文link显示不是免费的,你是订购了么? 还是我这边网络有什么问题
我可能不靠谱
某人

说了如果攒钱能让我快乐,他就喜欢看我快乐,我有没拿着钱去贩毒

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gzlady
唉, 如果她早一点走出来就好了, 所以我说我们都必须要保护好自己啊

家暴和虐待家人是不分种族的。  

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gzlady
女方好在有个明智的妈妈, 让女儿走出厄运, 赞妈妈的理智
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gzlady
哈哈, 我不会催的, 女儿自己掌握自己的命运
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gzlady
是的, 最重要的是会保护好自己, 不要成为家暴的受害者。 虽然家暴在美国不算普遍

但遇到了就要及时止损

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gzlady
哇, 好在你及时离开了, 你是个勇敢的女子, 会过得越来越好的
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gzlady
啊? 我刚刚点过那link, 还可以看的。 我没交费的啊。 这是几天前的新闻了, 现在中文网都转了这新闻了

还把凶犯的照片找了出来。

我去把这新闻copy and paste 出来吧

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gzlady
我已经把新闻内容copy and paste 到帖子里去了
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gzlady
哈哈, 某人绝对是好老公

但你要赚钱不用他批准的 :)

今年苹果树
谢谢你的分享!
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penname
百分之百赞同。
军大衣
确实是

我这同学吧,夫妻俩过来打拼,身后都没有家庭,这也是个问题。

就像我们这样的跨婚,没有娘家在身边有的时候确实会无助的,尤其对方一大家子而你就单嘣一个人。我认识一个中国女生,丈夫意外去世,公婆大伯小叔小姑子联合起来搞她,她语言不行,还要拖着一个小娃,真是叫天不应叫地不灵

军大衣
最近怎么突然那么八卦了

这类事真的不能多说,说多了上头

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2008VGirl
学会保护自己是必须的
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gzlady
是的、 清华那对也是, 如果女方早点离开, 就不会无谓丧生了
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gzlady
我猜也是的, 可能很暴躁, 所以才三个月就想离婚。 如果离了至少能逃过一劫
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gzlady
他的三任妻子都是华裔啊, 挺奇怪的
螺丝螺帽
“Yu had married Yeager on May 15, 2020. “, 双方也没小孩, 结婚三个月就闹离婚

为啥没离婚成?

 

好像是分财产?

螺丝螺帽
是不是该断不断, 自己连命也没了
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gzlady
是的, 两人有了裂痕了
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gzlady
结婚三个月能分到多少财产啊, 她也有工作的, 他的工资又不算高
螺丝螺帽
所以平时有朋友就算娘家人了