APAD: Don't speak ill of the dead

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7grizzly
楼主 (文学峸)

Background:

 

The earliest known use of this expression is in The Lives and Opinions of

Eminent Philosophers written by Digenese Laërtius around 300 AD. In this he

attributes Chilon of Sparta as saying "don't badmouth a dead man." Chilon was

one of the Seven Sages of Greece - a title given by Ancient Greek tradition to

seven 6th century BC philosophers and statesmen who were revered for their

wisdom.

 

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I wonder if Chilon cared to explain why. Is this, like other proverbs, a summary

of wisdom gained through misery and suffering? I doubt it.

 

The philosopher could be full of philanthropy and pissed off by unsavory remarks

toward some deceased person he pitied for no other reason than empathy. The fox

grieved the death of the hare, as the Chinese saying goes.

 

Besides, the dead can't defend themselves and humans despise a freeloader, one

who wins with no skin in the game.

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American Indian's tradition to show gratitude of the animal'
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contribution by smearing the prey's blood on the hunter 's
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forehead
最西边的岛上
a bit of 逝者为大? but it's complicated wrt historical figure
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Do as you would be done by
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7grizzly
Another proof of the fittest, not the more moral, survive.
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7grizzly
Right. We have to know how bad some can be and learn lessons
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7grizzly
Well-balanced.
妖妖灵
死者为大
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7grizzly
Yep!
盈盈一笑间
善恶在我,毁誉由人,盖棺定论,无藉于子孙之乞言耳
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7grizzly
Tho half only I understand, it must be all right! :-)
盈盈一笑间
ha, maybe only for historical figure. :)
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7grizzly
想开了,爱咋地咋地 :-))