APAD: Ships that pass in the night

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7grizzly
楼主 (文学峸)

Meaning: People who meet once and form a close bond, but never meet again

 

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Unlike many martial arts, Jiu-jitsu allows full force in sparring. We still have

to mind injuries and do get injured from time to time but, with some rules, one

grapples as one would in the street. At the end of a round, win or lose, one

respects the other's skill and will to fight. Day in day out, there forms a

special bond.

 

Quite a few left since I began two years ago. Coach Gene, who always watched out

for me, as if I needed special attention, and wrapped the first stripe on my

white belt, went home to New England to open his own gym. The muscle-bound

judoka Harsh, after finishing at Stanford, returned to work for his sponsor in

Milwaukee. There were Steve, a squat ABC blue belt who was friendly to me from

day one, Danny the wiry surfer, who had the same body type as me and was a great

training partner, and Stephan the ninja, the featherweight purple belt champion

who caught me in so many triangles and arm-bars and was a great inspiration...,

ships that passed in the night.

盈盈一笑间
Congrats for your white belt ! :))
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7grizzly
Thanks. That's a lifetime achievement! :-)))
方外居士
White belt is the highest rank? Not black?
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7grizzly
White is lowest but the first stripe was to me a big deal.
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7grizzly
YY and I were joking again :-)
盈盈一笑间
Nope. I do think you may feel proud of yourself for
盈盈一笑间
Your first white belt! 可喜可贺!:))

盈盈一笑间
A good start is half the battle.~~
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7grizzly
That's true. Everyone gets a white belt when they show up,
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7grizzly
but the first stripe was the toughest for a lot of peeps.
盈盈一笑间
Could not agree more with you.:)
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Oona
Martial arts is cool.
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CBA7
won't see each other in the morning :)
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7grizzly
It's good for health but when I'm smashed under, the last
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7grizzly
thing I think is cool :-)
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7grizzly
It's a small community. I'm sure I'm going to see them again
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waterfowl
Life is enriched by such encounters. More the merrier
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7grizzly
You bet! The mat forces you to grow in so many ways.
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Oona
Lol :)硬输。我会一点舞剑,不对打没输赢:)
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7grizzly
No. In your art, there's only to be or not to be :-)
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godog
Nice writing. A little like 萍水相逢 in Chinese.
盈盈一笑间
我也想到这句了。。
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7grizzly
Thanks! 萍水相逢 does seem to imply a bond.
天边一片白云
left a good memory
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7grizzly
Indeed. A special experience.