You’re victim blaming. Your mind set is the type of toxicity the society don’t need. She as a single woman can do whatever they want, no men can force any type of ual act without her consent. That is ual assault. Her going to a male friend’s home does not mean she consent to anything ual. Her wearing explicit clothes does not mean men has the right to assault her. The moment a woman says no and the men still perform an act against her will, that’s called ual assault. You’re living in the US, you need to leave the old traditional Chinese mindset, it is a new generation. 你才脑瘫 你自己看看吧
You’re victim blaming. Your mind set is the type of toxicity the society don’t need. She as a sing ...
Please stop using your broken english in a chinese forums. In fact, replying a post using your broken english does not make you look smarter nor does it make you superior than anyone ok? 看不懂真的别看、谁他妈认识俩次就去一个男生家啊、很容易让不怀好意的男生以为你想跟他XX懂吗？this thought has nothing to do with traditional or modern chinese mindset? What are you trying to bring up? Are you trying to say traditional chinese men believe if you go to his house alone that means you want to have se-x with him?? Tell me is that your thought? Then you most be really gross person to think that way! One more thing, 女生说no的时候 也不一定真的是no、it might means no dont stop. So who knows? The best way to avoid this kind of shit is not to go his house alone. Ok
You’re victim blaming. Your mind set is the type of toxicity the society don’t need. She as a sing ...
再给你举个例子、 你如果知道 有一条小路晚上经常发生强奸案。你还每天晚上走那个小路 然后被强奸了、then people started telling me not to go to that place at night time, and then you started saying why are you guys blaming me, you guys should go after criminals. Yes we should go after criminals, but it is also your job not to put yourself in a dangerous situation. Do you understand or not? Same shit here, girl should not go to a mans house who only had a date for two times. She should feel lucky that she didnt get raped and then killed.
Please stop using your broken english in a chinese forums. In fact, replying a post using your broke ...
Lol you sound like a traditional Chinese men who thinks men can do no wrong and if bad things happen to women it must be their fault. No means no, it doesn’t mean anything else, period. You legit sound like someone who would rape someone and then blame them for something so stupid like, you said no, but to me it sounds like you said no don’t stop. Please, kys bye.
bye. you need to get a covid test to make sure it didn’t go through your brain
Lol I’m perfectly fine. Next time when something like this happens to your mom, I want to see if you’re going to blame your mom or stand on the side of the rapist. Have a shit one mate
所以重点是什么
没想找精英 当时湾区都是码农 没有非要找it 合适最重要
其实他要是真想来，在车上他也能来。所以有时候真的不好说，难道说保护自己男生约哪里都不去吗？我第一次见面的男生，熟人介绍的，我第一天就因为尿急没办法上了他家用厕所，然后他也一直聊天，聊了很多，了解也多点。
你怎么知道见他之后我没有安全意识 你一直叨叨叨好像我现在还是傻子一样 说一次你是关心 说很多次就是责怪 谁愿意这种事情发生在自己身上？！
去家里就一定要x?去酒吧就一定要喝醉？
中国男生 我说了都是中国人 所以我当时也原谅他一次 离开了
不干嘛 单纯交友！不然呢 来吧 强奸我吧？？
多说啥 我想记起来名字地址 我记不住 我说这些是要别的女生知道这个人的存在 这是我能记得的全部信息 你思想别肮脏 去他家之前我也不知道他买了房子 也不知道他哪个公司的 都是他自己告诉我的
我没有要好的朋友 之前那些假惺惺的恶心朋友我都不来往了 没人陪我去 再说了约会你带别人也不太好吧 只能说 心里有道德的人不会硬来 我也不是没去过别的男生家里 别人都是很拘谨 很绅士
谢谢
带脑？是不是女的去你家你就直接强奸啊 然后别人反抗你还说她不带脑 报警了带你走 你还告诉警察污蔑？你保持这种想法 很好 早晚你也会被带走
社会男女很多事大家彼此心知肚明。如果他只是在湾区租房子的初级程序员，你还会去喝茶吗？
只是这男的自恋了一点，对女人的手法笨拙了一点。我知道现在me too很火，但断章取义的听女方一家之言，甚至还是带有明显的物质前提条件的一家之言……首先对你表示同情！一起鄙视渣男！！（然后私下还是羡慕渣男的钱和山景区房子吗？ ）
安全意识要有 但是坏人也存在 那你说那些好好上班 被同事强奸的 怎么算
我再说一遍！去他家之前我不知道他买房还是租房 住哪里也不知道 只知道是码农 什么公司也不知道 你了解我？你怎么知道我找对象只看钱 或者冲着钱 ？！ 我说这些是在告诉大家他的一些信息 我只记得这些！！
不可以的，没证据你直接报别人名字。别人可以号楼主的。
你这自我催眠和编故事能力 不写剧本 不拿奖太浪费
明了问一句，看上了钱又如何？看了钱就被该这样了吗？就像男人看上了美女美，那就该被女人sha猪了吗？真的不知道啥逻辑。每个人看上每个的点都不同，就不信你看对象什么也不图！
You’re victim blaming. Your mind set is the type of toxicity the society don’t need. She as a single woman can do whatever they want, no men can force any type of ual act without her consent. That is ual assault. Her going to a male friend’s home does not mean she consent to anything ual. Her wearing explicit clothes does not mean men has the right to assault her. The moment a woman says no and the men still perform an act against her will, that’s called ual assault. You’re living in the US, you need to leave the old traditional Chinese mindset, it is a new generation. 你才脑瘫 你自己看看吧
Please stop using your broken english in a chinese forums. In fact, replying a post using your broken english does not make you look smarter nor does it make you superior than anyone ok? 看不懂真的别看、谁他妈认识俩次就去一个男生家啊、很容易让不怀好意的男生以为你想跟他XX懂吗？this thought has nothing to do with traditional or modern chinese mindset? What are you trying to bring up? Are you trying to say traditional chinese men believe if you go to his house alone that means you want to have se-x with him?? Tell me is that your thought? Then you most be really gross person to think that way! One more thing, 女生说no的时候 也不一定真的是no、it might means no dont stop. So who knows? The best way to avoid this kind of shit is not to go his house alone. Ok
再给你举个例子、 你如果知道 有一条小路晚上经常发生强奸案。你还每天晚上走那个小路 然后被强奸了、then people started telling me not to go to that place at night time, and then you started saying why are you guys blaming me, you guys should go after criminals. Yes we should go after criminals, but it is also your job not to put yourself in a dangerous situation. Do you understand or not? Same shit here, girl should not go to a mans house who only had a date for two times. She should feel lucky that she didnt get raped and then killed.
也许lz是想说和道德层面的反差呢
谢谢
是 后悔没给他教训 坐牢还有丢工作 赔偿什么的都是浮云 这种烂人没得到惩罚 是我的错
Lol you sound like a traditional Chinese men who thinks men can do no wrong and if bad things happen to women it must be their fault. No means no, it doesn’t mean anything else, period. You legit sound like someone who would rape someone and then blame them for something so stupid like, you said no, but to me it sounds like you said no don’t stop. Please, kys bye.
bye. you need to get a covid test to make sure it didn’t go through your brain
害人之心不可有 防人之心不可无。 特别是你不熟悉的人！
https://mp.weixin.qq.com/s/dn6oSE7bLVwcLNqjXZu5Sg
Lol I’m perfectly fine. Next time when something like this happens to your mom, I want to see if you’re going to blame your mom or stand on the side of the rapist. Have a shit one mate
Im sure you have covid on your brain. Go see a doctor please. You missed my points completely
我是女生真的沒這樣覺得，就是去看看對方家裡生活環境和習慣合不合適而已。男生不要自作多情了還要惱羞成怒哈哈哈
呵呵 想的话当时就报警了 什么叫讹钱 我让他做违法的事？再说了 就算要钱又如何 他不该赔偿吗 难道法律可以化学阉割 那我不要钱 我要阉割他 你说这话只能证明你是个龌龊的畜生
你不代表很多 你只代表你自己
是的
我截图我了，你这种就是假吆喝，真要钱了。当时不报警现在想起了，你自己都很cheap，别装表了，恶心
你是本人吧
希望你的女儿也被人强暴未遂 还被你骂 一辈子精神崩溃
想認真了解一下，到底應該出去幾次才能比較安全的去對方家？10次以上嗎？
通常會想強x人的男生幾次都只能約外面就沒耐心了？
结婚为目的，至少3-6个月观察期。如果是短期寻欢，最好去公共宾馆，否则要对那个人家里很了解，没见过美国很多凶杀案和失踪案吗
我觉得吧，至少等多吃几次饭，再一起去去博物馆，电影院这些公开场所。对方如果不安分，就会露出马脚来
Yes. Of course
你赢了我投降
你难道不知道他们还有个换qi俱乐部么
男女朋友互相知道名字地址生日 警察分开问
是吗 多说说
哦哦明白了
我真有遇過才第一次見面就開始動手動腳的男生，大公司有體面的職業的男生也是一樣的。女生真的是要小心，不知道有的男生在胡思亂想什麼，在公眾場合都敢這樣，私下肯定很亂是有帶病的人。。。
就是3-6個月都約在公共場合，然後之後確定關係了再約到家裡。我也覺得這樣很好，但是感覺現在男生沒人有這種耐心？有男生願意等這麼久的嗎？
大规律是有的，没耐心的一般你也没有避孕权，没有耐心代表什么？如果他对你感兴趣，尊重你，而且是奔着结婚去的，那么这个大规律可以帮你选良人。只是很多时候女生一见钟情的可能是吸引你但是不一定珍惜你的。我老公追求我就半年，原因是我感觉对他不心动，但是他人品很好，每次我去他家都是他做饭给我和我朋友吃。后来选择在一起，一直到结婚，发现越来越香，现在是非常好的老公和即将要做爸爸了。
是 我在湾区遇到很多恶心男 有个男生和我吃完饭 出门已经天黑了 然后路上人少 我和他散步 就突然牵我手 然后强吻我 恶心死我了 你别说什么公共场合 见面就没事 只要黑乎乎的地方 只要附近没人 猥琐男人什么都干得出来
我也是在灣區，有次遇到一個狗家的員工，我們初次見面在外面散步，他就開始要動手動腳，最後說拜拜還要擁抱才讓我走。真的有病，但我想他在公司一定不敢這樣，要是在公司這樣還不得被上告到HR嗎？
他就是看我們不是公司的人，覺得好欺負而已。
你說的很有道理耶，世界上總是有那種願意等的男生的。不願意等的，沒耐心的就讓他滾當作篩選吧
所以你觉得你比男人更懂男人？
我只是单纯的怼我楼上那个2B
我只知道男生强奸女生 比女生强奸男生多的多
跟印度男人一样