不是你的錯！我年經的時候，剛剛出道不夠兩年，做engineer ... 与一个Senior Engineer 合作一个project. 他做software 我做hardware ! 有一天，我们在lab debugging. 我老板加上老板的老板進來，就問一下，how’s the project? Ed 回答說，我的hardware design 有問題！我想也沒想，就回答，Ed do you want to bet a lunch it’s not my hardware issue ? Ed froze for 20 seconds and finally he said very softly “no”. 過了一天，他發覺是他的問題！ 所以你们一定要challenge 老美白人！不然他們看不起你！ 之後我就拿到更好的个人project 還跑去NASA Ames 去deployed !!! 成功的回來！ 記得要對自己有信心…
Then challenge him too! Have confidence in your work. As Chinese we need to work harder and prove ourselves !!! Maybe you should have a quick talk with him that he misjudged your work !
Then challenge him too! Have confidence in your work. As Chinese we need to work harder and prove ...
I don't think that's what the OP wants to do.
I believe OP is just here to rant about the situation. OP understand his/her own weakness, that's why she make a backup. It is probably in her best interest not to challenge the colleague unless OP absolutely has more experience because it will make the job more difficult.
Is good to be confident, but sometime one has to balance at work with colleague and self esteem, is not easy.
回答watuwantz ... sorry ... I tend to be a solution provider !!! Lol and you are right ... a lot of times ... girls just venting ... and guys jumped in to provide solution ... my bad !!!
回答watuwantz ... sorry ... I tend to be a solution provider !!! Lol and you are right ... a lot of ...
Nah nah nah...there is no need for apology on that...you are simply confident and competitive, but not everyone can be just like you. Is a good personality to have, but it doesn't work all the time.
早上有个同事发现有问题的时候第一反应就在slack问是不是我这部分出错了，要不要重做，我做每一步的时候都做了n个备份，为什么不能先看一下我发的记录再质疑呢？
最后发现是其他错误不是我这块的，心都凉了，为了团队熬了夜，还不如什么都不做，是不是性别就是原罪
不是你的錯！我年經的時候，剛剛出道不夠兩年，做engineer ... 与一个Senior Engineer 合作一个project. 他做software 我做hardware ! 有一天，我们在lab debugging. 我老板加上老板的老板進來，就問一下，how’s the project? Ed 回答說，我的hardware design 有問題！我想也沒想，就回答，Ed do you want to bet a lunch it’s not my hardware issue ?
Ed froze for 20 seconds and finally he said very softly “no”.
過了一天，他發覺是他的問題！
所以你们一定要challenge 老美白人！不然他們看不起你！
之後我就拿到更好的个人project 還跑去NASA Ames 去deployed !!! 成功的回來！
記得要對自己有信心…
不是白人，是Asian，也是engineer
Then challenge him too! Have confidence in your work. As Chinese we need to work harder and prove ourselves !!!
Maybe you should have a quick talk with him that he misjudged your work !
I don't think that's what the OP wants to do.
I believe OP is just here to rant about the situation. OP understand his/her own weakness, that's why she make a backup. It is probably in her best interest not to challenge the colleague unless OP absolutely has more experience because it will make the job more difficult.
Is good to be confident, but sometime one has to balance at work with colleague and self esteem, is not easy.
他直接在slack上说是不是我那部分问题，需不需要找别人重新做，现在已经解决找到bug了感觉也没什么人真的在意，就是心里憋屈想吐个槽
Ok 記得對自己有信心！下次再發生，希望你会應付！
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怼的真机智！ 学习了！
我觉得别的不说，这次我做的非常仔细了，他们任何一个人也不会有我做的那么细致（因为怕失误特别仔细），结果一上来就被质疑了，真的受伤，又不可能每个人写的都没错，为什么就能公开质疑我？真的不是gender问题吗
不得不说说女生在职场上的地位的却还是不如男性，尤其是STEM行业，我作为女engineer能深深感受到这一点。所以说现在还是有那么多人为了女权运动努力，想要改变人类几千年的习惯想法还是需要一点时间的。唯一能做的就是不在乎别人怎么看，怎么小瞧你，你觉得你做了努力了就好。
Nah nah nah...there is no need for apology on that...you are simply confident and competitive, but not everyone can be just like you. Is a good personality to have, but it doesn't work all the time.