I'm an Asian girl and the amount of shit that I've gotten from both Asian girls and white dudes for saying "I prefer dating Asian guys" is insane. I'm not even saying "I only date Asian guys." I have a preference, but I'm not opposed to any race. Other Asians just happen to have similar values and experiences that I gravitate towards in a relationship.
Some of my Asian girlfriends get mad at me for being "racist" for "excluding other races" no matter how many times I try to explain. Meanwhile they're over here telling me how "I don't date Asian men because they're not masculine enough" or "they have small dicks" and other excuses they tell me to cover up their blatant racism. It's funny because they never date other races--only white. I always ask them why they are so racist towards their own race and point out the hypocrisy of telling me to include all races when they exclude Asian men in their dating pool solely based on unbased, racist claims.
A white man told me to "breakup with my Asian boyfriend" because he can " give me a better time" and that my "boyfriend can't satisfy me since he has a small dick." Like seriously wtf. I'm trying to mind my own business and spend time with my boyfriend and you have the nerve to come up to us and say that to our faces? You cannot believe the amount of times I am approached in public by white men indoctrinated by the whole "Asian women are submissive creatures" belief. I could use all of the digits on my hands and feet to count them, but even then, it wouldn't be enough. They think it's ok to come up to me and call me an "oriental princess" or "miss Saigon". Some even proceed to try to touch me. They get shocked when I yell at them to " fuck off" because that's "not supposed to happen." I'm supposed to be "their cute little Asian girl."
I understand that not all Asian women and white men are like this. It's just prevalent enough that it's a problem. The systemic emasculation of Asian men and fetishization of Asian women needs to stop. Similarily the trope of the "white saviour" needs to stop. You may think that it doesn't matter, but coming from first hand experience I was almost assaulted IN PUBLIC for rejecting one of these advances. Multiple times.The girls in my country are being sold away to sexpats who believe in the "Asian girls in the third world are easy" trope. I am not your "dragon lady" or "oriental princess." Don't call me a "gook" or "chink" because I refuse to fit into your version of what an Asian is. Don't you dare call my men "ladies" or claim that they have "baby dicks." I am more than just the stereotype of my race. To other Asian women, refuse to tolerate this bullshit. To Asian men, the same.
【 在 newIdRobot (新器人) 的大作中提到: 】 : 蛋蛋的忧伤~~~ : http://www.facebook.com/newubcconfessions/posts/11267im-an-asian-girl-and-the-amount-of-shit-that-ive-gotten-from-both-asian-gir/2327271120624501/ : I'm an Asian girl and the amount of shit that I've gotten from both Asian : girls and white dudes for saying "I prefer dating Asian guys" is insane. I'm : not even saying "I only date Asian guys." I have a preference, but I'm not : opposed to any race. Other Asians just happen to have similar values and : experiences that I gravitate towards in a relationship. : Some of my Asian girlfriends get mad at me for being "racist" for " excluding : other races" no matter how many times I try to explain. Meanwhile they're : over here telling me how "I don't date Asian men because they're not : ...................
蛋蛋的忧伤~~~
http://www.facebook.com/newubcconfessions/posts/11267im-an-asian-girl-and-the-amount-of-shit-that-ive-gotten-from-both-asian-gir/2327271120624501/
I'm an Asian girl and the amount of shit that I've gotten from both Asian
girls and white dudes for saying "I prefer dating Asian guys" is insane. I'm not even saying "I only date Asian guys." I have a preference, but I'm not opposed to any race. Other Asians just happen to have similar values and
experiences that I gravitate towards in a relationship.
Some of my Asian girlfriends get mad at me for being "racist" for "excluding other races" no matter how many times I try to explain. Meanwhile they're
over here telling me how "I don't date Asian men because they're not
masculine enough" or "they have small dicks" and other excuses they tell me to cover up their blatant racism. It's funny because they never date other
races--only white. I always ask them why they are so racist towards their
own race and point out the hypocrisy of telling me to include all races when they exclude Asian men in their dating pool solely based on unbased, racist claims.
A white man told me to "breakup with my Asian boyfriend" because he can "
give me a better time" and that my "boyfriend can't satisfy me since he has a small dick." Like seriously wtf. I'm trying to mind my own business and
spend time with my boyfriend and you have the nerve to come up to us and say that to our faces? You cannot believe the amount of times I am approached
in public by white men indoctrinated by the whole "Asian women are
submissive creatures" belief. I could use all of the digits on my hands and feet to count them, but even then, it wouldn't be enough. They think it's ok to come up to me and call me an "oriental princess" or "miss Saigon". Some even proceed to try to touch me. They get shocked when I yell at them to "
fuck off" because that's "not supposed to happen." I'm supposed to be "their cute little Asian girl."
I understand that not all Asian women and white men are like this. It's just prevalent enough that it's a problem. The systemic emasculation of Asian
men and fetishization of Asian women needs to stop. Similarily the trope of the "white saviour" needs to stop. You may think that it doesn't matter, but coming from first hand experience I was almost assaulted IN PUBLIC for
rejecting one of these advances. Multiple times.The girls in my country are being sold away to sexpats who believe in the "Asian girls in the third
world are easy" trope.
I am not your "dragon lady" or "oriental princess." Don't call me a "gook"
or "chink" because I refuse to fit into your version of what an Asian is.
Don't you dare call my men "ladies" or claim that they have "baby dicks." I am more than just the stereotype of my race. To other Asian women, refuse to tolerate this bullshit. To Asian men, the same.
Asian鸡巴短是myth，用过得都说好。
【 在 georgebush41 (你太搞笑了) 的大作中提到: 】
: Asian鸡巴短是myth，用过得都说好。
殖民主义者内心需要建立对被殖民者的道德优越感。这种优越感建立在“拯救（被殖民区）女性”的语境下显得尤其正义高尚。比如国女都是国男的奴隶，白男把国女从小JJ国男的压迫下解放出来，给了国女自由和性福。国女接受了这种意识后，对白男感恩图报，生死相随。白男内部就会流传国女人傻钱多，顺从淫荡的信息。于是白垃圾们也跃跃欲试加入拯救国女的大潮中。
（Tom Ko的评论）
【 在 newIdRobot (新器人) 的大作中提到: 】
: 蛋蛋的忧伤~~~
: http://www.facebook.com/newubcconfessions/posts/11267im-an-asian-girl-and-the-amount-of-shit-that-ive-gotten-from-both-asian-gir/2327271120624501/
: I'm an Asian girl and the amount of shit that I've gotten from both Asian : girls and white dudes for saying "I prefer dating Asian guys" is insane. I'm
: not even saying "I only date Asian guys." I have a preference, but I'm
not
: opposed to any race. Other Asians just happen to have similar values and
: experiences that I gravitate towards in a relationship.
: Some of my Asian girlfriends get mad at me for being "racist" for "
excluding
: other races" no matter how many times I try to explain. Meanwhile they're
: over here telling me how "I don't date Asian men because they're not
: ...................
那国女傍烙印又是为了啥？
【 在 thomasyoung (托马司羊) 的大作中提到: 】
: 殖民主义者内心需要建立对被殖民者的道德优越感。这种优越感建立在“拯救（被殖民
: 区）女性”的语境下显得尤其正义高尚。比如国女都是国男的奴隶，白男把国女从小JJ
: 国男的压迫下解放出来，给了国女自由和性福。国女接受了这种意识后，对白男感恩图
: 报，生死相随。白男内部就会流传国女人傻钱多，顺从淫荡的信息。于是白垃圾们也跃
: 跃欲试加入拯救国女的大潮中。
: （Tom Ko的评论）
: 'm
: not
: excluding
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接受了被殖民意识后，某些国女会下意识把所有非国男看做殖民拯救者，这是一种爱屋及乌的自然表现。所以印非拉棕阿都在这些国女眼里拥有了拯救者光环。
不接受被殖民意识的国女其实也会被代表。当白垃圾的拯救不被国女感恩的时候，白垃圾会极为愤怒，觉得国女恩将仇报，死有余辜。
【 在 FoodGod (饭中淹) 的大作中提到: 】
: 那国女傍烙印又是为了啥？
: JJ
为何新中国都建国70多年了，国女还有如此强烈的被殖民意识？
【 在 thomasyoung (托马司羊) 的大作中提到: 】
: 接受了被殖民意识后，某些国女会下意识把所有非国男看做殖民拯救者，这是一种爱屋
: 及乌的自然表现。所以印非拉棕阿都在这些国女眼里拥有了拯救者光环。
中国的落后是自明代以来五百多年积累的全面落后。我憋苦干70年成果辉煌，但还远没有到功成名就的地步。
【 在 FoodGod (饭中淹) 的大作中提到: 】
: 为何新中国都建国70多年了，国女还有如此强烈的被殖民意识？
80岁以下的中国人都是接受的新中国教育，为何被殖民情节依然如此普遍。
【 在 thomasyoung (托马司羊) 的大作中提到: 】
: 中国的落后是自明代以来五百多年积累的全面落后。我憋苦干70年成果辉煌，但还远没
: 有到功成名就的地步。
主要是50，60后一代人被改开后中西方巨大的经济落差所震惊，觉得被土鳖骗了产生的幻灭感，于是相当多的人接受了被殖民意识。例如刘晓波的“殖民三百年”论。当然白男对此等SB是求之不得，多多益善，吹捧赞助。50,60的反鳖情怀余韵深远，不容易清
除。
【 在 FoodGod (饭中淹) 的大作中提到: 】
: 80岁以下的中国人都是接受的新中国教育，为何被殖民情节依然如此普遍。
改开后被港台文化荼毒了
【 在 FoodGod (饭中淹) 的大作中提到: 】
: 80岁以下的中国人都是接受的新中国教育，为何被殖民情节依然如此普遍。
确实。
【 在 thomasyoung (托马司羊) 的大作中提到: 】
: 主要是50，60后一代人被改开后中西方巨大的经济落差所震惊，觉得被土鳖骗了产生的
: 幻灭感，于是相当多的人接受了被殖民意识。例如刘晓波的“殖民三百年”论。当然白
: 男对此等SB是求之不得，多多益善，吹捧赞助。50,60的反鳖情怀余韵深远，不容易清
: 除。