举例： 1. 最惨痛的教训是犹太人德国人总结的： “First they came …” is a famous statement and provocative poem attributed to pastor Martin Niemöller (1892–1984) about the cowardice of German intellectuals following the Nazis' rise to power and the subsequent purging of their chosen targets, group after group.
First they came for the Socialists, and I did not speak out— Because I was not a Socialist. Then they came for the Trade Unionists, and I did not speak out— Because I was not a Trade Unionist. Then they came for the Jews, and I did not speak out— Because I was not a Jew. Then they came for me—and there was no one left to speak for me.
2. 思科高通微软IBM。 First they outsourced the IT and I did not speak out - because i agree tech supports could be outsourced Then they outsourced the HR and I did not speak out - because i agree HR needs some slimming Then they laid off the mediocre performers and I did not speak out - because i am a little bit better than mediocre Then they laid off the senior programmers and I did not speak out - because i am not senior Then they laid off me, and there was no one left to speak for me.
3. 网络上如火如荼的内斗。 First they attacked the 荔波肉Chinese politicians, and I did not speak out -because i am a republican Then they attacked the Chinese politicians as 流氓, and I did not speak out -because i am not 流氓. Then they attacked the Chinese politicians as not Chinese enough, and I did not speak out -because i am Chinese enough. Then they attacked me and there was no one left to speak for me.
让一个小屁孩觉得一个爸爸friendly但不弱－－主要是人格互动上，而不是对他使用任何“敌意”。 －－招儿多了去了：投篮，踢球谁踢得远，谁胳膊粗，谁跳得高， Karate chop， roundhouse kick, haaa heee, and don'g forget to end with a high five 。。。whatever。
point是，bully是捡软柿子捏的，尤其小孩子里的bully。很多并不邪恶，只是 senseless。 有个跟bully可能friendly但是很不弱的老爸，已经把你家孩子剔除出“ bulliable"的list了 －－ most likely。 即使真的bully没忍住，老爸很friendly但 很assertive的去找他： Hey boy, tell me what you did yesterday to xxx。。。 Bully也不过是小屁孩而已。 大人，用正常的方法，在小孩面前是有巨大优势和压力的。 不会用是自己的事儿，不是bully厉害。
标 题: 霸凌algorithm和反霸凌：职场必读
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sat Nov 1 10:24:06 2014, 美东)
继Brahmin Tree algorithmhttp://www.mitbbs.com/article_t/Seattle/33101521.html
后面还有两个： 18掌中第30条http://www.mitbbs.com/article_t/SanFrancisco/34236613.html
以后，我再来总结一下霸凌algorithm.
首先霸凌algorithm：
柿子捡软的捏。然后捡稍软的捏。 最后收拾硬柿子。
估计那是硬柿子吓的硬不起来了。
就这么简单。 老中精英在IT职场几乎全军覆没
也是这样。
举例：
1. 最惨痛的教训是犹太人德国人总结的：
“First they came …” is a famous statement and provocative poem attributed to pastor Martin Niemöller (1892–1984) about the cowardice of German intellectuals following the Nazis' rise to power and the subsequent purging of their chosen targets, group after group.
First they came for the Socialists, and I did not speak out—
Because I was not a Socialist.
Then they came for the Trade Unionists, and I did not speak out—
Because I was not a Trade Unionist.
Then they came for the Jews, and I did not speak out—
Because I was not a Jew.
Then they came for me—and there was no one left to speak for me.
2. 思科高通微软IBM。
First they outsourced the IT and I did not speak out -
because i agree tech supports could be outsourced
Then they outsourced the HR and I did not speak out -
because i agree HR needs some slimming
Then they laid off the mediocre performers and I did not speak out -
because i am a little bit better than mediocre
Then they laid off the senior programmers and I did not speak out -
because i am not senior
Then they laid off me, and there was no one left to speak for me.
3. 网络上如火如荼的内斗。
First they attacked the 荔波肉Chinese politicians,
and I did not speak out -because i am a republican
Then they attacked the Chinese politicians as 流氓,
and I did not speak out -because i am not 流氓.
Then they attacked the Chinese politicians as not Chinese enough,
and I did not speak out -because i am Chinese enough.
Then they attacked me and there was no one left to speak for me.
然后我继续说说反霸凌algorithm...
反霸凌algorithm就
更简单了：
一旦最弱的环节受压力，
立刻反攻。 不求胜利，
至少让霸凌付出极大的代价。
这个最弱的环节，有可能是人，
也有可能是荣誉。
case:
1. Hitler侵略捷克，英国佬APPEASE。
HITLER继续侵略波兰，才爆发二战。
再艰难，也不悔。反观日本对
中国的侵略（1894-1937逐步升级），
就是早期霸凌的代价实在太太太低了。
2. 西部殖民者的Circle the wagon
战术。
3. 安倍参拜靖国神社。 这是
侮辱。 必须PR猛反击之，让
安倍付出代价。 中国做的对
4. Jimmy Kimmel show 广告反华
言论。 老中奋起抗议之。 老中做的对。
5. 防微度渐， google "break window policing
theory"
6. 弯曲的呼声很高的烙印Ro Khanna。
经常反华黑中国。 老中应集体抵制他。
7. 工会有一个工人被裁，一群去罢工的
传统。 虽然工会日久成霸，但是IT业真
需要工会。 烙印CXO很善于“分而治之”的
霸凌战术： 2年窃中企业，10年窃大企，
20年窃国。 必须反抗。
8. 烙印PM 在NY 发表演说， 拿台湾人
开刀，煽动烙印们对华裔的敌意。 此人本来
就有煽动姑息骨架拉提屠杀穆斯林暴乱的历史。
现在贼眼又喵向了中国。 老中应该反这个摸底。
9. LS 说得好！ 确实校园反霸凌和
职场反霸凌有共通之处！ 请帮转 Parenting，
和其他版面。。。
发信人: sureman (行地无疆), 信区: SanFrancisco
标 题: Re: 霸凌algorithm和反霸凌：职场必读 (转载)
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Nov 14 19:06:56 2014, 美东)
楼主的bully与反bully跟我教儿子的战术一模一样，深表同意！
再不起眼的bully也是bully，不能放任之，否则对方就会得寸进尺；
bully的对象就算是别人，自己也要勇于站出来反抗，因为可能下一个就是你，现在站
出来你至少有一个盟友，而且你在道德上处于有利地位；
再微不足道的反抗，也是有用的，因为这个鲜明地表达了你的立场，要让对方付出代价，这样使得对方在以后的行动中要多些顾虑。
老中群体，就应该团结起来，对任何侵害群体中个体的事件，都应该及时反击，以敬效尤。
要知道，所有的尊重，都是要靠自己努力去争取的。
【 在 N007 (N007) 的大作中提到: 】
: sb 又来了
以反印为幌子，含沙射影的让老中回去支持那几个黄皮民主党政客，那气味就不大好闻了
【 在 Junger (皮皮) 的大作中提到: 】
: 不同意他你反驳。sb骂人就不对了。
不要老为了鸡毛蒜皮吵架了。
马工不能再孤军包子下去了！
再不起眼的bully也是bully，不能放任之，否则对方就会得寸进尺；
bully的对象就算是别人，自己也要勇于站出来反抗，因为可能下一个就是你，现在站
出来你至少有一个盟友，而且你在道德上处于有利地位；
再微不足道的反抗，也是有用的，因为这个鲜明地表达了你的立场，要让对方付出代价，这样使得对方在以后的行动中要多些顾虑。
老中群体，就应该团结起来，对任何侵害群体中个体的事件，都应该及时反击，以敬效尤。
要知道，所有的尊重，都是要靠自己努力去争取的。
职场反霸凌有共通之处！ 请帮转 Parenting，
和其他版面。。。
http://www.mitbbs.com/article_t/Parenting/32465375.html
---------------这是父母INTERVENE的方法：
个人觉得最好小孩自己有一帮可以摆平。
但是老中小孩很多没有团结的意识，才会
轮到父母 －－－－－－－－－
发信人: GSJT (GS), 信区: Parenting
标 题: Re: 我小时候被欺负的一件往事
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Nov 14 16:19:46 2014, 美东)
这正是twist。
让一个小屁孩觉得一个爸爸friendly但不弱－－主要是人格互动上，而不是对他使用任何“敌意”。 －－招儿多了去了：投篮，踢球谁踢得远，谁胳膊粗，谁跳得高，
Karate chop， roundhouse kick, haaa heee, and don'g forget to end with a
high five 。。。whatever。
point是，bully是捡软柿子捏的，尤其小孩子里的bully。很多并不邪恶，只是
senseless。 有个跟bully可能friendly但是很不弱的老爸，已经把你家孩子剔除出“
bulliable"的list了 －－ most likely。 即使真的bully没忍住，老爸很friendly但
很assertive的去找他： Hey boy, tell me what you did yesterday to xxx。。。
Bully也不过是小屁孩而已。 大人，用正常的方法，在小孩面前是有巨大优势和压力的。 不会用是自己的事儿，不是bully厉害。