儿子很大可能是自闭症,有经验的妈妈请看看, update 9/20

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purplerain
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LZ的担心我可以理解,想想一个月以前,我也深信12个月的儿子有几乎所有自闭症的症状,还大哭了几天,后来发现因为那只是一个阶段,我们刚刚搬家,可能让儿子觉得不SECURE,害怕外界的事物,后来经常带他出去小孩多的地方玩,去GYMBOREE GYM, 他慢慢的就变得活泼起来了。
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queiny
102 楼
bless...

early intervention should be very helpful.

try to be a positive and supportive parents, and take good care of yourself.
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westlake
103 楼
自闭现在是一个广谱的诊断,语言,认知方面明显落后也会诊断成自闭谱的一种,未必就是一辈子没有希望了,就是狭义的自闭,也有很容易纠正的,和不容易纠正的。不要谈虎色变。

赶紧找EI做个测试,看看能不能接受他们的服务,这个对我家宝宝很有帮助的。

还有,自闭里面有一个是Rett's综合征,那个是退行性的,就是以前会的后来不会了,你们要是觉得有这个倾向,最后还要去做个基因测试,这个预后很不好。不是想吓唬你,把最严重的排除了就会心安很多。
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KCandWei
104 楼
Sorry I can't type in chinese here.
I can't really say I'm a proessional in Autisum, but I used to work with those special needs kids and I did some case study with some autistic kids as well. So here are some information I want to tell you, hopfully it will help you a bit.
1. There is no DIAGNOSITC TEST for autisim, if you do want to start early intervention for you baby, then you should send him to do different types of evaluation. You can contact your doc to start this procedure.
2. Some people say that Autistic kids starts showing signs and symptoms around the age 3. which is not correct, it starts right about age  two.
3. According to your description, i cant say your baby is autistic kid, but the signs and symptoms are pretty match with autistic kids. First, Langudage development delay is the first sign, some autistic kids they start babbling, but later it disappeared, some kids show no babbing at all. Another classical sign is that Autistic kids don't like noise, they even can't stand the noise they made by themselves, so what they do is covering their own ears in order not to hear the nosie they made.
4. They don't like to socialize, no eye contact, showing aggressive behavior sometimes.
5. You mentioned about MMR vaccine, I'm not sure, even though I'm in medical field, and I read about alot of medical article related to MMR and autism, they all say it unrelated. The reason why people get concered about MMR is because babies get MMR vaccine at about age 2, and autism kids starts to show signs and symptoms about the same time. Like I said some kids starts to babble, but then later they disappear, therefore, the parents assume that which has something to do with MMR shot. Well, I'm not sure about this, just little bit extra info.
6. One more classical sign is the repetitive behavior, they keep doing same old thing over and over again.
 
Well, there are too much to say about autistic kid, If you want to leave me your email address in my INBOX, I will send you the paper that I wrote about autistic kid which including lots of classical signs and symptoms, treatment and some autism cases which I've seen in my life, you can compare them with your baby.
 
BTW, baby boy has higher chances to get autism than girls, we still don't know why.
 
My suggestion is contact your doc to start evaluation first, autism is not curable, but definately will change kid's condition with early intervention. Good luck. and best wishes to your baby.... :)
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cauchy
105 楼
bless bless
先找专家看看吧,如果真是自闭,越早介入治疗的希望就越大
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suda11
106 楼
bless~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
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Noahsark
107 楼
bless
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Janet05
108 楼
以下是引用westlake在9/19/2010 1:17:00 PM的发言:

    
    自闭现在是一个广谱的诊断,语言,认知方面明显落后也会诊断成自闭谱的一种,未必就是一辈子没有希望了,就是狭义的自闭,也有很容易纠正的,和不容易纠正的。不要谈虎色变。

赶紧找EI做个测试,看看能不能接受他们的服务,这个对我家宝宝很有帮助的。

还有,自闭里面有一个是Rett's综合征,那个是退行性的,就是以前会的后来不会了,你们要是觉得有这个倾向,最后还要去做个基因测试,这个预后很不好。不是想吓唬你,把最严重的排除了就会心安很多。

    

Rett's 好像只是女孩会有
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herumtreiben
109 楼
LZ说的大部分情况我儿子也有的,比如怕吸尘器的声音,有一阵子拍自己的脑袋什么的,我从来没怀疑过他是自闭,当然很重要的原因是他语言发展很好,所以没什么好担心的。但是,如果LZ用这些情况来推论孩子就是自闭显然是很不理智的,如果实在很担心就联系医生,做评估好了,相信孩子,多用点时间陪他,慢慢会好得~~
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doitnow
110 楼
说实话我一直都很担心那个MMR疫苗,虽然主流媒体不承认它有问题。
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oldyouth
111 楼
以下是引用omician在9/18/2010 2:05:00 PM的发言:

    
      
     pat pat mm,先别自己吓唬自己,让医生诊断一下吧
      
     打疫苗之前可以叫爸爸妈妈什么的么?还是一直不开口? 脾气变坏会不会是T2的来临?
    
倒是之前也不会说话,脾气是最近见长得。。。

不知道还有一个可能的原因会不会世老二地出生让他没有安全感,我们已经尽量多陪他了。。但是他的eye contact真的很差,每次我让他看着我的眼睛说话,他都不,而且一旦我不满足他的要求,马上就大哭躺地上。。。爷爷奶奶马上就不干了,所以我都没有办法强迫他和我交流。。
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akila_d
112 楼
eye contact这个是不好强迫的,你要在他心情好的时候,而且还要积极挪动你的位置让他容易看见你,看你的时候要给他明显的positive feedback。。。想办法让他意识到如果需要帮忙,必须要看着妈妈
 
多跟他玩peekaboo,hide & seek之类的也会有帮助
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begonia
113 楼
以下是引用oldyouth在9/19/2010 11:25:00 PM的发言:

    
     倒是之前也不会说话,脾气是最近见长得。。。

不知道还有一个可能的原因会不会世老二地出生让他没有安全感,我们已经尽量多陪他了。。但是他的eye contact真的很差,每次我让他看着我的眼睛说话,他都不,而且一旦我不满足他的要求,马上就大哭躺地上。。。爷爷奶奶马上就不干了,所以我都没有办法强迫他和我交流。。

    
你这个很可能和我们家老大一样,被弟弟的出生shock了。 真正的自闭不会因为你的行为有很显著的变化的。 而且eye contact不是要娃看着你,而是平时观察娃在和你要东西,要你做什么的时候有没有看着你,或者有意识的看着娃的眼睛,观察娃的反应。 自闭的娃会有一个很明显的回避动作。 而且当你盯他看很久的时候,他会panic吗?会躲到角落里吗? 
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minimouse
114 楼
I think he is OK.
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lyly2006
115 楼
以下是引用KCandWei在9/19/2010 1:52:00 PM的发言:

    
     Sorry I can't type in chinese here.
     I can't really say I'm a proessional in Autisum, but I used to work with those special needs kids and I did some case study with some autistic kids as well. So here are some information I want to tell you, hopfully it will help you a bit.
     1. There is no DIAGNOSITC TEST for autisim, if you do want to start early intervention for you baby, then you should send him to do different types of evaluation. You can contact your doc to start this procedure.
     2. Some people say that Autistic kids starts showing signs and symptoms around the age 3. which is not correct, it starts right about age  two.
     3. According to your description, i cant say your baby is autistic kid, but the signs and symptoms are pretty match with autistic kids. First, Langudage development delay is the first sign, some autistic kids they start babbling, but later it disappeared, some kids show no babbing at all. Another classical sign is that Autistic kids don't like noise, they even can't stand the noise they made by themselves, so what they do is covering their own ears in order not to hear the nosie they made.
     4. They don't like to socialize, no eye contact, showing aggressive behavior sometimes.
     5. You mentioned about MMR vaccine, I'm not sure, even though I'm in medical field, and I read about alot of medical article related to MMR and autism, they all say it unrelated. The reason why people get concered about MMR is because babies get MMR vaccine at about age 2, and autism kids starts to show signs and symptoms about the same time. Like I said some kids starts to babble, but then later they disappear, therefore, the parents assume that which has something to do with MMR shot. Well, I'm not sure about this, just little bit extra info.
     6. One more classical sign is the repetitive behavior, they keep doing same old thing over and over again.
      
     Well, there are too much to say about autistic kid, If you want to leave me your email address in my INBOX, I will send you the paper that I wrote about autistic kid which including lots of classical signs and symptoms, treatment and some autism cases which I've seen in my life, you can compare them with your baby.
      
     BTW, baby boy has higher chances to get autism than girls, we still don't know why.
      
     My suggestion is contact your doc to start evaluation first, autism is not curable, but definately will change kid's condition with early intervention. Good luck. and best wishes to your baby.... :)





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fanyao
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以下是引用小凋在9/18/2010 1:37:00 PM的发言:

    
    bless!

我们10月底也要打MMR了,还能再托拖么

    

这个MMR还有这种副作用呀?
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Rosepathhome
117 楼
以下是引用KCandWei在9/19/2010 1:52:00 PM的发言:

    
     Sorry I can't type in chinese here.
     I can't really say I'm a proessional in Autisum, but I used to work with those special needs kids and I did some case study with some autistic kids as well. So here are some information I want to tell you, hopfully it will help you a bit.
     1. There is no DIAGNOSITC TEST for autisim, if you do want to start early intervention for you baby, then you should send him to do different types of evaluation. You can contact your doc to start this procedure.
     2. Some people say that Autistic kids starts showing signs and symptoms around the age 3. which is not correct, it starts right about age  two.
     3. According to your description, i cant say your baby is autistic kid, but the signs and symptoms are pretty match with autistic kids. First, Langudage development delay is the first sign, some autistic kids they start babbling, but later it disappeared, some kids show no babbing at all. Another classical sign is that Autistic kids don't like noise, they even can't stand the noise they made by themselves, so what they do is covering their own ears in order not to hear the nosie they made.
     4. They don't like to socialize, no eye contact, showing aggressive behavior sometimes.
     5. You mentioned about MMR vaccine, I'm not sure, even though I'm in medical field, and I read about alot of medical article related to MMR and autism, they all say it unrelated. The reason why people get concered about MMR is because babies get MMR vaccine at about age 2, and autism kids starts to show signs and symptoms about the same time. Like I said some kids starts to babble, but then later they disappear, therefore, the parents assume that which has something to do with MMR shot. Well, I'm not sure about this, just little bit extra info.
     6. One more classical sign is the repetitive behavior, they keep doing same old thing over and over again.
      
     Well, there are too much to say about autistic kid, If you want to leave me your email address in my INBOX, I will send you the paper that I wrote about autistic kid which including lots of classical signs and symptoms, treatment and some autism cases which I've seen in my life, you can compare them with your baby.
      
     BTW, baby boy has higher chances to get autism than girls, we still don't know why.
      
     My suggestion is contact your doc to start evaluation first, autism is not curable, but definately will change kid's condition with early intervention. Good luck. and best wishes to your baby.... :)


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atui
118 楼
我家宝宝现在15个月,也没开口,也有这些症状,但是我们觉得这些很正常。

以下是引用oldyouth在9/18/2010 1:29:00 PM的发言:

    
    
对吸尘器,blender, 吹风机等声音很敏感,听到就害怕和哭.这个从8个月就这样了
分不清楚大人的情绪, 有一次我老公大发脾气的时候他还哈哈大笑
要什么东西就是拉着大人的手放到他让你弄得东西上, 典型的机械手
脾气非常差,动不动就躺地上哭,一点不满意就嚎,还拿头撞地
喜欢各种按钮,**什么的

[此贴子已经被作者于2010/9/19 23:26:07编辑过]

    
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sleepybear0423
119 楼
请问大家喜欢按钮和**也是症状么? 我家宝宝一直很喜欢,而且18个月了,说话也不多,最近似乎也喜欢打自己头。好吓人啊。
 
现在eye contact还挺好的也不怕nosie, 但不知道2岁前会不会恶化。。能对上号好几个就觉得很吓人了
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xixi7779
120 楼
lzmm, send you a message.
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novblossom
121 楼
 

我家娃刚一岁,也开始对人叫名字没反应了。以前4,5个月时候还有反应的。
变得不听话了,不满意就嚎。天天敲自己头。
喜欢各种按钮,**什么的,机械手的情况也有,我还觉得很cute。汗

看了这个贴我也紧张了。
咪咪喵喵
122 楼
 老是敲自己的头, 最近老是捂耳朵
不和任何小朋友玩,
分不清楚大人的情绪, 有一次我老公大发脾气的时候他还哈哈大笑
要什么东西就是拉着大人的手放到他让你弄得东西上, 典型的机械手
脾气非常差,动不动就躺地上哭,一点不满意就嚎,还拿头撞地
喜欢各种按钮,**什么的

这些症状我儿子都有,不见得就是自闭吧。好好查查看。
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xiaojiecai
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qiqigre
124 楼
bless
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lll20092011
125 楼
bless!不懂,但是我想多花点心思陪孩子会好些吧
 
 
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beatrice5
126 楼
big bless
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austinsd
127 楼
 Bless!
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wayhh
128 楼
朋友的儿子有自闭,其实是中度PDD,参加了early intervention 和special preschool, 现在快6岁了,已经在正常班上课了,反正我是看不出来他孩子的问题,以前还是挺明显的。
小胖胖宝
129 楼
以下是引用lemonwine在9/18/2010 2:05:00 PM的发言:

    
     bless!
    
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zuzu123
130 楼
Bless
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reba
131 楼
bless!
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hellomissmask
132 楼
BLESS!~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
糖醋熊
133 楼
 如果实在排队的时间太长,就赶紧先回国,我知道国内的一些康复中心治疗自闭也很有一套的~
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pollona
134 楼
觉得是不是耳朵的问题?偶家小朋友现在21个月了,也不会讲话啊,他爸就说也是2岁开口的,所以和讲话没有关系。
 
是不是平时和小朋友交流的机会很少的原因啊?
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greathaha
135 楼
 big bless!!!!
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jenny945
136 楼
以下是引用greathaha在2/10/2012 9:59:00 AM的发言:
 big bless!!!!

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blackwalnut
137 楼
big bless~~~~~
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jieyichen
138 楼
都不知道儿子啥时候打的MMR的妈妈路过,这个真的很有影响的吗?为啥美国那么多自闭症呢?是不是小孩子一天到晚在家里,不像国内那么多孩子玩造成的呢?bless 一下LZ,希望不是真的自闭症。
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lostandfound
139 楼
不是, 这就是疾病.

国内也有,但是大家知道得少,父母也觉得小孩子就是发育慢点,很少会带去看。估计很多地方都没有能确诊自闭的医生。

以下是引用jieyichen在2/10/2012 12:36:00 PM的发言:

    
    都不知道儿子啥时候打的MMR的妈妈路过,这个真的很有影响的吗?为啥美国那么多自闭症呢?是不是小孩子一天到晚在家里,不像国内那么多孩子玩造成的呢?bless 一下LZ,希望不是真的自闭症。
    
地主婆
140 楼
你儿子的这些症状我儿子基本占全,鉴定后我儿子不是自闭症,主要是缺少玩伴。回国住了半年,以上情况得到很大的改善,国内真不缺玩伴。
[此贴子已经被作者于2012/2/10 16:18:29编辑过]
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dianachenjing
141 楼
带你儿子回国。

和楼上的妈妈一样,我当初也是注意到儿子一切自闭症的症状,最后是带回国后一下子排除了儿子的自闭症可能。

国内就算没有玩伴,那么多亲戚朋友谈笑风生的,孩子一下子就活泼起来。

我儿子以前从来不知道找妈妈,出去玩就自己低头走,我怎么叫他也不理我,也不看我(18个月)。后来回国不到一个月,整天找妈妈,要妈妈。周围亲戚太多,他一眼看不见我就哭,或者找不到我就抓着我的衣服哭着说要妈妈。对了,之前也从来不喊妈妈。
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dealnodeal
142 楼
Unfortunately, His symptom seems like autism. I recomment to see doctor ASAP.
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wanderwonder
143 楼
我家的肯定不自闭,但你说的这些我家都有:

根本不听人说话,叫他也没有反应
--玩的高兴了就忘记我们了

对吸尘器,blender, 吹风机等声音很敏感,听到就害怕和哭.这个从8个月就这样了
--一样一样的,会不停的说收起来

老是敲自己的头, 最近老是捂耳朵
--会有时候自己跑去墙边把头撞几下

分不清楚大人的情绪, 有一次我老公大发脾气的时候他还哈哈大笑
--我和老公一吵架他就笑的不行

要什么东西就是拉着大人的手放到他让你弄得东西上, 典型的机械手
--有时候会

脾气非常差,动不动就躺地上哭,一点不满意就嚎,还拿头撞地
--terrible 2不都这样吗

喜欢各种按钮,**什么的
--对的
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melonbaby
144 楼
以下是引用肥虫子2010在9/18/2010 1:55:00 PM的发言:

    
     big bless. 不懂,还是多看几个好医生