马小三居然到公司打了女苦主,还有天理吗!!!!

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ktan
301 楼
这信真够无耻的。
If they got married at those states where adultery is illegal, she might be able to sue him back there.
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zyr
302 楼
大奶不可能回头了。        
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ponnie
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以下是引用taotao6434在3/6/2010 10:56:00 PM的发言:
看马小三怎么回我的email的。 Just want to give ppl like you of what we will publish shortly. ----------------------------------------------- Wilson and Nan open up this blog as our life has been unfairly devastated by the blog posted by Wilson’s wife and subsequent personal attacks via our personal emails and phones. The exposure of our personal contact information and photos is outrageous at the least, illegal at the most. So we see the necessity to stand up rather than keep silent to tell our perspectives of the story. You readers can use your own judgment to see the truth out of it. We are both average people with weakness and emotions. We admit that we are on the fault side on this matter without enough consideration and maturity. But we are not completely evil and without any conscience as labeled in some of the reply posts. You might agree that the breakage of any marriage shouldn’t be due to only one party of the couple. A solid marriage couldn’t be broken up just because of an external temptation. For the 4 adults involved in this, we are all their first dates, which led to their marriage. We are all simple people without too much emotional experience. As the first generation immigrants, we came to the country for school. We experienced the economic downturn, job instability, immigration status. We have never stopped struggling and fighting for life until we reached the age to consider having kids. And the arrival of kids has been keeping us busy enough. Unfortunately over the years, the emotional banks of our marriages are severely overdrawn. In Wilson’s case, he and his wife experienced a lot medical treatment for a couple of years to have their first daughter. Their second daughter’s natural arrival is an unexpected gift from heaven. Wilson and Nan got to know each other at friends’ party and connected as good friends since September 2008. We both struggled a lot and tried to get out of this relationship as hard as we could. We experienced rounds and rounds of breakups especially after the news of Wilson’s wife’s second pregnancy. However over time the emotion evolved to a point where Wilson and Nan decided to tell their respective families on 12/20/2009 as Nan couldn’t handle the conscience pressure of keeping her husband in the darkness any more. Due to their strong belief in their love, Wilson decided to do the same rather than leave Nan alone in this kind of situation. In retrospect, they realized how bad the timing is as Wilson’s wife was still bread feeding. After the announcement, Nan and her husband managed to maintain a friendly and civil relation and they decide to share custody of their son. Wilson had to stay in the house for the young kids because no agreement could be reached. Wilson proposed to leave all the financial property and house to wife and share custody of the kids. Considering the financial burdens of his wife, Wilson brought Nan to the same page to provide half of the mortgage of the current house even after the divorce. Since it happened, Wilson has been taking care of their baby daughter on weekend days and nights and holidays almost full time while the nanny were not present. We agree with most the “facts” in Wilson’s wife’s post. But the selection of the facts is severely biased and misleading. Take the example of the 2/14 night, here is the whole story: 2/12/2010 7PM Wilson took over his baby daughter from nanny for the entire night. 2/13/2010 Wilson took care of his baby daughter the entire day. 2/13/2010 9:30PM after putting the baby to night sleep, Wilson went out to say Happy New Year to Nan. 2/14/2010 In the morning Wilson’s wife told him that she would take both kids to the tech museum to meet her girl friend and kids. Then Wilson went out to run some errands and met Nan. We also had Wilson’s wife and Nan’s husband to review this before we make these facts public. --- On Sat, 3/6/10, wrote: From: Subject: 用下半身思考的人渣.鄙视你?背叛儿子,你会心安吗? To: [email protected] Date: Saturday, March 6, 2010, 1:57 PM
"放我们的真爱一条生路吧,看我被戴了绿帽的lg都能友好的和我共处,而且你lg(现在是我的了!)决定给你所有的财产和房子,还要帮你付房贷的一半,就是想跟我在一起,你就给我们让路吧" 无耻无耻无耻
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hotpinkmom
304 楼
 no idea...
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monkeyge
305 楼
太贱了!!
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autofill
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以下是引用taotao6434在3/6/2010 10:56:00 PM的发言:
看马小三怎么回我的email的。 Just want to give ppl like you of what we will publish shortly. ----------------------------------------------- Wilson and Nan open up this blog as our life has been unfairly devastated by the blog posted by Wilson’s wife and subsequent personal attacks via our personal emails and phones. The exposure of our personal contact information and photos is outrageous at the least, illegal at the most. So we see the necessity to stand up rather than keep silent to tell our perspectives of the story. You readers can use your own judgment to see the truth out of it. We are both average people with weakness and emotions. We admit that we are on the fault side on this matter without enough consideration and maturity. But we are not completely evil and without any conscience as labeled in some of the reply posts. You might agree that the breakage of any marriage shouldn’t be due to only one party of the couple. A solid marriage couldn’t be broken up just because of an external temptation. For the 4 adults involved in this, we are all their first dates, which led to their marriage. We are all simple people without too much emotional experience. As the first generation immigrants, we came to the country for school. We experienced the economic downturn, job instability, immigration status. We have never stopped struggling and fighting for life until we reached the age to consider having kids. And the arrival of kids has been keeping us busy enough. Unfortunately over the years, the emotional banks of our marriages are severely overdrawn. In Wilson’s case, he and his wife experienced a lot medical treatment for a couple of years to have their first daughter. Their second daughter’s natural arrival is an unexpected gift from heaven. Wilson and Nan got to know each other at friends’ party and connected as good friends since September 2008. We both struggled a lot and tried to get out of this relationship as hard as we could. We experienced rounds and rounds of breakups especially after the news of Wilson’s wife’s second pregnancy. However over time the emotion evolved to a point where Wilson and Nan decided to tell their respective families on 12/20/2009 as Nan couldn’t handle the conscience pressure of keeping her husband in the darkness any more. Due to their strong belief in their love, Wilson decided to do the same rather than leave Nan alone in this kind of situation. In retrospect, they realized how bad the timing is as Wilson’s wife was still bread feeding. After the announcement, Nan and her husband managed to maintain a friendly and civil relation and they decide to share custody of their son. Wilson had to stay in the house for the young kids because no agreement could be reached. Wilson proposed to leave all the financial property and house to wife and share custody of the kids. Considering the financial burdens of his wife, Wilson brought Nan to the same page to provide half of the mortgage of the current house even after the divorce. Since it happened, Wilson has been taking care of their baby daughter on weekend days and nights and holidays almost full time while the nanny were not present. We agree with most the “facts” in Wilson’s wife’s post. But the selection of the facts is severely biased and misleading. Take the example of the 2/14 night, here is the whole story: 2/12/2010 7PM Wilson took over his baby daughter from nanny for the entire night. 2/13/2010 Wilson took care of his baby daughter the entire day. 2/13/2010 9:30PM after putting the baby to night sleep, Wilson went out to say Happy New Year to Nan. 2/14/2010 In the morning Wilson’s wife told him that she would take both kids to the tech museum to meet her girl friend and kids. Then Wilson went out to run some errands and met Nan. We also had Wilson’s wife and Nan’s husband to review this before we make these facts public. --- On Sat, 3/6/10,  wrote: From:  Subject: 用下半身思考的人渣.鄙视你?背叛儿子,你会心安吗? To: [email protected] Date: Saturday, March 6, 2010, 1:57 PM
TNND,想开车去MILPITAS扇这对贱人两耳光
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applekernel
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见过不要脸的女人,没见过这么不要脸的女人,感谢马老三给了我这个机会让我破了这个“处”
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doubt
308 楼
看着看着我有点害怕了,拜托楼主和苦主的朋友们,可千万要看好苦主和孩子们,别闹出什么悲剧来,如果是我,我可能会冲动的抱着两个孩子一起死的。
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fallsnow812
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以下是引用autofill在3/6/2010 11:26:00 PM的发言:

TNND,想开车去MILPITAS扇这对贱人两耳光
 
same here.
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tubaobao
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以下是引用taotao6434在3/6/2010 10:56:00 PM的发言:
看马小三怎么回我的email的。 Just want to give ppl like you of what we will publish shortly. ----------------------------------------------- Wilson and Nan open up this blog as our life has been unfairly devastated by the blog posted by Wilson’s wife and subsequent personal attacks via our personal emails and phones. The exposure of our personal contact information and photos is outrageous at the least, illegal at the most. So we see the necessity to stand up rather than keep silent to tell our perspectives of the story. You readers can use your own judgment to see the truth out of it. We are both average people with weakness and emotions. We admit that we are on the fault side on this matter without enough consideration and maturity. But we are not completely evil and without any conscience as labeled in some of the reply posts. You might agree that the breakage of any marriage shouldn’t be due to only one party of the couple. A solid marriage couldn’t be broken up just because of an external temptation. For the 4 adults involved in this, we are all their first dates, which led to their marriage. We are all simple people without too much emotional experience. As the first generation immigrants, we came to the country for school. We experienced the economic downturn, job instability, immigration status. We have never stopped struggling and fighting for life until we reached the age to consider having kids. And the arrival of kids has been keeping us busy enough. Unfortunately over the years, the emotional banks of our marriages are severely overdrawn. In Wilson’s case, he and his wife experienced a lot medical treatment for a couple of years to have their first daughter. Their second daughter’s natural arrival is an unexpected gift from heaven. Wilson and Nan got to know each other at friends’ party and connected as good friends since September 2008. We both struggled a lot and tried to get out of this relationship as hard as we could. We experienced rounds and rounds of breakups especially after the news of Wilson’s wife’s second pregnancy. However over time the emotion evolved to a point where Wilson and Nan decided to tell their respective families on 12/20/2009 as Nan couldn’t handle the conscience pressure of keeping her husband in the darkness any more. Due to their strong belief in their love, Wilson decided to do the same rather than leave Nan alone in this kind of situation. In retrospect, they realized how bad the timing is as Wilson’s wife was still bread feeding. After the announcement, Nan and her husband managed to maintain a friendly and civil relation and they decide to share custody of their son. Wilson had to stay in the house for the young kids because no agreement could be reached. Wilson proposed to leave all the financial property and house to wife and share custody of the kids. Considering the financial burdens of his wife, Wilson brought Nan to the same page to provide half of the mortgage of the current house even after the divorce. Since it happened, Wilson has been taking care of their baby daughter on weekend days and nights and holidays almost full time while the nanny were not present. We agree with most the “facts” in Wilson’s wife’s post. But the selection of the facts is severely biased and misleading. Take the example of the 2/14 night, here is the whole story: 2/12/2010 7PM Wilson took over his baby daughter from nanny for the entire night. 2/13/2010 Wilson took care of his baby daughter the entire day. 2/13/2010 9:30PM after putting the baby to night sleep, Wilson went out to say Happy New Year to Nan. 2/14/2010 In the morning Wilson’s wife told him that she would take both kids to the tech museum to meet her girl friend and kids. Then Wilson went out to run some errands and met Nan. We also had Wilson’s wife and Nan’s husband to review this before we make these facts public. --- On Sat, 3/6/10, wrote: From: Subject: 用下半身思考的人渣.鄙视你?背叛儿子,你会心安吗? To: [email protected] Date: Saturday, March 6, 2010, 1:57 PM
 
真是无耻! 有一点不明白,为什么贱男贱女说“We also had Wilson’s wife and Nan’s husband to review this before we make these facts public.” 说的好像Wilson’s wife and Nan’s husband支持他们呢? Faint!贱男贱女的意思是Wilson’s wife and Nan’s husband都已经接受了???
 
这样看来马小三打人可能不是真的呢。
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purplevaggie
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以下是引用shoon_yee在3/6/2010 11:03:00 PM的发言:

    
     看了这回信,觉得这人真是无耻。
    
是什么回信啊?回给苦主的信么?
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Muffin123
312 楼
 so ridiculous.......
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ponnie
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以下是引用chestnuts在3/6/2010 11:21:00 PM的发言:

看来, email 和 phone 还是有用的, 大家继续, 打击他们的道德底线, 看样子, 男的还是有回头的可能性, 是女的想摊牌先的, 看出来没有
 
 
是的,果然是贱三逼宫,为示真爱,劈腿男象老婆摊牌,去死吧!!!!!!!1
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maiqi
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以下是引用tubaobao在3/6/2010 11:29:00 PM的发言:

    
    
 
真是无耻! 有一点不明白,为什么贱男贱女说“We also had Wilson’s wife and Nan’s husband to review this before we make these facts public.” 说的好像Wilson’s wife and Nan’s husband支持他们呢? Faint!贱男贱女的意思是Wilson’s wife and Nan’s husband都已经接受了???
 
这样看来马小三打人可能不是真的呢。
    

这个review只是”知会“的意思吧,并不能得出结论另俩人已经支持他们的说法。
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jieandchuan
315 楼
kao  真是无敌jian a !!!!!!!!!
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asvs
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以下是引用lilacjj在3/6/2010 9:57:00 PM的发言:

    
     说直接去公司扇了两耳光,可是没有门卡怎么进去?
     纯技术讨论。。。。。。本人很鄙视小三的
    
这个容易,苦主出来见她的.

苦主博文里不是说想约阿三出来谈谈,而阿三回了她封信不见吗?

如果阿三去见苦主,苦主以为可以劝她收手,自然出来见她.

我这是推测,但相信跟真相相差不远.
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purplevaggie
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以下是引用ozarka有点甜在3/6/2010 11:18:00 PM的发言:

    
     为啥都只骂小三,不骂那个贱男呢
    
两个都不是好东西。现在小三还有胆子伸出头来干坏事,不骂她骂谁?
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maiqi
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 lz是苦主的朋友,请如果有机会,告知苦主
1,千万保重,不要为这种疯狗生气。
2,千万看护好孩子,如有可能找信得过的家人朋友帮忙,不能再让wilson接近孩子,最好把这贱男踢出家门。
3,找离婚律师,争取最大利益。
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doubt
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以下是引用maiqi在3/6/2010 11:33:00 PM的发言:
 lz是苦主的朋友,请如果有机会,告知苦主
1,千万保重,不要为这种疯狗生气。
2,千万看护好孩子,如有可能找信得过的家人朋友帮忙,不能再让wilson接近孩子,最好把这贱男踢出家门。
3,找离婚律师,争取最大利益。

 
对的,该找离婚律师了,转移一下注意力也好,这个事情不能陷进去想了,想太深会出问题的。
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tubaobao
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以下是引用tubaobao在3/6/2010 11:29:00 PM的发言:

 
真是无耻! 有一点不明白,为什么贱男贱女说“We also had Wilson’s wife and Nan’s husband to review this before we make these facts public.” 说的好像Wilson’s wife and Nan’s husband支持他们呢? Faint!贱男贱女的意思是Wilson’s wife and Nan’s husband都已经接受了???
 
这样看来马小三打人可能不是真的呢。
 
 
以下是引用maiqi在3/6/2010 11:30:00 PM的发言:
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lilacjj
321 楼
看了马小三的信,真想骂人!!不要脸
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Laura...
322 楼
 这两家的苦主还是赶快找律师,带着孩子远离这两个烂人,太能折腾了
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maiqi
323 楼
这个总结好。

 发信人: purifiedoil (vitamin D), 信区: SanFrancisco

标  题: Re: 马小三回信了, huaren上看到的

发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sun Mar  7 00:33:09 2010, 美东)

好像基本意思就是保暖思淫欲。以前生活艰难啊,自己和wilson都是还没搞明白对

自己那位的感情就稀里糊涂生了娃,现在爱如潮水,实在是等不及wilson老婆过哺乳期

了,wilson虽说除夕夜出来和我幽会,但他那是看了一整天娃之后啊,已经尽了做父亲

的责任了,他老婆blog说的虽说全是事实,但是没提wilson带娃所以是bias的。我们其

实都是挺负责任的人, 我们还打算看在他老婆经济困难的份上,离婚后还付一半ho

use的mogage,我们这么够意思的人到哪里去找?反被你们说的这么不堪!

【 在 Quaker (Oatmeal) 的大作中提到: 】

: 谁给翻译一下,或者总结一下,太长了...没耐心看完
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cherryzho
324 楼
以下是引用maiqi在3/6/2010 11:23:00 PM的发言:

人家是真爱。。。。。

男马自我感觉挺好么,其实是人家老婆正怀孕生产(可能还要保胎)她才有机可乘,
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milkyway1984
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以下是引用丑猪在3/6/2010 8:34:00 PM的发言:

    
     真想大骂那个不要脸的马小三!!!!!!
     操!!!真tm不要脸!!
    
re!
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eaieeaie
326 楼
They make me sick. The house with morgage is liability. Paying half of the morgage means paying half of the liability. What if the house is under the water? Who can find a cheaper way to get out of the trouble? Taking care of the daughter??? They have two daughters. From the reply, he only takes care of one daughter on weekends. He even didn't fulfill his half share of the family. How come they feel this is something they want to brag about?  
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tqmm
327 楼
靠,李的第一个孩子好不容易有的,怎么不知道珍惜呢,真是好日子过够了,
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maiqi
328 楼
以下是引用eaieeaie在3/6/2010 11:38:00 PM的发言:

    
    They make me sick. The house with morgage is liability. Paying half of the morgage means paying half of the liability. What if the house is under the water? Who can find a cheaper way to get out of the trouble? Taking care of the daughter??? They have two daughters. From the reply, he only takes care of one daughter on weekends. He even didn't fulfill his half share of the family. How come they feel this is something they want to brag about?  
    

湾区的房子有多贵,一定借了大笔钱的,现在又要地震。。。可想而知。
所谓给一半mortgage,还想骗过人。。。

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dogrusty
329 楼
以下是引用maiqi在3/6/2010 11:33:00 PM的发言:

    
     lz是苦主的朋友,请如果有机会,告知苦主
1,千万保重,不要为这种疯狗生气。
2,千万看护好孩子,如有可能找信得过的家人朋友帮忙,不能再让wilson接近孩子,最好把这贱男踢出家门。
3,找离婚律师,争取最大利益。

    


Thanks. 会转告她。很多人都在支持她
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isania
330 楼
呼唤认识马小三的人出来说说吧 。。。。
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tobeornottobe
331 楼
以下是引用maiqi在3/6/2010 11:37:00 PM的发言:

    
    
这个总结好。

 发信人: purifiedoil (vitamin D), 信区: SanFrancisco

标  题: Re: 马小三回信了, huaren上看到的

发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sun Mar  7 00:33:09 2010, 美东)

    

好像基本意思就是保暖思淫欲。以前生活艰难啊,自己和wilson都是还没搞明白对

自己那位的感情就稀里糊涂生了娃,现在爱如潮水,实在是等不及wilson老婆过哺乳期

了,wilson虽说除夕夜出来和我幽会,但他那是看了一整天娃之后啊,已经尽了做父亲

的责任了,他老婆blog说的虽说全是事实,但是没提wilson带娃所以是bias的。我们其

实都是挺负责任的人, 我们还打算看在他老婆经济困难的份上,离婚后还付一半ho

use的mogage,我们这么够意思的人到哪里去找?反被你们说的这么不堪!

    

【 在 Quaker (Oatmeal) 的大作中提到: 】

: 谁给翻译一下,或者总结一下,太长了...没耐心看完

    


李连杰也是这么说的, 当初偶不懂爱情,稀里糊涂生了两娃,后来偶找真爱了。
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gfbear
332 楼
以下是引用taotao6434在3/6/2010 10:56:00 PM的发言:

 
没分段,看得我好累啊
 
还是一句话,不要脸
 
证明了,狗男女在第2个孩子前就在一起了
 
马小三竟然说第2个孩子是上天给的礼物,拜托,那麻烦你们都知道要好好珍惜一下可以不?
 
那些之前一直帮马小三和贱男说话的人,真都是一个调调,还强调原本婚姻没有问题,婚外再多诱惑也是没用的
 
屁话!人家夫妻两个经过这么多努力有了第一个宝宝,就叫婚姻有问题了阿?
 
经历过风风雨雨的夫妻只会更加珍惜现在所拥有的,不是像你这样,生活沉闷了,就去寻找婚外情的刺激
 
我上网从来没有说过这么多话,今天实在是看不下去了。。。。
 
 
 
 
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fourleaf
333 楼
以下是引用tqmm在3/6/2010 11:38:00 PM的发言:

    
    靠,李的第一个孩子好不容易有的,怎么不知道珍惜呢,真是好日子过够了,
    
玫瑰的故事
334 楼
以下是引用maiqi在3/6/2010 11:37:00 PM的发言:

这个总结好。

 发信人: purifiedoil (vitamin D), 信区: SanFrancisco
标  题: Re: 马小三回信了, huaren上看到的
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sun Mar  7 00:33:09 2010, 美东)

好像基本意思就是保暖思淫欲。以前生活艰难啊,自己和wilson都是还没搞明白对
自己那位的感情就稀里糊涂生了娃,现在爱如潮水,实在是等不及wilson老婆过哺乳期
了,wilson虽说除夕夜出来和我幽会,但他那是看了一整天娃之后啊,已经尽了做父亲
的责任了,他老婆blog说的虽说全是事实,但是没提wilson带娃所以是bias的。我们其
实都是挺负责任的人, 我们还打算看在他老婆经济困难的份上,离婚后还付一半ho
use的mogage,我们这么够意思的人到哪里去找?反被你们说的这么不堪!

【 在 Quaker (Oatmeal) 的大作中提到: 】
: 谁给翻译一下,或者总结一下,太长了...没耐心看完

 
狂吐的小猴子。。。
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pellegrino
335 楼
sigh, 这种人居然还有脸回信
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sunnydoll
336 楼
他妈的,这对狗男女真不要脸!
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gfbear
337 楼
以下是引用doubt在3/6/2010 11:28:00 PM的发言:
看着看着我有点害怕了,拜托楼主和苦主的朋友们,可千万要看好苦主和孩子们,别闹出什么悲剧来,如果是我,我可能会冲动的抱着两个孩子一起死的。
 
这种事情,为了孩子都得坚强住
 
何况错的又不是大奶
 
不要为了别人的错误来惩罚自己
 
 
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purplevaggie
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以下是引用tubaobao在3/6/2010 11:35:00 PM的发言:

    
    

 
 
以下是引用maiqi在3/6/2010 11:30:00 PM的发言:



 
但贱男女这样说会给人错误的信息。  另外,大家觉得马小三打人是真的吗? 如果马小三还能冷静的写这样的回信。
    
why not impossible?你永远不知道傻B的底在哪~
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gfbear
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以下是引用tubaobao在3/6/2010 11:29:00 PM的发言:

 
真是无耻! 有一点不明白,为什么贱男贱女说“We also had Wilson’s wife and Nan’s husband to review this before we make these facts public.” 说的好像Wilson’s wife and Nan’s husband支持他们呢? Faint!贱男贱女的意思是Wilson’s wife and Nan’s husband都已经接受了???
 
这样看来马小三打人可能不是真的呢。
 
她说而已。。。。谁知道是不是真的
 
 
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superzoom
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其实,我觉得最无耻的是那个男的。
他可以做到避免所有这些事情的发生。
相反,他却没有。
无耻!
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Laura...
341 楼
真爱就真爱吧,两个都净身出门吧,该付的赡养费和教育费就大大方方的付了。既然都知道了给另一半带来了痛苦,金钱上就不要计较了,何况钱财也是为了保证自己的骨肉的生活质量,没见过为了真爱还计较钱财的
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autofill
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以下是引用tubaobao在3/6/2010 11:29:00 PM的发言:

 
真是无耻! 有一点不明白,为什么贱男贱女说“We also had Wilson’s wife and Nan’s husband to review this before we make these facts public.” 说的好像Wilson’s wife and Nan’s husband支持他们呢? Faint!贱男贱女的意思是Wilson’s wife and Nan’s husband都已经接受了???
 
这样看来马小三打人可能不是真的呢。
她的意思是这封信的内容,也就是财产分割,ws 男full time看两天孩子等事实事经过了各自配偶的confirm, 她才发出这封信的,开了个blog.
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xiaoni
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以下是引用superzoom在3/6/2010 11:45:00 PM的发言:
其实,我觉得最无耻的是那个男的。
他可以做到避免所有这些事情的发生。
相反,他却没有。
无耻!

re. 而且既然已经有了小三,就不应该再有第二个孩子,不管是不是意外
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gfbear
344 楼
以下是引用superzoom在3/6/2010 11:45:00 PM的发言:
其实,我觉得最无耻的是那个男的。
他可以做到避免所有这些事情的发生。
相反,他却没有。
无耻!

 
而且现在还躲在后面
 
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autofill
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以下是引用tqmm在3/6/2010 11:38:00 PM的发言:
靠,李的第一个孩子好不容易有的,怎么不知道珍惜呢,真是好日子过够了,
是啊,真替那个MM难过
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superzoom
346 楼
 Since it happened, Wilson has been taking care of their baby daughter
on weekend days and nights and holidays almost full time while the
nanny were not present.

这就是他应该做的,谁叫他是孩子他爹。
难道搞了三了,做这些事情就成了恩赐了,
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maiqi
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以下是引用xiaoni在3/6/2010 11:48:00 PM的发言:

    
    
     re. 而且既然已经有了小三,就不应该再有第二个孩子,不管是不是意外
    

第二个孩子马三说是god给的。。。。。
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weili22
348 楼
女小三实在无耻.
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pellegrino
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以下是引用xiaoni在3/6/2010 11:48:00 PM的发言:

    
    
     re. 而且既然已经有了小三,就不应该再有第二个孩子,不管是不是意外
    


是啊,真是恶心到无法形容了。可怜两个孩子,将来知道了想避开都没法,总是有血亲的。
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autofill
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以下是引用Laura...在3/6/2010 11:47:00 PM的发言:
真爱就真爱吧,两个都净身出门吧,该付的赡养费和教育费就大大方方的付了。既然都知道了给另一半带来了痛苦,金钱上就不要计较了,何况钱财也是为了保证自己的骨肉的生活质量,没见过为了真爱还计较钱财的
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人没计较,人很大方的,nan无限委屈的说了,你们这些有bias的人们,见过我们这么大方的贱男和小三吗?
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tobeornottobe
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以下是引用maiqi在3/6/2010 11:50:00 PM的发言:

    
    
第二个孩子马三说是god给的。。。。。

    


无语, 连god都想扯上, 贱男没经手???
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asvs
352 楼
以下是引用taotao6434在3/6/2010 10:56:00 PM的发言:

    
    看马小三怎么回我的email的。
Just want to give ppl like you of what we will publish shortly.
-----------------------------------------------
Wilson and Nan open up this blog as our life has been unfairly devastated by the blog posted by Wilson’s wife and subsequent personal attacks via our personal emails and phones. The exposure of our personal contact information and photos is outrageous at the least, illegal at the most. So we see the necessity to stand up rather than keep silent to tell our perspectives of the story. You readers can use your own judgment to see the truth out of it.

We are both average people with weakness and emotions. We admit that we are on the fault side on this matter without enough consideration and maturity. But we are not completely evil and without any conscience as labeled in some of the reply posts. You might agree that the breakage of any marriage shouldn’t be due to only one party of the couple. A solid marriage couldn’t be broken up just because of an external temptation. For the 4 adults involved in this, we are all their first dates, which led to their marriage. We are all simple people without too much emotional experience. As the first generation immigrants, we came to the country for school. We experienced the economic downturn, job instability, immigration status. We have never stopped struggling and fighting for life until we reached the age to consider having kids. And the arrival of kids has been keeping us busy enough. Unfortunately over the years, the emotional banks of our marriages are severely overdrawn.

In Wilson’s case, he and his wife experienced a lot medical treatment for a couple of years to have their first daughter. Their second daughter’s natural arrival is an unexpected gift from heaven.

Wilson and Nan got to know each other at friends’ party and connected as good friends since September 2008. We both struggled a lot and tried to get out of this relationship as hard as we could. We experienced rounds and rounds of breakups especially after the news of Wilson’s wife’s second pregnancy. However over time the emotion evolved to a point where Wilson and Nan decided to tell their respective families on 12/20/2009 as Nan couldn’t handle the conscience pressure of keeping her husband in the darkness any more. Due to their strong belief in their love, Wilson decided to do the same rather than leave Nan alone in this kind of situation. In retrospect, they realized how bad the timing is as Wilson’s wife was still bread feeding.

After the announcement, Nan and her husband managed to maintain a friendly and civil relation and they decide to share custody of their son. Wilson had to stay in the house for the young kids because no agreement could be reached. Wilson proposed to leave all the financial property and house to wife and share custody of the kids. Considering the financial burdens of his wife, Wilson brought Nan to the same page to provide half of the mortgage of the current house even after the divorce.

Since it happened, Wilson has been taking care of their baby daughter on weekend days and nights and holidays almost full time while the nanny were not present.

We agree with most the “facts” in Wilson’s wife’s post. But the selection of the facts is severely biased and misleading. Take the example of the 2/14 night, here is the whole story:

2/12/2010            7PM Wilson took over his baby daughter from nanny for the entire night.
2/13/2010            Wilson took care of his baby daughter the entire day.
2/13/2010            9:30PM after putting the baby to night sleep, Wilson went out to say Happy New Year to Nan.
2/14/2010            In the morning Wilson’s wife told him that she would take both kids to the tech museum to meet her girl friend and kids. Then Wilson went out to run some errands and met Nan.
We also had Wilson’s wife and Nan’s husband to review this before we make these facts public.



--- On Sat, 3/6/10, wrote:

From: Subject: 用下半身思考的人渣.鄙视你?背叛儿子,你会心安吗?
To: [email protected]
Date: Saturday, March 6, 2010, 1:57 PM

    
看完了.

更心寒.既然第一个女儿是那么不容易得来的,第2个更是上天的赏赐;那么,更应该珍惜才是啊.

这个李x夫真真不是人!

初恋情人又咋了,难道说"初恋时我们不懂得爱情"这么老土的谎言?

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taotao6434
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那些还在怀疑小三没有打女苦主的, 请看小三给我的email. If you know how a mom feels like when she sees her son's picture posted and she was on the campus to ask 女苦主(编辑过,去掉女苦主的名字) to take the pic offline. What 女苦主(编辑过,去掉女苦主的名字)said is: I dont know about the blog as all. I swear in name of my parents and kids. what proof do you have to say I posted it, you will slap her as well, right on her face. She called police and put my to police station and charged me legally. --- On Sat, 3/6/10, XXX wrote: From: XXX Subject: Re: 用下半身思考的人渣.鄙视你?背叛儿子,你会心安吗? To: "Nan Ma" , "[email protected]" Date: Saturday, March 6, 2010, 11:51 PM I still can not see you can justify your decisions and behaviors which bring deep harm to both families. Marriage is not only based on love or passion. Responisbility is more important in marriage life. All couples' love and passion will wear out after years of marriage. Responsibilty will be the key to hold the family together. Even if you and Li get together, can you gurantee your passion will keep fresh 10 years later. If not, are you going to find the next passion and move on? Based on your logics, it is ok to. But as a civilized human being, it is not acceptable. You are not only live for yourselves, you have responsibilities for other people's happiness, especially your child and your partner. Money can not make up for the harm that you have caused for 女苦主and her babies. And who gave you the rights to beat 女苦主 at her company. Yongsheng, is this what you want? Even after the assault by Nan to your wife who gave birth to your two lovely children? Grow up and be a man for the sake of your two children.XX在 2010-3-6,20:12,Nan Ma 写到: Just want to give ppl like you of what we will publish shortly. ----------------------------------------------- Wilson and Nan open up this blog as our life has been unfairly devastated by the blog posted by Wilson ’s wife and subsequent personal attacks via our personal emails and phones. The exposure of our personal contact information and photos is outrageous at the least, illegal at the most. So we see the necessity to stand up rather than keep silent to tell our perspectives of the story. You readers can use your own judgment to see the truth out of it. We are both average people with weakness and emotions. We admit that we are on the fault side on this matter without enough consideration and maturity. But we are not completely evil and without any conscience as labeled in some of the reply posts. You might agree that the breakage of any marriage shouldn’t be due to only one party of the couple. A solid marriage couldn’t be broken up just because of an external temptation. For the 4 adults involved in this, we are all their first dates, which led to their marriage. We are all simple people without too much emotional experience. As the first generation immigrants, we came to the country for school. We experienced the economic downturn, job instability, immigration status. We have never stopped struggling and fighting for life until we reached the age to consider having kids. And the arrival of kids has been keeping us busy enough. Unfortunately over the years, the emotional banks of our marriages are severely overdrawn. In Wilson ’s case, he and his wife experienced a lot medical treatment for a couple of years to have their first daughter. Their second daughter’s natural arrival is an unexpected gift from heaven. Wilson and Nan got to know each other at friends’ party and connected as good friends since September 2008. We both struggled a lot and tried to get out of this relationship as hard as we could. We experienced rounds and rounds of breakups especially after the news of Wilson ’s wife’s second pregnancy. However over time the emotion evolved to a point where Wilson and Nan decided to tell their respective families on 12/20/2009 as Nan couldn’t handle the conscience pressure of keeping her husband in the darkness any more. Due to their strong belief in their love, Wilson decided to do the same rather than leave Nan alone in this kind of situation. In retrospect, they realized how bad the timing is as Wilson ’s wife was still bread feeding. After the announcement, Nan and her husband managed to maintain a friendly and civil relation and they decide to share custody of their son. Wilson had to stay in the house for the young kids because no agreement could be reached. Wilson proposed to leave all the financial property and house to wife and share custody of the kids. Considering the financial burdens of his wife, Wilson brought Nan to the same page to provide half of the mortgage of the current house even after the divorce. Since it happened, Wilson has been taking care of their baby daughter on weekend days and nights and holidays almost full time while the nanny were not present. We agree with most the “facts” in Wilson ’s wife’s post. But the selection of the facts is severely biased and misleading. Take the example of the 2/14 night, here is the whole story: 2/12/2010 7PM Wilson took over his baby daughter from nanny for the entire night. 2/13/2010 Wilson took care of his baby daughter the entire day. 2/13/2010 9:30PM after putting the baby to night sleep, Wilson went out to say Happy New Year to Nan . 2/14/2010 In the morning Wilson ’s wife told him that she would take both kids to the tech museum to meet her girl friend and kids. Then Wilson went out to run some errands and met Nan . We also had Wilson ’s wife and Nan ’s husband to review this before we make these facts public. --- On Sat, 3/6/10, xxx wrote: From:xxx Subject: 用下半身思考的人渣.鄙视你?背叛儿子,你会心安吗? To: [email protected] Date: Saturday, March 6, 2010, 1:57 PM
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samzhang98
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gfbear
355 楼
以下是引用maiqi在3/6/2010 11:50:00 PM的发言:


第二个孩子马三说是god给的。。。。。

 
她真的有点2,我觉得。。。
 
 
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smzsmz
356 楼
以下是引用taotao6434在3/6/2010 11:53:00 PM的发言:
那些还在怀疑小三没有打女苦主的, 请看小三给我的email. please take out the name of 苦主
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superzoom
357 楼
不行,这种信件看多了闹心。
太无耻了,太无耻了。
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tqmm
358 楼
以下是引用samzhang98在3/6/2010 11:54:00 PM的发言:

    
    小三提god,也不怕论通奸进地狱哟,这种人别也进教会吧?我受不起惊吓!
    
就是呀,神赐与了人家两口子孩子,你又给人家婚姻插上一脚,这不明摆跟神作对吗,
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tubaobao
359 楼
以下是引用purplevaggie在3/6/2010 11:44:00 PM的发言:

why not impossible?你永远不知道傻B的底在哪~

 
  你强!!! 
 
 我其实很希望打人是真的,这样会帮两孩的妈争取到更多的权益。  另外,不得不再说:马小三的回信太不要脸了,好像他们对他人已经很好了。吐...
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miumiu_zz
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rabbit66
361 楼
以下是引用taotao6434在3/6/2010 11:53:00 PM的发言:

    
    那些还在怀疑小三没有打女苦主的, 请看小三给我的email.
If you know how a mom feels like when she sees her son's picture posted and she was on the campus to ask **** to take the pic offline. What said is: I dont know about the blog as all. I swear in name of my parents and kids. what proof do you have to say I posted it, you will slap her as well, right on her face.

She called police and put my to police station and charged me legally. 

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purplevaggie
362 楼
以下是引用tubaobao在3/6/2010 11:58:00 PM的发言:

    
    
      
       你强!!! 
      
      我其实很希望打人是真的,这样会帮两孩的妈争取到更多的权益。  另外,不得不再说:马小三的回信太不要脸了,好像他们对他人已经很好了。吐...
    
我发现,Jerks doesn't deserve decent words. 
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sugarlandmom
363 楼
以下是引用taotao6434在3/6/2010 11:53:00 PM的发言:
那些还在怀疑小三没有打女苦主的, 请看小三给我的email. If you know how a mom feels like when she sees her son's picture posted and she was on the campus to ask ##to take the pic offline. What ##said is: I dont know about the blog as all. I swear in name of my parents and kids. what proof do you have to say I posted it, you will slap her as well, right on her face. She called police and put my to police station and charged me legally. --- On Sat, 3/6/10, wrote: From: Subject: Re: 用下半身思考的人渣.鄙视你?背叛儿子,你会心安吗? To: "Nan Ma" , "[email protected]" Date: Saturday, March 6, 2010, 11:51 PM I still can not see you can justify your decisions and behaviors which bring deep harm to both families. Marriage is not only based on love or passion. Responisbility is more important in marriage life. All couples' love and passion will wear out after years of marriage. Responsibilty will be the key to hold the family together. Even if you and Li get together, can you gurantee your passion will keep fresh 10 years later. If not, are you going to find the next passion and move on? Based on your logics, it is ok to. But as a civilized human being, it is not acceptable. You are not only live for yourselves, you have responsibilities for other people's happiness, especially your child and your partner. Money can not make up for the harm that you have caused for  and her babies. And who gave you the rights to beat at her company. Yongsheng, is this what you want? Even after the assault by Nan to your wife who gave birth to your two lovely children? Grow up and be a man for the sake of your two children. 在 2010-3-6,20:12,Nan Ma 写到: Just want to give ppl like you of what we will publish shortly. ----------------------------------------------- Wilson and Nan open up this blog as our life has been unfairly devastated by the blog posted by Wilson ’s wife and subsequent personal attacks via our personal emails and phones. The exposure of our personal contact information and photos is outrageous at the least, illegal at the most. So we see the necessity to stand up rather than keep silent to tell our perspectives of the story. You readers can use your own judgment to see the truth out of it. We are both average people with weakness and emotions. We admit that we are on the fault side on this matter without enough consideration and maturity. But we are not completely evil and without any conscience as labeled in some of the reply posts. You might agree that the breakage of any marriage shouldn’t be due to only one party of the couple. A solid marriage couldn’t be broken up just because of an external temptation. For the 4 adults involved in this, we are all their first dates, which led to their marriage. We are all simple people without too much emotional experience. As the first generation immigrants, we came to the country for school. We experienced the economic downturn, job instability, immigration status. We have never stopped struggling and fighting for life until we reached the age to consider having kids. And the arrival of kids has been keeping us busy enough. Unfortunately over the years, the emotional banks of our marriages are severely overdrawn. In Wilson ’s case, he and his wife experienced a lot medical treatment for a couple of years to have their first daughter. Their second daughter’s natural arrival is an unexpected gift from heaven. Wilson and Nan got to know each other at friends’ party and connected as good friends since September 2008. We both struggled a lot and tried to get out of this relationship as hard as we could. We experienced rounds and rounds of breakups especially after the news of Wilson ’s wife’s second pregnancy. However over time the emotion evolved to a point where Wilson and Nan decided to tell their respective families on 12/20/2009 as Nan couldn’t handle the conscience pressure of keeping her husband in the darkness any more. Due to their strong belief in their love, Wilson decided to do the same rather than leave Nan alone in this kind of situation. In retrospect, they realized how bad the timing is as Wilson ’s wife was still bread feeding. After the announcement, Nan and her husband managed to maintain a friendly and civil relation and they decide to share custody of their son. Wilson had to stay in the house for the young kids because no agreement could be reached. Wilson proposed to leave all the financial property and house to wife and share custody of the kids. Considering the financial burdens of his wife, Wilson brought Nan to the same page to provide half of the mortgage of the current house even after the divorce. Since it happened, Wilson has been taking care of their baby daughter on weekend days and nights and holidays almost full time while the nanny were not present. We agree with most the “facts” in Wilson ’s wife’s post. But the selection of the facts is severely biased and misleading. Take the example of the 2/14 night, here is the whole story: 2/12/2010 7PM Wilson took over his baby daughter from nanny for the entire night. 2/13/2010 Wilson took care of his baby daughter the entire day. 2/13/2010 9:30PM after putting the baby to night sleep, Wilson went out to say Happy New Year to Nan . 2/14/2010 In the morning Wilson ’s wife told him that she would take both kids to the tech museum to meet her girl friend and kids. Then Wilson went out to run some errands and met Nan . We also had Wilson ’s wife and Nan ’s husband to review this before we make these facts public. --- On Sat, 3/6/10, wrote: From: Subject: 用下半身思考的人渣.鄙视你?背叛儿子,你会心安吗? To: [email protected] Date: Saturday, March 6, 2010, 1:57 PM
I don't quite understand her English. I think she is getting very emotionally.

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cherryzho
364 楼
天啊,果然是我的朋友。小马,你要多保重,我和你以前的一班朋友都会支持你。虽然我不在加州,现在也不发email去打搅你。你有什么困难,我网上知道了一定会帮你的。
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isania
365 楼
唉。 真可气。
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gfbear
366 楼
以下是引用taotao6434在3/6/2010 11:53:00 PM的发言:
那些还在怀疑小三没有打女苦主的, 请看小三给我的email. If you know how a mom feels like when she sees her son's picture posted and she was on the campus to ask ma ping to take the pic offline. What ma ping said is: I dont know about the blog as all. I swear in name of my parents and kids. what proof do you have to say I posted it, you will slap her as well, right on her face. She called police and put my to police station and charged me legally. --
 
那就是说当初那博客不是苦主自己开的喽?
 
我昨天就想,苦主怎么会有人家家儿子的照片。。。
 
 
 
因为马小三这个作孽的妈,害儿子照片上网,该被打嘴巴的是你马小三
 
因为马小三,现在有2个无辜的孩子以后在成长的路上,没有亲爸爸一路陪伴,该被打得还是你马小三
 
你还好意思去打别人两巴掌。。。。今天你要在我面前,我也给你两巴掌
 
你这种人,不打不清醒
 
你这种人,人人都可以打你两巴掌
 
 
 
 
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miumiu_zz
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maiqi
368 楼
 大家请不要暴露苦主姓名。删掉吧。
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isania
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以下是引用gfbear在3/7/2010 12:03:00 AM的发言:

    
    
 
那就是说当初那博客不是苦主自己开的喽?
 
我昨天就想,苦主怎么会有人家家儿子的照片。。。
 
 
 
因为马小三这个作孽的妈,害儿子照片上网,该被打嘴巴的是你马小三
 
因为马小三,现在有2个无辜的孩子以后在成长的路上,没有亲爸爸一路陪伴,该被打得还是你马小三
 
你还好意思去打别人两巴掌。。。。今天你要在我面前,我也给你两巴掌
 
你这种人,不打不清醒
 
你这种人,人人都可以打你两巴掌
 
 
 
 
    
支持掌掴马小三
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tubaobao
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以下是引用Laura...在3/6/2010 11:47:00 PM的发言:
真爱就真爱吧,两个都净身出门吧,该付的赡养费和教育费就大大方方的付了。既然都知道了给另一半带来了痛苦,金钱上就不要计较了,何况钱财也是为了保证自己的骨肉的生活质量,没见过为了真爱还计较钱财的
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就是,干嘛还在信里说的他们好像做了多大牺牲似的?
 
建议谁把这封无耻的回信开个新贴发出来,好多mm如果不跟每一页,会看不到马三这封无耻的回信的。
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sugarlandmom
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以下是引用gfbear在3/7/2010 12:03:00 AM的发言:

 
那就是说当初那博客不是苦主自己开的喽?
 
我昨天就想,苦主怎么会有人家家儿子的照片。。。
 
 
 
因为马小三这个作孽的妈,害儿子照片上网,该被打嘴巴的是你马小三
 
因为马小三,现在有2个无辜的孩子以后在成长的路上,没有亲爸爸一路陪伴,该被打得还是你马小三
 
你还好意思去打别人两巴掌。。。。今天你要在我面前,我也给你两巴掌
 
你这种人,不打不清醒
 
你这种人,人人都可以打你两巴掌
 
 
 
 
Then who opened the blog and posted the pictures?
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sunnyvale
372 楼
 However over time the emotion evolved to a point where Wilson and Nan decided to tell their respective families on 12/20/2009 as Nan couldn’t handle the conscience pressure of keeping her husband in the darkness any more. Due to their strong belief in their love, Wilson decided to do the same rather than leave Nan alone in this kind of situation.
 
 
mark一下这句
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wiggle
373 楼
以下是引用maiqi在3/6/2010 11:37:00 PM的发言:

这个总结好。

 发信人: purifiedoil (vitamin D), 信区: SanFrancisco
标  题: Re: 马小三回信了, huaren上看到的
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sun Mar  7 00:33:09 2010, 美东)

好像基本意思就是保暖思淫欲。以前生活艰难啊,自己和wilson都是还没搞明白对
自己那位的感情就稀里糊涂生了娃,现在爱如潮水,实在是等不及wilson老婆过哺乳期
了,wilson虽说除夕夜出来和我幽会,但他那是看了一整天娃之后啊,已经尽了做父亲
的责任了,他老婆blog说的虽说全是事实,但是没提wilson带娃所以是bias的。我们其
实都是挺负责任的人, 我们还打算看在他老婆经济困难的份上,离婚后还付一半ho
use的mogage,我们这么够意思的人到哪里去找?反被你们说的这么不堪!

【 在 Quaker (Oatmeal) 的大作中提到: 】
: 谁给翻译一下,或者总结一下,太长了...没耐心看完

这个色鬼怎么这么贱啊,对了,我就觉得是她特别色,都憋的挂相了,好不容易逮到个lp有孕在身的wsn。。。
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pellegrino
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这个人的回信真是让人sick,现在知道关心儿子了,吐
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sugarlandmom
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以下是引用pellegrino在3/7/2010 12:06:00 AM的发言:
这个人的回信真是让人sick,现在知道关心儿子了,吐
Re...
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rabbit66
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以下是引用cherryzho在3/7/2010 12:03:00 AM的发言:

    
    天啊,果然是我的朋友。小马,你要多保重,我和你以前的一班朋友都会支持你。虽然我不在加州,现在也不发email去打搅你。你有什么困难,我网上知道了一定会帮你的。
    
Do you know which state they got married?

If they are married in a conservative state in US, she might be able to make some charges.
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valxintian
377 楼
以下是引用sugarlandmom在3/7/2010 12:05:00 AM的发言:

Then who opened the blog and posted the pictures?
co-ask
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wenipu
378 楼
打耳光?太嚣张了吧,小三疯了?
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cherryzho
379 楼
以下是引用rabbit66在3/7/2010 12:07:00 AM的发言:

Do you know which state they got married?

If they are married in a conservative state in US, she might be able to make some charges.

China
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gfbear
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以下是引用miumiu_zz在3/7/2010 12:04:00 AM的发言:

好吧,好吧,让他去吧~那贱男人有撒用呀?要不要无所谓,最小的孩子丢给他养。辞工,别做了,md, 去拿失业金,请个律师打官司,最后让贱人付律师费。 非搞空他,去真爱吧~饿着肚子真爱的滋味,可能不大好~~~~
 
没有当妈的这会儿会舍得把孩子留给贱男的
 
 
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maiqi
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很多人在论坛上都post过自家孩子照片。所谓”让自己孩子照片上网“,还不是联系到了贱女自己做的丑事,才会给她儿子这种耻辱。
别问我是谁好吗
382 楼
我们这里的朋友们能不能组织起来给那两个贱人的公司写联名信, 让他们公司衡量一下这种人渣该不该留. 然后看他们以后到一个新公司, 我们就跟着去!
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gfbear
383 楼
以下是引用sugarlandmom在3/7/2010 12:05:00 AM的发言:

Then who opened the blog and posted the pictures?
 
马小三她老公,表面和平相处内心煎熬已经要爆炸了
 
身边知情人实在看不下去的人。。。
 
2选1吧。。。
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Laura...
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她老公郁闷死了,当娘的竟然带着儿子去约会,这对孩子得有多大的影响啊,没见过这种当妈的
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isania
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我在想如果自己经历了这样的事情 现在又被那个马小三打了两巴掌 我真不知道该是怎样的一种境况。。。
那个两女儿的妈妈好可怜
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whiteeye
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以下是引用taotao6434在3/6/2010 11:53:00 PM的发言:

    
    那些还在怀疑小三没有打女苦主的, 请看小三给我的email.
If you know how a mom feels like when she sees her son's picture posted and she was on the campus to ask ma to take the pic offline. What xx said is: I dont know about the blog as all. I swear in name of my parents and kids. what proof do you have to say I posted it, you will slap her as well, right on her face.

She called police and put my to police station and charged me legally.

--- On Sat, 3/6/10, wrote:

From: 
Subject: Re: 用下半身思考的人渣.鄙视你?背叛儿子,你会心安吗?
To: "Nan Ma" , "[email protected]"
Date: Saturday, March 6, 2010, 11:51 PM

I still can not see you can justify your decisions and behaviors which bring deep harm to both families.
Marriage is not only based on love or passion.  Responisbility is more important in marriage life. All couples' love and passion will wear out after years of marriage.  Responsibilty will be the key to hold the family together.
Even if you and Li get together, can you gurantee your passion will keep fresh 10 years later. If not, are you going to find the next passion and move on? Based on your logics, it is ok to.  But as  a civilized human being, it is not acceptable. You are not only live for yourselves, you have responsibilities for other people's happiness, especially your child and your partner. Money can not make up for the harm that you have caused for xx and her babies. And who gave you the rights to beat at her company.
Yongsheng, is this what you want? Even after the assault by Nan to your wife who gave birth to your two lovely children? Grow up and be a man for the sake of your two children.

在 2010-3-6,20:12,Nan Ma 写到:

Just want to give ppl like you of what we will publish shortly.
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Wilson and Nan open up this blog as our life has been unfairly devastated by the blog posted by Wilson ’s wife and subsequent personal attacks via our personal emails and phones. The exposure of our personal contact information and photos is outrageous at the least, illegal at the most. So we see the necessity to stand up rather than keep silent to tell our perspectives of the story. You readers can use your own judgment to see the truth out of it.

We are both average people with weakness and emotions. We admit that we are on the fault side on this matter without enough consideration and maturity. But we are not completely evil and without any conscience as labeled in some of the reply posts. You might agree that the breakage of any marriage shouldn’t be due to only one party of the couple. A solid marriage couldn’t be broken up just because of an external temptation. For the 4 adults involved in this, we are all their first dates, which led to their marriage. We are all simple people without too much emotional experience. As the first generation immigrants, we came to the country for school. We experienced the economic downturn, job instability, immigration status. We have never stopped struggling and fighting for life until we reached the age to consider having kids. And the arrival of kids has been keeping us busy enough. Unfortunately over the years, the emotional banks of our marriages are severely overdrawn.

In Wilson ’s case, he and his wife experienced a lot medical treatment for a couple of years to have their first daughter. Their second daughter’s natural arrival is an unexpected gift from heaven.

Wilson and Nan got to know each other at friends’ party and connected as good friends since September 2008. We both struggled a lot and tried to get out of this relationship as hard as we could. We experienced rounds and rounds of breakups especially after the news of Wilson ’s wife’s second pregnancy. However over time the emotion evolved to a point where Wilson and Nan decided to tell their respective families on 12/20/2009 as Nan couldn’t handle the conscience pressure of keeping her husband in the darkness any more. Due to their strong belief in their love, Wilson decided to do the same rather than leave Nan alone in this kind of situation. In retrospect, they realized how bad the timing is as Wilson ’s wife was still bread feeding.

After the announcement, Nan and her husband managed to maintain a friendly and civil relation and they decide to share custody of their son. Wilson had to stay in the house for the young kids because no agreement could be reached. Wilson proposed to leave all the financial property and house to wife and share custody of the kids. Considering the financial burdens of his wife, Wilson brought Nan to the same page to provide half of the mortgage of the current house even after the divorce.

Since it happened, Wilson has been taking care of their baby daughter on weekend days and nights and holidays almost full time while the nanny were not present.

We agree with most the “facts” in Wilson ’s wife’s post. But the selection of the facts is severely biased and misleading. Take the example of the 2/14 night, here is the whole story:

2/12/2010            7PM Wilson took over his baby daughter from nanny for the entire night.
2/13/2010            Wilson took care of his baby daughter the entire day.
2/13/2010            9:30PM after putting the baby to night sleep, Wilson went out to say Happy New Year to Nan .
2/14/2010            In the morning Wilson ’s wife told him that she would take both kids to the tech museum to meet her girl friend and kids. Then Wilson went out to run some errands and met Nan .
We also had Wilson ’s wife and Nan ’s husband to review this before we make these facts public.



--- On Sat, 3/6/10, wrote:

From: Subject: 用下半身思考的人渣.鄙视你?背叛儿子,你会心安吗?
To: [email protected]
Date: Saturday, March 6, 2010, 1:57 PM

    
看到这里我实在忍不住不说话了。这个自私又丑陋的小三,竟然现在想起来儿子了,而且还是在用儿子作自己打人的excuse。她儿子好可怜啊。一直被她利用,利用儿子来为出轨制造方便。她出轨的时候怎么没有想过对儿子的伤害。现在打了人,又说是为了保护儿子。天啦,人性到底能有多丑陋。
麻烦哪位告诉她,她儿子今后注定要饱受其他小孩儿所没有经历过的伤害,而所有这一切,不是别人造成的。是她,她这个丑陋,自私,没有丝毫责任感的母亲。


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gfbear
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还有件让我觉得狂恶心的事情。。。
 
贱男和马小三在这么长的时间里面
 
同时跟2男/2女上床xxoo
 
真恶心
 
他们不是人,连动物都不如
 
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littlerain_008
388 楼
说的太好了。。。。。
以下是引用gfbear在3/7/2010 12:03:00 AM的发言:


    
    
 
那就是说当初那博客不是苦主自己开的喽?
 
我昨天就想,苦主怎么会有人家家儿子的照片。。。
 
 
 
因为马小三这个作孽的妈,害儿子照片上网,该被打嘴巴的是你马小三
 
因为马小三,现在有2个无辜的孩子以后在成长的路上,没有亲爸爸一路陪伴,该被打得还是你马小三
 
你还好意思去打别人两巴掌。。。。今天你要在我面前,我也给你两巴掌
 
你这种人,不打不清醒
 
你这种人,人人都可以打你两巴掌
 
 
 
 
    
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maiqi
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以下是引用gfbear在3/7/2010 12:11:00 AM的发言:

    
    
      
     马小三她老公,表面和平相处内心煎熬已经要爆炸了
      
     身边知情人实在看不下去的人。。。
      
     2选1吧。。。
    
wilson家的nanny也有可能。。。
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isania
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以下是引用别问我是谁好吗在3/7/2010 12:10:00 AM的发言:

    
    我们这里的朋友们能不能组织起来给那两个贱人的公司写联名信, 让他们公司衡量一下这种人渣该不该留. 然后看他们以后到一个新公司, 我们就跟着去!
    
这个事情公司会care吗?我觉得不太会的。
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gfbear
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以下是引用isania在3/7/2010 12:12:00 AM的发言:
我在想如果自己经历了这样的事情 现在又被那个马小三打了两巴掌 我真不知道该是怎样的一种境况。。。
那个两女儿的妈妈好可怜

 
恩,希望可怜的妈妈坚持住。。。
 
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tobeornottobe
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以下是引用别问我是谁好吗在3/7/2010 12:10:00 AM的发言:

    
    我们这里的朋友们能不能组织起来给那两个贱人的公司写联名信, 让他们公司衡量一下这种人渣该不该留. 然后看他们以后到一个新公司, 我们就跟着去!
    


不行啊,还要贱男付抚养费养娃呢。
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joyxx
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以下是引用gfbear在3/7/2010 12:11:00 AM的发言:

    
    
      
     马小三她老公,表面和平相处内心煎熬已经要爆炸了
      
     身边知情人实在看不下去的人。。。
      
     2选1吧。。。
    
不是是马三老公,马三老公不会post自己儿子照片

2有可能呢
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autofill
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以下是引用别问我是谁好吗在3/7/2010 12:10:00 AM的发言:
我们这里的朋友们能不能组织起来给那两个贱人的公司写联名信, 让他们公司衡量一下这种人渣该不该留. 然后看他们以后到一个新公司, 我们就跟着去!
他们的房子还有贷款,小马又带两个孩子,非常辛苦的。赡养费不能少。
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icevichy
395 楼
 tmd看的我气死了,怎么会有这么死不要脸的贱货啊!早晚会有天雷劈死她!
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smzsmz
396 楼
以下是引用gfbear在3/7/2010 12:14:00 AM的发言:

 
恩,希望可怜的妈妈坚持住。。。
 
please take out the name of 苦主 from your post..
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smzsmz
397 楼
以下是引用whiteeye在3/7/2010 12:12:00 AM的发言:

看到这里我实在忍不住不说话了。这个自私又丑陋的小三,竟然现在想起来儿子了,而且还是在用儿子作自己打人的excuse。她儿子好可怜啊。一直被她利用,利用儿子来为出轨制造方便。她出轨的时候怎么没有想过对儿子的伤害。现在打了人,又说是为了保护儿子。天啦,人性到底能有多丑陋。
麻烦哪位告诉她,她儿子今后注定要饱受其他小孩儿所没有经历过的伤害,而所有这一切,不是别人造成的。是她,她这个丑陋,自私,没有丝毫责任感的母亲。

please take out the name of 苦主 from your post..
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cherryzho
398 楼
我再发一遍,虽然mit三藩版版主周五把帖删了把我封了。
男女主角真是真爱无敌啊,逼痒鸡巴痒了想叫春就叫春,想发情就发情,旁人都要积极配合,主动让路。
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tyss
399 楼
from mana's response, she's already at the edge of insane.
She's rediculouse and evil.
I can't image how many sleepless nights that the innocent wife spend, may her stronger.
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flyfireice
400 楼
  我一直在疑惑这两人为啥要离婚,说实话,偷情的人多去了,离婚的少多了。看了这封
回信,我多多少少有些明白。

1。wilson和太太怀孕不利;怀老大前,看了很久的医生,老二呢,像是个例外;
2。这次摊派是马小三先提出来的;
3。wilson对太太还是有所愧疚,所以打算承担一半mortgage;
4。马小三离婚很顺利,立马就达成了agreement.

我大胆猜测,
1。从wilson要离婚的原因。wilson想要儿子,先和太太怀孕不利,心灰意懒,好不容
易才生了个女儿,这也是和其貌不扬的马小三走的近的一个原因; 后来,妻子突然有
怀了,似乎wilson和马小三暂停了一段时间,然后,又是女儿,两人又走在一起;
2。从马小三要离婚的原因,多半是怀上了,这符合2和4。wilson期待这是个儿子。