My experience, the first couple of times the kid would test your limit; it's important that you don't lose the temper nor the space. After a few try, he'll know the limit.
My experience, the first couple of times the kid would test your limit; it's important that you don't lose the temper nor the space. After a few try, he'll know the limit.
I think so--he believes what he does is OK. First thing first, if he starts wrong behavior at the beginning, I'd spend a few minutes with him to explain what he did was wrong and how I expect him to behave. Then if I find him not listening, it's time for a private lesson. :P
More important, I would not label a kid as a bad kid. He simply does not know. So I'd enjoy the time help him learn. Kids are fascinating learners. I have more passion with them than with adults. :P
Sometimes I feel that kids are so lonely because adults are too busy with their own business and pleasure, and have no interest and patience to talk with them. They are simply shut out of the door of our world, which they are so curious about. A lot of naughty kids do wrong things only to get the attention of the adults. [此贴子已经被作者于2010/2/16 10:59:33编辑过]
hehe, 关小黑屋 is not the way to time out. Time out is to accompany him to sit in a quite place, calmly explain what he did wrong, why he's given this time-out, what his responsibility is to correct the wrong behavior. It's a way to calm down the child and a method to teach 'private' lessons. :P
I may say things like this in front of the parents: 'Honey you know we have certain rules here; if you don't follow, other people would get disturbed and we won't be able to enjoy the party together. So I hope that you can follow the rules like everyone else. If you don't, there are consequence that you have to take.'
you think the child will sit down with you? what if he does not? you will force him？
Sometimes I feel that kids are so lonely because adults are too busy with their own business and pleasure, and have no interest and patience to talk with them. They are simply shut out of the door of our world, which they are so curious about. A lot of naughty kids do wrong things only to get the attention of the adults. [此贴子已经被作者于2010/2/16 10:59:33编辑过]
you think the child will sit down with you? what if he does not? you will force him？
Hehe, usually he wouldn't at the beginning. I'd hold his hands and force him to sit--not too harsh though, only enough force to keep him in the chair. It's more important to talk; talking also distract his attention on leaving the chair.
Hehe, usually he wouldn't at the beginning. I'd hold his hands and force him to sit--not too harsh though, only enough force to keep him in the chair. It's more important to talk; talking also distract his attention on leaving the chair.
I think so--he believes what he does is OK. First thing first, if he starts wrong behavior at the beginning, I'd spend a few minutes with him to explain what he did was wrong and how I expect him to behave. Then if I find him not listening, it's time for a private lesson. :P
More important, I would not label a kid as a bad kid. He simply does not know. So I'd enjoy the time help him learn. Kids are fascinating learners. I have more passion with them than with adults. :P
i really dont think in US you can give that kid a private lesson. you can ask him to leave, but i dont think you have the right to keep him in a room with you without the parent's consent
i really dont think in US you can give that kid a private lesson. you can ask him to leave, but i dont think you have the right to keep him in a room with you without the parent's consent
i really dont think in US you can give that kid a private lesson. you can ask him to leave, but i dont think you have the right to keep him in a room with you without the parent's consent
You are right that it's not right to keep the him in a room without his parent's consent.
I'd take him to a corner chair in his parents' view sight and give the talk.
Yes I agree that it's his parents did not give him enough attention. Nobody is required to help. I myself simply like to communicate with kids; it's a different world and I enjoy playing with them.
BTW, I don't mean that you should do this or that--just show (or maybe showoff) what I like to do with such case. :P Pure fun for discussion.
Yes I agree that it's his parents did not give him enough attention. Nobody is required to help. I myself simply like to communicate with kids; it's a different world and I enjoy playing with them.
BTW, I don't mean that you should do this or that--just show (or maybe showoff) what I like to do with such case. :P Pure fun for discussion.
Most naughty kids enjoy the moment that they get the attention of any adult. :) That's why it's more important to talk to him, not just ask him to follow. A spoiled kid is not used to follow instructions. I can simply take a chair to him and force him to sit down right there, and talk...
Yes I agree that it's his parents did not give him enough attention. Nobody is required to help. I myself simply like to communicate with kids; it's a different world and I enjoy playing with them.
BTW, I don't mean that you should do this or that--just show (or maybe showoff) what I like to do with such case. :P Pure fun for discussion.
Most naughty kids enjoy the moment that they get the attention of any adult. :) That's why it's more important to talk to him, not just ask him to follow. A spoiled kid is not used to follow instructions. I can simply take a chair to him and force him to sit down right there, and talk...
如果知道自己的底线，并且非常firm地说了no，但是人家娃就是不听咋办？
赶出去赶出去
对小的娃也成不？只要建立自己的强大气场？
My experience, the first couple of times the kid would test your limit; it's important that you don't lose the temper nor the space. After a few try, he'll know the limit.
My experience, the first couple of times the kid would test your limit; it's important that you don't lose the temper nor the space. After a few try, he'll know the limit.
可是party上我不可能一直盯他啊。10来个人，七嘴八舌，有人要我去拿水，有人要我去拿纸，有人要说话，。。。。。。对娃来说，他感受到的难道不是，只要做坏事没被人抓住就是OK的。。。。。。
赶出去赶出去
我可以做到拉长脸，赶人出去这个好像还不行
我可以做到拉长脸，赶人出去这个好像还不行
我没亲自看见，但是我lg自称已经吼过了。。。。。
可是party上我不可能一直盯他啊。10来个人，七嘴八舌，有人要我去拿水，有人要我去拿纸，有人要说话，。。。。。。对娃来说，他感受到的难道不是，只要做坏事没被人抓住就是OK的。。。。。。
你可以告诉他们在哪儿，让他们自己去拿啊。这些东西应该是早就准备好了放在外面某个地方的吧，要用自己拿就是了。
你可以告诉他们在哪儿，让他们自己去拿啊。这些东西应该是早就准备好了放在外面某个地方的吧，要用自己拿就是了。
拿了好几十瓶堆在外面，然后被这个娃拿去泼在家里各处了，还不知道淹死了我家的花没有。
对小的娃也成不？只要建立自己的强大气场？
相信自己，是建立任何的第一前提。
我可以做到拉长脸，赶人出去这个好像还不行
如果他父母只是没注意到自己小孩的行为，我当然不会赶人家娃啦。但根据kp的描述和气愤程度，可以实施这一招了，嘿嘿。
事前可以警告他父母嘛，你的小孩再不遵守我家的规矩，我就要请他出去了。
我也没耐心替别人管教娃。
拿了好几十瓶堆在外面，然后被这个娃拿去泼在家里各处了，还不知道淹死了我家的花没有。
这娃有多高？你可以放高一点
可是party上我不可能一直盯他啊。10来个人，七嘴八舌，有人要我去拿水，有人要我去拿纸，有人要说话，。。。。。。对娃来说，他感受到的难道不是，只要做坏事没被人抓住就是OK的。。。。。。
I think so--he believes what he does is OK. First thing first, if he starts wrong behavior at the beginning, I'd spend a few minutes with him to explain what he did was wrong and how I expect him to behave. Then if I find him not listening, it's time for a private lesson. :P
More important, I would not label a kid as a bad kid. He simply does not know. So I'd enjoy the time help him learn. Kids are fascinating learners. I have more passion with them than with adults. :P
你可以告诉他们在哪儿，让他们自己去拿啊。这些东西应该是早就准备好了放在外面某个地方的吧，要用自己拿就是了。
Exactly. And, asking your guests to help pleases them too. :P
事后讨论，我们深刻感觉，有的娃养的真是好，不让做什么立刻就停止，让做什么立刻就做，我们实际上有好几家朋友，娃那不是一般的好，我们自己经常回忆夸奖几句的。不过这样的娃，大人也是不是一般的好，跟他们家大人在一起都如沐春风的。那么多家娃里面，这样让人抓狂的有2个。。。。。。。
Hehe, kids are innocent. It's all the parents' attitude determines how kids behave.
没，考虑不让过生日的娃失望，今天捐款明天deliver吧，今晚加班
KP还是很nice呀，要我说让过生日的娃失望的是小气不肯捐款的爹娘，跟你这个卖蛋糕的有啥关系。
我看food network上那个aces of cakes节目，人家都要求提前几个月订蛋糕的，如果定晚了说不行就是不行，没得商量的。你还加班给人家做蛋糕我觉得很够意思了。
这娃有多高？你可以放高一点
我家没有比counter height更高的地方了，总也要放在10个大人也能看见和方便拿的地方啊。。。。。。。不然大人还是要问在哪里的。
然后走的时候家里到处找出来20+个喝了一半的饮料（总共连奶娃在内也没15个人），和很多没怎么吃的东西，装在盘子里扔了全家都是。
不知道为什么上次party混乱的一塌糊涂，平时8-10个大人only的party大家都很熟悉，自己要什么就自己拿了。这次我就觉得累死了，经常2-3个人同时在跟我说话，都不知道要听哪里好了。
其实我家一个月2个party算少的，这些程序一直都是那个样子，一般都works fine，但是这个平衡估计太delicate，稍微出点意外就无法handle....
拿了好几十瓶堆在外面，然后被这个娃拿去泼在家里各处了，还不知道淹死了我家的花没有。
Poor kp, pat pat...
I'm surprised no guest ever stopped him...
如果他父母只是没注意到自己小孩的行为，我当然不会赶人家娃啦。但根据kp的描述和气愤程度，可以实施这一招了，嘿嘿。
事前可以警告他父母嘛，你的小孩再不遵守我家的规矩，我就要请他出去了。
我也没耐心替别人管教娃。
Sometimes I feel that kids are so lonely because adults are too busy with their own business and pleasure, and have no interest and patience to talk with them.
[此贴子已经被作者于2010/2/16 10:59:33编辑过]
KP还是很nice呀，要我说让过生日的娃失望的是小气不肯捐款的爹娘，跟你这个卖蛋糕的有啥关系。
我看food network上那个aces of cakes节目，人家都要求提前几个月订蛋糕的，如果定晚了说不行就是不行，没得商量的。你还加班给人家做蛋糕我觉得很够意思了。
人家没不肯，呵呵，最后还是捐款了哇~~~~~~
刚刚修改网站了，不知道现在这先捐款再拿蛋糕的规矩是不是更醒目一点了。
hehe, 关小黑屋 is not the way to time out. Time out is to accompany him to sit in a quite place, calmly explain what he did wrong, why he's given this time-out, what his responsibility is to correct the wrong behavior. It's a way to calm down the child and a method to teach 'private' lessons. :P
I may say things like this in front of the parents: 'Honey you know we have certain rules here; if you don't follow, other people would get disturbed and we won't be able to enjoy the party together. So I hope that you can follow the rules like everyone else. If you don't, there are consequence that you have to take.'
you think the child will sit down with you? what if he does not? you will force him？
对啊，那家父母如果认为这样的行为不对，就不会放任不管了。
偶也从来不会对大人说不要张开嘴巴吃饭。。。 我大不了不和他们出去吃饭。。。
Sometimes I feel that kids are so lonely because adults are too busy with their own business and pleasure, and have no interest and patience to talk with them.
[此贴子已经被作者于2010/2/16 10:59:33编辑过]
啊。。。。我有100句话，不敢说。。。。。。。
你举的是有争议的例子，有的rules没这么大争议。
芥个居然还有争议？
you think the child will sit down with you? what if he does not? you will force him？
Hehe, usually he wouldn't at the beginning. I'd hold his hands and force him to sit--not too harsh though, only enough force to keep him in the chair. It's more important to talk; talking also distract his attention on leaving the chair.
啊。。。。我有100句话，不敢说。。。。。。。
我觉得这样的爱心和耐心，我还没修炼出来。
Hehe, usually he wouldn't at the beginning. I'd hold his hands and force him to sit--not too harsh though, only enough force to keep him in the chair. It's more important to talk; talking also distract his attention on leaving the chair.
老实说这样的要求实在太高了。我这个脾气，可能还是把这家人直接赶走更可行些
啊。。。。我有100句话，不敢说。。。。。。。
I'm sure that kid is taking advantage of this all the time... :P
I think so--he believes what he does is OK. First thing first, if he starts wrong behavior at the beginning, I'd spend a few minutes with him to explain what he did was wrong and how I expect him to behave. Then if I find him not listening, it's time for a private lesson. :P
More important, I would not label a kid as a bad kid. He simply does not know. So I'd enjoy the time help him learn. Kids are fascinating learners. I have more passion with them than with adults. :P
i really dont think in US you can give that kid a private lesson. you can ask him to leave, but i dont think you have the right to keep him in a room with you without the parent's consent
i really dont think in US you can give that kid a private lesson. you can ask him to leave, but i dont think you have the right to keep him in a room with you without the parent's consent
哈哈哈哈哈哈
芥个居然还有争议？
不过这种table manner方面的小事，并没有给主人家带来什么damage or danger，那就让父母去教育好了。
芥个居然还有争议？
Hehe, I'm not against it at all...
I'm sure that kid is taking advantage of this all the time... :P
拿。。。。。。。我就直说了
我是觉得，如果说小孩可怜，那不是因为我们旁人自顾自的玩，是因为他自己的父母没给他attention..........旁人没有这个责任和义务去跟他玩，如果别人喜欢跟他玩，就玩，他自己那个样子不讨人喜欢，我实在同情不起来。
再说了，如果我想对小孩们好点，我就自己生，照顾自己的娃去了，凭啥要我对别人家的娃搞心理抚慰和教育啊。。。。。。。。
哈哈哈哈哈哈
what 啊。。。 BTW，我今天穿了那个VS的黄色羊毛和chiffon 婚房的毛衣了， 玛雅， 好女人。。。 配的是我昨天在express买的一件top。。不是昨天给red看得那个。。。 是个feather light 带ruffle的深蓝色的。。开始以为颜色会不合适， 传出来效果很好。。。。 被表扬了
老实说这样的要求实在太高了。我这个脾气，可能还是把这家人直接赶走更可行些
Works fine, too! Hehe, warn his parents that if he keeps doing these damages, they are welcome to leave the house. :P
[此贴子已经被作者于2010/2/16 11:06:54编辑过]
我觉得这样的爱心和耐心，我还没修炼出来。
我觉得我已经give up了，不想去修炼也是丁克的原因之一，我就乐意自己顾自己，就是不乐意分精力和耐心给别人。。。。。。。
拿。。。。。。。我就直说了
我是觉得，如果说小孩可怜，那不是因为我们旁人自顾自的玩，是因为他自己的父母没给他attention..........旁人没有这个责任和义务去跟他玩，如果别人喜欢跟他玩，就玩，他自己那个样子不讨人喜欢，我实在同情不起来。
再说了，如果我想对小孩们好点，我就自己生，照顾自己的娃去了，凭啥要我对别人家的娃搞心理抚慰和教育啊。。。。。。。。
exactly....
不过这种table manner方面的小事，并没有给主人家带来什么damage or danger，那就让父母去教育好了。
偶是举个例子， 所谓对和错的behavior大家看法肯定很不一样的。。。
偶是举个例子， 所谓对和错的behavior大家看法肯定很不一样的。。。
大家的回复已经证明了你的观点嘛
what 啊。。。 BTW，我今天穿了那个VS的黄色羊毛和chiffon 婚房的毛衣了， 玛雅， 好女人。。。 配的是我昨天在express买的一件top。。不是昨天给red看得那个。。。 是个feather light 带ruffle的深蓝色的。。开始以为颜色会不合适， 传出来效果很好。。。。 被表扬了
照片~~~
听起来很不错那
再说了，如果我想对小孩们好点，我就自己生，照顾自己的娃去了，凭啥要我对别人家的娃搞心理抚慰和教育啊。。。。。。。。
Hehe, kids are innocent. It's all the parents' attitude determines how kids behave.
养不教，父之过
i really dont think in US you can give that kid a private lesson. you can ask him to leave, but i dont think you have the right to keep him in a room with you without the parent's consent
You are right that it's not right to keep the him in a room without his parent's consent.
I'd take him to a corner chair in his parents' view sight and give the talk.
what 啊。。。 BTW，我今天穿了那个VS的黄色羊毛和chiffon 婚房的毛衣了， 玛雅， 好女人。。。 配的是我昨天在express买的一件top。。不是昨天给red看得那个。。。 是个feather light 带ruffle的深蓝色的。。开始以为颜色会不合适， 传出来效果很好。。。。 被表扬了
不上照片就打pp!!!!!!
我家没有比counter height更高的地方了，总也要放在10个大人也能看见和方便拿的地方啊。。。。。。。不然大人还是要问在哪里的。
然后走的时候家里到处找出来20+个喝了一半的饮料（总共连奶娃在内也没15个人），和很多没怎么吃的东西，装在盘子里扔了全家都是。
不知道为什么上次party混乱的一塌糊涂，平时8-10个大人only的party大家都很熟悉，自己要什么就自己拿了。这次我就觉得累死了，经常2-3个人同时在跟我说话，都不知道要听哪里好了。
其实我家一个月2个party算少的，这些程序一直都是那个样子，一般都works fine，但是这个平衡估计太delicate，稍微出点意外就无法handle....
以后知道了，第一次邀来的娃得做背景调查
http://www.express.com/catalog/product.jsp?productId=24253&Mft=ruffles&Mpos=24&Mrsaa=*&Mpg=SEARCH%2BNAV&Mpper=3&Mrsavf=SIZE_NAME&Mrsavf=category&Mrsavf=Color
芥个居然还有争议？
美国人难道都是闭着嘴吃饭的？
以后知道了，第一次邀来的娃得做背景调查
o my, absolutely!! 多观察观察父母，完全能看出来。
平时能照顾别人feeling的父母，娃都好的不行，有的好的我都差点准备养个了（后来一想，人家也是被父母培养的好，我去养准没戏，放弃了。）
芥个居然还有争议？
再有，日本人吃面条声音大不会因为到了美国就没声音了啊
拿。。。。。。。我就直说了
我是觉得，如果说小孩可怜，那不是因为我们旁人自顾自的玩，是因为他自己的父母没给他attention..........旁人没有这个责任和义务去跟他玩，如果别人喜欢跟他玩，就玩，他自己那个样子不讨人喜欢，我实在同情不起来。
再说了，如果我想对小孩们好点，我就自己生，照顾自己的娃去了，凭啥要我对别人家的娃搞心理抚慰和教育啊。。。。。。。。
Yes I agree that it's his parents did not give him enough attention. Nobody is required to help. I myself simply like to communicate with kids; it's a different world and I enjoy playing with them.
BTW, I don't mean that you should do this or that--just show (or maybe showoff) what I like to do with such case. :P Pure fun for discussion.
老实说这样的要求实在太高了。我这个脾气，可能还是把这家人直接赶走更可行些
是，尤其是对别人的娃
You are right that it's not right to keep the him in a room without his parent's consent.
I'd take him to a corner chair in his parents' view sight and give the talk.
还是老问题啊， 如果是个很调皮的男孩子， 压根儿不和你走， 不让你拉手， 你怎么办啊？ 或者啦了之后， 哭着闹着要甩开你， 你怎么办？
还是老问题啊， 如果是个很调皮的男孩子， 压根儿不和你走， 不让你拉手， 你怎么办啊？ 或者啦了之后， 哭着闹着要甩开你， 你怎么办？
气场不强大～～～～～～～要自责
美国人难道都是闭着嘴吃饭的？
what 啊。。。 BTW，我今天穿了那个VS的黄色羊毛和chiffon 婚房的毛衣了， 玛雅， 好女人。。。 配的是我昨天在express买的一件top。。不是昨天给red看得那个。。。 是个feather light 带ruffle的深蓝色的。。开始以为颜色会不合适， 传出来效果很好。。。。 被表扬了
没pp没真相
真不错。
你太容易满足了，不 push真人奔？
豹纹， 是那个fantacia blue
http://www.express.com/catalog/product.jsp?productId=24253&Mft=ruffles&Mpos=24&Mrsaa=*&Mpg=SEARCH%2BNAV&Mpper=3&Mrsavf=SIZE_NAME&Mrsavf=category&Mrsavf=Color
真不错。
偶是举个例子， 所谓对和错的behavior大家看法肯定很不一样的。。。
我觉得你把对和错跟礼仪搞混了，礼仪从来就没有个标准
再有，日本人吃面条声音大不会因为到了美国就没声音了啊
芥个， 我说过啦， 在美国应该是入乡随俗。。。 日本吃面条， 出声音， 那是在日本。 在美国特定的地方也是可以的， 比如日本店， 大家知道这个习俗。。 或者在自己家里面。。。 但是要是日本人去吃pasta， 也很大声， 这个其实是不合适的。。 这个是我自己这样认为。。。。
Yes I agree that it's his parents did not give him enough attention. Nobody is required to help. I myself simply like to communicate with kids; it's a different world and I enjoy playing with them.
BTW, I don't mean that you should do this or that--just show (or maybe showoff) what I like to do with such case. :P Pure fun for discussion.
是，是， 纯粹讨论。
心思细腻喜欢孩子的女主人适合跟孩子谈心，完美解决问题。。。。。。。。。
粗鄙暴躁如我的，下次要记住干脆不包子，不满意就开赶。。。。。。。
真不错。
现在店里面是30% off..
是，是， 纯粹讨论。
心思细腻喜欢孩子的女主人适合跟孩子谈心，完美解决问题。。。。。。。。。
粗鄙暴躁如我的，下次要记住干脆不包子，不满意就开赶。。。。。。。
然后因为一家被赶，要挪车，其他人也只好走人，party只好提前散伙
还是老问题啊， 如果是个很调皮的男孩子， 压根儿不和你走， 不让你拉手， 你怎么办啊？ 或者啦了之后， 哭着闹着要甩开你， 你怎么办？
Most naughty kids enjoy the moment that they get the attention of any adult. :) That's why it's more important to talk to him, not just ask him to follow. A spoiled kid is not used to follow instructions. I can simply take a chair to him and force him to sit down right there, and talk...
Yes I agree that it's his parents did not give him enough attention. Nobody is required to help. I myself simply like to communicate with kids; it's a different world and I enjoy playing with them.
BTW, I don't mean that you should do this or that--just show (or maybe showoff) what I like to do with such case. :P Pure fun for discussion.
嫩又几个娃
o my, absolutely!! 多观察观察父母，完全能看出来。
平时能照顾别人feeling的父母，娃都好的不行，有的好的我都差点准备养个了（后来一想，人家也是被父母培养的好，我去养准没戏，放弃了。）
而且好的父母会说“你这样是不对的”
我还看到美国人吃东西吃到胡子上呢
你太容易满足了，不 push真人奔？
没用
芥个， 我说过啦， 在美国应该是入乡随俗。。。 日本吃面条， 出声音， 那是在日本。 在美国特定的地方也是可以的， 比如日本店， 大家知道这个习俗。。 或者在自己家里面。。。 但是要是日本人去吃pasta， 也很大声， 这个其实是不合适的。。 这个是我自己这样认为。。。。
只是不合适，并不是不对，吃个饭而已，有什么对错。
你太容易满足了，不 push真人奔？
对吼，差点被空空忽悠了。
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嫩又几个娃
One and a potential second inside... :P
One and a potential second inside... :P
哦呀，恭喜，啥时候due
还是老问题啊， 如果是个很调皮的男孩子， 压根儿不和你走， 不让你拉手， 你怎么办啊？ 或者啦了之后， 哭着闹着要甩开你， 你怎么办？
啊，这个我看过，那个主人直接抱起来带到角落，那个孩子马上就不闹了。
我也是觉得和气场有关。
哦呀，恭喜，啥时候due
Thanks! :) Early October.
然后因为一家被赶，要挪车，其他人也只好走人，party只好提前散伙
那只好下次不请这家了，这家reputation如何，我听说有的人家reputation不好，然后大家party都不请他们的。
啊，这个我看过，那个主人直接抱起来带到角落，那个孩子马上就不闹了。
我也是觉得和气场有关。
芥个， 我说过啦， 在美国应该是入乡随俗。。。 日本吃面条， 出声音， 那是在日本。 在美国特定的地方也是可以的， 比如日本店， 大家知道这个习俗。。 或者在自己家里面。。。 但是要是日本人去吃pasta， 也很大声， 这个其实是不合适的。。 这个是我自己这样认为。。。。
嗯，这个我同意。
说句题外话，如果习惯了吃面条不出声，你要他吃的时候弄出很大的动静也是很难做到的。
One and a potential second inside... :P
gxgx，小子丫头？
Thanks! :) Early October.
恭喜恭喜
蹭蹭
gxgx，小子丫头？
估计还不知道
Most naughty kids enjoy the moment that they get the attention of any adult. :) That's why it's more important to talk to him, not just ask him to follow. A spoiled kid is not used to follow instructions. I can simply take a chair to him and force him to sit down right there, and talk...
偶必须坚持， 偶是绝对不认为也不希望任何人一定要talk to我的娃的。。。 如果这样的事情， 我看到。 那我不会客气的。 我怎么知道这个人会和我的娃说什么啊？万一是推销天主教的， 魔门教的呢？ 万一是推销global warming的呢？ 万一是推销工会的呢？ 万一是推销种族歧视的呢？ 我不知道你在什么情况下， 可以这样做， 或者是否这样做过。。 但是我本人是相当反感这样的行为的。 除非同时邀请我一起坐下。。 同样， 我不认为任何人可以无端质疑别人是怎么做父母的。。。
所以我认为这件事情， 要谈， 是和父母谈。
gxgx，小子丫头？
No.1 is a girl; hopefully No.2 will be a boy.
然后因为一家被赶，要挪车，其他人也只好走人，party只好提前散伙
我觉得你还是邀请的时候提前筛选一下子最好，防患于未然。
只是不合适，并不是不对，吃个饭而已，有什么对错。
偶个人觉得不仅仅是不合适。。。 但是我也说了， 我对这个特别不太能够接受。。。
偶必须坚持， 偶是绝对不认为也不希望任何人一定要talk to我的娃的。。。 如果这样的事情， 我看到。 那我不会客气的。 我怎么知道这个人会和我的娃说什么啊？万一是推销天主教的， 魔门教的呢？ 万一是推销global warming的呢？ 万一是推销工会的呢？ 万一是推销种族歧视的呢？ 我不知道你在什么情况下， 可以这样做， 或者是否这样做过。。 但是我本人是相当反感这样的行为的。 除非同时邀请我一起坐下。。 同样， 我不认为任何人可以无端质疑别人是怎么做父母的。。。
所以我认为这件事情， 要谈， 是和父母谈。 －－－学习了。
I was exactly like you before my own was born. Hehe, totally understand your feeling about these aliens. :P
One and a potential second inside... :P
玛雅，包馅儿了， 啊鹅和豹纹快来粘粘喜气
No.1 is a girl; hopefully No.2 will be a boy.
两个丫头总比两个小子好
玛雅，包馅儿了， 啊鹅和豹纹快来粘粘喜气
还有罗罗
我还看到美国人吃东西吃到胡子上呢
啊，那个最恶心。特别是如果这个男人上了年纪胡子花花白白的，真是不雅观。
其实小小娃， 是挺像外星人的
嗯，这个我同意。
说句题外话，如果习惯了吃面条不出声，你要他吃的时候弄出很大的动静也是很难做到的。
恩， 好些美国人到日本还得学着怎么吃面条出声音。。
Thanks! :) Early October.
恭喜哈
偶个人觉得不仅仅是不合适。。。 但是我也说了， 我对这个特别不太能够接受。。。
我不怕别人吃东西声音大，虽然annoying，毕竟不影响我。最讨厌有人把自己的筷子放到菜里面挑菜吃
I was exactly like you before my own was born. Hehe, totally understand your feeling about these aliens. :P
喜欢娃的，自己没娃都一定要摸要抱别人的娃。我都mid 30's，还从来没体验过这个感觉。。。。。。我有的朋友能抱着猫狗都嫌的年纪的娃，哪怕别人娃都不喜欢他，他还是要听人讲故事，拿东西讨好娃啊什么的。嘿嘿。幸亏我家２人意见很一致。。。。。。。。
然后还捡起来吃
！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！
啊，那个最恶心。特别是如果这个男人上了年纪胡子花花白白的，真是不雅观。
然后还捡起来吃
还有罗罗
哟， 还不知道这个。。 罗罗好像没来求过祝福啊。。。
靠，你们说的真恶心
我还在吃饭呢
靠，你们说的真恶心
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