it 's probably the best if i do the abortion, but then i am gambling of losing both him and the baby later. if i keep the baby, at least i have the kid even we broke up later.
we have been boyfriend and girl friend for two months, but we work together for about one and half year. he is the best boyfriend ever. The pregnancy is my fault, one of chinese OB told me that my vertus is so small that it will be extramely hard for me to get pregnant. i believed it and he believed me. financially, i can support the baby myself without his help, but i really want the kid has a normal and health life. he said he is ready to settle down but this is too soon and it will be a huge movement. he'd rather to know a person better before making this kind of movement.
it 's probably the best if i do the abortion, but then i am gambling of losing both him and the baby later. if i keep the baby, at least i have the kid even we broke up later.
he wants his children have family but he thinks it's too early to have a family with me. he told me directly that if our relationship like this ten months later, we will definetely keep the baby. he is serioud about the marriage and kid's future.
he wants his children have family but he thinks it's too early to have a family with me. he told me directly that if our relationship like this ten months later, we will definetely keep the baby. he is serioud about the marriage and kid's future.
ten months?by that time, the baby already comes out.
he wants his children have family but he thinks it's too early to have a family with me. he told me directly that if our relationship like this ten months later, we will definetely keep the baby. he is serioud about the marriage and kid's future.
he wants his children have family but he thinks it's too early to have a family with me. he told me directly that if our relationship like this ten months later, we will definetely keep the baby. he is serioud about the marriage and kid's future. 我不知道别人看懂了没有，
i just made an abortion appointment for tomorrow. the OB does not think abortion for older women will effect my future pregnancy. i do want this baby but i want him to want it too. it looks like he is not ready no matter what's the reason. the pregnancy is cuased by my stupidity, there is no one else to blame but myself.
i just made an abortion appointment for tomorrow. the OB does not think abortion for older women will effect my future pregnancy. i do want this baby but i want him to want it too. it looks like he is not ready no matter what's the reason. the pregnancy is cuased by my stupidity, there is no one else to blame but myself.
he means if our relationship still smooth like right now after 10 months and i get pregnant at that time, he would like to keep the baby. 我觉得大部风中国女人，都是希望有稳定的婚姻的，之后才考虑孩子的事。如果他只是说以后会接受孩子，不提婚姻，你的风险还是很大的。
以下是引用niceice在1/4/2010 11:51:00 AM的发言： i just made an abortion appointment for tomorrow. the OB does not think abortion for older women will effect my future pregnancy. i do want this baby but i want him to want it too. it looks like he is not ready no matter what's the reason. the pregnancy is cuased by my stupidity, there is no one else to blame but myself. PAT MM. 事情既然已经发生了就只能向前走. 以后一定要保护好自己. 这个世界上也只有父母无条件的对我们好. BLESS
以下是引用niceice在1/4/2010 11:51:00 AM的发言： i just made an abortion appointment for tomorrow. the OB does not think abortion for older women will effect my future pregnancy. i do want this baby but i want him to want it too. it looks like he is not ready no matter what's the reason. the pregnancy is cuased by my stupidity, there is no one else to blame but myself. it is a wise decision, take good care of yourself.
please! please! please don't do that!!! get married, give birth to the baby, take the responsibility! please! [此贴子已经被作者于2010/1/4 13:23:27编辑过] 别这么说了，剃头单子一头热也不行啊，人家男的不想要，女的怎么办啊。
please! please! please don't do that!!! get married, give birth to the baby, take the responsibility! please! [此贴子已经被作者于2010/1/4 13:23:27编辑过] 那个男生不愿意结婚啊...
没有准备好要孩子干吗阿 I don't have kids myself, but i am told that there is never perfact time for having baby, you got to face it when you have the baby. lz is over 30, and she said she was told that it is hard for her to have a baby. and the guy seems to be a ok guy, why don't they get married? it is too risky.
I don't have kids myself, but i am told that there is never perfact time for having baby, you got to face it when you have the baby. lz is over 30, and she said she was told that it is hard for her to have a baby. and the guy seems to be a ok guy, why don't they get married? it is too risky.
i just made an abortion appointment for tomorrow. the OB does not think abortion for older women will effect my future pregnancy. i do want this baby but i want him to want it too. it looks like he is not ready no matter what's the reason. the pregnancy is cuased by my stupidity, there is no one else to blame but myself.
mm, you should love yourself more... i think ur bf is not that into you...
mm, you should love yourself more... i think ur bf is not that into you... it will hurt me more if this is true. i really thought it's a serious relationship, he is the most generous BF ever, and he also helps me a lot at work. we actually just back from his home town to visit his family during Christmas. everything seems towards the good way.
it will hurt me more if this is true. i really thought it's a serious relationship, he is the most generous BF ever, and he also helps me a lot at work. we actually just back from his home town to visit his family during Christmas. everything seems towards the good way.
it will hurt me more if this is true. i really thought it's a serious relationship, he is the most generous BF ever, and he also helps me a lot at work. we actually just back from his home town to visit his family during Christmas. everything seems towards the good way. 也许他不是不爱你，不过他的爱还不够到结婚有孩子的地步
i don't know if i should tell me parents about this, but i am sure they will insist to keep this baby. i really need some suggestions from the person who loves and cares me the most .
i don't know if i should tell me parents about this, but i am sure they will insist to keep this baby. i really need some suggestions from the person who loves and cares me the most .
Speechless... how did you grow up for the 30 years? If you are not going to keep the baby, what's the point to tell them???
i don't know if i should tell me parents about this, but i am sure they will insist to keep this baby. i really need some suggestions from the person who loves and cares me the most .
If you've decided not to have the baby, why you need to tell your parents?
it's purely an accident. i was told by two chinese OBs that i will have difficulty to get pregnant. he must trust me , and i trusted those OBs. 小声说，这年头，TT都不可靠了。
晕。才交往两个月，怎么不避孕呀。
偶也想说这个。。。都三十好几的人了，怎么这点事都搞不定
你等于是在赌了。
赌这个BF以后会跟你结婚一起好好带娃。。。。。
如果赌输了，你就是单亲妈妈。
你觉得自己能负荷这个赌输的结果就好。
it 's probably the best if i do the abortion, but then i am gambling of losing both him and the baby later. if i keep the baby, at least i have the kid even we broke up later.
刚刚发现自己意外怀孕了. 我三十多了, 可以算高龄产妇了. 我怕打掉孩子会影响以后的生育能力.可男朋友不想要. 我该怎么办.
"男朋友不想要" :O 他如果都不考虑你的身体和未来。这种人，我看你要早离开他算了。
we have been boyfriend and girl friend for two months, but we work together for about one and half year. he is the best boyfriend ever. The pregnancy is my fault, one of chinese OB told me that my vertus is so small that it will be extramely hard for me to get pregnant. i believed it and he believed me. financially, i can support the baby myself without his help, but i really want the kid has a normal and health life. he said he is ready to settle down but this is too soon and it will be a huge movement. he'd rather to know a person better before making this kind of movement.
原来LZ的怀孕不是意外的啊
想跟他过日子就好好跟他谈谈你的处境，真爱你的话他会同意的
话说 都不要孩子 而且交往两个月，一看就是出于现实基础考虑的婚姻
这个时候啊
就别扯真爱了。。。
这时候lz要想清楚
lz你想和他在一起一辈子么？？？
你会为了孩子和他一起？
还是真的喜欢这个人？？？
这个世界上除了你自己
孩子，男人 都不能代表你
如果你想要和他在一起
冷静一下
想清楚自己要怎么做
一切都解决得到
能结婚就要孩子，不能结婚就不要孩子。
re.要不对你和孩子都不好。孩子应该有个温暖的家，你对很多事情都不 sure 的情况下就贸然要了孩子，以后万一你后悔了，就苦了自己和孩子了。
it 's probably the best if i do the abortion, but then i am gambling of losing both him and the baby later. if i keep the baby, at least i have the kid even we broke up later.
你只考虑到了一点，没考虑到另外一点。
娃不是一个包，他需要很多很多的维护。。。。。。。这意味着你的无数的付出。。。。。。
不过也许你真的是能力很强的，自己可以完全解决这些问题的。
说这个是觉得女人一个人养家养娃很不容易的，lz要考虑清楚。
he wants his children have family but he thinks it's too early to have a family with me. he told me directly that if our relationship like this ten months later, we will definetely keep the baby. he is serioud about the marriage and kid's future.
ten months?by that time, the baby already comes out.
他说如果我要留下, 他会支持-精神上的和物质上的. 但他认为这事如果发生在10 个月后我们会有更好的结果, 现在有点WIRED.
那就留着孩子，处处看吧。
but you really should use birth control.......
he wants his children have family but he thinks it's too early to have a family with me. he told me directly that if our relationship like this ten months later, we will definetely keep the baby. he is serioud about the marriage and kid's future.
你如果经济上没有问题，工作和生活的圈子比较liberal的话，那就生下来吧。那个你BF不是承诺经济上和精神上都会支持的嘛（而且在美国的话，万一他反悔了，也有现成的案例等着呢，他至少得从经济上负责），好好相处一段时间，说不定孩子没出生之前就求婚了呢。
不赞成用孩子逼人结婚，长远看对大人和孩子都不是个理智的选择。
到这个关键处，你就豪赌一次吧。
留下孩子，再去争取他。
你OB会告诉你，以你的情况，流了以后再有很难很难。。如果你的Life里并不一定有孩子，你可以流掉；如果你是个爱小孩，一定要当妈妈的人，趁这个机会，生吧。
很多事情都没有对错，follow your heart吧。
你如果经济上没有问题，工作和生活的圈子比较liberal的话，那就生下来吧。那个你BF不是承诺经济上和精神上都会支持的嘛（而且在美国的话，万一他反悔了，也有现成的案例等着呢，他至少得从经济上负责），好好相处一段时间，说不定孩子没出生之前就求婚了呢。
不赞成用孩子逼人结婚，长远看对大人和孩子都不是个理智的选择。
re
he wants his children have family but he thinks it's too early to have a family with me. he told me directly that if our relationship like this ten months later, we will definetely keep the baby. he is serioud about the marriage and kid's future.
我不知道别人看懂了没有，
反正我没看懂他对你说的话是什么意思。
他的意思是，十个月以后，他就可以接受你们有孩子了？
那么提前了这10个月，他就不能接受了？
然后呢，他想怎么办？
我比较自私，反正这种情况我肯定打
不是自私，我也建议不要孩子
我不知道别人看懂了没有，
反正我没看懂他对你说的话是什么意思。
他的意思是，十个月以后，他就可以接受你们有孩子了？
那么提前了这10个月，他就不能接受了？
然后呢，他想怎么办？
he means if our relationship still smooth like right now after 10 months and i get pregnant at that time, he would like to keep the baby.
i just made an abortion appointment for tomorrow. the OB does not think abortion for older women will effect my future pregnancy. i do want this baby but i want him to want it too. it looks like he is not ready no matter what's the reason. the pregnancy is cuased by my stupidity, there is no one else to blame but myself.
take care!
he means if our relationship still smooth like right now after 10 months and i get pregnant at that time, he would like to keep the baby.
我觉得大部风中国女人，都是希望有稳定的婚姻的，之后才考虑孩子的事。如果他只是说以后会接受孩子，不提婚姻，你的风险还是很大的。
bless
i just made an abortion appointment for tomorrow. the OB does not think abortion for older women will effect my future pregnancy. i do want this baby but i want him to want it too. it looks like he is not ready no matter what's the reason. the pregnancy is cuased by my stupidity, there is no one else to blame but myself.
PAT MM. 事情既然已经发生了就只能向前走. 以后一定要保护好自己. 这个世界上也只有父母无条件的对我们好.
BLESS
我怎么觉得这件事lz要负绝大部分责任呢，lz的bf反应没什么大问题啊，很难指望一个谈了2个月的bf立马求婚阿。
换了我是lz的bf，估计反应还不如这个呢，我会觉得是你上来说自己不容易怀孕的，怎么两个月就有了，让人感觉就是有计划逼婚的，让人很不爽阿。
我跑，我跑。。。
我承认我是来找拍的
我怎么觉得这件事lz要负绝大部分责任呢，lz的bf反应没什么大问题啊，很难指望一个谈了2个月的bf立马求婚阿。
换了我是lz的bf，估计反应还不如这个呢，我会觉得是你上来说自己不容易怀孕的，怎么两个月就有了，让人感觉就是有计划逼婚的，让人很不爽阿。
我跑，我跑。。。
说的也有道理
就是小孩子可惜了，妈妈也伤心了
真心祝福LZ MM身体健康，以后还有小宝宝
只要男友负责任，愿意做个好父亲，先生下来在结婚把。
RE!
我承认我是来找拍的
我怎么觉得这件事lz要负绝大部分责任呢，lz的bf反应没什么大问题啊，很难指望一个谈了2个月的bf立马求婚阿。
换了我是lz的bf，估计反应还不如这个呢，我会觉得是你上来说自己不容易怀孕的，怎么两个月就有了，让人感觉就是有计划逼婚的，让人很不爽阿。
我跑，我跑。。。
lz的bf反应没什么大问题， 但他让lz怀孕的事实说明他也要负很大责任，一个大男人难道不知道做这事以后会怀孕，他就不想想女方要付出多大的损失，如果爱她，他就不应该那么不小心。
这是我老公说的，因为他认为男方可以控制不让这种事发生的，只是自己在过程中受点委屈而已。总比事后让爱人纠结，打胎强。
i just made an abortion appointment for tomorrow. the OB does not think abortion for older women will effect my future pregnancy. i do want this baby but i want him to want it too. it looks like he is not ready no matter what's the reason. the pregnancy is cuased by my stupidity, there is no one else to blame but myself.
it is a wise decision, take good care of yourself.
lz的bf反应没什么大问题， 但他让lz怀孕的事实说明他也要负很大责任，一个大男人难道不知道做这事以后会怀孕，他就不想想女方要付出多大的损失，如果爱她，他就不应该那么不小心。
这是我老公说的，因为他认为男方可以控制不让这种事发生的，只是自己在过程中受点委屈而已。总比事后让爱人纠结，打胎强。
re
即使是高中生，也应该懂得怀孕是一件天大的事情和责任，男人出于对于此责任的考虑，应该积极避孕，就算女的无知。。。
take good care of yourself after the abortion
rest and drink some 补血 herbs tea
get married, give birth to the baby, take the responsibility! please!
[此贴子已经被作者于2010/1/4 13:23:27编辑过]
please! please! please don't do that!!!
get married, give birth to the baby, take the responsibility! please!
[此贴子已经被作者于2010/1/4 13:23:27编辑过]
别这么说了，剃头单子一头热也不行啊，人家男的不想要，女的怎么办啊。
please! please! please don't do that!!!
get married, give birth to the baby, take the responsibility! please!
[此贴子已经被作者于2010/1/4 13:23:27编辑过]
那个男生不愿意结婚啊...
please! please! please don't do that!!!
get married, give birth to the baby, take the responsibility! please!
[此贴子已经被作者于2010/1/4 13:23:27编辑过]
没有准备好要孩子干吗阿
没有准备好要孩子干吗阿
re
一对不ready的夫妻，一段风险重重的婚姻，对孩子也不公平。
bless
问一句楼主，你把这个孩子打掉了以后，接下来跟这个男的相处，会不会有心理障碍？
我觉得虽然这个男的没做什么伤天害理的事情(只是没有违背他自己的原则), 甚至从某个角度讲可以理解; 但是他很可能是一个比较自我中心的人. 以后能指望他如何牺牲甚至仅仅是compromise都比较困难. LZ MM 要考虑好.
没有准备好要孩子干吗阿
I don't have kids myself, but i am told that there is never perfact time for having baby, you got to face it when you have the baby.
lz is over 30, and she said she was told that it is hard for her to have a baby. and the guy seems to be a ok guy, why don't they get married?
it is too risky.
I don't have kids myself, but i am told that there is never perfact time for having baby, you got to face it when you have the baby.
lz is over 30, and she said she was told that it is hard for her to have a baby. and the guy seems to be a ok guy, why don't they get married?
it is too risky.
问题是现在这男的根本就不想结婚，才认识2个月就结婚的毕竟是少数，难道你拿把刀架他脖子上逼他么？
老实说如果我是男的，我也不想那么快结婚
话说我也有个朋友，也是医生说不容易怀孕…… 结果就怀上了。不过她跟bf好几年了，虽然才24岁，是个很爱玩的漂亮女生，但是还是把孩子生下来了，抱着小宝宝结的婚，很感人的哟~
抱着小宝宝结婚，那才感人，
楼主这儿结婚不结婚还两说呢。。。
人家甘心不甘心结也不一定啊。。。。。
i just made an abortion appointment for tomorrow. the OB does not think abortion for older women will effect my future pregnancy. i do want this baby but i want him to want it too. it looks like he is not ready no matter what's the reason. the pregnancy is cuased by my stupidity, there is no one else to blame but myself.
mm, you should love yourself more... i think ur bf is not that into you...
抱着小宝宝结婚，那才感人，
楼主这儿结婚不结婚还两说呢。。。
人家甘心不甘心结也不一定啊。。。。。
我知道呀…… 想给楼主jj一个美好的例子么。那个男生实际上也没ready呢，不过为了小宝宝，很快就求婚了。
还有可见医生的话要有保留的相信啊，避孕这件事还是小心点好呢。
抱着小宝宝结婚，那才感人，
楼主这儿结婚不结婚还两说呢。。。
人家甘心不甘心结也不一定啊。。。。。
咱俩观点差不多哈
问题是现在这男的根本就不想结婚，才认识2个月就结婚的毕竟是少数，难道你拿把刀架他脖子上逼他么？
老实说如果我是男的，我也不想那么快结婚
Re.
我倒！那你觉得在一起两个月就上床就不快么？唉，现在说啥也晚了。不能打，太危险了。既然有了，你男朋友就要负责，这是没办法的事情。凭什么你要受伤害，他就可以随时walk away。
re 无论怎么处理，他都应该负责
我只能说，人生有很多路，你选了跟大家不太一样的，但是未必也就是错的了。
但是也许是比较难的，虽然言情小说里总是美化这条路。。。。。。
希望你好运。
不过你的OB真的是坑了你了，你也太幼稚了，说你难怀孕你就干脆不用TT了？苍天啊。下次别信他的了。
晋江小白文里总是把单亲妈妈描述成英明神武，无所不能，还狂走桃花运的。
现实里，夫妻两人同心协力照顾一个孩子也容易人仰马翻。
晋江小白文里总是把单亲妈妈描述成英明神武，无所不能，还狂走桃花运的。
现实里，夫妻两人同心协力照顾一个孩子也容易人仰马翻。
金奖的女主，都是相貌平平，却名妓也做过，王后也随便就能当当的，
问题是现在这男的根本就不想结婚，才认识2个月就结婚的毕竟是少数，难道你拿把刀架他脖子上逼他么？
老实说如果我是男的，我也不想那么快结婚
老实说，不想结婚就不要谈恋爱，世上没有那么多free sex。有了孩子还想walk away, 堕胎不是切菜这么简单。
晋江小白文里总是把单亲妈妈描述成英明神武，无所不能，还狂走桃花运的。
现实里，夫妻两人同心协力照顾一个孩子也容易人仰马翻。
每个字都是我想说的。
最近看了三四篇晋江小白文，都是单亲妈妈，跟孩子爸爸一夜欢愉或者因为某些原因，独自生下了孩子，又养了几年，孩子爸回头来跟孩子妈妈重逢，又大团圆的故事。
写这些小说的，十有八九都没自己带过娃。才会对一个单亲妈妈的日子描写得那么美好，坚强，独立，轻松。
都是狗屁。真的，狗屁。
老实说，不想结婚就不要谈恋爱，世上没有那么多free sex。有了孩子还想walk away, 堕胎不是切菜这么简单。
说得难听点，free sex已经得到了，要是walk away看上去也没什么风险，阻碍，要是男的来问，肯定要挨骂，可楼主来问，就是不同的结果了
每个字都是我想说的。
最近看了三四篇晋江小白文，都是单亲妈妈，跟孩子爸爸一夜欢愉或者因为某些原因，独自生下了孩子，又养了几年，孩子爸回头来跟孩子妈妈重逢，又大团圆的故事。
写这些小说的，十有八九都没自己带过娃。才会对一个单亲妈妈的日子描写得那么美好，坚强，独立，轻松。
都是狗屁。真的，狗屁。
哈哈，原来我看一个金奖的小说，作者说，要考试，后来透露，是中学生，
然后还能把自己搞得四五年都不怎么老，还能跟男一号重逢的时候保持当年风韵。。。。。
绝对是大忽悠。
哈哈，原来我看一个金奖的小说，作者说，要考试，后来透露，是中学生，
其实看看这类小白文还挺开心的。
生活已经太辛苦，
给自己一天幻想当甜头。
但是要是生活中让我这么干，那我先找砖拍死我自己。
mm, you should love yourself more... i think ur bf is not that into you...
it will hurt me more if this is true. i really thought it's a serious relationship, he is the most generous BF ever, and he also helps me a lot at work. we actually just back from his home town to visit his family during Christmas. everything seems towards the good way.
金奖的女主，都是相貌平平，却名妓也做过，王后也随便就能当当的，
反正就是要脱离现实，让人可以代入，逃避一下现实的。
不过我承认我还是很爱看小白YY文的。
每个字都是我想说的。
最近看了三四篇晋江小白文，都是单亲妈妈，跟孩子爸爸一夜欢愉或者因为某些原因，独自生下了孩子，又养了几年，孩子爸回头来跟孩子妈妈重逢，又大团圆的故事。
写这些小说的，十有八九都没自己带过娃。才会对一个单亲妈妈的日子描写得那么美好，坚强，独立，轻松。
都是狗屁。真的，狗屁。
就是啊。小白文里可不会强调有了孩子以后吃的那些苦。
it will hurt me more if this is true. i really thought it's a serious relationship, he is the most generous BF ever, and he also helps me a lot at work. we actually just back from his home town to visit his family during Christmas. everything seems towards the good way.
我说句不好听的话， 既然是严肃的关系， 你为什么不好好避孕呢？ 你这个怀孕， 是deal breaker... 不知道为什么会的， 如果是你告诉对方你有措施， 那你们这个关系基本上没什么指望的了。。 如果你让对方避孕， 对方没避孕， 那对方就是典型的靠不住。。
最好还是做最坏打算， 下一次好好避孕， 别遭罪了
我就不信一个女人，在要工作，甚至学习，的前提下，还能把自己的娃带得轻轻松松跟去看场电影一样，
然后还能把自己搞得四五年都不怎么老，还能跟男一号重逢的时候保持当年风韵。。。。。
绝对是大忽悠。
Re.
老实说，不想结婚就不要谈恋爱，世上没有那么多free sex。有了孩子还想walk away, 堕胎不是切菜这么简单。
婚内sex也是要避孕的
反正就是要脱离现实，让人可以代入，逃避一下现实的。
不过我承认我还是很爱看小白YY文的。
我也是，白日梦，还是挺好的
it will hurt me more if this is true. i really thought it's a serious relationship, he is the most generous BF ever, and he also helps me a lot at work. we actually just back from his home town to visit his family during Christmas. everything seems towards the good way.
也许他不是不爱你，不过他的爱还不够到结婚有孩子的地步
不过呢， 如果不要的话对自己身体也很不好吧。
i don't know if i should tell me parents about this, but i am sure they will insist to keep this baby. i really need some suggestions from the person who loves and cares me the most .
Speechless... how did you grow up for the 30 years? If you are not going to keep the baby, what's the point to tell them???
i don't know if i should tell me parents about this, but i am sure they will insist to keep this baby. i really need some suggestions from the person who loves and cares me the most .
If you've decided not to have the baby, why you need to tell your parents?
2。刮宫，找个好大夫，虽然是小手术，但很重要
3。找个人过来人照顾你几天，向坐月子一样，不占凉水，多喝汤水，注意饮食，休息，不要劳累，但也不要光躺着，
4。不要告诉父母了，除非说了他们就能过来。
bf能结婚是最好的了，如果不结我看就分手吧，不管孩子要不要
totally agree!
3。找个人过来人照顾你几天，向坐月子一样，不占凉水，多喝汤水，注意饮食，休息，不要劳累，但也不要光躺着，
Not necessary ba?
老实说，不想结婚就不要谈恋爱，世上没有那么多free sex。有了孩子还想walk away, 堕胎不是切菜这么简单。
毛主席语录：谈恋爱不以结婚为目的的，就是耍流氓
Not necessary ba?
其实没啥问题，不过小心为妙
毛主席语录：谈恋爱不以结婚为目的的，就是耍流氓
他自己不就老耍流氓
他自己不就老耍流氓
hahaha, you cai!
他自己不就老耍流氓
才不是，人家总是结婚滴。
才不是，人家总是结婚滴。
没有吧
和杨开慧好像就没结
和江青肯定是没结
没有吧
和杨开慧好像就没结
和江青肯定是没结
不是滴吧，真滴么？但大家不是都说杨和江是妻子么？发不了小猴子。
it's purely an accident. i was told by two chinese OBs that i will have difficulty to get pregnant. he must trust me , and i trusted those OBs.
小声说，这年头，TT都不可靠了。
这OB真敢打包票。