i dropped off peanut this morning. He cried at first. Then he started to play with trucks and cars there and I sneaked out. I thought I should have said byebye. But don't want to provoke another cry. I will call around noon to see how is he doing. Thanks for the blessing from you guys I asked the teacher this morning whether I should emphasize "I am leaving now and will pick you up later" to Jason when I leave. She said that " Letting the kids know more about your leaving will just exaggerate the separation anxiety" So I guess sneaking out is a good idea and you don't need to feel sorry.
However, what we can do is repeatly telling the kid that mom will pick you up after work while we are at home, like tonight. :)
I asked the teacher this morning whether I should emphasize "I am leaving now and will pick you up later" to Jason when I leave. She said that " Letting the kids know more about your leaving will just exaggerate the separation anxiety" So I guess sneaking out is a good idea and you don't need to feel sorry.
However, what we can do is repeatly telling the kid that mom will pick you up after work while we are at home, like tonight. :)
Hmmm. All the teachers I talked to suggested me to let TaoTao know that I am leaving and will be back. I was asked not to sneak out.
Anyway, I think you both did great! Good start! Will ChenChen be in daycare full-time?
Hmmm. All the teachers I talked to suggested me to let TaoTao know that I am leaving and will be back. I was asked not to sneak out.
Anyway, I think you both did great! Good start! Will ChenChen be in daycare full-time?
That was also what I learnt before. That is also why I was asking this morning. Based on your actual experience, which way do you think is better? I just kind of feel, if I tell Jason I am leaving, he might not let it happen at all??
Jason 很棒啊。不知道今天花生如何，壳壳也没有上来更新，希望她能应付得来，怀着22还要一个人照顾个toddler，这个我都不敢想象。抱抱。不知道能不能让家里父母过来救个急。
bless Jason and 花生快快适应daycare。还有bless他们在daycare不要生病。 想起我家这个当初上daycare和花生的情况很相似，一点选择都没有，孩子挺受罪。匆忙一天定下daycare,第二天就正式全天去，早上陪了一个多小时，下午四点多去接，结果他在睡觉，等到5点才醒过来，看到我们就大哭，那个伤心啊。路上饿得不行，吃了很多饼干。接下来我们就再也没有陪过了，9点送，快6点去接。大人肯定会很心疼，但是我们的宝宝们适应能力很强的，熬过第一周就好了。
this morning was stressful and I lost my temper I dressed peanut up and we locked the door. I was loading the car and he stepped into the mud and pond. i have to grab him in and get him a change and he refused to put on new pants and shoes I yelled at him and then felt guilty.... I apologized to peanut while driving and he accepted, I guess. He said "no stepping into water next time".
thanks all for blessing. when I picked peanut up yesterday, he was sleeping because he refused napping during napping time.
Today's drop off was harder. He knows the trick and i did not find a chance to sneak out. He was crying when I walked out.
You hang in there. The trouble of drop-off might last for a while, depending on your child. I agree with ShuaiMa, everything else is not a big deal, as long as the child is healthy.
this morning was stressful and I lost my temper I dressed peanut up and we locked the door. I was loading the car and he stepped into the mud and pond. i have to grab him in and get him a change and he refused to put on new pants and shoes I yelled at him and then felt guilty.... I apologized to peanut while driving and he accepted, I guess. He said "no stepping into water next time".
以下是引用cccccccccc在3/1/2010 9:44:00 PM的发言： Jason 很棒啊。不知道今天花生如何，壳壳也没有上来更新，希望她能应付得来，怀着22还要一个人照顾个toddler，这个我都不敢想象。抱抱。不知道能不能让家里父母过来救个急。 bless Jason and 花生快快适应daycare。还有bless他们在daycare不要生病。想起我家这个当初上daycare和花生的情况很相似，一点选择都没有，孩子挺受罪。匆忙一天定下daycare,第二天就正式全天去，早上陪了一个多小时，下午四点多去接，结果他在睡觉，等到5点才醒过来，看到我们就大哭，那个伤心啊。路上饿得不行，吃了很多饼干。接下来我们就再也没有陪过了，9点送，快6点去接。大人肯定会很心疼，但是我们的宝宝们适应能力很强的，熬过第一周就好了。 听了很受鼓舞，谢谢！
You hang in there. The trouble of drop-off might last for a while, depending on your child. I agree with ShuaiMa, everything else is not a big deal, as long as the child is healthy.
I called again. Teacher told me that peanut is more upset today than yesterday. He cries more. maybe he realized the situation today. Ate half lunch and refuse to nap.
I called again. Teacher told me that peanut is more upset today than yesterday. He cries more. maybe he realized the situation today. Ate half lunch and refuse to nap.
还有一点我觉得很重要的是，学校要有丰富的activities，要有routine，一天下来的schedule要排满，让孩子总是engaged，而不是wandering around，不知道该干啥。现在我们追求的已经不仅仅是个保姆了，是会刺激孩子mental and physical development的老师与同学。
morning! Thank you for all the blessings! I dropped off peanut this morning and stayed for 25 min with him. After he adjusted, I waved byebye. Of course he cried again. I am a little immuned to that now. Just called, he is playing with new toys.
Great grandma past away. I think we've made a good decision to send F-in-law back. It's good that he was able to be with her. She lived a good life. (94y)
Great grandma past away. I think we've made a good decision to send F-in-law back. It's good that he was able to be with her. She lived a good life. (94y)
以下是引用angleface在3/3/2010 9:27:00 AM的发言： I will try to give you guys some feedback about choosing a daycare at night1 thanks a lot taoma. You are always our leader!
还有一点我觉得很重要的是，学校要有丰富的activities，要有routine，一天下来的schedule要排满，让孩子总是engaged，而不是wandering around，不知道该干啥。现在我们追求的已经不仅仅是个保姆了，是会刺激孩子mental and physical development的老师与同学。
morning! Thank you for all the blessings! I dropped off peanut this morning and stayed for 25 min with him. After he adjusted, I waved byebye. Of course he cried again. I am a little immuned to that now. Just called, he is playing with new toys.
Great grandma past away. I think we've made a good decision to send F-in-law back. It's good that he was able to be with her. She lived a good life. (94y)
Great grandma past away. I think we've made a good decision to send F-in-law back. It's good that he was able to be with her. She lived a good life. (94y)
对了，矿妈，我刚看了外面riteaid的帖子，这个月的deal不错呀！您看我是在ebay上买coupon呢，还是多买几份当地的报纸?如果差不多，我就直接买报纸算了。 i must be retarded. I read the post 2 times and did not figure out how to do it.
I guess we need ebay pampers and stay free Qs or what? [此贴子已经被作者于2010/3/3 12:24:45编辑过]
i must be retarded. I read the post 2 times and did not figure out how to do it.
I guess we need ebay pampers and stay free Qs or what? [此贴子已经被作者于2010/3/3 12:24:45编辑过] 我不知道ebay上买的话怎么操作，如果买报纸的话，貌似一份报纸会有一个stayfree bogo，一个1off，一个pampers 2off; 因为总共只下三单，ebay上买的话一个人其实用不完。要不咱们share？ 或者一个选择是买3份报纸。 不过，我不知道那些1 off j&j的 VQ从哪里找，只找到5 OFF25的。
我不知道ebay上买的话怎么操作，如果买报纸的话，貌似一份报纸会有一个stayfree bogo，一个1off，一个pampers 2off; 因为总共只下三单，ebay上买的话一个人其实用不完。要不咱们share？ 或者一个选择是买3份报纸。 不过，我不知道那些1 off j&j的 VQ从哪里找，只找到5 OFF25的。 papers here sells at 2$. How many stayfree and how many pampers do we need? 3 sets? Dou ma once mentioned she wants to share. Dou ma?
I guess crying at drop-off for 9 months will be finally a past event for me? Still can't believe it.
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哭了9个月？How heartbreaking for parents! Taotao surely is strong-minded.
Happy Birthday Danny, my twin brother!
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taotao is a big gilr!!!! pretty!
Happy B-DAY to Danny!
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i dropped off peanut this morning. He cried at first. Then he started to play with trucks and cars there and I sneaked out. I thought I should have said byebye. But don't want to provoke another cry.
I will call around noon to see how is he doing.
Thanks for the blessing from you guys
I asked the teacher this morning whether I should emphasize "I am leaving now and will pick you up later" to Jason when I leave. She said that " Letting the kids know more about your leaving will just exaggerate the separation anxiety" So I guess sneaking out is a good idea and you don't need to feel sorry.
However, what we can do is repeatly telling the kid that mom will pick you up after work while we are at home, like tonight. :)
以下是引用zoeyqqq在3/1/2010 9:18:00 AM的发言：
bless Jason's first daycare life
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Dou Ma, Can I have it, please? Please msg me. Thanks!!!
发拉，忘了说了，expires 3/13
I asked the teacher this morning whether I should emphasize "I am leaving now and will pick you up later" to Jason when I leave. She said that " Letting the kids know more about your leaving will just exaggerate the separation anxiety" So I guess sneaking out is a good idea and you don't need to feel sorry.
However, what we can do is repeatly telling the kid that mom will pick you up after work while we are at home, like tonight. :)
Hmmm. All the teachers I talked to suggested me to let TaoTao know that I am leaving and will be back. I was asked not to sneak out.
Anyway, I think you both did great! Good start! Will ChenChen be in daycare full-time?
I called the daycare again.
The first week is always like that. Don't worry.
Thanks DouMa!!! I used the code to get a hard drive and it worked! We got too many TaoTao's photo and videos at home.
Hmmm. All the teachers I talked to suggested me to let TaoTao know that I am leaving and will be back. I was asked not to sneak out.
Anyway, I think you both did great! Good start! Will ChenChen be in daycare full-time?
That was also what I learnt before. That is also why I was asking this morning. Based on your actual experience, which way do you think is better? I just kind of feel, if I tell Jason I am leaving, he might not let it happen at all??
是哪个好心的斑斑帮我加的呀！
bless Jason and 花生快快适应daycare。还有bless他们在daycare不要生病。
想起我家这个当初上daycare和花生的情况很相似，一点选择都没有，孩子挺受罪。匆忙一天定下daycare,第二天就正式全天去，早上陪了一个多小时，下午四点多去接，结果他在睡觉，等到5点才醒过来，看到我们就大哭，那个伤心啊。路上饿得不行，吃了很多饼干。接下来我们就再也没有陪过了，9点送，快6点去接。大人肯定会很心疼，但是我们的宝宝们适应能力很强的，熬过第一周就好了。
威望4啦！！！！天哪，我还没到3200帖子呢。也没申请。
是哪个好心的斑斑帮我加的呀！
恭喜恭喜！：）
宸宸特别爱吃酸的，辣的也不怕。昨天朋友来我们家，带了酸辣凉粉，香辣蟹，醋溜土豆丝，宸宸都爱吃。吃得小嘴唇通通红，吃一口给人家鼓个掌，让我带菜来的同学大受鼓舞啊 。哈哈
宸宸好棒，真可爱！哈哈。
我们一点辣的都不能吃，弄得我做饭很受限制。尽量按他的胃口做菜，人家还不领情，每次刚开始都说：好吃好吃，其实吃两口就不吃了。
谢谢谢谢！这么忙还上来跟我bless。
小妹小帅养得真好啊！你真能干！
re。小美小帅妈真能干！
I called the daycare again.
抱抱。壳壳别太担心，桃妈说得对。宝宝们刚开始都这样，过几天就适应了。就是希望花生不要生病。只要不生病，啥都好说。
when I picked peanut up yesterday, he was sleeping because he refused napping during napping time.
Today's drop off was harder. He knows the trick and i did not find a chance to sneak out. He was crying when I walked out.
I dressed peanut up and we locked the door. I was loading the car and he stepped into the mud and pond.
i have to grab him in and get him a change and he refused to put on new pants and shoes
I yelled at him and then felt guilty....
thanks all for blessing.
when I picked peanut up yesterday, he was sleeping because he refused napping during napping time.
Today's drop off was harder. He knows the trick and i did not find a chance to sneak out. He was crying when I walked out.
You hang in there. The trouble of drop-off might last for a while, depending on your child. I agree with ShuaiMa, everything else is not a big deal, as long as the child is healthy.
抱抱。壳壳别太担心，桃妈说得对。宝宝们刚开始都这样，过几天就适应了。就是希望花生不要生病。只要不生病，啥都好说。
Big hugs and kisses! How are you guys doing?
this morning was stressful and I lost my temper
I dressed peanut up and we locked the door. I was loading the car and he stepped into the mud and pond.
i have to grab him in and get him a change and he refused to put on new pants and shoes
I yelled at him and then felt guilty....
崇拜！！！
He said "no stepping into water next time".
ONLY NOTICE THIS. So amazing!!!
Jason 很棒啊。不知道今天花生如何，壳壳也没有上来更新，希望她能应付得来，怀着22还要一个人照顾个toddler，这个我都不敢想象。抱抱。不知道能不能让家里父母过来救个急。 bless Jason and 花生快快适应daycare。还有bless他们在daycare不要生病。想起我家这个当初上daycare和花生的情况很相似，一点选择都没有，孩子挺受罪。匆忙一天定下daycare,第二天就正式全天去，早上陪了一个多小时，下午四点多去接，结果他在睡觉，等到5点才醒过来，看到我们就大哭，那个伤心啊。路上饿得不行，吃了很多饼干。接下来我们就再也没有陪过了，9点送，快6点去接。大人肯定会很心疼，但是我们的宝宝们适应能力很强的，熬过第一周就好了。
听了很受鼓舞，谢谢！
You hang in there. The trouble of drop-off might last for a while, depending on your child. I agree with ShuaiMa, everything else is not a big deal, as long as the child is healthy.
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Teacher told me that peanut is more upset today than yesterday. He cries more. maybe he realized the situation today. Ate half lunch and refuse to nap.
I called again.
Teacher told me that peanut is more upset today than yesterday. He cries more. maybe he realized the situation today. Ate half lunch and refuse to nap.
bless peanut
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最近一段时间出现的最低是4.25%，不知道一个月内我能不能遇到？
买过房的感觉这个利率怎么样？ [/replyview]
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Kiki爸的新工作要他每周上两个白班，但是同时有有两三天每天都有会，所以他每周的工作日期都不一样。上周开始的时候我就跟他说，你把下面几周能定下来的上班时间都跟你老板定下来，结果他老板不急，他也不急，到了周四，他老板两天病假，我们周末都不知道他这周的排班。
这样我们就很被动，因为他上白班的日子，要找人来帮忙看Kiki的，怎么也要提前让人知道时间吧？到周末我们商量，他说他就自己定个日子，反正他现在也不是独立上班，是跟别人实习，跟谁都一样。定了时间，我给文姨（帮我们的中国阿姨）打电话，文姨说，你一直没告诉我，我以为你这周跟上周一样，是要我星期三帮忙呢！但是这周，我们需要的是周二和周五。她答应了他们教会的牧师帮他们看孩子。
打完电话，我很生气，如果他早把班次给排了就没有这个问题了。吵了一架，总算把下面几周的班次都自己定下来，让他老板批准。其间还有拖了两三天才给他老板发Email说下周的时间，又是一架好吵。
结果是，这周他有三天白天要人带Kiki。他妈妈管了一天，剩下周二和周五就是我们自己想办法了。我只能厚着脸皮跟老板说，周二我要WFH，周五休假。
可能我们焦虑Kiki也感觉得到，这些天她的脾气也大了许多，我们一刻也不能离开她的身边，不然眼泪马上就下来了。还有就是坐到车里不愿意上车座，反而要爬到前边去。不然就大哭，打挺，总之就是不要坐。她爸的策略就是让她到前座去玩，结果到今天我带她出去两回，回回上车就跟我闹，让我给强按下，就几乎哭个一路。
我今天WFH，还真是有好多活要干，大老板异想天开把一个极小的项目外包给了一个印度公司，还花钱请他们的人到这边来干，结果做出来的东西千疮百孔，惨不忍睹。我的一个同事给挑了些Bug出来，然后让我改，我改的过程中又发现一堆问题，今天就在忙这些了。因为白天出去看了几个Daycare，晚上就得加班给做完。
等有时间再把Daycare的情况写出来让你们给出出主意。
多跟你老公交流一下，尽量能提前安排吧
发现自己挺小农的。。。。
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矿妈，我这可以让你平衡一点。我从来都是连赠品给人家，不仅如此，还帮着盯deal，不是最hot的不下手，最长纪录，盯过半年，分三单买的。
不过有个区别，都是很好的闺密.
宸宸今天也忽然明白了事态的严重性，不像昨天没心没肺的开心玩。
我妈走了之后5分钟左右，开哭，哼唧了一会，发现白费力气，决定停止，改成时常一个人孤独沉默的站在一隅，若有所思；
不再把老师往门口拽了，据昨天的经验，这样无效；
午饭拒绝吃，因为老美的食物实在是太滥了，加上本公子今天情绪不佳，勉强在餐桌前陪弟弟妹妹们坐了20分钟，终于忍无可忍，挥袖而去；
nap今天也学乖了，昨天fight半天，弄一身臭汗。今天决定睡了，不过就小睡45分钟，在家至少2小时的，醒来大家都还在睡，无奈，独自翻了会书；
等大伙都醒了，咱还是百无聊赖，妈妈外婆怎么还不出现，悲从心中起，开始嚎哭；
很神奇的，外婆从天而降！
笑脸拥抱相迎。
既然你来了，咱也不急着回家了。开始转身找玩具玩去了。
咱中饭不是没吃吗？饿得呀，snack一来，吃了6片饼干，还不够，老师说：没了。不信！拽过小桶，探进脑袋，居然又被找出一小包！哈哈。
4点半回到家中，狼吞虎咽一个鸡蛋，一杯酸奶，旺仔小馒头若干。dinner时间正常饭量饱餐一顿。
晚上，经他娘仔细观察，觉着还是开心依旧，没见性格压抑、抑或扭曲。
好！明天继续锻炼。
与壳壳共勉！其实孩子没事的。
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幸福的日子只剩下一周了
抱抱！
矿妈，我这可以让你平衡一点。我从来都是连赠品给人家，不仅如此，还帮着盯deal，不是最hot的不下手，最长纪录，盯过半年，分三单买的。
不过有个区别，都是很好的闺密.
看了这个我平衡点了。。。。
我给朋友带东西也是挑deal，找历史最低，给别人省点钱，花大笔了自己的时间。不过俺的时间也不大值钱的说。
宸宸今天也忽然明白了事态的严重性，不像昨天没心没肺的开心玩。
我妈走了之后5分钟左右，开哭，哼唧了一会，发现白费力气，决定停止，改成时常一个人孤独沉默的站在一隅，若有所思；
不再把老师往门口拽了，据昨天的经验，这样无效；
午饭拒绝吃，因为老美的食物实在是太滥了，加上本公子今天情绪不佳，勉强在餐桌前陪弟弟妹妹们坐了20分钟，终于忍无可忍，挥袖而去；
nap今天也学乖了，昨天fight半天，弄一身臭汗。今天决定睡了，不过就小睡45分钟，在家至少2小时的，醒来大家都还在睡，无奈，独自翻了会书；
等大伙都醒了，咱还是百无聊赖，妈妈外婆怎么还不出现，悲从心中起，开始嚎哭；
很神奇的，外婆从天而降！
笑脸拥抱相迎。
既然你来了，咱也不急着回家了。开始转身找玩具玩去了。
咱中饭不是没吃吗？饿得呀，snack一来，吃了6片饼干，还不够，老师说：没了。不信！拽过小桶，探进脑袋，居然又被找出一小包！哈哈。
4点半回到家中，狼吞虎咽一个鸡蛋，一杯酸奶，旺仔小馒头若干。dinner时间正常饭量饱餐一顿。
晚上，经他娘仔细观察，觉着还是开心依旧，没见性格压抑、抑或扭曲。
好！明天继续锻炼。
与壳壳共勉！其实孩子没事的。
[此贴子已经被作者于2010/3/2 19:28:34编辑过]
你太风趣了，写的好诙谐啊
好漂亮的Elmo蛋糕啊，西湖太油菜了！
rerere
刚才矿矿乱按鼠标，电脑黑屏了
我在那给她关窗口，然后屏幕一下子正常了
她马上跑对我讲“快握握手，你太厉害了！”
然后了颠颠的过来拉俺的手
so cute
祝宸妈梦想成真！
re
明天是蛋饼的生日，怕找不到机会上线，小美MM在这里先提前祝福一下，
祝亲耐的蛋饼GG两岁生日快乐，越长越结实，越长越帅。
亲家太sweet了，mua mua
Happy Birthday to NiuNiu!
re
桃桃的第一张照片美呆了 “流口水的小猴子”
这几天老公不干家务我有些郁闷，所以潜水来着。
一共看了4家，2家是那种SFH改的，空间特别小，感觉不是特别好，一家去的时候几个小孩子在一个湿湿的泥坡上滚上滚下，据老师说是怀念下雪滑Sled的感觉，我都不知道该说什么好。
剩下两家，情况很接近，也有不同。
先说不同的：
A是租的一个教堂的房子，实际上原来是个小礼堂，把礼堂的讲台隔出来成为一个小单间是Toddler的，他们可以有四个Toddler，现在有三个，里面有一些玩具。什么的。礼堂下面坐人的地方没有椅子了，用柜子隔成几个区域，是大一点的孩子的地方，但是听说很多时候大小孩子都是一起在下面玩的。我去的时候是下午，大小孩子都在下面玩，很开心的样子，两个老师也笑嘻嘻的，教他们唱歌，让他们转圈走。这家的价钱比较便宜一些，不管饭，但管热饭，时间是早7点到下午5点半。这家没有婴儿班。他们的时间据说可以灵活，每周不同都可以，只要提前通知他们就行。
B是一个比较大的房子，接受从6个月开始的孩子，分婴儿，Toddler，和大孩子班，也有上学的孩子放学后来的。他们的Toddler班就是其中的一间房，现在有9个孩子，2个老师，按说到了师生比例的极限了，但是他们说有一个老师是几个班轮转的，所以还可以招新生。我知道这个地方是去年在Playground认识的一个中国妈妈，两个孩子，老大刚刚开始上学，老二现在两岁差2个月的样子。她说她老大在这儿上到上学，老二从6个月就开始了。这家价钱稍贵一点（全日的话一周差35刀），包饭包零食，但是早饭要到9点才有，所以估计还是要自己在家吃早饭再来，时间是早7点半到下午5点半，要求每周来的时间一致，不能变动。据我认识的这个妈妈说，这家的清洁不太好我也注意到了，大家进屋都不脱鞋，地面有点脏，但是她的两个孩子在这里还没有拉过肚子。我去看的时候觉得两个老师不是很开心的样子，只是需要的时候才笑一下。
两家都是私人有连锁性质的，A是第四家了，老板平时不在，B是第二家，食物都是从老店每天热乎乎运过来的。地方都比较大，小朋友跑得开，外面也有不小的操场，铺了木屑，看起来不脏，离我家都是5分钟以内的车程，从那里上高速上班也方便。下午结束的时间都很好，我4：30下班去接都来得及。
我喜欢A是他家早上开门的时间，很方便我送了孩子还能按时上班，但是要自己准备全天的伙食，不知道有多麻烦。还有A允许每周不同的时间对我们也好，因为Kiki爸的上班时间就不规律。
B最大的好处就是管饭，不用自己操心，但是时间稍晚，晚了半个小时，但也不是不行。老师看着不是特别喜欢这个职业的样子，但是中国妈妈说她们做事倒是尽职，宝宝从来没有过红屁股。地面脏到不是太大的问题，Kiki不是那种什么都放到嘴里的孩子。这家有一个中国孩子，觉得有人推荐比较放心些。
Kiki爸只去过A，喜欢那个地方。他这周恐怕没有时间再去B看看了。
还有一个挺傻的想法，我们周一才开始看的，现在就决定是不是太仓促了？我也不知道是不是下周就开始，还是再等一等，尽管我知道附近好一点的可能就这两家了。
大家帮我看看。
我这几天人都是昏的，祝福所有宝宝生日快乐，上Daycare的快快适应。
我回来了，很累，蛋饼有点发烧，明天正好去看医生
bless蛋饼
你也好了吧？
前两天朋友告诉我，我们这里有一个超级便宜的，带孩子的基本都是义工，然后有老师看着义工，一个学期据说才一百左右？
然后还可以带一家三口去附近的动物园啊，水族馆啊啥的玩，基本学费就回来了。
给孩子选daycare确实很难啊
前两天朋友告诉我，我们这里有一个超级便宜的，带孩子的基本都是义工，然后有老师看着义工，一个学期据说才一百左右？
然后还可以带一家三口去附近的动物园啊，水族馆啊啥的玩，基本学费就回来了。
这感觉跟白捡的差不多了。
我说的那两家，便宜的也要一周190呢！
但是话说回来，我恐怕不会相信义工的。
这感觉跟白捡的差不多了。
我说的那两家，便宜的也要一周190呢！
但是话说回来，我恐怕不会相信义工的。
而且是每两周给带五天的那种
比如本周是周二和周四，那么下次就是周一，三，五。每天貌似是九点半到十二点半？
搞不清是不是算教会的。
如果我把耗子送去，也就是找个玩的地方，多一个playyard，认识几个小朋友的作用吧？
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而且是每两周给带五天的那种
比如本周是周二和周四，那么下次就是周一，三，五。每天貌似是九点半到十二点半？
搞不清是不是算教会的。
如果我把耗子送去，也就是找个玩的地方，多一个playyard，认识几个小朋友的作用吧？
[此贴子已经被作者于2010/3/3 8:05:16编辑过]
哦，不是全天的呀，那这个价钱就不算那么离谱了。3小时算30%的时间吧，因为我看得都是10个小时以上的，然后再来个50% ，实际上就是15%的时间了，我这里算平均200刀，15% 就是每周30刀的样子。
其实想起来Kiki去的那个EI的Playgroup也是有义工的，我倒也还放心。
我说说宸宸的这家吧。
是个全国连锁店，keystone 4 star，走进去，设施非常好，教室很宽敞，招收从6个星期开始，到上学后的afterschool，一岁以内的孩子在一个班（0-1, 1-2, 2-3,etc.) 每个年龄段有自己的playgroud，对应的游乐器械，我感觉比较安全些。宸宸这个2岁班，师生比例1:6，班上近20个孩子。提供lunch，am\pm snacks。自带diaper, wipes。18个月大的孩子开始帮你potty train。一年的假期非常少，基本不关门。圣诞也才放两天假。绝少有因为下雪天关门的情况。
缺点：感觉像在run business，前台的服务人员感觉不是很nice，不过，现在接触下来觉得还可以。而且这些都是次要，最关键的是老师！一定要考察班上的老师，老师要有热情，爱孩子。
还有一点我觉得很重要的是，学校要有丰富的activities，要有routine，一天下来的schedule要排满，让孩子总是engaged，而不是wandering around，不知道该干啥。现在我们追求的已经不仅仅是个保姆了，是会刺激孩子mental and physical development的老师与同学。
先想到这些。
Thank you for all the blessings!
I dropped off peanut this morning and stayed for 25 min with him. After he adjusted, I waved byebye. Of course he cried again. I am a little immuned to that now.
Just called, he is playing with new toys.
Great grandma past away. I think we've made a good decision to send F-in-law back. It's good that he was able to be with her. She lived a good life. (94y)
Bless!!!
谢谢大家的生日祝福，桃桃姐姐真是越来越漂亮了
Thanks! Bless Danny!
How was your trip?
I will try to give you guys some feedback about choosing a daycare at night1
thanks a lot taoma. You are always our leader!
抱抱kiki妈，夫妻两个人都工作还带孩子确实很辛苦
多跟你老公交流一下，尽量能提前安排吧
add oil kiki ma
幸福的日子只剩下一周了
Hugs!
我回来了，很累，蛋饼有点发烧，明天正好去看医生
bless Danny! You take care!
你太风趣了，写的好诙谐啊
yeah. Chen Ma is great!
我说说宸宸的这家吧。
是个全国连锁店，keystone 4 star，走进去，设施非常好，教室很宽敞，招收从6个星期开始，到上学后的afterschool，一岁以内的孩子在一个班（0-1, 1-2, 2-3,etc.) 每个年龄段有自己的playgroud，对应的游乐器械，我感觉比较安全些。宸宸这个2岁班，师生比例1:6，班上近20个孩子。提供lunch，am\pm snacks。自带diaper, wipes。18个月大的孩子开始帮你potty train。一年的假期非常少，基本不关门。圣诞也才放两天假。绝少有因为下雪天关门的情况。
缺点：感觉像在run business，前台的服务人员感觉不是很nice，不过，现在接触下来觉得还可以。而且这些都是次要，最关键的是老师！一定要考察班上的老师，老师要有热情，爱孩子。
还有一点我觉得很重要的是，学校要有丰富的activities，要有routine，一天下来的schedule要排满，让孩子总是engaged，而不是wandering around，不知道该干啥。现在我们追求的已经不仅仅是个保姆了，是会刺激孩子mental and physical development的老师与同学。
先想到这些。
好像宸宸这家不错啊
morning!
Thank you for all the blessings!
I dropped off peanut this morning and stayed for 25 min with him. After he adjusted, I waved byebye. Of course he cried again. I am a little immuned to that now.
Just called, he is playing with new toys.
不错不错
花生已经开始适应了啊
Great grandma past away. I think we've made a good decision to send F-in-law back. It's good that he was able to be with her. She lived a good life. (94y)
哇，94岁啊
能见一面总是好的。
其中有我老板和另外一个院士，那个院士已经满84岁高龄了，竟然一邀请就答应过来了，很出乎我的意料
thanks a lot taoma. You are always our leader!
re
Hugs!
我父母开始帮我收拾东西打扫卫生，为我将来的搬家做准备了
父母总是为孩子着想啊。。。
看了这个我平衡点了。。。。
我给朋友带东西也是挑deal，找历史最低，给别人省点钱，花大笔了自己的时间。不过俺的时间也不大值钱的说。
对了，矿妈，我刚看了外面riteaid的帖子，这个月的deal不错呀！您看我是在ebay上买coupon呢，还是多买几份当地的报纸?如果差不多，我就直接买报纸算了。
好像宸宸这家不错啊
目前看来还不错，主要是之前有很多朋友的孩子在里面，所以我已经比较了解了。但是，关键还是要看这个班的老师，这一点还有待我和我妈继续观察。
Great grandma past away. I think we've made a good decision to send F-in-law back. It's good that he was able to be with her. She lived a good life. (94y)
bless,至少见了最后一面
Thanks! Bless Danny!
How was your trip?
总体不错，过会上点照片
总体不错，过会上点照片
where did you guys go?
对了，矿妈，我刚看了外面riteaid的帖子，这个月的deal不错呀！您看我是在ebay上买coupon呢，还是多买几份当地的报纸?如果差不多，我就直接买报纸算了。
of course ebay
对了，矿妈，我刚看了外面riteaid的帖子，这个月的deal不错呀！您看我是在ebay上买coupon呢，还是多买几份当地的报纸?如果差不多，我就直接买报纸算了。
i must be retarded. I read the post 2 times and did not figure out how to do it.
I guess we need ebay pampers and stay free Qs or what?
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i must be retarded. I read the post 2 times and did not figure out how to do it.
I guess we need ebay pampers and stay free Qs or what?
[此贴子已经被作者于2010/3/3 12:24:45编辑过]
我不知道ebay上买的话怎么操作，如果买报纸的话，貌似一份报纸会有一个stayfree bogo，一个1off，一个pampers 2off;
因为总共只下三单，ebay上买的话一个人其实用不完。要不咱们share？
或者一个选择是买3份报纸。
不过，我不知道那些1 off j&j的 VQ从哪里找，只找到5 OFF25的。
NAP时间到了，老师把他领到自己的小床，就乖乖的坐着，坐了10几分钟（真的就那么坐着呀，神奇了，我家娃什么时候培养起来的耐心呀！这就是DAYCARE的神奇力量），10几分钟后，终于轮到老师来哄他了，乖乖躺下，拍了几分钟，睡着了！
对了，矿妈，我刚看了外面riteaid的帖子，这个月的deal不错呀！您看我是在ebay上买coupon呢，还是多买几份当地的报纸?如果差不多，我就直接买报纸算了。
买的多的话，还是买coupon划算吧
我们周末的报纸好像是两块一份呢
我昨天在mit买了三张pampers的胖子，想买stayfree的，可惜那人卖光了
of course ebay
re
我不知道ebay上买的话怎么操作，如果买报纸的话，貌似一份报纸会有一个stayfree bogo，一个1off，一个pampers 2off;
因为总共只下三单，ebay上买的话一个人其实用不完。要不咱们share？
或者一个选择是买3份报纸。
不过，我不知道那些1 off j&j的 VQ从哪里找，只找到5 OFF25的。
papers here sells at 2$.
How many stayfree and how many pampers do we need? 3 sets?
Dou ma once mentioned she wants to share. Dou ma?
papers here sells at 2$.
How many stayfree and how many pampers do we need? 3 sets?
Dou ma once mentioned she wants to share. Dou ma?
我昨天拍了10张stayfree bogo和10张pampers 2.5off的胖子，希望早点寄到可以和你们分
But can't find stayfree VQ and J&J VQs anymore. Anyone has scanned version?
我不知道ebay上买的话怎么操作，如果买报纸的话，貌似一份报纸会有一个stayfree bogo，一个1off，一个pampers 2off;
因为总共只下三单，ebay上买的话一个人其实用不完。要不咱们share？
或者一个选择是买3份报纸。
不过，我不知道那些1 off j&j的 VQ从哪里找，只找到5 OFF25的。
这个别担心，如果是VQ，一会我找
ok, finally I understand the post.
But can't find stayfree VQ and J&J VQs anymore. Anyone has scanned version?
search for "vvq 3/31 site:mitbbs.com"
ok, finally I understand the post.
But can't find stayfree VQ and J&J VQs anymore. Anyone has scanned version?
这里：
http://docs.google.com/fileview?id=0B8_KAAoxFHiKMGFkYzhkM2MtYjM4Ni00NmI4LWE2MjItMTZjMzYyMTQ4NzUw&hl=en
自己下去吧
我昨天拍了10张stayfree bogo和10张pampers 2.5off的胖子，希望早点寄到可以和你们分
刚想排三张stayfree的，结果mit上有一个人有三张，正好卖给我了。
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刚想排三张stayfree的，结果mit上有一个人有三张，正好卖给我了。
[此贴子已经被作者于2010/3/3 13:50:35编辑过]
the deal is so complicated
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我昨天拍了10张stayfree bogo和10张pampers 2.5off的胖子，希望早点寄到可以和你们分
why I can only find 2off coupon
why I can only find 2off coupon
我也不知道那个2.5的是否靠谱,只能等拿到手看看了
the deal is so complicated
I agree. I have bought enough diapers so I don't need to think about the deals any more.
[此贴子已经被作者于2010/3/3 15:09:35编辑过]
蛋饼太帅了,怎么看都看不够啊
RE!!!
饼妈就是大方，每次都让我们大饱眼福！