Do all babies experience separation anxiety? Yes, to a degree. At certain stages, most babies or toddlers will show true anxiety and be upset at the prospect — or reality — of being separated from a parent. If you think about in evolutionary terms, it makes sense: A defenseless baby would naturally get upset at being separated from the person who protects and cares for him.
In many ways, attitudes about babies and separations are cultural. Western countries tend to stress autonomy from a very early age. But in many other cultures, infants are rarely separated from their mother in the first year of life.
Regardless of the origins of this normal developmental stage, it's frustrating for babies and parents. The good news is that separation anxiety will pass and there are ways to make it more manageable. And in the meantime, enjoy the sweetness of knowing that to your child, you're number one.
When does it most commonly occur? Babies can show signs of as early as 6 or 7 months, but the crisis age for most babies is between 12 to 18 months. Most commonly, separation anxiety strikes when you or your spouse leaves your child to go to work or run an errand. Babies can also experience separation anxiety at night, safely tucked in their cribs with Mom and Dad in the next room.
How can I help my baby through it? Several options are available to parents:
Option I Minimize separations as much as possible and take your baby along if he seems to feel anxious. With this option, you're basically waiting for your baby to outgrow this stage.
Option II If you have to leave your baby — for example, to return to work — try leaving him with people who are familiar, like his father, grandmother, or aunt. Your baby may still protest, but he might adjust more easily to your absence when surrounded by well-known faces.
Option III If you need to leave your child with someone he doesn't know, give him a chance to get to know his caregiver while you're still around. (See below.)
How should I prepare my baby for separations? As with any transition, give your baby an opportunity to gradually get used to the idea. Whether you're leaving him with a family member or a paid childcare provider, try the following suggestions: ? Let your baby get comfortable. Ask a new sitter to visit and play with your baby several times before leaving them alone for the first time. For your first real outing, ask the sitter to arrive about 30 minutes before you depart so that she and the baby can be well engaged before you step out the door. Employ the same approach at a daycare center or at your nursery, church, or health club. ? Always say goodbye. Kiss and hug your baby when you leave and tell him where you're going and when you'll be back, but don't prolong your goodbyes. ? Always say goodbye: Part 2. Resist the urge to sneak out the back door. Your baby will only become more upset if he thinks you've disappeared into thin air. ? Keep it light. Your baby is quite tuned in to how you feel, so show your warmth and enthusiasm for the caregiver you've chosen. And don't cry or act upset if your baby starts crying — at least not while he can see you. You'll both get through this. The caregiver will probably tell you later that your baby's tears stopped before you were even out of the driveway. ? Once you leave, leave. Repeated trips back into the house or daycare center to calm your baby will make it harder on you, your child, and the caregiver. ? Try a trial at first. Limit the first night (or afternoon) out to no more than an hour. As you and baby become more familiar with the sitter or the surroundings of a childcare setting, you can extend your outings. How should we handle nighttime separation anxiety? Your baby's fear of being separated from you at night is very real for him, so you'll want to do your best to keep the hours preceding bedtime as nurturing and peaceful (and fun) as possible. In addition: ? Spend some extra cuddle time with your baby before bed by reading, snuggling, and softly singing together. ? If your baby cries for you after you've put him to bed, it's fine to go to him — both to reassure him and to reassure yourself that he's okay. But make your visits "brief and boring," and he'll learn to fall back to sleep without a lot of help from you. Eventually, he'll be able to fall asleep on his own. What if nothing seems to work? Babies have different personalities, so some will experience more severe bouts of than others. If your child can't be comforted using simple measures, it's time to reevaluate. ? Take a second look at your sitter or daycare center. The person or center may be a mismatch for your baby if he continues to become anxious and weepy when you leave. ? Leave your baby with a relative or someone he knows well for 15-minute periods, working your way up to one hour. Your baby can then learn that when you leave you'll return, without having the added stress of being with someone unfamiliar. ? Reevaluate your goodbye pattern. Do you sneak out when your baby isn't looking? Do you make it seem like you're going off to war? Do you slowly back down the walk waving and crying until your baby's out of sight? A simple "see you later, alligator" followed by a quick hug and a kiss can do wonders for an anxious child. Your actions show your baby that leaving isn't big deal, and that you'll be home again soon.
今天用那个冲的奶，慢慢适应一下，回去先喝这个
差点忘了，下去前问一下，买的那个nursery water, 说是加了氟，不知道有没有关系？
今天用那个冲的奶，慢慢适应一下，回去先喝这个
还真要带水啊，我是能把人带回去就不错了
还真要带水啊，我是能把人带回去就不错了
人多嘛
你自己太辛苦了
亲家你的心是铁做的么，妈妈妈妈叫成那样了你要还悠哉游哉
蔻蔻真可爱！！！
亲家你的心是铁做的么，妈妈妈妈叫成那样了你要还悠哉游哉
不是为了录像么。。。
1和2近期准备做，3还在doing research中
我觉得不够。你是工作地方的保险吗？那你换了工作就没了。我建议你买个外面的。
周末见面聊吧。我们打算11点多去，不过人算天算不如肉虫算，到时候不知道他会出什么状况
嗯，是工作的保险，外面的没研究过，不知道哪个公司靠谱呢，最大的保险公司都倒了
关于周末，有新情况，给你发短信
separation anxiety
好像弟弟哦
[此贴子已经被作者于2009-9-10 21:25:32编辑过]
不是为了录像么。。。
怎么办，QQ可以这样哭到吐
怎么办，QQ可以这样哭到吐
好可怜，我也就欺负蔻蔻咋都不吐
你研究好给我一份REPORT吧
宝宝会有分离焦虑症的表现，主要是与宝宝的认知能力有关，一般成人具有物体恒存的概念，但是宝宝却还没有发展出来，在他的认知里，物体离开就等于是完全消失，他必须感觉到物体或是人的存在，才能安心。
根
据学者研究，三个月大的婴儿，能够辨识养育者与其他人的不同，之后七个月，逐渐发展出依恋养育者之爱，建立亲密的关系，这是婴幼儿安全感的来源，也会影响
他日后情绪与人格的发展。在这个时期，父母要尽量支持宝宝，让他感受到爸妈的爱，满足他对安全感的需求，等到大概两岁以后，宝宝的分离焦虑就会逐渐地减
轻，转为自主性的萌芽，借着摸索环境的方式，发展自我独立的能力，直到宝宝三岁时，开始和其他人互动，分离焦虑症的情形也就逐渐地消失了。但是孩子进入可
以上学的阶段，离开家庭到学校去的环境改变，可能又将引发他另一波的分离焦虑症。
分离焦虑症大都会随着年龄的增长，慢慢地克服过去。
不过父母亲还是不能掉以轻心，在这段过渡期里，如果没有给予宝宝足够的关怀与支持，就会造成负面的情绪发展，潜藏在孩子的个性中，也许会变得没有自信，或
是没有勇气面对新的事物等。因此，了解宝宝的情绪，让他感受到父母亲的爱，宝宝的成长才会快乐又健康。
目前，心理学家发展了一些有效的治疗方法：
一、制造模仿情境：让幼儿观察他人如何成功地面对焦虑的情境。
二、敏感递减法：训练个案放松→鼓励个案描述会产生焦虑的情境→鼓励个案想像过去认定会产生焦虑的情境，由情节较轻的情境开始想像。当个案无法同时感觉放松和焦虑，就会降低对焦虑的敏感程度及不良反应。
面
对宝宝因为分离而害怕的哭泣，妈妈们不自禁地心生怜惜，甚至产生罪恶感，因而放弃离开的念头，转身回到宝宝身边，但却会无形中让孩子学习到，用哭闹哀怜的
方式，是可以让父母亲屈服的，因此这个时候妈妈要下定决心，用坚定的语气告诉宝宝，妈妈现在要离开，并向他保证何时会回来，帮宝宝建立起「妈妈并没有消
失」的概念，渐渐地让他跨越这道认知的鸿沟，走出分离焦虑的恐惧。
不只是宝宝会因为分离而感到焦虑，妈妈也一样有这种情绪，分分秒秒为宝宝挂心、无法放手让宝宝独立、担心宝宝生病而过度保护等，但如果因此造成孩子过度的依赖，反而愈加重分离焦虑的症状，因此，爸爸妈妈先调适好心态，才能协助宝宝共同度过心理危机。
一、适当的协助：对孩子会害怕的某些人、事、物，或是情境，做知识性的教育，并用渐进式的引导，协助他们认识了解陌生的事物，引起宝宝的好奇心，进而敢去接近或做尝试。
二、
给宝宝立即性的回应及安全感：注意宝宝的一举一动，随时做出回应，让宝宝知道妈妈一直存在，没有消失；当你在浴室洗澡，或是上厕所时，你可以将宝宝放在门
口，他会先看你是不是在那边，然后再去玩自己的游戏，就这样来来回回地看你是否消失不见，直到他确认妈妈一直都在的事实之后，你就可以关上门，但记得要保
持跟宝宝的沟通哦！
三、在必要时坚定地离开
四、妈妈自己也要放松心情
*避免错误的处理方式：
一、避免将幼儿关在黑暗的场所，或施以恫吓的手段，例如：宝宝不听话时，威胁他说会被魔鬼抓走，这类的话语会让幼儿的潜意识产生幻想，加深他内心的恐惧。
二、避免强迫分离的情形发生
三、避免以贿赂的方式转移宝宝的注意力
四、避免趁宝宝睡着时溜走，
对于0-3岁的幼儿来说，社会心理方面的发展是不可忽略的，尤其是建立安全的依附关系，对将来的人格发展，有重要深远的影响，懂得宝宝的需求，让他感受到父母的爱，即使亲子相处的时间不多，也能让宝宝发展出健康稳定的人格。
anxiety）.这个在宝宝9-18个月最严重，除了表现在依恋/不愿分开父母和非常熟悉的人，怕见生人，在陌生环境中自我保护意识强,只是提了一些建
议，希望有帮助：1。睡前哄，拍宝宝不要时间太长，在宝宝睡着之前离开，让宝宝自己睡着。不要大人抱着睡着。2。白天要有一定长的时间和宝宝亲密得玩，让
他/她意识到爸爸妈妈很爱她，会给他充足的关爱。3。和宝宝玩捉迷藏，让他意识到即便他看不到爸爸妈妈，爸爸妈妈其实也在他周围。4。经常带到外边看看，
不要天天闷在家里，只熟悉家里的环境。
大部分时候还是快乐的
你还是蔻蔻？
這篇文章是我從國外網站上找到的, 我覺得寫得很好, 看完後實驗過還挺受用的, 在此與各位媽媽們分享.
Separation anxiety
(Reviewed by the BabyCenter Medical Advisory Board)
Last updated: July 2006
Copy from Babycenter http://www.babycenter.com/
Highlights Do all babies experience separation anxiety?
When does it most commonly occur?
How can I help my baby through it?
How should I prepare my baby for separations?
How should we handle nighttime separation anxiety?
What if nothing seems to work?
Do all babies experience separation anxiety?
Yes,
to a degree. At certain stages, most babies or toddlers will show true
anxiety and be upset at the prospect — or reality — of being separated
from a parent. If you think about
in evolutionary terms, it makes sense: A defenseless baby would
naturally get upset at being separated from the person who protects and
cares for him.
In many ways, attitudes about babies and
separations are cultural. Western countries tend to stress autonomy
from a very early age. But in many other cultures, infants are rarely
separated from their mother in the first year of life.
Regardless
of the origins of this normal developmental stage, it's frustrating for
babies and parents. The good news is that separation anxiety will pass
and there are ways to make it more manageable. And in the meantime,
enjoy the sweetness of knowing that to your child, you're number one.
When does it most commonly occur?
Babies can show signs of
as early as 6 or 7 months, but the crisis age for most babies is
between 12 to 18 months. Most commonly, separation anxiety strikes when
you or your spouse leaves your child to go to work or run an errand.
Babies can also experience separation anxiety at night, safely tucked
in their cribs with Mom and Dad in the next room.
How can I help my baby through it?
Several options are available to parents:
Option I
Minimize
separations as much as possible and take your baby along if he seems to
feel anxious. With this option, you're basically waiting for your baby
to outgrow this stage.
Option II
If you have to leave
your baby — for example, to return to work — try leaving him with
people who are familiar, like his father, grandmother, or aunt. Your
baby may still protest, but he might adjust more easily to your absence
when surrounded by well-known faces.
Option III
If you
need to leave your child with someone he doesn't know, give him a
chance to get to know his caregiver while you're still around. (See
below.)
How should I prepare my baby for separations?
As
with any transition, give your baby an opportunity to gradually get
used to the idea. Whether you're leaving him with a family member or a
paid childcare provider, try the following suggestions:
? Let your baby get comfortable. Ask a new
sitter to visit and play with your baby several times before leaving
them alone for the first time. For your first real outing, ask the
sitter to arrive about 30 minutes before you depart so that she and the
baby can be well engaged before you step out the door. Employ the same
approach at a daycare center or at your nursery, church, or health
club.
? Always say goodbye. Kiss and hug your baby
when you leave and tell him where you're going and when you'll be back,
but don't prolong your goodbyes.
? Always say goodbye: Part 2. Resist the urge
to sneak out the back door. Your baby will only become more upset if he
thinks you've disappeared into thin air.
? Keep it light. Your baby is quite tuned in
to how you feel, so show your warmth and enthusiasm for the caregiver
you've chosen. And don't cry or act upset if your baby starts crying —
at least not while he can see you. You'll both get through this. The
caregiver will probably tell you later that your baby's tears stopped
before you were even out of the driveway.
? Once you leave, leave. Repeated trips back
into the house or daycare center to calm your baby will make it harder
on you, your child, and the caregiver.
? Try a trial at first. Limit the first night
(or afternoon) out to no more than an hour. As you and baby become more
familiar with the sitter or the surroundings of a childcare setting,
you can extend your outings.
How should we handle nighttime separation anxiety?
Your
baby's fear of being separated from you at night is very real for him,
so you'll want to do your best to keep the hours preceding bedtime as
nurturing and peaceful (and fun) as possible. In addition:
? Spend some extra cuddle time with your baby before bed by reading, snuggling, and softly singing together.
? If your baby cries for you after you've put him to
bed, it's fine to go to him — both to reassure him and to reassure
yourself that he's okay. But make your visits "brief and boring," and
he'll learn to fall back to sleep without a lot of help from you.
Eventually, he'll be able to fall asleep on his own.
What if nothing seems to work?
Babies have different personalities, so some will experience more severe bouts of than others. If your child can't be comforted using simple measures, it's time to reevaluate.
? Take a second look at your sitter or daycare center. The person or center may be a mismatch for your baby if he continues to become anxious and weepy when you leave.
? Leave your baby with a relative or someone he
knows well for 15-minute periods, working your way up to one hour. Your
baby can then learn that when you leave you'll return, without having
the added stress of being with someone unfamiliar.
? Reevaluate your goodbye pattern. Do you sneak out
when your baby isn't looking? Do you make it seem like you're going off
to war? Do you slowly back down the walk waving and crying until your
baby's out of sight? A simple "see you later, alligator" followed by a
quick hug and a kiss can do wonders for an anxious child. Your actions
show your baby that leaving isn't big deal, and that you'll be home
again soon.
所謂的分離焦慮會發生的時間不是只有嬰兒時期喔. 只是寶寶們還不會用言語表達, 所以大人只是覺得這段時期的小孩很難哄,一定是撞邪要帶去收驚. 這段時間寶寶的
行為表現, 就是一個黏字可以形容。一定要有一個他信任的人在身邊陪伴, 要不就會感到強烈不安, 哭鬧到一個不行.
其實這就像是我們小時候, 剛剛去上學時只要媽媽要跟我們說再見, 要丟下我們自己在學校上課, 我們就會突然有一種很不安感, 有些小孩會大哭,
有些小孩會忍著乖乖跟媽媽說BYEBYE, 也有些會根本知道要去上學就給你在家就裝肚子痛等等.
這種行為基本上每個小孩都要經歷過這段, 這與寶寶的認知有關.
因為隨著他們年齡慢慢越來越大, 寶寶開始有他的記憶力去分辨自己媽媽跟陌生人有何分別. 而伴隨來的焦慮也會慢慢形成.
你可以說小孩子有在長智慧, 所以才會有這種行為. 唉........都說人越大煩惱越多囉...原來寶寶也是一樣的啦.
我目前的解決方法就是:
1. 在寶寶有這種症狀開始時,最好就是在他需要你時馬上出現在他面前, 能立刻飛去就飛去,
我是會先發出聲音讓他知道我在趕過去了. 我是會盡量讓他一直看到我, 甚至連我上廁所我都把它放在他的玩具車車裡一邊跟他玩一邊尿尿.
(我是真的這樣喔....) 一段時間之後, 當他知道他每次CALL你你都會馬上出現, 他就比較不會那麼黏了, 因為他會對你產生某程度的信任感,
相信你不會丟下他一個人不理. 所以初期開始是比較辛苦一點說.
2. 上面文章是有說到, 要是你可能要回去上班, 一定要把寶寶留給他信任的人. 要是沒辦法把寶寶留給他認識的人, 最好你先在旁邊觀察他與這個即將照顧者的相處狀況
3. 千萬不可以偷偷跑掉, 你要去幹嘛都要跟你的寶寶說一聲.
4. 要是你要把寶寶留給保母或者托兒所, 千萬不要跟寶寶上演十八相送. 閃人就閃人, 不要她哭你就在那邊想要等他哭完你再閃, 那只會讓情況更worse而已.
5. 寶寶在晚上睡覺也會有分離焦慮, 所以這段時間的寶寶可能不太愛睡覺或者其實很想睡還給你撐在那裏. 我飽受其害呀,
現在姑娘我的方法就是每天把他操很累, 他不想睡也不逼他睡, 就一直陪他玩, 但睡前我就不太跟他玩一些有趣的遊戲,
盡量做些讓他無聊的事或者讓他自己玩.搞久了他就會累. 這是心理戰術, 想我也多活他31年, 這...他就不會有我聰明, 心機不會有我重吧.
或者他心裡在想媽媽最近真愛我哩, 每天都陪我一直玩呢....呵呵.
以上就是我個人經驗+綜合上面專家意見用來對付我家寶貝小米的方法......希望能多少幫到各位媽媽在這段時期面臨的挫折,
我自己也在這裡受到嚴重傷害, 甚至曾有一晚離家出走(實在是被我兒子的哭鬧煩死但又不知道為何原因....).
不過現在寶貝的狀況已被顏媽媽控制住了, 所以才想跟各位分享分享這可怕的分離焦慮問題.....
只能說:
媽媽真難為呀.
有关分离焦虑(Separation Anxiety)
好及时！QQ也开始了！
其实，我觉得那家父母太不像话了。那个小孩很明显已经有behavior problem。要我的话说不定都去找社工 乐
那对父母简直当不起父母这两个字，对孩子太不上心了，做朋友也很差，不过lz mm估计还是不想撕破脸吧
难道偶坐着数钱就行了
没，看来应该回国之前弄一哈子
那还得快点，时间不多啦
差点忘了，下去前问一下，买的那个nursery water, 说是加了氟，不知道有没有关系？
今天用那个冲的奶，慢慢适应一下，回去先喝这个
应该要加氟的吧，不是说提倡给宝宝喝过滤过的tap water就是因为里面有氟吗？
叫妈妈叫得真好
你研究好给我一份REPORT吧
懒人通常都很有耐心
你们应该push我亲家做report，不过我不敢，呵呵
你们应该push我亲家做report，不过我不敢，呵呵
哈哈，煽风点火你挺起劲的么
老大来了..作好准备啊. 老大还是很俊
令令我的乖，好可怜
嗯..我这一个星期抱他过多...现在有点放不下了..我一走开就大声哭.........
敲敲，令令赶快好
以下是引用珍珠泡泡在2009-9-10 21:55:00的发言：
老大还是很俊
嗯..我这一个星期抱他过多...现在有点放不下了..我一走开就大声哭.........
人家生病了嘛，多疼一下不要紧的
以下是引用珍珠泡泡在2009-9-10 21:55:00的发言：
老大还是很俊
太好了
嗯..我这一个星期抱他过多...现在有点放不下了..我一走开就大声哭.........
还有separation anxiety.........蔻蔻没生病都这样，说是宝宝以为看不见的东西就消失了。。。要让她知道虽然他看不见，其实还是存在的就好了
人家生病了嘛，多疼一下不要紧的
我也是这么想的..但是就怕拧不过来了..现在睡觉是绝对要哄的了....以前是拍好嗝放CRIB就行了..
外公外婆一来, 估计我是TRAIN不成了...
看有没有女宝妈想要的..我本来想着第二天去南边那个大SHOPPING CENTER去找找男宝的, 结果那天令令就开始发烧了..
哈哈，煽风点火你挺起劲的么
切，我不是为大家好么
老大来了..作好准备啊.
生病了还是特别帅
我也是这么想的..但是就怕拧不过来了..现在睡觉是绝对要哄的了....以前是拍好嗝放CRIB就行了..
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外公外婆一来, 估计我是TRAIN不成了...
令令太乖了，其实俺们小时候不都是被哄睡的么，长大了自然会自己睡了，只是之前大人要辛苦一点，我反正不指望TRAIN她了，受不了她嚎
对了..我上个星期去MALL的时候在DILLARD'S淘到女宝的STRIDERITE鞋一双, 5号半的. 令令现在脚长12CM, 穿上后我还可以插一根食指进去..效果图如下...我觉得还挺漂亮的.
看有没有女宝妈想要的..我本来想着第二天去南边那个大SHOPPING CENTER去找找男宝的, 结果那天令令就开始发烧了..
这款真好看，现在穿正好
这款真好看，现在穿正好
可惜是PINK, 要是是白色的我就直接给令令穿了..555
separation anxiety
看着好心疼，和飞飞叫妈妈声音好像，下次我也偷拍一个
令令太乖了，其实俺们小时候不都是被哄睡的么，长大了自然会自己睡了，只是之前大人要辛苦一点，我反正不指望TRAIN她了，受不了她嚎
他昨天晚上哭了不到一分钟就狂喷奶..唉.....
我后来抱他起来他还生气呢..两只手拼命拍打我的脸..
对了..我上个星期去MALL的时候在DILLARD'S淘到女宝的STRIDERITE鞋一双, 5号半的. 令令现在脚长12CM, 穿上后我还可以插一根食指进去..效果图如下...我觉得还挺漂亮的.
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看有没有女宝妈想要的..我本来想着第二天去南边那个大SHOPPING CENTER去找找男宝的, 结果那天令令就开始发烧了..
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好看好看！我还没量过鸭鸭的脚，估计没10CM，555，我先纠结一下
看着好心疼，和飞飞叫妈妈声音好像，下次我也偷拍一个
会被人说后妈的
向毛主席保证，平时蔻蔻一哭我就去看她了的，这次为了录像，才不理她，因为她一看到我就不喊妈妈了。
他昨天晚上哭了不到一分钟就狂喷奶..唉.....
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我后来抱他起来他还生气呢..两只手拼命拍打我的脸..
我我我想笑可以么
大部分时候还是快乐的
蔻爸太会哄闺女了，小辫子真可爱！
可惜是PINK, 要是是白色的我就直接给令令穿了..555
他会去扯鞋带吗？蔻蔻连袜子都穿不住，这种有鞋带的她肯定扯
他昨天晚上哭了不到一分钟就狂喷奶..唉.....
我后来抱他起来他还生气呢..两只手拼命拍打我的脸..
可怜的。。。。
我闺女的冲天小辫真好看呀..
她爸爸特别喜欢她扎辫子，说一个辫子就让小妞有灵气了。
可惜是PINK, 要是是白色的我就直接给令令穿了..555
要不再买个裙子，配起来就看不出是男宝了，嘿嘿
会被人说后妈的
向毛主席保证，平时蔻蔻一哭我就去看她了的，这次为了录像，才不理她，因为她一看到我就不喊妈妈了。
你要后妈谁敢认亲妈啊，我是真正的后妈，忙起来根本顾不得他哭
懒人通常都很有耐心
好看好看！我还没量过鸭鸭的脚，估计没10CM，555，我先纠结一下
鸭鸭的脚有这么小????
量的时候要让她站着, 找东西抵着脚后跟和前面最长的脚趾, 做好记号, 然后再量..
她爸爸特别喜欢她扎辫子，说一个辫子就让小妞有灵气了。
NOD，特别可爱
我我我想笑可以么
笑吧....他打我的时候我还挺气的, 后来自己也觉得好笑..竟然记仇
痘痘也不影响令令小乖的英俊
PP好了没有？
他会去扯鞋带吗？蔻蔻连袜子都穿不住，这种有鞋带的她肯定扯
好像没有欸....
他会去扯鞋带吗？蔻蔻连袜子都穿不住，这种有鞋带的她肯定扯
出门走起路来根本顾不上的
她爸爸特别喜欢她扎辫子，说一个辫子就让小妞有灵气了。
嗯, 她爸说得对
鸭鸭的脚有这么小????
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量的时候要让她站着, 找东西抵着脚后跟和前面最长的脚趾, 做好记号, 然后再量..
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恩，遗传我的吧，细细小小的
要不再买个裙子，配起来就看不出是男宝了，嘿嘿
外公外婆来了, 我敢这样折腾吗?
会被人说后妈的
向毛主席保证，平时蔻蔻一哭我就去看她了的，这次为了录像，才不理她，因为她一看到我就不喊妈妈了。
你亲家开玩笑的啦，谁不知道蔻妈是大亲妈
她爸爸特别喜欢她扎辫子，说一个辫子就让小妞有灵气了。
刚才就想赞蔻爸，忘记了，蔻爸现在真是标准亲爸
恩，遗传我的吧，细细小小的
痘痘也不影响令令小乖的英俊
PP好了没有？
好些了...今天可以让我轻轻地碰了..洗澡的时候坐下去也没有问题了..
不过他是真的讨厌换尿布了, 往changing table上一放就开始闹.
恩，遗传我的吧，细细小小的
三寸金莲啊..
鸭妈不会穿34的鞋子吧?
恩，遗传我的吧，细细小小的
哇，多好啊，前两天看换班有个人转7.5的鞋子，后面好几个跟着说好大脚，我都不敢排队了
好些了...今天可以让我轻轻地碰了..洗澡的时候坐下去也没有问题了..
不过他是真的讨厌换尿布了, 往changing table上一放就开始闹.
淘淘已经很久没有乖乖换尿布了，除了在外面的时候，这么大的宝宝都不愿意躺着吧
哇，多好啊，前两天看换班有个人转7.5的鞋子，后面好几个跟着说好大脚，我都不敢排队了
我8号，生完娃9.5
老大太美貌了～～长了那么多豆还那么美貌哦
淘淘经常红PP
就说是令令的龙凤胎妹妹，呵呵
令令扮女宝肯定是超美的
外公外婆来了, 我敢这样折腾吗?
就说是令令的龙凤胎妹妹，呵呵
淘淘已经很久没有乖乖换尿布了，除了在外面的时候，这么大的宝宝都不愿意躺着吧
飞飞还行，只要手上拿个能啃的
我8号，生完娃9.5
据说冬天穿包脚的些能回去
去睡了，给老大和小博哥哥敲敲，大家都快点好
哎呀，我刚要奔你就走了
多多吃S家的？
E家的现在网上有5OFF,昨天石头发了LINK
谢谢小南瓜妈，可是多多的臭奶是S家的··我还是想给买S家的二段奶粉。。。
美妈们，谁知道啊？
据说冬天穿包脚的些能回去
飞妈，嫩能给我推荐些宝宝鞋子么？啥牌子去哪儿买啊？我想是不是要给多多买几双带回去
辰妈辰辰 一切顺利
今天又去办公室了。他真是给我面子，见每个同事都笑，有个男同事特会逗宝宝，把辰辰逗得嘎嘎嘎笑个不停。。。后来在楼下在超市都遇到同事，对人家都是灿烂的笑容。。。奇怪啊，平时在超市遇到人不是都笑得，就今天遇到妈妈认识的人就狂笑
我8号，生完娃9.5
我在国内的时候穿35, 来这边后5.5到6.5都能穿..
多多今天会推小车啦
这一阵一直没带他去BASEMENT练习～～不过多多最近一直自己练功啊～～突然想让他试试，居然就成了
飞妈，嫩能给我推荐些宝宝鞋子么？啥牌子去哪儿买啊？我想是不是要给多多买几双带回去
国内的学步鞋更好吧，很多人都从国内带鞋子的
飞妈
多多今天会推小车啦
这一阵一直没带他去BASEMENT练习～～不过多多最近一直自己练功啊～～突然想让他试试，居然就成了
你家多多太强大了，什么都学得好快啊
对了，老大娘，别给令令晚上那么晾pp了，你太累了而且也未必很有帮助呢，抹上药膏包上尿布很快就好了
淘淘经常红PP
嗯..我已经不晾了...白天趁他刚尿过会给光PP玩会...
不过他已经搞过几次突然袭击了...
我在国内的时候穿35, 来这边后5.5到6.5都能穿..
脚好小啊
不过多多不会穿鞋子啊。。。穿了袜子，就已经不那么灵光了
BTW，多多真是省钱的宝宝啊··这个机器猫背心，多多从月子里一直穿到现在啊
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嗯..我已经不晾了...白天趁他刚尿过会给光PP玩会...
不过他已经搞过几次突然袭击了...
宝宝再生能力强，很快就会好的
谢谢小南瓜妈，可是多多的臭奶是S家的··我还是想给买S家的二段奶粉。。。
美妈们，谁知道啊？
当然可以用以前的奶票啊....那种是可以用在任意段的吧.
等明儿我搜搜看我家还有没有奶票...
我家还有4罐E家的SAMPLE..我不知道等S家的SAMPLE吃完后是让令令试E家的呢, 还是去买S家的..
s加没有给我寄任何东西
辰辰现在拒绝吃奶
来奔多多推小车，给朵朵姐姐10个月庆生啦
不过多多不会穿鞋子啊。。。穿了袜子，就已经不那么灵光了
BTW，多多真是省钱的宝宝啊··这个机器猫背心，多多从月子里一直穿到现在啊
油管子也给你面子，我的video穿了20分钟了都没搞定
飞妈
多多今天会推小车啦
这一阵一直没带他去BASEMENT练习～～不过多多最近一直自己练功啊～～突然想让他试试，居然就成了
我都懒得PIA你了