well, just have to say she looks better than most of other stars, some much bigger (e.g. Angelina Jolie). And I think one can tell whether the way she looks at her child is natural or not (esp if you are a mom yourself, or watches enough pictures of new moms with their babies).
Anyway, I guess my point is that this is not successful marketing/PR, from her perspective. I don't respect her as a mom after seeing the whole show, even if she did deliver the baby and managed to look fantastic within such a period of time. And that's why I have questions over things here and there: I have doubts whether she can or even wants to be a good mom.
even within the first 5 days? even if the kid is a premature born?
Yes. My son was born in September but it's still very hot in my home. He wears onesie since he was born. We wrap him in receiving blanket when he is sleeping.
As to this point, only some people (especially Chinese moms) believe it. I don't think it's a proven fact. Many parents take their newborns for studio shots.
Once you have had a baby, you will know all of these things are normal.
As to this point, only some people (especially Chinese moms) believe it. I don't think it's a proven fact. Many parents take their newborns for studio shots.
Once you have had a baby, you will know all of these things are normal.
I have had a baby, and I never let my girl exposed to flash lights (natural lighting of course is fine) before 6 months. Even in the 100 day studio shots, they did not turn flash lights on. Although it's been sometime when my baby was that small, I do believe that it's not only within some chinese moms that are cautious about this. Furthermore, suppose you are right that it's not a proven fact, but if there is any probability that it is possible, I, and arguably many other moms, would not take the chance.
Bottom line: maybe all the little things are normal and harmless, but loving moms will do much more than that. All I can see is that she does not care for the baby.
As to this point, only some people (especially Chinese moms) believe it. I don't think it's a proven fact. Many parents take their newborns for studio shots.
Once you have had a baby, you will know all of these things are normal.
真的啊？my PD 很明确的告诉我一个月不能用flash light. chinese 比较小心了，老外比较relaxed.
I have had a baby, and I never let my girl exposed to flash lights (natural lighting of course is fine) before 6 months. Even in the 100 day studio shots, they did not turn flash lights on. Although it's been sometime when my baby was that small, I do believe that it's not only within some chinese moms that are cautious about this. Furthermore, suppose you are right that it's not a proven fact, but if there is any probability that it is possible, I, and arguably many other moms, would not take the chance.
Bottom line: maybe all the little things are normal and harmless, but loving moms will do much more than that. All I can see is that she does not care for the baby.
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I did not care so much with those things. I also used flashlight when my son was very little. I guess by your judgement I don't care for my son either. Well, I don't need other people to judge me.
well, just have to say she looks better than most of other stars, some much bigger (e.g. Angelina Jolie). And I think one can tell whether the way she looks at her child is natural or not (esp if you are a mom yourself, or watches enough pictures of new moms with their babies). 没错没错，这个眼神真是，感觉是只在乎自己的，很mean的眼神。
Kelly也太爱美了吧，出院跟走秀一样。
不是PS的啦，就是手被BB的衣服遮住了而已，只露出了一部分的大拇指
不过确实感觉不到什么母爱就是了。。。
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你更八卦，居然有空帮她搞这个。脖梗子上全是毛。
长得像他爹
他爸长得象他
原本还挺喜欢她的。
感觉那个宝宝奄奄一息了，她自己就象一个MODEL一样在那摆POSE
完全看不出她的母性，象拿着个道具
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难道女人生完孩子一副疲惫不堪的样子才叫有母爱嘛？她是大明星，注重形象很正常吧，加上人家有钱，想多精神就多精神阿。谁不想做辣妈啦？－ －。
母爱照相能看出来的么？-。-
我咋觉得是史上最不像亲妈的新生婴儿合影照....?
完全不像新妈妈的目光嘛....
就是嘛，看上去好假啊，还花了浓妆，babe像个假人
其实我看她怀孕之后，生完宝宝身材完全没有变化，我就觉得她有点太顾着自己了。
她儿子生下来才5斤半，我想跟她自己控制也有关系吧，不觉得是很devote的的妈妈。
反而觉得版上有些人拿李湘怀孕的身材说事，太不厚道了，非常mean。难道妈妈不应该把宝宝的营养摆在priority的位置吗。
据说她才重了18斤，还狂穿高跟鞋
小baby好小哦
早产一个月的Babe，才5斤
据说她才重了18斤，还狂穿高跟鞋
我之前贴了她解释高跟鞋的事情的视频了，她是征求过医生的意见的，就那么站一下是没有问题的，她也说了，不是长时间穿高跟鞋。而且她工作都是穿的平底鞋，等到要出场了才换的高跟鞋穿那么10几分钟～～为什么你们老是盯着那些不好的报道，人家解释的都不听呢？
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我咋觉得是史上最不像亲妈的新生婴儿合影照....?
完全不像新妈妈的目光嘛....
re...........
她根本就不像个产妇，更不像c的。关键是，看孩子的眼神太可怕了，如果在医院看见新妈妈是这个表情我肯定要被吓倒。。。
问题是林青霞，梁洛施脸也肿，眼睛主要也是看着孩子，难道她们不更注重形象？
据说她才重了18斤，还狂穿高跟鞋
我觉得穿高跟鞋没啥吧
我怀孕比这个长得多多了，不过高跟鞋还是天天穿的
临生的前几天我都还穿着高跟鞋跑上跑下的
倒！！！！！这个。太FAKE了
原本还挺喜欢她的。
感觉那个宝宝奄奄一息了，她自己就象一个MODEL一样在那摆POSE
完全看不出她的母性，象拿着个道具
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还想到一件事， 刚出生的宝宝能穿这么少吗？ 虽然是大夏天， 但是小宝宝还是很虚弱的吧， 一般刚生下来都是包的紧紧的（还有安全感的问题）。 我女儿也是7月生的， 月子里没这么露过。
同是女人为什么这么mean阿？她是早产，bb刚出世都是皱巴巴又瘦又干的阿。我前几天去看我哥的新生儿，人家足月还是顺产也是这样皱巴巴又瘦又红的。怎么可怜了？
难道女人生完孩子一副疲惫不堪的样子才叫有母爱嘛？她是大明星，注重形象很正常吧，加上人家有钱，想多精神就多精神阿。谁不想做辣妈啦？－ －。
母爱照相能看出来的么？-。-
well, just have to say she looks better than most of other stars, some much bigger (e.g. Angelina Jolie). And I think one can tell whether the way she looks at her child is natural or not (esp if you are a mom yourself, or watches enough pictures of new moms with their babies).
还想到一件事， 刚出生的宝宝能穿这么少吗？ 虽然是大夏天， 但是小宝宝还是很虚弱的吧， 一般刚生下来都是包的紧紧的（还有安全感的问题）。 我女儿也是7月生的， 月子里没这么露过。
这个，我娃也是7月出生的，月子里就一件短袖Onesie搞定
这个，我娃也是7月出生的，月子里就一件短袖Onesie搞定
even within the first 5 days? even if the kid is a premature born?
even within the first 5 days? even if the kid is a premature born?
我只是对比你说你的娃的顺便说说我的情况嘛。。。
我娃只提前了一周出来，在医院的时候只穿医院的那种上衣，都没有裤子的啊
出院的时候就直接给套件短袖Onesie就出院了
我觉得要是医生让娃出院那娃就足够健康了吧，夏天这么热穿多了不会起痱子？
我只是对比你说你的娃的顺便说说我的情况嘛。。。
我娃只提前了一周出来，在医院的时候只穿医院的那种上衣，都没有裤子的啊
出院的时候就直接给套件短袖Onesie就出院了
我觉得要是医生让娃出院那娃就足够健康了吧，夏天这么热穿多了不会起痱子？
我不是针对你阿， 只是觉得她的情况和我经过的太不一样了， 我女儿也是穿一件短袖， 不过出门的时候都回包一下， 就是那种医院送的毯子。 而且她的小孩这么小这么瘦， 又早产， 再说这张照片应该是室内拍的吧， 应该又空调的吧。
我只是对比你说你的娃的顺便说说我的情况嘛。。。
我娃只提前了一周出来，在医院的时候只穿医院的那种上衣，都没有裤子的啊
出院的时候就直接给套件短袖Onesie就出院了
我觉得要是医生让娃出院那娃就足够健康了吧，夏天这么热穿多了不会起痱子？
但也不排除我的方法是不正确的。
但也不排除我的方法是不正确的。
呵呵，各个娃情况不同了
even within the first 5 days? even if the kid is a premature born?
Yes. My son was born in September but it's still very hot in my home. He wears onesie since he was born. We wrap him in receiving blanket when he is sleeping.
2.化妆----喂母奶也好，不喂也好，密切接触婴儿不可能化妆，身为亲生妈妈，不可能没到满月或一百天，就让打灯光拍照---损坏BB的眼睛
同觉得母子间的感觉好像怪怪的
this is another point raised by a mom on tianya, which makes a lot of sense to me too,
2.化妆----喂母奶也好，不喂也好，密切接触婴儿不可能化妆，身为亲生妈妈，不可能没到满月或一百天，就让打灯光拍照---损坏BB的眼睛
As to this point, only some people (especially Chinese moms) believe it. I don't think it's a proven fact. Many parents take their newborns for studio shots.
Once you have had a baby, you will know all of these things are normal.
My son is the same body weight when he was born. But I have twins....
这个妈妈真牛
As to this point, only some people (especially Chinese moms) believe it. I don't think it's a proven fact. Many parents take their newborns for studio shots.
Once you have had a baby, you will know all of these things are normal.
I have had a baby, and I never let my girl exposed to flash lights (natural lighting of course is fine) before 6 months. Even in the 100 day studio shots, they did not turn flash lights on. Although it's been sometime when my baby was that small, I do believe that it's not only within some chinese moms that are cautious about this. Furthermore, suppose you are right that it's not a proven fact, but if there is any probability that it is possible, I, and arguably many other moms, would not take the chance.
Bottom line: maybe all the little things are normal and harmless, but loving moms will do much more than that. All I can see is that she does not care for the baby.
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不过刚刚在网上看到这张照片，眼睛是看着孩子的了
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but i don't see any more love shown in this picture. She is more like posing to be cute.
可能真不是她生的
but i don't see any more love shown in this picture. She is more like posing to be cute.
确实是，总感觉像是抱着自己好朋友啊，或者姐妹的儿子，不是自己亲生的
As to this point, only some people (especially Chinese moms) believe it. I don't think it's a proven fact. Many parents take their newborns for studio shots.
Once you have had a baby, you will know all of these things are normal.
真的啊？my PD 很明确的告诉我一个月不能用flash light. chinese 比较小心了，老外比较relaxed.
我咋觉得是史上最不像亲妈的新生婴儿合影照....?
完全不像新妈妈的目光嘛....
re
连我都看得出来，哪有拍照当妈的都不看着宝宝的，这不是完全的接角度取景嘛～～～～
一点母爱都没有
有点担心啊
看了凤凰网上一个视频，在她刚出来的时候是大步走的，还转了下身，见到记者就开始小步走很小心的样子
可能真不是她生的
我想她慢慢走是为了让记者拍照而已。
I have had a baby, and I never let my girl exposed to flash lights (natural lighting of course is fine) before 6 months. Even in the 100 day studio shots, they did not turn flash lights on. Although it's been sometime when my baby was that small, I do believe that it's not only within some chinese moms that are cautious about this. Furthermore, suppose you are right that it's not a proven fact, but if there is any probability that it is possible, I, and arguably many other moms, would not take the chance.
Bottom line: maybe all the little things are normal and harmless, but loving moms will do much more than that. All I can see is that she does not care for the baby.
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I did not care so much with those things. I also used flashlight when my son was very little. I guess by your judgement I don't care for my son either. Well, I don't need other people to judge me.
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眼睛都不看宝宝，像个道具似的。
同感。
我怀孕5个月时肚子很大。我就见过周围两个朋友，现在5个月，除非穿紧身的衣服，不然根本看不太出来。
另外一个更牛，到生的时候肚子都很小。她自己工作忙，不太注意吃，小孩也挺小的，生前就瘦，生完也没肿没胖的。
我就是破腹产的，还大出血，也72小时就出院了。除了从床上坐起来时感觉肚子会痛外，其他什么都能干。
像陈惠琳这种有钱有势的大明星，那么多人伺候，做到像她这样也没什么不可信的。 另外，一个大墨镜也能这掉很多“丑”的，她穿的也是黑色宽松衣服， 能遮掩掉很多东西的。 所以我觉得没啥奇怪的。
倒！！！！！这个。太FAKE了
原本还挺喜欢她的。
感觉那个宝宝奄奄一息了，她自己就象一个MODEL一样在那摆POSE
完全看不出她的母性，象拿着个道具
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can't agree more.
眼神，眼神，完全不对。眼睛是心灵的窗户，这句话真有道理啊。
well, just have to say she looks better than most of other stars, some much bigger (e.g. Angelina Jolie). And I think one can tell whether the way she looks at her child is natural or not (esp if you are a mom yourself, or watches enough pictures of new moms with their babies).
没错没错，这个眼神真是，感觉是只在乎自己的，很mean的眼神。
有没有有经验的JM们说说，这孩子是不是也太小了，看着细胳膊细腿的，
有点担心啊
孩子不小，妈妈的感觉（不是外貌），很奇怪。
看看家小多少妈妈问怀孕喂奶是不是还能用anr吧，这个妆。。。。。。比较无语。
不排除她baby blue对孩子爱不起来，这个也有一定概率的。
对比一下，这个妈妈也浓妆，也没看孩子，但是从里到外就有那种为人母的喜悦和对孩子的感情。
产后没什么变化的，遭点点嫉妒的同时又被人说怀孕生子作假。
艺人也很难啊。除非孩子爸爸是李小超之流。
我想，如果她生的是女儿，会不会流言要少点呢？因为人们心里会同情的替她想，可怜的还要继续生。
象她这样身材的新妈妈也很多啊。这种一般是天生的。
而且象她这样的本来就不是大家都认为的“美女”，为了拍照化妆很正常。拍照时不看孩子在我看来也没什么。都是为了拍照好看呗。有的人拍照为了突出自己的母爱，有的人为了突出自己漂亮，不都是为了宣传吗？几秒钟的拍照又能说明什么呢。
对比一下，这个妈妈也浓妆，也没看孩子，但是从里到外就有那种为人母的喜悦和对孩子的感情。
这个太不一样了，这张里的孩子都很大了，可以逗人和人交流啊笑了。一般的新生儿的妈妈事情太多，伤口没有恢复好的难言之苦，作出这种发自内心的喜悦的表情需要很强大的内心或者有什么特别的原因（比如LLS）。
这个太不一样了，这张里的孩子都很大了，可以逗人和人交流啊笑了。一般的新生儿的妈妈事情太多，伤口没有恢复好的难言之苦，作出这种发自内心的喜悦的表情需要很强大的内心或者有什么特别的原因（比如LLS）。
不会阿，我看朋友的和我自己的那时候的照片，不好看是肯定的，但是表情上绝对不是难言之苦， 而是-天阿，这种初为人母的喜悦还需要特别的原因么。如果是由于特别的原因不想要这个孩子的情况还可以理解。
不会阿，我看朋友的和我自己的那时候的照片，不好看是肯定的，但是表情上绝对不是难言之苦， 而是-天阿，这种初为人母的喜悦还需要特别的原因么。如果是由于特别的原因不想要这个孩子的情况还可以理解。
那就是人和人的不同了。我一个月之内几乎没有和孩子的合照，提不起精神费很多麻烦照，除了在医院拍照留念，脸上也看不出“母性的光辉”，就是一般的表情。
和孩子拍照看着最“喜悦”的实际上是我妈！其次是孩子爸。我当时主要负责拍照，因为自己外貌实在不好看就不照。我想陈这么化妆这么看着前方注重自己的仪表也有差不多想法吧。
凭一张照片怎么能看出生活里有没有母爱呢？
那就是人和人的不同了。我一个月之内几乎没有和孩子的合照，提不起精神费很多麻烦照，除了在医院拍照留念，脸上也看不出“母性的光辉”，就是一般的表情。
和孩子拍照看着最“喜悦”的实际上是我妈！其次是孩子爸。我当时主要负责拍照，因为自己外貌实在不好看就不照。我想陈这么化妆这么看着前方注重自己的仪表也有差不多想法吧。
凭一张照片怎么能看出生活里有没有母爱呢？
不光是喜悦的表情，还有前面说的气场。这个照片上，表情动作确实有点奇怪。假如拿的是广告产品，洗发露护肤霜什么，估计也是这个表情没差别的。
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对比一下，这个妈妈也浓妆，也没看孩子，但是从里到外就有那种为人母的喜悦和对孩子的感情。
这是翁红么?是的话,这张就是我见过她最漂亮的照片了.
这是翁红么?是的话,这张就是我见过她最漂亮的照片了.
是翁虹
孩子不小，妈妈的感觉（不是外貌），很奇怪。
看看家小多少妈妈问怀孕喂奶是不是还能用anr吧，这个妆。。。。。。比较无语。
不排除她baby blue对孩子爱不起来，这个也有一定概率的。
人搞不好用奶妈呢。。。。没见过的也不用那么大惊小怪
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眼睛都不看宝宝，像个道具似的。
RE
我咋觉得是史上最不像亲妈的新生婴儿合影照....?
完全不像新妈妈的目光嘛....
也觉得不像，有点相信代孕的谣言了
鉴定完毕
相比之下，李湘啊，柏芝啊，小梁啊，都真实多了。
很做作，像在摆拍，不像是对着自己的儿子，完全没有眼神的交流。感受不到母子的温馨和亲密。
同感。