baby slept hours ba? why 轮轴转? still non-stop. I took care of mimi for about half a month just by myself when she's 6 months old. And its absolutely no time to do anything else except taking care of her. when she's sleeping, i have to clean her bottles, my dishes , and some other errands. even taking a shower makes me very nervious.
It's my fault also. my lg wanted to buy a house around 80w, but I really don't want to live in some tiny dark house with a ceiling so low that I can touch with my hands.
My problem is that I want to live a better life than I can actually afford.
I stretched when we bought the house. I stretched when I enrolled my daughter to a $1875 daycare.
My coworker said: I should let my parents and my inlaws to take turns to take care of my daughter in turns, so I can save the daycare fee. But I don't want to burden them too much.
I think the final solution for us is to move to other states.
thanks for your kind words! we will have an offsite tomorrow, will go water rafting. I went to REI yesterday try to buy a hat, but it costs $38. I didn't buy. but I feel sad.
just buy it next time. think about you two have stable cash flows! that's all that matters! treat yourself well!
以下是引用pmtng在2009-6-25 17:35:00的发言： I used to get along with my inlaws, I treated them really well until one recent day. I had a verbal fight with my lg who refused to help me to move heavy furniture I bought from my car to living room. My popo jumped in, yelled at me.
She asked why I didn't ask other people to help out. She also said I bought too much junk. She also said my parents should feel shameful for my behavior.
I then realized that for all the years I married their son, my inlaws never bought anything for me (total is zero, none), at the same time, I bought at least 10 cashmere sweaters for my popo, I bought many things specifically for my popo. Everytime I orded clothes/shoes online, I let her pick first and she always picked something.
I seriously want to ask my junk back and dump into garbage can in front of her face. 婆媳关系这个问题比较有意思。。我妈来了之后认识了好几个老太太自己过来带孙子。。没有一个说儿媳妇好的。。我有时候想如果有个论坛她们灌水会是什么样子。。。一个巴掌拍不响的。。你肯定有地方她看不顺延很久了。但是你自己不知道。。因为她不说。她会记得。。然后找机会爆发。。比如你买东西不关她事也许她就觉得不顺眼。。记你个罪过。。这种东西没办法的。。一般消费观人生观生活观这种两代的冲突都是必然的。家家都有。只不过程度不同。。
lele's really up to date in terms of fashion taste!..........."刚才自己跟那奋力要把t shirt脱了穿上我给买的泳装。。还爱豹纹。。" this is so lovely. have to schedule a gathering after mimi's coming.....
以下是引用pmtng在2009-6-25 17:35:00的发言： I used to get along with my inlaws, I treated them really well until one recent day. I had a verbal fight with my lg who refused to help me to move heavy furniture I bought from my car to living room. My popo jumped in, yelled at me.
She asked why I didn't ask other people to help out. She also said I bought too much junk. She also said my parents should feel shameful for my behavior.
I then realized that for all the years I married their son, my inlaws never bought anything for me (total is zero, none), at the same time, I bought at least 10 cashmere sweaters for my popo, I bought many things specifically for my popo. Everytime I orded clothes/shoes online, I let her pick first and she always picked something.
I seriously want to ask my junk back and dump into garbage can in front of her face. Wow, I can see you are a nice and straight person and you need some serious lessons like the ones I got from my inlaws to become more ...
To really think what others will think even we have good purposes. Sometimes they will take it wrong (especially for people is not very open or self-centered) and it is NORMAL. You need to first see them then decide what to avoid and what to ignore.
Anyways, the lessons I learned helped me grow a lot and be more "sophisticated" both at home and at work. That's why I had a lot of concerns when I was deciding whether I should tell my coworker about the news or not.
you described that your gonggong is playing with lele and your popo is cooking and you feel happiness.
all I try to say is that this is only superficial appearance which won't last long.
my inlaws have been living with us for a year, we apparently co-existed peacefully for almost a year, until 2 weeks before their departure.
deep down, no family can sustain this kind of relationship.
If they have different opinions with you and they are trying to get peaceful and holding back the thoughts to themselves, it is better than those inlaws who just behave rude. You should appreciate that.
Maybe there are other things on their mind, maybe they just don't want to leave your daughter and that's why they break out.
Like my popo, she will be very satisfied if she can take care of Ami, she will have all kinds of wired thoughts and very dissatisfied if we send Ami to daycare. People are emotional and it is not all because of your behavior.
以下是引用pmtng在2009-6-25 17:35:00的发言： I used to get along with my inlaws, I treated them really well until one recent day. I had a verbal fight with my lg who refused to help me to move heavy furniture I bought from my car to living room. My popo jumped in, yelled at me.
She asked why I didn't ask other people to help out. She also said I bought too much junk. She also said my parents should feel shameful for my behavior.
I then realized that for all the years I married their son, my inlaws never bought anything for me (total is zero, none), at the same time, I bought at least 10 cashmere sweaters for my popo, I bought many things specifically for my popo. Everytime I orded clothes/shoes online, I let her pick first and she always picked something.
I seriously want to ask my junk back and dump into garbage can in front of her face.
your popo's behavior is hard to understand. Why did she say things like that since you were getting along well with her and is it just Tian jin di yi to have your husband help carrying things?
you described that your gonggong is playing with lele and your popo is cooking and you feel happiness.
all I try to say is that this is only superficial appearance which won't last long.
my inlaws have been living with us for a year, we apparently co-existed peacefully for almost a year, until 2 weeks before their departure.
deep down, no family can sustain this kind of relationship.
that really depends on personality..me and my mom in law are similar type..not picky on anything..whatever the other party do, we say good good..
you can never expect a relationship like mother like daughter..nevertheless..even really mother-daughter retionship doesn't necessarily mean good..just enjoy what you have and do not think too much..if it happens it happens..we are both human beings and have ups and downs..after all..we are a family..just try to value the positive part..other than that..what else you can do..
that really depends on personality..me and my mom in law are similar type..not picky on anything..whatever the other party do, we say good good..
you can never expect a relationship like mother like daughter..nevertheless..even really mother-daughter retionship doesn't necessarily mean good..just enjoy what you have and do not think too much..if it happens it happens..we are both human beings and have ups and downs..after all..we are a family..just try to value the positive part..other than that..what else you can do.. I found out that even relationships of mother and daughter can have problems. But it is easier to get forgiveness.
People belong to this building for a long time will remember the story between me and my popo. At that time, everyone agreed that my popo behaved really wacky. But now I think I was not careful or considerate enough as well. Ami's eczema made everybody very nerous and under great stress and my popo just didn't want to leave her. These are all factors.
Later, I see my popo really want to be in a good relationship with me (us) so I forget the whole thing. And she knows I have the power to act. The whole event now simply becomes a 筹码 when I discuss family issues with my husband...
People belong to this building for a long time will remember the story between me and my popo. At that time, everyone agreed that my popo behaved really wacky. But now I think I was not careful or considerate enough as well. Ami's eczema made everybody very nerous and under great stress and my popo just didn't want to leave her. These are all factors.
Later, I see my popo really want to be in a good relationship with me (us) so I forget the whole thing. And she knows I have the power to act. The whole event now simply becomes a 筹码 when I discuss family issues with my husband... as I said..overall you are a family..fact that can't be changed. I am always cautious dealing with in laws..it is crispy..try hard not to break..
as I said..overall you are a family..fact that can't be changed. I am always cautious dealing with in laws..it is crispy..try hard not to break.. 是啊，relationship needs a lot of thoughtfulness, expecially with older generations.
somehow我觉得女的40了如果还在斗有点凄凉。。这世界对女的太不公平了。。一生完小孩整个人的战斗力physically mentally都严重damage。。我曾经也是极度aggressive的一个人立志要做女强人。。现在我想。。算了。让给她们吧。。leave me alone..我现在就想着能早点退休就好。。我逐渐感觉到了当大妈的feel..哈哈 哈哈，我这个人从来都不aggressive，看我选择的职业就知道。不过我的想法很简单。要自己有自己的工作圈子，自己的收入。
以下是引用thinktoomuch在2009-6-25 0:15:00的发言： 哦，今天的电话面试挺糟糕的，我好多都忘了，最后只想赶快结束。复习了几个小时，好多东西都似是而非，主要还是我基本功不扎实。data structure那些, 一仔细问我就开始抓瞎了。觉得很embarassing，希望没给我的推荐人太丢面子。唉，他不推荐我就好了，简直是里外不讨好。 好处是，我appreciate my current job much more! For a working mom, it is perfect. I have lost my desire to compete whatsoever. I don't think I can handle a life that is even much more stressful than it is now. 我家小人，每天都拿着的一个玩具，相当于security blanket，睡觉都抓在手里的，每天拿到daycare的，今天找不到了 是朋友给我的，后来别人说是Fisher Price一个老款的bouncer上附带的小玩具。我在网上找了找，没卖的啊！bouncer都被新款的取代了，那个小兔子玩具更没卖的了。 今天好热啊。明天好像更热，我老公还有一个电话面试。可怜的人，天天陪小孩睡，一年半没睡好了，脑子都不转了，还要回答coding question. 当爸妈真不容易啊。没有老人帮忙的，就更忙了啊。 哦想起来了，我们上个周日带小孩子去看Up就是pixar的那个。时间不好，正好小孩困了，闹，没看完就出来了。可是，就是前面十来分钟还不错，后面is so so-so! I would want my money back! Urgh... pixar is going down. I used to love every movie they produce. 晚了，要去呼呼了。明天还是早起。Tomorrow is another day.
yeah the first guy who called, the hiring manager, sounded very young and sharp. I would imagine he expects his team to be same style. Coz when you are young and you are a manager, there is a lot of room to grow, easily to get aggressive and ambitious. That's not my style, at least for now. and I am afraid my rusty brain cannot fit into the team well either... BTW this job does also require on call support.
thanks for your kind words! we will have an offsite tomorrow, will go water rafting. I went to REI yesterday try to buy a hat, but it costs $38. I didn't buy. but I feel sad.
my lg just called me he said that he will talk to his mom and ask her to apologize to me I refused, I said, in China, there is no such thing that chang bei apologize to xiao bei. she will be here for only 20 days, I don't want to talk to her face to face
以下是引用pmtng在2009-6-25 17:35:00的发言： I used to get along with my inlaws, I treated them really well until one recent day. I had a verbal fight with my lg who refused to help me to move heavy furniture I bought from my car to living room. My popo jumped in, yelled at me.
She asked why I didn't ask other people to help out. She also said I bought too much junk. She also said my parents should feel shameful for my behavior.
I then realized that for all the years I married their son, my inlaws never bought anything for me (total is zero, none), at the same time, I bought at least 10 cashmere sweaters for my popo, I bought many things specifically for my popo. Everytime I orded clothes/shoes online, I let her pick first and she always picked something.
I seriously want to ask my junk back and dump into garbage can in front of her face.
以下是引用pmtng在2009-6-25 20:15:00的发言： my lg just called me he said that he will talk to his mom and ask her to apologize to me I refused, I said, in China, there is no such thing that chang bei apologize to xiao bei. she will be here for only 20 days, I don't want to talk to her face to face
People belong to this building for a long time will remember the story between me and my popo. At that time, everyone agreed that my popo behaved really wacky. But now I think I was not careful or considerate enough as well. Ami's eczema made everybody very nerous and under great stress and my popo just didn't want to leave her. These are all factors.
Later, I see my popo really want to be in a good relationship with me (us) so I forget the whole thing. And she knows I have the power to act. The whole event now simply becomes a 筹码 when I discuss family issues with my husband...
I used to get along with my inlaws, I treated them really well until one recent day.
I had a verbal fight with my lg who refused to help me to move heavy furniture I bought from my car to living room.
My popo jumped in, yelled at me.
She asked why I didn't ask other people to help out.
She also said I bought too much junk. She also said my parents should feel shameful for my behavior.
I then realized that for all the years I married their son, my inlaws never bought anything for me (total is zero, none), at the same time, I bought at least 10 cashmere sweaters for my popo, I bought many things specifically for my popo. Everytime I orded clothes/shoes online, I let her pick first and she always picked something.
I seriously want to ask my junk back and dump into garbage can in front of her face.
my lg just called me he said that he will talk to his mom and ask her to apologize to me I refused, I said, in China, there is no such thing that chang bei apologize to xiao bei. she will be here for only 20 days, I don't want to talk to her face to face
still non-stop. I took care of mimi for about half a month just by myself when she's 6 months old. And its absolutely no time to do anything else except taking care of her. when she's sleeping, i have to clean her bottles, my dishes , and some other errands. even taking a shower makes me very nervious.
是啊，有时候可能只能够compromise. As long as you have a positive cash flow now, you can send your daughter to private school no problem since the mortage will simply be cheaper and cheaper.
pat pat. take good rest and relax. bless to JiaJia too! my excuse to mostly water in English is, my work laptop has no Chinese input~~~! my personal laptop is bigger and heavier and relatively too hot to use. and I water faster this way. my precious few free moments of each day ~~~
I see. I agree that it is essential to be visible in the team, stay in your boss's view. Make yourself look busy and important. hehe Politics politics...
baby slept hours ba? why 轮轴转?
still non-stop. I took care of mimi for about half a month just by myself when she's 6 months old. And its absolutely no time to do anything else except taking care of her. when she's sleeping, i have to clean her bottles, my dishes , and some other errands. even taking a shower makes me very nervious.
really admire those full-time moms
It's my fault also. my lg wanted to buy a house around 80w, but I really don't want to live in some tiny dark house with a ceiling so low that I can touch with my hands.
My problem is that I want to live a better life than I can actually afford.
I stretched when we bought the house.
I stretched when I enrolled my daughter to a $1875 daycare.
My coworker said: I should let my parents and my inlaws to take turns to take care of my daughter in turns, so I can save the daycare fee. But I don't want to burden them too much.
I think the final solution for us is to move to other states.
ah? 80w house is tiny?????
we are co-sleeping with my daughter now, she wakes up many times at night.
but we don't do much though, sometimes give her water, sometimes pat her.
when my Mom comes, I will ask her to sleep with my daughter!
is she still waking up multiple times in the nights?
猪乐乐半夜不醒。。俺们一直co sleep。。她睡觉睡的死死的。。但是手脚不停。。前天晚上头把我嘴都撞流血了。。要不就踢她爸的五眼青。。俺们睡觉一人守着一个床边背对猪乐乐护住头。。魔王！魔鬼啊！！！
lele's THE hottest girl!
[此贴子已经被作者于2009-6-25 17:46:42编辑过]
thanks for your kind words!
we will have an offsite tomorrow, will go water rafting.
I went to REI yesterday try to buy a hat, but it costs $38.
I didn't buy.
but I feel sad.
just buy it next time. think about you two have stable cash flows! that's all that matters! treat yourself well!
I used to get along with my inlaws, I treated them really well until one recent day.
I had a verbal fight with my lg who refused to help me to move heavy furniture I bought from my car to living room.
My popo jumped in, yelled at me.
She asked why I didn't ask other people to help out.
She also said I bought too much junk.
She also said my parents should feel shameful for my behavior.
I then realized that for all the years I married their son, my inlaws never bought anything for me (total is zero, none), at the same time, I bought at least 10 cashmere sweaters for my popo, I bought many things specifically for my popo. Everytime I orded clothes/shoes online, I let her pick first and she always picked something.
I seriously want to ask my junk back and dump into garbage can in front of her face.
婆媳关系这个问题比较有意思。。我妈来了之后认识了好几个老太太自己过来带孙子。。没有一个说儿媳妇好的。。我有时候想如果有个论坛她们灌水会是什么样子。。。一个巴掌拍不响的。。你肯定有地方她看不顺延很久了。但是你自己不知道。。因为她不说。她会记得。。然后找机会爆发。。比如你买东西不关她事也许她就觉得不顺眼。。记你个罪过。。这种东西没办法的。。一般消费观人生观生活观这种两代的冲突都是必然的。家家都有。只不过程度不同。。
lele's really up to date in terms of fashion taste!..........."刚才自己跟那奋力要把t shirt脱了穿上我给买的泳装。。还爱豹纹。。" this is so lovely. have to schedule a gathering after mimi's coming.....
What you guys do in Jul 3rd
没计划呀。。mimi啥时候来
婆媳关系这个问题比较有意思。。我妈来了之后认识了好几个老太太自己过来带孙子。。没有一个说儿媳妇好的。。我有时候想如果有个论坛她们灌水会是什么样子。。。一个巴掌拍不响的。。你肯定有地方她看不顺延很久了。但是你自己不知道。。因为她不说。她会记得。。然后找机会爆发。。比如你买东西不关她事也许她就觉得不顺眼。。记你个罪过。。这种东西没办法的。。一般消费观人生观生活观这种两代的冲突都是必然的。家家都有。只不过程度不同。。
you described that your gonggong is playing with lele and your popo is cooking and you feel happiness.
all I try to say is that this is only superficial appearance which won't last long.
my inlaws have been living with us for a year, we apparently co-existed peacefully for almost a year, until 2 weeks before their departure.
deep down, no family can sustain this kind of relationship.
最讨厌加班了。。我以前在国内的时候为了哄我去加班。。我们都住宿舍。。老板周六到门口敲门叫我起床。。打车带我去加班。。下班还得带我去吃饭。。美国就不用说了。。因为我不加班老板哭了这么经典的case...我都记不得我这辈子跟历任老板发过多少次脾气了。
你们老板好惨啊。。。
I used to get along with my inlaws, I treated them really well until one recent day.
I had a verbal fight with my lg who refused to help me to move heavy furniture I bought from my car to living room.
My popo jumped in, yelled at me.
She asked why I didn't ask other people to help out.
She also said I bought too much junk.
She also said my parents should feel shameful for my behavior.
I then realized that for all the years I married their son, my inlaws never bought anything for me (total is zero, none), at the same time, I bought at least 10 cashmere sweaters for my popo, I bought many things specifically for my popo. Everytime I orded clothes/shoes online, I let her pick first and she always picked something.
I seriously want to ask my junk back and dump into garbage can in front of her face.
Wow, I can see you are a nice and straight person and you need some serious lessons like the ones I got from my inlaws to become more ...
To really think what others will think even we have good purposes. Sometimes they will take it wrong (especially for people is not very open or self-centered) and it is NORMAL. You need to first see them then decide what to avoid and what to ignore.
Anyways, the lessons I learned helped me grow a lot and be more "sophisticated" both at home and at work. That's why I had a lot of concerns when I was deciding whether I should tell my coworker about the news or not.
[此贴子已经被作者于2009-6-25 18:09:25编辑过]
you described that your gonggong is playing with lele and your popo is cooking and you feel happiness.
all I try to say is that this is only superficial appearance which won't last long.
my inlaws have been living with us for a year, we apparently co-existed peacefully for almost a year, until 2 weeks before their departure.
deep down, no family can sustain this kind of relationship.
If they have different opinions with you and they are trying to get peaceful and holding back the thoughts to themselves, it is better than those inlaws who just behave rude. You should appreciate that.
Maybe there are other things on their mind, maybe they just don't want to leave your daughter and that's why they break out.
Like my popo, she will be very satisfied if she can take care of Ami, she will have all kinds of wired thoughts and very dissatisfied if we send Ami to daycare. People are emotional and it is not all because of your behavior.
I used to get along with my inlaws, I treated them really well until one recent day.
I had a verbal fight with my lg who refused to help me to move heavy furniture I bought from my car to living room.
My popo jumped in, yelled at me.
She asked why I didn't ask other people to help out.
She also said I bought too much junk.
She also said my parents should feel shameful for my behavior.
I then realized that for all the years I married their son, my inlaws never bought anything for me (total is zero, none), at the same time, I bought at least 10 cashmere sweaters for my popo, I bought many things specifically for my popo. Everytime I orded clothes/shoes online, I let her pick first and she always picked something.
I seriously want to ask my junk back and dump into garbage can in front of her face.
your popo's behavior is hard to understand. Why did she say things like that since you were getting along well with her and is it just Tian jin di yi to have your husband help carrying things?
没计划呀。。mimi啥时候来
next week!!!! i'm so excited
michael jackson死了。。。分特
刚刚听到我同事shout了。
you described that your gonggong is playing with lele and your popo is cooking and you feel happiness.
all I try to say is that this is only superficial appearance which won't last long.
my inlaws have been living with us for a year, we apparently co-existed peacefully for almost a year, until 2 weeks before their departure.
deep down, no family can sustain this kind of relationship.
that really depends on personality..me and my mom in law are similar type..not picky on anything..whatever the other party do, we say good good..
you can never expect a relationship like mother like daughter..nevertheless..even really mother-daughter retionship doesn't necessarily mean good..just enjoy what you have and do not think too much..if it happens it happens..we are both human beings and have ups and downs..after all..we are a family..just try to value the positive part..other than that..what else you can do..
that really depends on personality..me and my mom in law are similar type..not picky on anything..whatever the other party do, we say good good..
you can never expect a relationship like mother like daughter..nevertheless..even really mother-daughter retionship doesn't necessarily mean good..just enjoy what you have and do not think too much..if it happens it happens..we are both human beings and have ups and downs..after all..we are a family..just try to value the positive part..other than that..what else you can do..
I found out that even relationships of mother and daughter can have problems. But it is easier to get forgiveness.
Later, I see my popo really want to be in a good relationship with me (us) so I forget the whole thing. And she knows I have the power to act. The whole event now simply becomes a 筹码 when I discuss family issues with my husband...
救命呀，不要再用英文灌水了，照顾一下我吧~~~~
打英文好爽啊~~;)
你们老板好惨啊。。。
haha..so true..I was superduper good at work when I was young..with bad temper though.
next week!!!! i'm so excited
cool!
People belong to this building for a long time will remember the story between me and my popo. At that time, everyone agreed that my popo behaved really wacky. But now I think I was not careful or considerate enough as well. Ami's eczema made everybody very nerous and under great stress and my popo just didn't want to leave her. These are all factors.
Later, I see my popo really want to be in a good relationship with me (us) so I forget the whole thing. And she knows I have the power to act. The whole event now simply becomes a 筹码 when I discuss family issues with my husband...
as I said..overall you are a family..fact that can't be changed. I am always cautious dealing with in laws..it is crispy..try hard not to break..
as I said..overall you are a family..fact that can't be changed. I am always cautious dealing with in laws..it is crispy..try hard not to break..
是啊，relationship needs a lot of thoughtfulness, expecially with older generations.
打英文好爽啊~~;)
受歧视
刚刚听到我同事shout了。
sigh~~~~~~~~又一个突然翘了的人
受歧视
就算歧视别人也没有歧视你啊，你不是还在美国吗。。。
改名字还是要慎重，麻烦事情很多
你的名字已经很简单了，老美不应该不会啊
他们都叫我假，气死我了。
sigh~~~~~~~~又一个突然翘了的人
我觉得他的脸成了这样肯定每天很痛苦，早点归西也不是坏事。
老印的名字一个比一个长，老美不都还记住了
我可不是为老美改名。我的意思就是用Jane做nickname。在我看来就是改名了。我一直用原名作nickname的。
如果是这个原因，应该是layoff,不是fire
否则太奇怪了
我劳工公司一人就是这个原因被fire的。这个问题可大可小。和同事搞不好关系，那是layoff，和上司就会是fire了。可怜那人工作还挺认真的。只有我劳工最后愿意给他做reference。可也不是坏事。后来找到和老婆一个地方的工作。现在还挺爽的呢
加加发烧了，加加从出生到现在从没生病发烧过。昨天中午开始突然发烧到39.5。吃了点Tylenol，降了点， 半夜重新升到39.7。
今天早上喝了半碗稀饭，吃药的时候不吃，怎么哄都不吃，后来外婆强行给灌了一点，她全吐了，连着早上的稀饭全给吐光了。体温还是将近39度。
现在看到药就哭，一点都不吃。稀饭也不吃，连水都不喝，她以前很爱喝水的。
刚才打电话的时候听她在电话那边哭。我心都快碎了。
是不是得送医院啊，我们家人都不愿意送宝宝去医院，怕一去就吊水，上抗生素。
我心好乱啊，自己又看不到。
可怜的加加。好些了没？
不是10-15%吗？ 不过有了孩子有了房子要省钱真的不容易， 偶爹教育偶开源比节流重要， 不过偶还没找到开源的好途径。。。 原来以为租房好贵啊， 活生生一个月付快2000的房租， 现在有了房子， 单贷款就2000， 加上地税， 管理费， 保险， 修理， 3500就这么没了。 偶家还很好吃， 单超市买菜就一个月600， 外加每周至少3次外出吃饭， 时不时外面还买午餐， 一个人另加200， 1000就花吃上了 南瓜也是增加开销的一部分， 600day care, 外加200玩具跟服装费， 800又没了。 还有水电煤气上网电话， 保险维修车加油费等等， 一个月共计支出能控制在7000下就不错了。 还有外加瓜爹学费3万一年， 这样一来， 入不敷出状态中。 可是我还想着旅游。。。。。。 想要3天游北加， 2号晚上走， 5号回南加， 带南瓜的， 大家觉得咋安排好呢， 我想road trip 哈。
开独立日开车来lv。让小两口见见面。lailai 一家也会在这里。
呵呵， 偶不要老二了， 南瓜上公立。
我本来想好让茜茜上公立的。可现在找到这份工作是个狂嗥的私立学校。里面所有职工子女都上这个学校。我要是以后让茜茜上公立是不是比较另类？
我一个同事知道我找到工作的消息后。告诉我她是这个中学校友，现在她的孩子正在里面上学。注意！她有三个孩子，是三胞胎。我太敬仰她了。一年一共6万学费啊。她还是个在读博士，没工作呢？暗想她老公肯定非常有钱。没好意思问。
小孩子也一直比较难带，湿疹，上daycare反复中耳炎。等这些问题都过去，我说不定都可以去外面找个清闲的工作。我都研究过去学校做计算机老师，可惜赚得太少了~~~~
清闲的工作肯定都比你现在挣得少。看你想要什么样的工作和收入了。
somehow我觉得女的40了如果还在斗有点凄凉。。这世界对女的太不公平了。。一生完小孩整个人的战斗力physically mentally都严重damage。。我曾经也是极度aggressive的一个人立志要做女强人。。现在我想。。算了。让给她们吧。。leave me alone..我现在就想着能早点退休就好。。我逐渐感觉到了当大妈的feel..哈哈
哈哈，我这个人从来都不aggressive，看我选择的职业就知道。不过我的想法很简单。要自己有自己的工作圈子，自己的收入。
再挖个树洞诉苦：变态老印要求从今天开始起8点上班，7点下班，周六照常。下午气的我他的全家都被我设计好了死法。
哪有这样的？周六付多少钱？
那劳模最有钱，都7.8个娃
哦，今天的电话面试挺糟糕的，我好多都忘了，最后只想赶快结束。复习了几个小时，好多东西都似是而非，主要还是我基本功不扎实。
好处是，我appreciate my current job much more! For a working mom, it is perfect. I have lost my desire to compete whatsoever.
我家小人，每天都拿着的一个玩具，相当于security blanket，睡觉都抓在手里的，每天拿到daycare的，今天找不到了
是朋友给我的，后来别人说是Fisher Price一个老款的bouncer上附带的小玩具。我在网上找了找，没卖的啊！bouncer都被新款的取代了，那个小兔子玩具更没卖的了。
今天好热啊。明天好像更热，我老公还有一个电话面试。可怜的人，天天陪小孩睡，一年半没睡好了，脑子都不转了，还要回答coding question.
哦想起来了，我们上个周日带小孩子去看Up就是pixar的那个。时间不好，正好小孩困了，闹，没看完就出来了。可是，就是前面十来分钟还不错，后面is so so-so! I would want my money back! Urgh... pixar is going down. I used to love every movie they produce.
晚了，要去呼呼了。明天还是早起。Tomorrow is another day.
[此贴子已经被作者于2009-6-25 0:16:07编辑过]
写的跳跃性真大啊。看得累死我了。
你说的是amazon的面试么？茜茜干妈是amazon hr的。
玩具，你去换版或craigslist求一个试试看。
首先，不一定的，我有时候觉得自己interview很糟糕，别人倒不觉得。。。
还有就是amazon好像很多工作都是on called，到处背call机，很让人受不了的。
茜茜干妈说amazon工资不错，但福利方面对员工比较小气。没有微软那种免费饮料。所有都要拿钱买。连喝水纸杯都要recycle。
工作那是非常的忙碌。我曾经看到一个工作比较适合我。当时没有申请。后来问茜茜干妈，据说工资不高，还很累很忙。因为Amazon根本就没有轻松的工作。幸好我没申请啊。
[此贴子已经被作者于2009-6-25 19:57:12编辑过]
我劳工公司一人就是这个原因被fire的。这个问题可大可小。和同事搞不好关系，那是layoff，和上司就会是fire了。可怜那人工作还挺认真的。只有我劳工最后愿意给他做reference。可也不是坏事。后来找到和老婆一个地方的工作。现在还挺爽的呢
我觉得get fired挺容易的。communication通常是非常主要的因素。如果你在老板的眼睛里消失了，或者在老板眼里成了搬不动的石头，那离你真正消失的时候也就不远了。
这种人如果不改变，是个很大的问题。通常他们都不这么觉得，觉得我干了活啊，怎么你们不理解我。。。 唉。说说我看到的例子吧。
我以前那个中国同事，fix bug还挺多的，但是他的工作作风一意孤行，连我都没有办法和他交流。最后交给他一样东西，大家都觉得危险，因为他从来不听大家的意见，搞出个什么来没有人能够控制。开会的时候提出的问题非常古怪，让人感觉他什么也没有搞懂。还老是要求升职，最后老板很烦他，就把他开了。我隔壁组的中国同事还觉得他很冤。但是我和他工作过，我知道他的问题很大。不过他又找到amazon，工资高了很多（20%) 不知道现在混得怎样。他被开的时候我还是很难过的，因为觉得他又一家老小，而且好像也算工作勤奋。。。
现在这个中国同事，工作也很勤奋，而且我个人觉得和他用中文交流还挺畅快的，不过没有一起工作过。他就有点像透明人一样，他们领域的问题，他没有发言权，也没人找他。而且和我以前的同事一样，就是他的世界和他周围的世界有比较大的差距。比如说不太清楚别人怎么看他，不太清楚老板注意什么问题，不太清楚他们组究竟有什么问题。但我觉得他还不至于被fire,可能是年景不好。
还有以前两个美国同事，一个是在这里时间太久了，整天可能也不干活，对我还挺热情，还要像我学中文。最后有一天神秘消失了。还有一个经典的，就是我以前的同事，他能力很强，干活很好，而且我个人觉得他对质量什么的都很重视，人也smart，可惜他觉得天大地大，老子最大，一开始我们一小组的人很抱团，然后空降了一个人来当lead,他们就不服，结果我们组的人，该走的的走，该散的散，还有他在他手下，结果他还是不服，就干自己的东西，不干交待的东西。他要干什么，谁也拦不住，也不问老板意见，最后被开。。。
我本来想好让茜茜上公立的。可现在找到这份工作是个狂嗥的私立学校。里面所有职工子女都上这个学校。我要是以后让茜茜上公立是不是比较另类？
我一个同事知道我找到工作的消息后。告诉我她是这个中学校友，现在她的孩子正在里面上学。注意！她有三个孩子，是三胞胎。我太敬仰她了。一年一共6万学费啊。她还是个在读博士，没工作呢？暗想她老公肯定非常有钱。没好意思问。
我的理想就是你们学校阿！！！我觉得你们学校学费是3万多，难道只有两万？
茜茜干妈说amazon工资不错，但福利方面对员工比较小气。没有微软那种免费饮料。所有都要拿钱买。连喝水纸杯都要recycle。
amazon的主要问题是，入口工资高（高很多，大概要两万吧），但是升幅小（涨级慢），bonus小（听说只有几千），不过MS最近几乎也没有升幅。。。
还有就是绿卡服务很差。。。如果要绿卡的同志还是MS爽快。
这要看老公吧，难道你老公回家做饭还带孩子？我觉得我老公同意我quit已经不错了，有的老公可不同意老婆quit。其实我们两个都准备好quit了，所以financial上很多准备，新车都不买。看谁先有那个福气了。
我那时候带小孩，一天下来也不行了，偏偏我老公情愿做饭也不带小孩，我还和他急，因为没有break太难受了。另外一方面，我又觉得阿米这样最幸福，所以自己也很幸福。可惜只有一个月的时间。
把宝宝塞给他。宝宝虽然粘妈妈。但爸爸要多参与。不过你老公竟然愿意作家务不带小孩？我老公是宁愿带小孩不愿做家务。因为带小孩可以偷懒。已经很多次发现，他带着茜茜看电视。因为茜茜一看电视，就不闹。现在洗澡的活都是他的。我说细细大了他就不能给洗澡了。现在enjoy吧。反正舒服的活，我都让给他了。
yeah the first guy who called, the hiring manager, sounded very young and sharp. I would imagine he expects his team to be same style. Coz when you are young and you are a manager, there is a lot of room to grow, easily to get aggressive and ambitious. That's not my style, at least for now.
BTW this job does also require on call support.
on call太讨厌了。我和我劳工从来不把工作带回家。回家就是家庭时间。
把宝宝塞给他。宝宝虽然粘妈妈。但爸爸要多参与。不过你老公竟然愿意作家务不带小孩？我老公是宁愿带小孩不愿做家务。因为带小孩可以偷懒。已经很多次发现，他带着茜茜看电视。因为茜茜一看电视，就不闹。现在洗澡的活都是他的。我说细细大了他就不能给洗澡了。现在enjoy吧。反正舒服的活，我都让给他了。
是啊，我老公愿意烧饭洗碗，但是不愿意带小孩，所以我把小孩的是全包了，早上，喂饭，洗澡，陪睡。
thanks for your kind words!
we will have an offsite tomorrow, will go water rafting.
I went to REI yesterday try to buy a hat, but it costs $38.
I didn't buy.
but I feel sad.
胖妞的美女妈咋了？我去看看那个帖子去。
在没有茜茜以前，我的性格特别敏感，爱生气，一不如意就depress。有了茜茜，我就跟变了一个人似的，感觉天天心里都开心得很。
he said that he will talk to his mom and ask her to apologize to me
I refused, I said, in China, there is no such thing that chang bei apologize to xiao bei.
she will be here for only 20 days, I don't want to talk to her face to face
I used to get along with my inlaws, I treated them really well until one recent day.
I had a verbal fight with my lg who refused to help me to move heavy furniture I bought from my car to living room.
My popo jumped in, yelled at me.
She asked why I didn't ask other people to help out.
She also said I bought too much junk.
She also said my parents should feel shameful for my behavior.
I then realized that for all the years I married their son, my inlaws never bought anything for me (total is zero, none), at the same time, I bought at least 10 cashmere sweaters for my popo, I bought many things specifically for my popo. Everytime I orded clothes/shoes online, I let her pick first and she always picked something.
I seriously want to ask my junk back and dump into garbage can in front of her face.
婆婆都这样吧。别往心里去。你对她好，看在她是胖妞奶奶的份上。
婆媳关系这个问题比较有意思。。我妈来了之后认识了好几个老太太自己过来带孙子。。没有一个说儿媳妇好的。。我有时候想如果有个论坛她们灌水会是什么样子。。。一个巴掌拍不响的。。你肯定有地方她看不顺延很久了。但是你自己不知道。。因为她不说。她会记得。。然后找机会爆发。。比如你买东西不关她事也许她就觉得不顺眼。。记你个罪过。。这种东西没办法的。。一般消费观人生观生活观这种两代的冲突都是必然的。家家都有。只不过程度不同。。
没错啊。比如我婆婆曾经问我买的一件棉袄多少钱，我说30刀。我婆婆说好贵哦。然后我看了看我婆婆身上那件棉袄，400人民币。她还老说她的衣服便宜，因为国内的衣服都上千。我就不吭声了。我挣钱是她7倍。我买比她还便宜的衣服。她说我的贵。第二次，我婆婆问类似的话，我就等着她说好贵。然后，我就问你的衣服多少钱？我挣多少钱？这次轮到她就不吭声了。
my lg just called me
he said that he will talk to his mom and ask her to apologize to me
I refused, I said, in China, there is no such thing that chang bei apologize to xiao bei.
she will be here for only 20 days, I don't want to talk to her face to face
你老公做得不错。我觉得很多婆媳不和，就是婆婆觉得自己在儿子那里得到支持，老话，多年媳妇澳成婆。当婆婆都想摆摆架子。更加想欺压媳妇。如果劳工站在媳妇那一方。婆婆多半不会生事。
next week!!!! i'm so excited
太好啦。等我和lailai从lv回来，我们聚一聚。要见到可爱的小米米了。
我和豆豆妈成立了一个play group。等米米回来，我们可以常常一起活动。
People belong to this building for a long time will remember the story between me and my popo. At that time, everyone agreed that my popo behaved really wacky. But now I think I was not careful or considerate enough as well. Ami's eczema made everybody very nerous and under great stress and my popo just didn't want to leave her. These are all factors.
Later, I see my popo really want to be in a good relationship with me (us) so I forget the whole thing. And she knows I have the power to act. The whole event now simply becomes a 筹码 when I discuss family issues with my husband...
想买啥就买啥。看到这两天有个帖子没？留钱给下一个女人。我身边有好几个活生生的例子。所以我想花钱就花钱。买9个coach包，我也不心疼。我收入比你们都低多了。
连我妈都说我花钱大手大脚。我说我挣钱还不能花？那我挣钱干吗？
I used to get along with my inlaws, I treated them really well until one recent day.
I had a verbal fight with my lg who refused to help me to move heavy furniture I bought from my car to living room.
My popo jumped in, yelled at me.
She asked why I didn't ask other people to help out.
She also said I bought too much junk.
She also said my parents should feel shameful for my behavior.
I then realized that for all the years I married their son, my inlaws
never bought anything for
你婆婆不懂事 小两口吵吵小架 她跟着吓掺和深么
想买啥就买啥。看到这两天有个帖子没？留钱给下一个女人。我身边有好几个活生生的例子。所以我想花钱就花钱。买9个coach包，我也不心疼。我收入比你们都低多了。
连我妈都说我花钱大手大脚。我说我挣钱还不能花？那我挣钱干吗？
我就经常发愁没有东西买
I used to get along with my inlaws, I treated them really well until one recent day.
I had a verbal fight with my lg who refused to help me to move heavy furniture I bought from my car to living room.
My popo jumped in, yelled at me.
She asked why I didn't ask other people to help out.
She also said I bought too much junk.
She also said my parents should feel shameful for my behavior.
I then realized that for all the years I married their son, my inlaws
never bought anything for me (total is zero, none), at the same time, I
bought at least 10 cashmere sweaters for my popo, I bought many things
specifically for my popo. Everytime I orded clothes/shoes online, I let
her pick first and she always picked something.
I seriously want to ask my junk back and dump into garbage can in front of her face.
faint
这个太可气了，我觉得怎么样都不能说亲家，要是有人这么说我爸妈我跟她拼了
pat pat
把宝宝塞给他。宝宝虽然粘妈妈。但爸爸要多参与。不过你老公竟然愿意作家务不带小孩？我老公是宁愿带小孩不愿做家务。因为带小孩可以偷懒。已经很多次发现，他带着茜茜看电视。因为茜茜一看电视，就不闹。现在洗澡的活都是他的。我说细细大了他就不能给洗澡了。现在enjoy吧。反正舒服的活，我都让给他了。
我老公也爱带孩子 可惜奶糖不待见他 他只好做饭
good husband. but who cooks for the baby?
大部分是我做，有时候是宝宝爸爸做，所有肉食都是爸爸做，爸爸还给烙鸡蛋饼，我俩一起包饺子(我不会弄陷儿不会包)
my lg just called me
he said that he will talk to his mom and ask her to apologize to me
I refused, I said, in China, there is no such thing that chang bei apologize to xiao bei.
she will be here for only 20 days, I don't want to talk to her face to face
你不需要她道歉 但你要代你父母接受他的道歉
faint
这个太可气了，我觉得怎么样都不能说亲家，要是有人这么说我爸妈我跟她拼了
pat pat
你们俩啥时候接的亲？私底下。也没上来求婚啥的？
still non-stop. I took care of mimi for about half a month just by myself when she's 6 months old. And its absolutely no time to do anything else except taking care of her. when she's sleeping, i have to clean her bottles, my dishes , and some other errands. even taking a shower makes me very nervious.
really admire those full-time moms
我家宝宝1岁前是全母乳，大部分直接喂，有时还得抽空泵个一两次奶
next week!!!! i'm so excited
wow
big congratulations again!
你不需要她道歉 但你要代你父母接受他的道歉
说得好！
我就经常发愁没有东西买
我有好多东西想买。但发愁没有钱。
我可不是为老美改名。我的意思就是用Jane做nickname。在我看来就是改名了。我一直用原名作nickname的。
你可以在自我介绍的时候说，请大家叫你Jane就好了
你们俩啥时候接的亲？私底下。也没上来求婚啥的？
你 再好好读读 好好理解下 真是媒婆职业病哦
[此贴子已经被作者于2009-6-25 22:04:26编辑过]
我劳工公司一人就是这个原因被fire的。这个问题可大可小。和同事搞不好关系，那是layoff，和上司就会是fire了。可怜那人工作还挺认真的。只有我劳工最后愿意给他做reference。可也不是坏事。后来找到和老婆一个地方的工作。现在还挺爽的呢
fire会不会对以后找工作有negative影响?
我还不认识一个人被fire掉，以为是个很大的事情
我本来想好让茜茜上公立的。可现在找到这份工作是个狂嗥的私立学校。里面所有职工子女都上这个学校。我要是以后让茜茜上公立是不是比较另类？
我一个同事知道我找到工作的消息后。告诉我她是这个中学校友，现在她的孩子正在里面上学。注意！她有三个孩子，是三胞胎。我太敬仰她了。一年一共6万学费啊。她还是个在读博士，没工作呢？暗想她老公肯定非常有钱。没好意思问。
我不景仰她们供的起三胞胎同时上私立
我景仰她们能生出三胞胎
我不景仰她们供的起三胞胎同时上私立
我景仰她们能生出三胞胎
我都敬仰
我不景仰她们供的起三胞胎同时上私立
我景仰她们能生出三胞胎
而且是两女一男。咋这么会生呢？据说生三胞胎比生四胞胎的几率还小的多。
[此贴子已经被作者于2009-6-25 22:06:30编辑过]
你 再好好读读 好好理解下 真是媒婆职业病哦
[此贴子已经被作者于2009-6-25 22:04:26编辑过]
嘻嘻，就是，我还说怎么没通过我这个媒婆呢？
[此贴子已经被作者于2009-6-25 22:07:20编辑过]
我觉得get fired挺容易的。communication通常是非常主要的因素。如果你在老板的眼睛里消失了，或者在老板眼里成了搬不动的石头，那离你真正消失的时候也就不远了。
这种人如果不改变，是个很大的问题。通常他们都不这么觉得，觉得我干了活啊，怎么你们不理解我。。。 唉。说说我看到的例子吧。
我以前那个中国同事，fix bug还挺多的，但是他的工作作风一意孤行，连我都没有办法和他交流。最后交给他一样东西，大家都觉得危险，因为他从来不听大家的意见，搞出个什么来没有人能够控制。开会的时候提出的问题非常古怪，让人感觉他什么也没有搞懂。还老是要求升职，最后老板很烦他，就把他开了。我隔壁组的中国同事还觉得他很冤。但是我和他工作过，我知道他的问题很大。不过他又找到amazon，工资高了很多（20%) 不知道现在混得怎样。他被开的时候我还是很难过的，因为觉得他又一家老小，而且好像也算工作勤奋。。。
现在这个中国同事，工作也很勤奋，而且我个人觉得和他用中文交流还挺畅快的，不过没有一起工作过。他就有点像透明人一样，他们领域的问题，他没有发言权，也没人找他。而且和我以前的同事一样，就是他的世界和他周围的世界有比较大的差距。比如说不太清楚别人怎么看他，不太清楚老板注意什么问题，不太清楚他们组究竟有什么问题。但我觉得他还不至于被fire,可能是年景不好。
还有以前两个美国同事，一个是在这里时间太久了，整天可能也不干活，对我还挺热情，还要像我学中文。最后有一天神秘消失了。还有一个经典的，就是我以前的同事，他能力很强，干活很好，而且我个人觉得他对质量什么的都很重视，人也smart，可惜他觉得天大地大，老子最大，一开始我们一小组的人很抱团，然后空降了一个人来当lead,他们就不服，结果我们组的人，该走的的走，该散的散，还有他在他手下，结果他还是不服，就干自己的东西，不干交待的东西。他要干什么，谁也拦不住，也不问老板意见，最后被开。。。
这样啊。。。我工作中还没遇到过这样的人，有很牛气的人，但是工作上的事还是明事理的
第一个中国人和第二个老美这样的人，我觉得大部分人都受不了和他们共事吧，我想就是平时相处都会觉得不愉快
team work,永远是第一原则啊，多少年前还是学生开始找工作的时候就知道这个道理，behavior question永远都会问的
又一次感觉到，EQ远比IQ重要
把宝宝塞给他。宝宝虽然粘妈妈。但爸爸要多参与。不过你老公竟然愿意作家务不带小孩？我老公是宁愿带小孩不愿做家务。因为带小孩可以偷懒。已经很多次发现，他带着茜茜看电视。因为茜茜一看电视，就不闹。现在洗澡的活都是他的。我说细细大了他就不能给洗澡了。现在enjoy吧。反正舒服的活，我都让给他了。
不要啊，从宝宝出生到现在，我独立给宝宝洗澡的次数不超过5次，还都是lg出差的时候没办法，剩下都是lg独立给宝宝洗
想买啥就买啥。看到这两天有个帖子没？留钱给下一个女人。我身边有好几个活生生的例子。所以我想花钱就花钱。买9个coach包，我也不心疼。我收入比你们都低多了。
连我妈都说我花钱大手大脚。我说我挣钱还不能花？那我挣钱干吗？
赞，并支持
你们俩啥时候接的亲？私底下。也没上来求婚啥的？
我俩都是女娃呀。。。
我说的是胖妞奶奶说胖妞姥姥姥爷没教育好胖妞妈的事
开独立日开车来lv。让小两口见见面。lailai 一家也会在这里。
你们不是去了LV就去大峡谷了？ 上次看你的行程， 好像3，4，5号都已经没在LV了？
我们就玩3天， 不请假了。
如果见得到茜茜， 我真是太高兴了！！
婆媳关系这个问题比较有意思。。我妈来了之后认识了好几个老太太自己过来带孙子。。没有一个说儿媳妇好的。。我有时候想如果有个论坛她们灌水会是什么样子。。。一个巴掌拍不响的。。你肯定有地方她看不顺延很久了。但是你自己不知道。。因为她不说。她会记得。。然后找机会爆发。。比如你买东西不关她事也许她就觉得不顺眼。。记你个罪过。。这种东西没办法的。。一般消费观人生观生活观这种两代的冲突都是必然的。家家都有。只不过程度不同。。
所以不要住一起 就不会有矛盾， 难得见见大家都开心
胖妞妈，我刚看了那个活着为什么的帖子，点进去才发现是你发的
半年一年才一次，不算depression吧
不高兴的时候，就做自己喜欢的事，比如推娃出去散步/玩耍，带娃去爬山远足
看到你写你喜欢的事情，我也很喜欢
美女cheer up!
同cheer下胖妞美妈！！
晒死我吧。。超级喜欢太阳的人留。。。
难道你好美黑这一口？
有个亲爸老公福气啊。我老公不算太模范，指挥他干他还是愿意的，我满足了。可惜小孩子不要他，晚上他一点作用都没有。现在小孩子吃饭还要点名叫我喂，特麻烦。
粘爸爸也有麻烦的时候， 晚上南瓜总要见到瓜爹才睡， 有时候瓜爹干活太投入， 就回来晚了， 瓜就非常不爽的入睡， 要不有时快睡了， 一听有人回来就立马跳起来， 接着玩。。。
是啊，有时候可能只能够compromise. As long as you have a positive cash flow now, you can send your daughter to private school no problem since the mortage will simply be cheaper and cheaper.
加州破产了会怎么样？
[此贴子已经被作者于2009-6-25 16:32:09编辑过]
从来没有州破产过， 这真要破了， 08的脸跟啊诺的脸往哪阁哦
MS绝对是有淘汰率的。我在那里几乎平均两年看到一例，就在身边的那种。以前对fire还是有规定的，比如说要给一次差的review什么的，现在什么规定都取消了，公司不想负责人，老板就很自由。。。
估计经济不好， 在哪里都压力大些了， 不过你不说我还真以为MS不炒人的。
身边好几个跟偶lg差不多大的， 做个1，2年就跳了， 还都跳得不错。
May he rest in peace.
我是不是变态阿？今天知道MJ去世，就特别想知道他除了脸和脖子的部分是黑是白。
May he rest in peace.
至少胳膊是白的吧
早上9点check-in， 11点的手术，医生12点才来，我从昨天晚上9点多就没吃过东西，饿死我了。等着都快睡着了。
手术全麻，醒来的时候啥感觉也没有，就是饿得有点虚弱。医生给开了抗生素和止痛片，可是我到现在都没有觉得任何的疼痛。一点点都没有，奇怪。倒是昨天晚上烫了的手指头还有点疼。
明天在家休息，给老板交代了一大堆的活，让他帮我做，爽～～哈哈～～
加加烧还继续着，已经3天了，不过比前两天低了，今天早上起来38.5，精神很好，还抢姐姐面包吃。
希望今天能彻底退烧。
我今天去把那个cyst 切了。
早上9点check-in， 11点的手术，医生12点才来，我从昨天晚上9点多就没吃过东西，饿死我了。等着都快睡着了。
手术全麻，醒来的时候啥感觉也没有，就是饿得有点虚弱。医生给开了抗生素和止痛片，可是我到现在都没有觉得任何的疼痛。一点点都没有，奇怪。倒是昨天晚上烫了的手指头还有点疼。
明天在家休息，给老板交代了一大堆的活，让他帮我做，爽～～哈哈～～
加加烧还继续着，已经3天了，不过比前两天低了，今天早上起来38.5，精神很好，还抢姐姐面包吃。
希望今天能彻底退烧。
pat pat. take good rest and relax. bless to JiaJia too!
my excuse to mostly water in English is, my work laptop has no Chinese input~~~!
MS绝对是有淘汰率的。我在那里几乎平均两年看到一例，就在身边的那种。以前对fire还是有规定的，比如说要给一次差的review什么的，现在什么规定都取消了，公司不想负责人，老板就很自由。。。
I see. I agree that it is essential to be visible in the team, stay in your boss's view. Make yourself look busy and important. hehe Politics politics...
我今天去把那个cyst 切了。
早上9点check-in， 11点的手术，医生12点才来，我从昨天晚上9点多就没吃过东西，饿死我了。等着都快睡着了。
手术全麻，醒来的时候啥感觉也没有，就是饿得有点虚弱。医生给开了抗生素和止痛片，可是我到现在都没有觉得任何的疼痛。一点点都没有，奇怪。倒是昨天晚上烫了的手指头还有点疼。
明天在家休息，给老板交代了一大堆的活，让他帮我做，爽～～哈哈～～
加加烧还继续着，已经3天了，不过比前两天低了，今天早上起来38.5，精神很好，还抢姐姐面包吃。
希望今天能彻底退烧。
好好休息。
我今天去把那个cyst 切了。
早上9点check-in， 11点的手术，医生12点才来，我从昨天晚上9点多就没吃过东西，饿死我了。等着都快睡着了。
手术全麻，醒来的时候啥感觉也没有，就是饿得有点虚弱。医生给开了抗生素和止痛片，可是我到现在都没有觉得任何的疼痛。一点点都没有，奇怪。倒是昨天晚上烫了的手指头还有点疼。
明天在家休息，给老板交代了一大堆的活，让他帮我做，爽～～哈哈～～
加加烧还继续着，已经3天了，不过比前两天低了，今天早上起来38.5，精神很好，还抢姐姐面包吃。
希望今天能彻底退烧。
加加，加油！！
难道你好美黑这一口？
真的。。我觉得如果皮肤够健康黑比较好看。。我上次买la mer粉底跑去柜台给ＳＡ看我能不能再买深一号的。。
ms这么容易fire人啊 我工作的公司都是大锅饭式的 想fire个人难死了 只要他不犯深么泄露公司机密破坏公司财产之类的大错特错你就不能fire他 rating再差都不是fire的理由 我以前在中国pg工作的时候 公司惯用伎俩是架空他让他自己走人但绝不fire
我是觉得ＭＳ待着也没什么意思。fire掉也不一定是坏事。。除非他有好多小孩。。ＭＳ适合家大人口多的人。。
太好啦。等我和lailai从lv回来，我们聚一聚。要见到可爱的小米米了。
我和豆豆妈成立了一个play group。等米米回来，我们可以常常一起活动。
mimi will go to daycare soon...............
我家宝宝1岁前是全母乳，大部分直接喂，有时还得抽空泵个一两次奶
i was breastfeeding too but i had to pump it out all the time because she only ate from the bottle.
我是不是变态阿？今天知道MJ去世，就特别想知道他除了脸和脖子的部分是黑是白。
May he rest in peace. was he really a gay? why a lot of celebs are mentally sick too?
我今天去把那个cyst 切了。
早上9点check-in， 11点的手术，医生12点才来，我从昨天晚上9点多就没吃过东西，饿死我了。等着都快睡着了。
手术全麻，醒来的时候啥感觉也没有，就是饿得有点虚弱。医生给开了抗生素和止痛片，可是我到现在都没有觉得任何的疼痛。一点点都没有，奇怪。倒是昨天晚上烫了的手指头还有点疼。
明天在家休息，给老板交代了一大堆的活，让他帮我做，爽～～哈哈～～
加加烧还继续着，已经3天了，不过比前两天低了，今天早上起来38.5，精神很好，还抢姐姐面包吃。
希望今天能彻底退烧。
have a good rest
我今天去把那个cyst 切了。
早上9点check-in， 11点的手术，医生12点才来，我从昨天晚上9点多就没吃过东西，饿死我了。等着都快睡着了。
手术全麻，醒来的时候啥感觉也没有，就是饿得有点虚弱。医生给开了抗生素和止痛片，可是我到现在都没有觉得任何的疼痛。一点点都没有，奇怪。倒是昨天晚上烫了的手指头还有点疼。
明天在家休息，给老板交代了一大堆的活，让他帮我做，爽～～哈哈～～
加加烧还继续着，已经3天了，不过比前两天低了，今天早上起来38.5，精神很好，还抢姐姐面包吃。
希望今天能彻底退烧。
好好休息。