跟这儿说句最实际的话吧,这样想不是最对,也不是最好的,因为是feed 出来的,那么这种情况下,就不是你表示看到,和感激对方做了她应该做的工作,而是我要仰仗你的付出如何了,这样的情况下,人家有选择可好可不好呀,最一开始也许会因为惶恐而好一些,久了就觉得我应得的. 所以上面,大家都说别把市场搞混乱了,是有缘由的. I see I see! Thanks! I will check the market for our daycare!
As far as child care providers, teachers and bus-drivers, here is what Consumer Reports says people gave to their service providers last year (based on a US survey of 1,800 people). For child car providers (i.e. family caregiver, nanny, au pair, daytime babysitter, or your child's lead teacher at daycare): 62 percent of people surveyed gave an average gift of $40....
As far as child care providers, teachers and bus-drivers, here is what Consumer Reports says people gave to their service providers last year (based on a US survey of 1,800 people). For child car providers (i.e. family caregiver, nanny, au pair, daytime babysitter, or your child's lead teacher at daycare): 62 percent of people surveyed gave an average gift of $40.... 这是说一年？那一年两次一次20正合适吧？
Baby sitter One night's pay, plus a small gift from your child.
Full-time nanny One week to one month of pay based on tenure, plus a small gift from your child.
Au pair One week's pay, plus a small gift from your child.
Day care service $25-70, plus a small gift from your child.
Teacher $25-100. A gift certificate is always appropriate. If you know the teacher's hobbies or interests, then a gift certificate would be nice from the local movie theater, hobby shop, mall, fine restaurant or day spa. If you are unsure, ask your principal first.
Coaches, tutors, ballet instructors, music teachers A small gift from your child.
he is not smart... it is his loss, coz he lost a loyal employee. It is not ur loss, really, coz now you know the reality and can plan ur future better... trust me, bad thing leads to good things...
As far as child care providers, teachers and bus-drivers, here is what Consumer Reports says people gave to their service providers last year (based on a US survey of 1,800 people). For child car providers (i.e. family caregiver, nanny, au pair, daytime babysitter, or your child's lead teacher at daycare): 62 percent of people surveyed gave an average gift of $40.... thanks 店长，亲一口！
of course not. my boss and I really close....he talked about his dating, new girlfriend, family with me. At least, I want to express my appreciation for letting me WFH and have so much time watering...
my boss and I really close....he talked about his dating, new girlfriend, family with me. At least, I want to express my appreciation for letting me WFH and have so much time watering...
my boss and I really close....he talked about his dating, new girlfriend, family with me. At least, I want to express my appreciation for letting me WFH and have so much time watering... the same boss you travel with in china... and you was regardes as his xiaomi?
Baby sitter One night's pay, plus a small gift from your child.
Full-time nanny One week to one month of pay based on tenure, plus a small gift from your child.
Au pair One week's pay, plus a small gift from your child.
Day care service $25-70, plus a small gift from your child.
Teacher $25-100. A gift certificate is always appropriate. If you know the teacher's hobbies or interests, then a gift certificate would be nice from the local movie theater, hobby shop, mall, fine restaurant or day spa. If you are unsure, ask your principal first.
Coaches, tutors, ballet instructors, music teachers A small gift from your child.
he is not smart... it is his loss, coz he lost a loyal employee. It is not ur loss, really, coz now you know the reality and can plan ur future better... trust me, bad thing leads to good things... 赫赫，谢谢谢谢，要不是这个经济形势，俺肯定闪了，现在先忍忍吧
the activiation fee is simply waste. don't do that. just experience from last year ha: we didn'ask to activate the card, the cashier automatically or the machine automatically charged that fee.
是呀,虽然我自己也把孩子送回去过4个月,没什么说人家的资格,但是2个人一个工作一个posdoc还带不了个孩子,实在有点说不过去 itold my lg, if we have 22, I am going to send him/her back to china. i am too tired with dadu already, but i want two kids.
this is not fighting
a little bit like kissing
亲晕拉
//hand hand!
sometimes teacher's appreciation week in May, or valentine day...
haha
我老板一般送我一张25的GC, 一张卡. 去年他过生日我送了他一条cashmere围巾. 今年送啥好呢?
我觉得是小老板要阴你。。。瞎说的。。。
don't think so. but sure he didn't fight for her.
it is a signal that don't need to follow little boss for long...
有钱就送呗.
ai, everybody did that, how can we don't!
sometimes teacher's appreciation week in May, or valentine day...
我默默地又往娃的教育基金本上再记上一条。。。。。。
长袜子同学
我要是你，肯定也超级不舒服
找小的谈谈吧，说你很失望没有拿到等等什么的。
我没找他，他不做最后决定，直接找的大的。他后来找我了，上来先抱歉，又说不知道怎么跟我说，还有他怎么跟大的说的。。。欧就听着被
你们XMAS都送老板东西么?
我老板一般送我一张25的GC, 一张卡. 去年他过生日我送了他一条cashmere围巾. 今年送啥好呢?
my boss gave me
$5 starbucks
跟这儿说句最实际的话吧,这样想不是最对,也不是最好的,因为是feed 出来的,那么这种情况下,就不是你表示看到,和感激对方做了她应该做的工作,而是我要仰仗你的付出如何了,这样的情况下,人家有选择可好可不好呀,最一开始也许会因为惶恐而好一些,久了就觉得我应得的. 所以上面,大家都说别把市场搞混乱了,是有缘由的.
I see I see! Thanks! I will check the market for our daycare!
我默默地又往娃的教育基金本上再记上一条。。。。。。
did you take note of panio teacher's rate?
my boss gave me
$5 starbucks
这个其实没有什么行清。。。 你自己决定就好。。。
As far as child care providers, teachers and bus-drivers, here is what Consumer Reports says people gave to their service providers last year (based on a US survey of 1,800 people). For child car providers (i.e. family caregiver, nanny, au pair, daytime babysitter, or your child's lead teacher at daycare): 62 percent of people surveyed gave an average gift of $40....
my boss gave me
$5 starbucks
我老板，年底例行请客吃饭，我没去
excuses...
是啊，另一个他喜欢的别的team的，他连续三年promote那人，这经济形势他肯定是使劲fight来者，到我们这就被牺牲了。
costco 有 price adjustment吗？期限是多少天之内呢？我想着怎麽把我多花的５０刀吸尘器钱拿回来呢。
you can buy a new one then return it with old receipt!
my boss gave me
$5 starbucks
I am still thankful
b/c he has 4 sons to raise, 3 of them are in college~
teachers' apprication week, normally the first week of May
这个我们就写小纸条，给学校统一挂起来，不送礼
你们XMAS都送老板东西么?
我老板一般送我一张25的GC, 一张卡. 去年他过生日我送了他一条cashmere围巾. 今年送啥好呢?
啊，还要给老板送礼呀？以前都是老板给我们买点小东西。我有两个老板，岂不是又要破一笔。
did you take note of panio teacher's rate?
心里记着呢。
宝美妈，其实你要送，就送好了，没有什么。。。
这个其实没有什么行清。。。 你自己决定就好。。。
As far as child care providers, teachers and bus-drivers, here is what Consumer Reports says people gave to their service providers last year (based on a US survey of 1,800 people). For child car providers (i.e. family caregiver, nanny, au pair, daytime babysitter, or your child's lead teacher at daycare): 62 percent of people surveyed gave an average gift of $40....
这是说一年？那一年两次一次20正合适吧？
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pat pat
Service provider
Suggested tip
Baby sitter
One night's pay, plus a small gift from your child.
Full-time nanny
One week to one month of pay based on tenure, plus a small gift from your child.
Au pair
One week's pay, plus a small gift from your child.
Day care service
$25-70, plus a small gift from your child.
Teacher
$25-100. A gift certificate is always appropriate. If you know the teacher's hobbies or interests, then a gift certificate would be nice from the local movie theater, hobby shop, mall, fine restaurant or day spa. If you are unsure, ask your principal first.
Coaches, tutors, ballet instructors, music teachers
A small gift from your child.
心里记着呢。 我在寻找替代品
是啊，另一个他喜欢的别的team的，他连续三年promote那人，这经济形势他肯定是使劲fight来者，到我们这就被牺牲了。
professional life is full of disappointment...
I wasted years in previous company becoz the boss was promising stuff but eventually didn't come true. Then I changed my job.
You can stay there for another year just to go through the economy downturn... once economy is better, you jump right away...
你们XMAS都送老板东西么?
我老板一般送我一张25的GC, 一张卡. 去年他过生日我送了他一条cashmere围巾. 今年送啥好呢?
we never did.....
啊，还要给老板送礼呀？以前都是老板给我们买点小东西。我有两个老板，岂不是又要破一笔。
你们都不送老板的?
既然你们两个工作水平差那么多，为什么要两个都报上去？大老板才没功夫管那么多细节的事儿呢，多数都是听小的撺掇
差也没差那么多，都是自己干自己的，进公司时间都差不多，俩都报他不得罪人阿。小的要那样也够累得，他后来完全可以跟我说今年不一定阿之类的吧。
你们都不送老板的?
of course not.
I am still thankful
b/c he has 4 sons to raise, 3 of them are in college~
my boss gives nothing...
恩，是呀，这不是怕被累吗，我们team很小的
塞翁失马，拿钱多的比拿钱少的容易被雷，
of course not.
同不送。
你们都不送老板的?
nope
包美妈
问包美爸申请每人＄１００
实际给每人＄５０
然后你 就有私房钱了
good idea！
差也没差那么多，都是自己干自己的，进公司时间都差不多，俩都报他不得罪人阿。小的要那样也够累得，他后来完全可以跟我说今年不一定阿之类的吧。
he is not smart... it is his loss, coz he lost a loyal employee. It is not ur loss, really, coz now you know the reality and can plan ur future better... trust me, bad thing leads to good things...
大家都配啥洗面奶啊？
宝美妈，其实你要送，就送好了，没有什么。。。
这个其实没有什么行清。。。 你自己决定就好。。。
As far as child care providers, teachers and bus-drivers, here is what Consumer Reports says people gave to their service providers last year (based on a US survey of 1,800 people). For child car providers (i.e. family caregiver, nanny, au pair, daytime babysitter, or your child's lead teacher at daycare): 62 percent of people surveyed gave an average gift of $40....
thanks 店长，亲一口！
of course not.
my boss and I really close....he talked about his dating, new girlfriend, family with me. At least, I want to express my appreciation for letting me WFH and have so much time watering...
我在寻找替代品
口琴，笛子。。。。。。
霏霏有四个主要老师(本来三个， 最近又来了一个， 还没有搞清楚怎么回事)， 两个Assistants， 我打算老师每人送$50, Assistants每人$25-30, 还在犹豫该送target的呢还是Amex express的?
如果价钱一样的话, ae的更好吧，哪儿都能用是吧
my boss and I really close....he talked about his dating, new girlfriend, family with me. At least, I want to express my appreciation for letting me WFH and have so much time watering...
nod nod. give him a pair of nice gloves?
霏霏有四个主要老师(本来三个， 最近又来了一个， 还没有搞清楚怎么回事)， 两个Assistants， 我打算老师每人送$50, Assistants每人$25-30, 还在犹豫该送target的呢还是Amex express的?
target的吧. Amex是不是还要开通费的.
but I'm so busy...
你们都不送老板的?
有些老板很注意的。我知道我们这里有些系主任，和手下的人出去吃中饭，全自己坚持付钱，说是自己不可以让人请客。。。
nod nod. give him a pair of nice gloves?
你说他光头我送个帽子会不会有嘲笑他的意思啊?
对了，我要问问那个洗脸的刷子，你们平时都是放在那个充电的座子上么？我看说明书好像那玩意很怕水啊，能不能放洗手间呢？
大家都配啥洗面奶啊？
cetaphil...
put in the charger only out of battery.... 放洗手间
target的吧. Amex是不是还要开通费的.
恩, 去年送Family daycare的老师AMEX的, 除了$50, 还要加$6还是多少的开通费, 所以花了不止50, 可万一老师不喜欢target怎么办?
朋友结婚 i只结一次婚啊
老师送礼物
每年两次啊
不是三次吗？
my boss and I really close....he talked about his dating, new girlfriend, family with me. At least, I want to express my appreciation for letting me WFH and have so much time watering...
professional life is full of disappointment...
I wasted years in previous company becoz the boss was promising stuff but eventually didn't come true. Then I changed my job.
You can stay there for another year just to go through the economy downturn... once economy is better, you jump right away...
恩，当时我就想，这不是逼我考cpa吗。然后是，经济不好要不先在这解决22？
你说他光头我送个帽子会不会有嘲笑他的意思啊?
nope. he needs it anyway... in the windy city..
你们都不送老板的?
我们老板就比我赚的多了去了，就给我们点巧克力，我们去年一起送了个篮子
恩, 去年送Family daycare的老师AMEX的, 除了$50, 还要加$6还是多少的开通费, 所以花了不止50, 可万一老师不喜欢target怎么办?
they will like it...
恩, 去年送Family daycare的老师AMEX的, 除了$50, 还要加$6还是多少的开通费, 所以花了不止50, 可万一老师不喜欢target怎么办?
target should be fine, there are so many stuff in target.... she can buy something eat, to use, to wear...
no no no. that's the boss in China. This is an American.
塞翁失马，拿钱多的比拿钱少的容易被雷，
厚厚，是啊
如果价钱一样的话, ae的更好吧，哪儿都能用是吧
我也这样想， 可AE的自己还要交点手续费．．．．他们老师又那么多．．．
http://money.cnn.com/popups/2006/consumer/holiday_tipping_guide/index.html
Service provider
Suggested tip
Baby sitter
One night's pay, plus a small gift from your child.
Full-time nanny
One week to one month of pay based on tenure, plus a small gift from your child.
Au pair
One week's pay, plus a small gift from your child.
Day care service
$25-70, plus a small gift from your child.
Teacher
$25-100. A gift certificate is always appropriate. If you know the teacher's hobbies or interests, then a gift certificate would be nice from the local movie theater, hobby shop, mall, fine restaurant or day spa. If you are unsure, ask your principal first.
Coaches, tutors, ballet instructors, music teachers
A small gift from your child.
he is not smart... it is his loss, coz he lost a loyal employee. It is not ur loss, really, coz now you know the reality and can plan ur future better... trust me, bad thing leads to good things...
赫赫，谢谢谢谢，要不是这个经济形势，俺肯定闪了，现在先忍忍吧
they will like it...
好的， 谢谢！
口琴，笛子。。。。。。 口琴
is good choice
but where can get it here?
我也这样想， 可AE的自己还要交点手续费．．．．他们老师又那么多．．．
i will give target...
target should be fine, there are so many stuff in target.... she can buy something eat, to use, to wear...
嗯， 有道理， 谢谢店长～
恩，当时我就想，这不是逼我考cpa吗。然后是，经济不好要不先在这解决22？
nod nod. whatever works best for u...
多年前在上海，在一个德资公司工作，老板是外派的台湾人，前面说得花好稻好，到实际，沙都没了。
我和他谈了一次。反正是种种理由吧。我转头就去了一家法资公司，不但工资涨了50+%，后来又拿了很多奖金。地位也高了不少。
所以说，要感谢那些对你不好的人，他们逼得你向更好的职位走。
恩, 去年送Family daycare的老师AMEX的, 除了$50, 还要加$6还是多少的开通费, 所以花了不止50, 可万一老师不喜欢target怎么办?
target多好啊，人人都喜欢
口琴
is good choice
but where can get it here?
我我就是开玩笑瞎说的。
口琴我不知道哪儿买，不过回国买了带过来很方便了。
cetaphil...
put in the charger only out of battery.... 放洗手间
哦，那我也把充电座子收起来好了
我也这样想， 可AE的自己还要交点手续费．．．．他们老师又那么多．．．
the activiation fee is simply waste. don't do that.
我我就是开玩笑瞎说的。
口琴我不知道哪儿买，不过回国买了带过来很方便了。
Target就有的.
nod nod. whatever works best for u...
多年前在上海，在一个德资公司工作，老板是外派的台湾人，前面说得花好稻好，到实际，沙都没了。
我和他谈了一次。反正是种种理由吧。我转头就去了一家法资公司，不但工资涨了50+%，后来又拿了很多奖金。地位也高了不少。
所以说，要感谢那些对你不好的人，他们逼得你向更好的职位走。
mark这句,有很多人帮助有时未必是件好事,短期呢,自己可能比较舒服,但是到底学到了多少,只有自己知道,而帮助自己的人也不会一直在自己身边的.
target多好啊，人人都喜欢
好的，谢谢谢谢！
i will give target...
I will give costco!
nod nod. whatever works best for u...
多年前在上海，在一个德资公司工作，老板是外派的台湾人，前面说得花好稻好，到实际，沙都没了。
我和他谈了一次。反正是种种理由吧。我转头就去了一家法资公司，不但工资涨了50+%，后来又拿了很多奖金。地位也高了不少。
所以说，要感谢那些对你不好的人，他们逼得你向更好的职位走。
厚厚，泥螺可以做个乐观向上生活指导员
口琴
is good choice
but where can get it here?
China. 国光牌，19元
其实我亲家就是不知道行情，大家别说她了。
没关系，我经常被大家说，不过我脸皮厚，不怕大家说！
看最近的送回国帖子有感。
不得已，是都能看出来得不得已，两地的，经济困难的，都可以理解。
不过有的时候，真的就是当妈的太会心疼自己了。
[此贴子已经被作者于2008-12-8 13:47:23编辑过]
I will give costco!
costco的如果老师没有membership card, 可以用吗？
Is this a good deal for my daughter?
I will give costco!
人家不一定有membership啊.
厚厚，泥螺可以做个乐观向上生活指导员
汗。。。是自己的血泪史啊。。。我运气很差的，从来没遇到过赏识你培养你提拔你的老板。。。中美两地都一样。
这两天看几个帖子，真是有妈妈，心疼自己比心疼孩子多。
看最近的回国帖子有感。
不得已，是都能看出来得不得已，两地的，经济困难的，都可以理解。
不过有的时候，真的就是当妈的太会心疼自己了。
那个贴真是FT啊.
这两天看几个帖子，真是有妈妈，心疼自己比心疼孩子多。
看最近的回国帖子有感。
不得已，是都能看出来得不得已，两地的，经济困难的，都可以理解。
不过有的时候，真的就是当妈的太会心疼自己了。
最夸张的是那个说自己不上班还嫌带娃累，送回去等懂事了再接回来。。。
我发现我现在很不愤青了，懒得砸了都
costco的如果老师没有membership card, 可以用吗？
以前sam's是可以的
cetaphil...
put in the charger only out of battery.... 放洗手间
啊? 我一直都插着的, 这个不是跟牙刷一样吗,牙刷我都是一直充电的
the activiation fee is simply waste. don't do that.
just experience from last year ha: we didn'ask to activate the card, the cashier automatically or the machine automatically charged that fee.
costco的如果老师没有membership card, 可以用吗？
no!
人家不一定有membership啊.
I know she has!
啊? 我一直都插着的, 这个不是跟牙刷一样吗,牙刷我都是一直充电的
我觉得它这个座子好像比牙刷那个更怕水。。。牙刷那个座子我都扔水里随便洗的
最夸张的是那个说自己不上班还嫌带娃累，送回去等懂事了再接回来。。。
我发现我现在很不愤青了，懒得砸了都
看这个形势，以后代孕会很热门的。
汗。。。是自己的血泪史啊。。。我运气很差的，从来没遇到过赏识你培养你提拔你的老板。。。中美两地都一样。
我好像也没有啊，而且俺又很懒散，好不容易想干好点还被骗了，厚厚，就当积累斗争经验了
最夸张的是那个说自己不上班还嫌带娃累，送回去等懂事了再接回来。。。
我发现我现在很不愤青了，懒得砸了都
是呀,虽然我自己也把孩子送回去过4个月,没什么说人家的资格,但是2个人一个工作一个posdoc还带不了个孩子,实在有点说不过去
我我就是开玩笑瞎说的。
口琴我不知道哪儿买，不过回国买了带过来很方便了。
me too
I have to say
piano is best choice so far
最夸张的是那个说自己不上班还嫌带娃累，送回去等懂事了再接回来。。。
我发现我现在很不愤青了，懒得砸了都
其实我内心深处很羡慕他们！
这两天看几个帖子，真是有妈妈，心疼自己比心疼孩子多。
看最近的送回国帖子有感。
不得已，是都能看出来得不得已，两地的，经济困难的，都可以理解。
不过有的时候，真的就是当妈的太会心疼自己了。
[此贴子已经被作者于2008-12-8 13:47:23编辑过]
That's normal yah. There are all kinds of people, they are all kinds of mom and dad.
是呀,虽然我自己也把孩子送回去过4个月,没什么说人家的资格,但是2个人一个工作一个posdoc还带不了个孩子,实在有点说不过去
itold my lg, if we have 22, I am going to send him/her back to china. i am too tired with dadu already, but i want two kids.
bought a piano for kids
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