说一说我的凤凰男老公

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Constant_sorrow
“当时生两小孩的原因一来我自己喜欢小孩,二来就是想绑住他,怕他被人抢走了”,什么样的大城市出身的硕士女会有这种心态啊
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icedamericano
回复 15楼 lovejames 的帖子
同意你说的,我自己确实要提升自己,否则将来差距太大了,光靠小孩来绑也有危险。我自己喜欢打pickleball,每周几次,身材一直很好。现在也说服老公跟我一起打,一起运动。
我们买了很多的房子,一部分是我娘家买的,另外一部分是他当医生后买的,我负责管理。同时我也找了一个兼职工作,就是不想跟社会脱节
平时也一直收拾自己,名牌护肤不断,经常用香水,把自己收拾的香香的
除此之外,还能怎样提升自己?
cattygirl 发表于 2025-08-21 09:10

坑?美华微短剧编剧找灵感?
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MoonRiverMe
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凤凰男牌子,哈哈哈
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MoonRiverMe
回复 94楼 AUS2025 的帖子
严肃点给你答疑 Never you are alone" means that you are not isolated and there are people who care about you and/or are experiencing similar situations. It's a comforting phrase emphasizing support and connection, suggesting that even when feeling lonely, you're not truly alone
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star1991
我比较关心读医学院是贷款的吗?
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LiuX
pickle ball lz求求了 你不要家庭主妇做傻了一股大妈味儿 pickle ball都是退休老奶打的 你让你老公玩这个? 真是浪费生命
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cattygirl 发表于 2025-08-21 09:10
回复 15楼 lovejames 的帖子
同意你说的,我自己确实要提升自己,否则将来差距太大了,光靠小孩来绑也有危险。我自己喜欢打pickleball,每周几次,身材一直很好。现在也说服老公跟我一起打,一起运动。
我们买了很多的房子,一部分是我娘家买的,另外一部分是他当医生后买的,我负责管理。同时我也找了一个兼职工作,就是不想跟社会脱节
平时也一直收拾自己,名牌护肤不断,经常用香水,把自己收拾的香香的
除此之外,还能怎样提升自己?

大城市的白富美对于提升自己就这么点见识
这坑不行
你得再去小红书上学习学习
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semidear
没人看见“tofel”吗?
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High.eee
Match做住院医那块露馅了…… 我周围好多个留学读博,后来做专科医生的,这条路太清楚咋回事了。
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Linwuduck
城市里的贫民比农村里的可怕多了。
如梦飞花
有些在国内读完医学院来这里读博,读完直接就可以match,只是能不能match上的问题。当然了也可以先做博后做缓冲。
qgp 发表于 2025-08-21 00:54

我见过很多国内医学院毕业直接来做博后后来match做医生的,国内医学院出来再读个phd一个也没见过. ps 我是千老圈的
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Cortana
Match做住院医那块露馅了…… 我周围好多个留学读博,后来做专科医生的,这条路太清楚咋回事了。
High.eee 发表于 2025-08-21 10:42

ChatGPT5:
为什么会让人困惑 外界看到“中国人 → 美国PhD/博后 → 匹配住院医师”,往往以为读PhD就能直接去当医生。 实际上,几乎所有成功案例都有中国医学背景,只是他们选择先来美读博做科研,再重新走临床道路。 ✅ 总结: 如果在中国有临床医学学位 → 完全可能:PhD/博后 → 考USMLE → Match住院医师。 如果只有纯科研PhD → 必须重读美国医学院才能进入住院医师。
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MoonRiverMe
回复 111楼 如梦飞花 的帖子
外国医学院毕业生想做住院医得走这条路,没见到楼主提过里头的艰辛,半句都没,是不是看漏了?
International Medical Graduates (IMGs) seeking to enter a US residency program face a competitive and multi-step process, requiring them to fulfill specific criteria to be eligible to apply and ultimately be considered for a position. 
Here are the key steps involved: ECFMG Certification: IMGs must obtain certification from the Educational Commission for Foreign Medical Graduates (ECFMG. This includes verifying the legitimacy of their medical school, ensuring it meets ECFMG's eligibility requirements, and that the individual's graduation year and credentials are listed and verifiable. IMGs must demonstrate competence in medical knowledge and clinical skills by passing the USMLE Step 1 and Step 2 Clinical Knowledge (CK) exams. They must also satisfy a Clinical and Communication Skills Requirement, currently met by completing one of six ECFMG Pathways. These pathways typically involve passing the Occupational English Test (OET) Medicine and/or demonstrating clinical skills through alternative assessments or licensure in another country. USMLE Exams: Pass the United States Medical Licensing Examination (USMLE) Steps 1 and 2 CK. Strong scores on these exams are crucial for IMGs, as they are often used as filtering criteria by residency programs. Step 1 transitioned to Pass/Fail in 2022, increasing the importance of Step 2 CK scores, according to Shemmassian Academic Consulting. Gain US Clinical Experience (USCE): Obtaining USCE is highly recommended for IMGs. This includes observerships, electives (for students), or externships (for graduates) at US hospitals or clinics, which help demonstrate familiarity with the US healthcare system and can lead to valuable letters of recommendation. Secure Strong Letters of Recommendation (LoRs): LoRs are crucial for a successful application, especially for IMGs. Letters from US physicians who know the applicant well and can attest to their clinical skills, professionalism, and English fluency are particularly valuable. Prepare a Compelling Personal Statement: The personal statement is an opportunity to share a unique story, highlighting the IMG's journey, motivations, and suitability for the chosen specialty, says IMGPrep. Create an ERAS CV: The CV must be formatted according to Electronic Residency Application Service (ERAS) requirements and should highlight relevant education, experience (including USCE), research, and achievements. Apply for Residency Programs: Register with ERAS, a centralized application service. Carefully research and select programs based on factors such as IMG-friendliness, visa sponsorship, location, and individual requirements. Submit the ERAS application and supporting documents, aiming for early submission. Register with the National Resident Matching Program (NRMP): The NRMP manages the Match process, coordinating preferences between applicants and programs. Interviews: Qualified applicants are invited for interviews, which are a critical part of the selection process. IMGs should prepare thoroughly for interviews and be ready to discuss their experiences and motivations. The Match: The NRMP uses an algorithm to match applicants with programs based on their rank order lists. Visa Application: Non-US citizen IMGs must obtain a visa (typically J-1 or H-1B) to participate in residency programs. 
It's important for IMGs to be aware that the process is competitive, requiring persistence and a well-planned strategy. They should utilize available resources such as the AMA IMG Toolkit and seek guidance from mentors or consultants to improve their chances of matching
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Foontic
楼主挺好的呀 虽然跟我不是一路人 但是相信你会过得很好 我觉得最大的提升就是不要害怕老公出轨离婚,无论你害不害怕 风险就在那里。
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louaci
挺好呀,也不用感觉什么配不配,有空多学学心理学,武志红,shafali, 这些,懂得自己,懂得孩子,懂得老公,建立真实亲密的连接,关系能长长久久。
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嗯,极具娱乐性。
如梦飞花
MoonRiverMe 发表于 2025-08-21 10:57
回复 111楼 如梦飞花 的帖子
外国医学院毕业生想做住院医得走这条路,没见到楼主提过里头的艰辛,半句都没,是不是看漏了?
International Medical Graduates (IMGs) seeking to enter a US residency program face a competitive and multi-step process, requiring them to fulfill specific criteria to be eligible to apply and ultimately be considered for a position. 
Here are the key steps involved: ECFMG Certification: IMGs must obtain certification from the Educational Commission for Foreign Medical Graduates (ECFMG. This includes verifying the legitimacy of their medical school, ensuring it meets ECFMG's eligibility requirements, and that the individual's graduation year and credentials are listed and verifiable. IMGs must demonstrate competence in medical knowledge and clinical skills by passing the USMLE Step 1 and Step 2 Clinical Knowledge (CK) exams. They must also satisfy a Clinical and Communication Skills Requirement, currently met by completing one of six ECFMG Pathways. These pathways typically involve passing the Occupational English Test (OET) Medicine and/or demonstrating clinical skills through alternative assessments or licensure in another country. USMLE Exams: Pass the United States Medical Licensing Examination (USMLE) Steps 1 and 2 CK. Strong scores on these exams are crucial for IMGs, as they are often used as filtering criteria by residency programs. Step 1 transitioned to Pass/Fail in 2022, increasing the importance of Step 2 CK scores, according to Shemmassian Academic Consulting. Gain US Clinical Experience (USCE): Obtaining USCE is highly recommended for IMGs. This includes observerships, electives (for students), or externships (for graduates) at US hospitals or clinics, which help demonstrate familiarity with the US healthcare system and can lead to valuable letters of recommendation. Secure Strong Letters of Recommendation (LoRs): LoRs are crucial for a successful application, especially for IMGs. Letters from US physicians who know the applicant well and can attest to their clinical skills, professionalism, and English fluency are particularly valuable. Prepare a Compelling Personal Statement: The personal statement is an opportunity to share a unique story, highlighting the IMG's journey, motivations, and suitability for the chosen specialty, says IMGPrep. Create an ERAS CV: The CV must be formatted according to Electronic Residency Application Service (ERAS) requirements and should highlight relevant education, experience (including USCE), research, and achievements. Apply for Residency Programs: Register with ERAS, a centralized application service. Carefully research and select programs based on factors such as IMG-friendliness, visa sponsorship, location, and individual requirements. Submit the ERAS application and supporting documents, aiming for early submission. Register with the National Resident Matching Program (NRMP): The NRMP manages the Match process, coordinating preferences between applicants and programs. Interviews: Qualified applicants are invited for interviews, which are a critical part of the selection process. IMGs should prepare thoroughly for interviews and be ready to discuss their experiences and motivations. The Match: The NRMP uses an algorithm to match applicants with programs based on their rank order lists. Visa Application: Non-US citizen IMGs must obtain a visa (typically J-1 or H-1B) to participate in residency programs. 
It's important for IMGs to be aware that the process is competitive, requiring persistence and a well-planned strategy. They should utilize available resources such as the AMA IMG Toolkit and seek guidance from mentors or consultants to improve their chances of matching

你没看漏,楼主就是没常识瞎编