Subject: Formal Request for Reconsideration of Assault and Robbery Case Involving My Daughter
To: [Insert DA's name or office contact]
From: [Your Full Name]
Date: [Insert Date]
Dear [District Attorney's Name / Assistant District Attorney], I am writing as the mother/father of a teenage girl who was the victim of a violent assault and suspected robbery on [insert date of incident] after a concert held in [insert location]. We were informed this morning that your office has decided not to pursue prosecution against the two individuals apprehended by the police. As a family, we are deeply shocked and disappointed by this decision, and we are formally requesting a reconsideration of the case. According to the police report we obtained, the assault was unprovoked and appears to have had a motive of robbery. My daughter, who was simply walking with her friends after the concert, was physically attacked by two individuals (later identified as a mother and daughter). She was grabbed by her hair, knocked to the ground, and restrained while trying to defend herself. Her gold necklace—later determined to be missing—was likely the target. She was taken to the emergency room and underwent a full-body CT scan due to the injuries. We are still waiting for insurance billing and are in the process of assessing the emotional and psychological impact of the attack. We understand that one or both assailants may be minors, and that discretion is used in cases involving juveniles. However, this was a violent physical assault in a public place, involving multiple parties, resulting in bodily harm and likely theft. Choosing not to pursue any charges, even within the juvenile system, sends a dangerous message of impunity. We respectfully urge your office to: Re-examine the evidence, including the police report, ER documentation, and witness testimonies. Consider the robbery element—the missing gold necklace. Acknowledge the psychological harm this incident has caused to a completely innocent minor. As parents, we simply ask for fairness and protection under the law. We look forward to your response and are willing to meet in person if needed to discuss this further. Sincerely, [Your Full Name] [Your Contact Information] [Your Daughter’s Name, if applicable] [Case Number, if available] 📰 二、媒体爆料信(中英对照)
To: [Insert local news station or journalist’s email]
Subject: A Violent Assault on a Teen Girl Was Dropped by the DA – We Seek Justice
📌 英文原文(用于发送给美国媒体) Dear [Reporter’s Name or News Desk], My name is [Your Name], and I am reaching out as the parent of a young girl who was recently the victim of a violent assault and suspected robbery following a concert in [City] this past July. The attack occurred in a crowded public space outside the venue. Two individuals, a woman and her teenage daughter (whom my daughter had never met), grabbed her by the hair, knocked her down, and held her while attacking her. My daughter’s gold necklace was never recovered and is believed to have been stolen during the assault. She had to visit the emergency room and undergo a CT scan due to the injuries. The police report clearly stated that robbery was a likely motive. Yet despite the clear evidence and arrest of the two assailants, the District Attorney's office informed us that they will not press charges, allegedly because one or both are minors and from a low-income background. As parents and law-abiding citizens, we feel helpless and outraged. How can this kind of violent, public assault result in no consequences simply because the attackers are juveniles or financially disadvantaged? What message does this send to other victims? We are asking the media to help us bring this story to light. Our goal is not revenge, but accountability and safety—for our daughter and for the broader community. We believe this is a matter of public interest and fairness under the law. We are willing to share police reports and medical records, and to speak on the record. Please contact me at [your phone/email] if you would like to learn more. Thank you very much for your time and attention. Sincerely, [Your Full Name] [Your Contact Info] [City / County of Incident] 📌 中文翻译(给你自己参考或发给中文媒体) 尊敬的记者/编辑: 您好,我叫[你的名字],是一起发生在[城市名]的未成年人暴力袭击案件的受害者家属。我写这封信,是希望媒体能够关注我们女儿在七月参加演唱会后遭遇的一次严重袭击和疑似抢劫事件。 事发当时,她和朋友在人群中被挤散,毫无预兆地遭到两名陌生拉丁裔女性(后查明为母女)的攻击。她被拉住头发摔倒在地,并在反抗时被强行按住。她戴的金项链被抢,至今没有找回。她随后去了急诊,并接受了全身CT检查。 警方的报告明确指出,抢劫可能是动机。两名行凶者也被抓获。但让我们震惊的是,地区检察官办公室竟然决定不予起诉,理由可能是对方是未成年人,或者经济困难。 我们全家非常愤怒,也极度无助。我们想问,这难道不是公开的暴力袭击和可能的抢劫吗? 难道未成年和贫穷就可以成为伤害他人却不承担任何责任的理由? 我们恳请媒体帮助我们把这件事曝光。我们无意报复,只是希望事情能有一个合理、公平的结果,避免更多类似的无辜受害者出现。 我们愿意提供警方报告、医疗记录,并接受采访。如您有兴趣了解更多,请随时与我联系:[你的联系方式]。 诚挚地, [你的中文名字] [联系方式]
Bring criminal case DA要prove beyond a reasonable doubt,他们可能调查后觉得证据没有那么强,而且人手有限,毕竟有可能有更多更恶劣的案件要处理 如果能找到施暴的人的话,可以bring a civil case。具体看你想要多少钱,钱不多的话可以去small claim court,上限是5000或者1万,要更多的话第一对方可能有免费律师帮忙,第二即使你赢了对方也没钱支付
我家女儿7月去看演唱会,散场时因为人多,和同学被挤散了,她正走着,被一个拉丁裔拉住头发,女儿没反应过来,摔倒在地,那个拉丁裔按住她袭击,旁边还有一个拉丁裔,当我女儿想踹那个打她的人时,旁边那个按住我女儿的脚,后来才得知是母女两。
警察后来抓到这两人,但case提交到DA那边,今早收到DA的电话,说不起诉那两人,这个case算是close. 如果我们想要自己告,可以去找律师。
真的很气愤,我女儿都不认识行凶者,警察在报告里写他们应该是想抢我女儿的金项链,可是法律一点用都没。
求助万能的华人,我们接下来该怎么办?打人者我们已经查过,很穷的老墨,民事诉讼肯定不值得,而且行凶的不到18岁,也是为成年.
没想到美国法律竟然也是如此不公平,甚至对行凶者保护更好,哎
补充说下,我看过警察报告,警察写的很清楚是抢劫,我女儿金项链后来也没找到,事发后去了er,做了全身ct扫描,我们还没收到保险公司的账单
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3.媒体上发视频! 4.如需要,联系local媒体
揣测那么多干嘛!
发布演唱会官方信息,扩大影响,后续如果旁观者录像提供就更好了; 网上发起请愿,需要fund我第一个支持
🛋️ 沙发板凳
认真了,都得进去
是疯子打人。
我有视频,我女儿没有动手,那人从背后抓住她头发袭击
我以前有个朋友给我一个面对法律无法制裁的坏人生干气的另一个朋友出主意,找几个道上的人把他打一顿算了。不过我那个朋友没有听从。毕竟认识黑道听着有点吓人。看了你的例子,忽然想起来那位瞎出主意的朋友来。她自己妹妹被老师骚扰,她自学法律知识,把老师告了,但是过程很辛苦很无奈。她自己其实也是走法律程序了。
???! 你是认真的吗?叹为观止
是的,演唱会散场后
要不咨询律师吧
你不看贴吗?我女儿都不认识她,殴个屁啊
找找当地的议员政客看有没有办法跟DA施压。实在不行就自己找律师。
认真说,对方未成年,底层人民,没钱没权,这种case律师看到没油水也不会接的,吃亏得个教训,以后注意保护自己就是
楼主掏钱,律师肯定接。一定把坏人拖上法庭,让她有案底。
理论上可行….
先去拿正式警察报告,然后拿着这个报告找当地媒体找议员,我就不信不能让DA做正确的事情。
如果警察报告写明了是为了抢东西而袭击你女儿,DA有责任起诉
没钱没律师接是分成的情况。 按小时付费有律师接。 但这样确实是好人承担恶人的行为。
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我事后有去警察局,看到了警察报告,警察写的很清楚是抢劫,而且行凶者当时快18岁,警察说也许会按成人起诉,没想到到DA那成这样
要是抢劫那性质就变了,DA没说为啥不起诉?
你这情况和我不一样,我女儿是压根不认识对方,好不好
这是个hate美华的疯子
警察是猜测对方抢金项链,不是定论。人家可以说是楼主女儿先踩她了,骂她了,她才反击揪头发。这明显是撒谎,但是事实上没有第三方出来做证,就是 your words against hers,警察就算猜到谁在撒谎也没办法
别出馊主意,割人家车胎,把自己折进去了
找私人侦探这个路子好。可是哪里能找到干活得力的呢。我看电视剧里,好的律所都有很厉害的私家侦探
如果你咽不下这口气,也准备投入时间,金钱为孩子讨还一个公道,你可以先找你们区的议员,同时找律师。不知道你具体在哪里,你们区的人口成分如何。
这会是一个耗时耗力耗钱的过程,如果经过权衡不值得这么做,那就好好安慰孩子,希望孩子不要留下心理阴影,希望你们尽快把这不愉快的事件抛到脑后。
供参考吧,反正不能干了坏事没任何惩罚。他们就是穷也要把所有医疗费用精神损失算清楚,交不起bail就关到审判,这个岁数受点罪有好处,对自己对社会都是
对呀
不过这个脑残判决方法,最近已经慢慢的在改过来了
以前只要你还手了,或者有还手的举动,不分青红皂白,都是互殴,非常不合理
所以孩子在学校被人打了,老师告诉家长说,你孩子还手就是你孩子的错了
家长来到教室,遇到老师,抬手就是一巴掌,老师还手
家长批评老师说,我打你是我不对,你还手就是你的不对了
老师无语
LOL
你搞错了吧。self defense 没问题吧。打回去再说。
你这个算扯淡了。这个是被打之后的反抗。不过没有什么伤,在国内也没啥搞的。最多就是对方付你去医院检查的费用。
真有这么聪明又有种的家长?赞赞赞!
这种事很难定罪。唯一可以搞一下的是hate crime。这个也很不好搞。对方是没钱的普通人没有律师有兴趣,也搞不到钱。
我一定叫孩子打回去,然后我紧接着去学校找老师。我家碰到过一次这样的变态小孩,学校处理很得当。
当我女儿想踹那个打她的人时
把上面那句去掉,永远不要再说,这会让案子走向完全不一样。
起诉这玩意不值得,要花时间花精力,伤疤反复揭开, 走到法庭至少两万起。case close 不代表恶行抹去,还是有记录。
好好带孩子去看心理医生, 就当人生教训。
美国法律就是这样宽容,呵呵。
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干完这单,这个未成年小混混以后就靠你养了。
在蓝州,有些左B DA ,就是护着罪犯,没办法。 只能自己去找律师,找传媒
当众抢劫,居然不起诉,说好的law and order呢?
这tm的是文明社会还是动物园
警察没有点儿证据能随随便便出报告吗?还有这样自恨的!真是自虐狂!
这个就算了,别浪费时间
袭击你未成年女儿都不公诉了?
tip 给ICE
感兴趣的可以搜一下“墨西哥排华“,”墨西哥的地下城“等等,后者很浪漫有趣的
真损,不怕人家去告你?人家是不是移民不知道,你自己可是妥妥的移民,抓了再说
人家毫无顾忌地揪你头发,你还怕它告你歧视?!
同意 这个应该最管用
说的好像你把家庭住址和姓名SS号都交给了小混混似的。。。。 窝囊人总能找到借口。
这个可以,把自己女儿脸遮住,其他人不遮住,放到网上。如果认识记者,找记者。强调hate crime
人家暴力攻击你还能逍遥法外,你居然觉得让ICE查她们是损?你这种维护人渣的是不是更损?默默对华人就是非常歧视,他们有暴力也是只敢针对华人, 以后欺负到你头上你求告无门就知道什么滋味了。即便大家都是移民,难道不是犯罪的应该被遣返,你怕什么?难道你是非移?
另外,查一下对方的底细吧,这种公共场所公开抢东西的,估计大多不是老实人家 和她们抗争时也要注意你们自己的安全
Bless!
这个妈妈目前面临的情况可以从法律、民事、医疗索赔、社会资源和心理支持几个角度评估下一步行动。我按重点分解如下:
✅ 一、了解当前案情状态:为啥 DA 不起诉?
首先,District Attorney(检察官)选择不起诉,常见原因可能包括:
被告未成年(juvenile),可能打算用少年司法程序 diversion program处理; 证据不足,特别是无法证明抢劫意图或施暴者身份不明确; DA评估即使起诉也难定罪,资源优先处理更严重案件。
但你说警察报告中写明“意图抢劫项链”,若有证人证言或监控,也做了伤情鉴定,这种情况下不起诉是令人愤怒的。
行动建议:
✅ 联系 DA 办公室,正式要求书面说明不起诉原因(你有权知道)。 ✅ 提出Victim’s Rights Request,要求作为受害人知情权、参与权、发表意见权。 ✅ 可联系地方Victim Advocate Office(受害者援助组织)要求复议 DA 决定,虽然几率小,但值得尝试。
✅ 二、民事诉讼评估(是否起诉施暴者家庭)
你提到两个施暴者是拉丁裔母女,经济状况差,孩子未成年。
这代表:
即便起诉成功也很可能拿不到赔偿; 若对方没有稳定收入、财产、房产,民事判决等于白纸一张。
行动建议:
❌ 不推荐自己出资打纯粹象征性的民事官司; ✅ 保留证据(警察报告、医疗记录、项链损失证明),如未来她们涉及其他刑案,或你们未来搬迁诉讼环境改变,有可追机会。
✅ 三、保险与医疗索赔部分
你说去过急诊并做了 CT,现在还没收到账单。
行动建议:
✅ 确保医疗记录完整保留(CT、医生诊断、ER记录); ✅ 等待保险公司账单后,向自己保险公司要求报销或对第三方索赔的帮助; ✅ 向自己家中的 homeowner/renter insurance 询问是否包含个人伤害相关法律协助或责任索赔条款; ✅ 向学校或活动主办方要求安全事故报告(有无组织不当责任)。
✅ 四、州受害人赔偿计划(Victim Compensation)
几乎所有美国州都有 “Victim Compensation Program”,用于补偿:
医疗费用 失窃财产(如项链) 精神创伤治疗 法律支持
行动建议:
✅ 马上去你所在州的 Victim Compensation Board 官网查: 填写受害人申请表(通常警察报告编号 + 医疗单据即可) 无需施暴者定罪也能申请,关键是证明你是受害人
举例:加州的是 https://victims.ca.gov/
✅ 五、心理支持和社会协助(非常关键)
你女儿遭遇陌生人暴力攻击,又是在公共场所,且因种族背景可能有额外恐惧,这会带来长期心理阴影(尤其是青春期女生)。
行动建议:
✅ 找心理咨询师做 PTSD 评估; ✅ 若她有学校心理健康资源(counselor 或 therapist),可以利用; ✅ Victim Compensation 项目可报销相关心理治疗费用; ✅ 家长应关注她是否有退缩、失眠、社交恐惧等变化,早介入。
✅ 六、是否公开发声与寻求社区帮助
如果你认为司法系统未尽职,也可选择通过媒体、华人社区维权渠道(比如 亚裔受害者倡议组织、地方华人议员)施压 DA 或呼吁社会关注。 社交媒体发声可谨慎使用,记得保护孩子隐私。
✅ 总结:当前可行路径
这么巧,是真的吗?
什么真的?我拿我家女儿来编故事?
隔壁有个国内未成年人凌霸的帖子。就知道会有这样的回帖。你被看成是来洗地的了。
你说的这件事让人非常痛心和愤怒,尤其是作为父母,看到孩子无辜受伤,却得不到法律的公正支持,心里的委屈和无力感是非常强烈的。针对你现在的情况,我给你一些具体的法律和行动建议,你可以一步一步来判断该如何维护你女儿的权益。
一、你们现在面对的法律现状 刑事案件不起诉 地区检察官(DA)有权决定是否起诉一个案件,如果他们认为证据不足或嫌疑人是未成年人、没有足够公诉可能性,他们可能选择不立案。 不起诉不等于你女儿没受害,而是检方放弃追责,这只是刑事程序的终止,不是你维权的终点。 嫌疑人是未成年人(under 18) 如果打人的是未成年,他们属于juvenile system(青少年司法系统),法律对他们更偏向“教育而非惩罚”。 但即便是未成年,也不是完全免责。严重袭击或抢劫的情况,某些州可以要求他们承担部分刑事责任(尤其是14岁以上)。 二、你可以考虑的选项 ✅ 1. 继续推动刑事责任:联络检察官办公室或媒体 申请复查决定(Request case review or reconsideration): 拿着警方报告、医院就诊记录(ER/CT结果)、项链遗失证据,去**district attorney office(检察官办公室)**要求复审。 表明你们不接受“轻描淡写”处理,并坚持这是抢劫+人身攻击(robbery + assault)。 要求与案件承办人(assistant DA)面对面沟通,争取将案件重新提交。 联系媒体曝光: 如果DA态度冷漠,可以联系当地新闻媒体,讲述“未成年人暴力袭击却被放过”的事实,引发社会关注。 很多时候,媒体曝光能促使DA重新考虑起诉。 ✅ 2. 提出民事诉讼(即使对方没钱) 虽然你说对方“老墨很穷”,但提出诉讼仍有意义: 可要求精神损害赔偿、医疗费、丢失财产(项链)等赔偿。 如果法院判了你赢,即便对方没钱,也会留下civil judgment(民事判决),以后如果他们工作、买房、交税,就会影响信用或被扣工资(wage garnishment)。 即使诉讼不为赔偿,也能让他们知道自己做的是违法事,不能无后果。 ✅ 3. 联系专业律师进行法律咨询 建议你联系以下类型的律师: 刑事受害者权利律师(Victim Rights Attorney) 民事侵权律师(Personal Injury Lawyer) 未成年案件专家律师(Juvenile Law Specialist) 你可以先找当地的律师协会(Bar Association),申请免费咨询(free consultation),或找以下机构: https://www.avvo.com https://lawhelp.org 州政府法律援助:如“Legal Aid”机构 三、医疗与保险相关事项 保存所有就诊记录、账单、CT报告等,这些不仅是医疗保险使用证据,也能作为未来民事索赔证据。 如果用的是私人健康保险,公司可能会寄账单给你们(扣除部分co-pay、deductible),也可能需要你们提交事件说明。 如果想索赔这部分费用,可以将其包含在民事诉讼中要求赔偿。 四、心理支持建议 别忽视孩子的心理创伤,建议: 及时寻求心理咨询服务(尤其是有post-trauma signs的孩子)。 学校可能也有辅导资源(school counselor),可安排与孩子单独谈话。 五、如果你需要英文复信写给DA或律师,请参考 我可以帮你写这封信。如果你愿意,可以告诉我要发给谁(DA?律师?学校?),我会帮你写得正式而坚定。
总结建议路径 行动说明向DA要求复查决定提交警方报告+医疗证明,强调是暴力抢劫,不应撤案联系受害者权益组织可获得法律、心理支持寻求民事诉讼咨询即使对方穷,也有法律意义联系媒体曝光可增强舆论压力保留所有证据包括CT、警察记录、项链损失等
如果你愿意,我可以帮你写: 给DA的复议请求信(英文) 给媒体的爆料信(中英) 给保险公司的事件说明 民事诉讼的准备材料清单 你只需要告诉我你希望采取哪一步,我会一步步帮你写好。你不是一个人,我们一起为孩子争公道。
一、致DA的复议请求信(英文) Dear [District Attorney's Name / Assistant District Attorney], I am writing as the mother/father of a teenage girl who was the victim of a violent assault and suspected robbery on [insert date of incident] after a concert held in [insert location]. We were informed this morning that your office has decided not to pursue prosecution against the two individuals apprehended by the police. As a family, we are deeply shocked and disappointed by this decision, and we are formally requesting a reconsideration of the case. According to the police report we obtained, the assault was unprovoked and appears to have had a motive of robbery. My daughter, who was simply walking with her friends after the concert, was physically attacked by two individuals (later identified as a mother and daughter). She was grabbed by her hair, knocked to the ground, and restrained while trying to defend herself. Her gold necklace—later determined to be missing—was likely the target. She was taken to the emergency room and underwent a full-body CT scan due to the injuries. We are still waiting for insurance billing and are in the process of assessing the emotional and psychological impact of the attack. We understand that one or both assailants may be minors, and that discretion is used in cases involving juveniles. However, this was a violent physical assault in a public place, involving multiple parties, resulting in bodily harm and likely theft. Choosing not to pursue any charges, even within the juvenile system, sends a dangerous message of impunity. We respectfully urge your office to: Re-examine the evidence, including the police report, ER documentation, and witness testimonies. Consider the robbery element—the missing gold necklace. Acknowledge the psychological harm this incident has caused to a completely innocent minor. As parents, we simply ask for fairness and protection under the law. We look forward to your response and are willing to meet in person if needed to discuss this further. Sincerely, [Your Full Name] [Your Contact Information] [Your Daughter’s Name, if applicable] [Case Number, if available] 📰 二、媒体爆料信(中英对照) 📌 英文原文(用于发送给美国媒体) Dear [Reporter’s Name or News Desk], My name is [Your Name], and I am reaching out as the parent of a young girl who was recently the victim of a violent assault and suspected robbery following a concert in [City] this past July. The attack occurred in a crowded public space outside the venue. Two individuals, a woman and her teenage daughter (whom my daughter had never met), grabbed her by the hair, knocked her down, and held her while attacking her. My daughter’s gold necklace was never recovered and is believed to have been stolen during the assault. She had to visit the emergency room and undergo a CT scan due to the injuries. The police report clearly stated that robbery was a likely motive. Yet despite the clear evidence and arrest of the two assailants, the District Attorney's office informed us that they will not press charges, allegedly because one or both are minors and from a low-income background. As parents and law-abiding citizens, we feel helpless and outraged. How can this kind of violent, public assault result in no consequences simply because the attackers are juveniles or financially disadvantaged? What message does this send to other victims? We are asking the media to help us bring this story to light. Our goal is not revenge, but accountability and safety—for our daughter and for the broader community. We believe this is a matter of public interest and fairness under the law. We are willing to share police reports and medical records, and to speak on the record. Please contact me at [your phone/email] if you would like to learn more. Thank you very much for your time and attention. Sincerely, [Your Full Name] [Your Contact Info] [City / County of Incident] 📌 中文翻译(给你自己参考或发给中文媒体) 尊敬的记者/编辑: 您好,我叫[你的名字],是一起发生在[城市名]的未成年人暴力袭击案件的受害者家属。我写这封信,是希望媒体能够关注我们女儿在七月参加演唱会后遭遇的一次严重袭击和疑似抢劫事件。 事发当时,她和朋友在人群中被挤散,毫无预兆地遭到两名陌生拉丁裔女性(后查明为母女)的攻击。她被拉住头发摔倒在地,并在反抗时被强行按住。她戴的金项链被抢,至今没有找回。她随后去了急诊,并接受了全身CT检查。 警方的报告明确指出,抢劫可能是动机。两名行凶者也被抓获。但让我们震惊的是,地区检察官办公室竟然决定不予起诉,理由可能是对方是未成年人,或者经济困难。 我们全家非常愤怒,也极度无助。我们想问,这难道不是公开的暴力袭击和可能的抢劫吗? 难道未成年和贫穷就可以成为伤害他人却不承担任何责任的理由? 我们恳请媒体帮助我们把这件事曝光。我们无意报复,只是希望事情能有一个合理、公平的结果,避免更多类似的无辜受害者出现。 我们愿意提供警方报告、医疗记录,并接受采访。如您有兴趣了解更多,请随时与我联系:[你的联系方式]。 诚挚地, [你的中文名字] [联系方式]
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